Cuộc đời của mỗi người, không thể lúc nào cũng thuận buồm xuôi gió, sẽ luôn tồn tại trắc trở ở phía trước ngáng đường. Vì vậy, bạn phải học được cho mình, cách thoát ra hoàn cảnh khó khăn ấy nhanh nhất có thể.
Sự khác biệt lớn nhất giữa một người thành công, và một người bình thường, là nằm ở tư duy. Người thành công, họ sẽ suy nghĩ vấn đề từ nhiều góc độ khác nhau, và khi rơi vào nghịch cảnh, họ biết cách sử dụng tư duy nghịch.
So với tư duy truyền thống, tư duy nghịch có nghĩa rằng, bạn sẽ lật lại, nhìn nhận vấn đề ở hướng ngược lại. Đây là phương thức tư duy, mà phần lớn mọi người đều không nghĩ tới. Dùng tư duy nghịch để suy nghĩ, và giải quyết vấn đề, là bạn đang đi theo con đường ngược lại, và cũng là một cách không ngờ tới, và đáng ngạc nhiên, giúp bạn đạt được mục tiêu chiến thắng.
8 câu chuyện ngắn dưới đây, sẽ cho bạn biết, thế nào là tư duy nghịch của người thành công.
Eight stories teach you to have a high level of wisdom.
Everyone's life can't always be smooth sailing,
there will always be obstacles in front of you.
So you have to learn for yourself
how to get out of that difficult situation as quickly as possible.
The biggest difference between a successful person and a normal person is in their wisdom.
Successful people will think about problems from many different angles,
and when they fall into adversity, they know how to use their traditional wisdom.
Compared to traditional wisdom,
traditional wisdom means that you will turn around and look at the problem in the opposite direction.
This is a way of thinking that most people don't think about.
Using traditional wisdom to think and solve problems means that you are going in the opposite direction,
and it is also an unexpected and surprising way to help you achieve your goal of victory.
The eight short stories below will tell you how to be a successful person.
The first story.
There is a buffet restaurant.
Because the guest ate too much food waste,
the restaurant has set a rule that food waste will be fined 10,000 VND.
The result is that after applying that rule,
the restaurant's business situation is getting worse.
Later, the manager came up with a solution to increase the price of food to 10,000 VND,
and also changed the rule that people who do not waste food will be given 10,000 VND,
except directly in the bill.
The result is that the restaurant's business has developed unexpectedly,
and the behavior of wasting food is no longer there.
From Duy Nghich.
Never let customers feel that they are suffering,
let them feel that they are being benefited.
The second story.
Mandela was sentenced to 27 years in prison,
and during that time, he was beaten up by the prison guards a lot.
The surprising thing is that when he became president,
he invited three prison guards to beat him up to the ceremony that day.
When Mandela stood up, he expressed his respect to the three prison guards,
and everyone woke up.
He said,
When I step out of the prison door to step into freedom,
I know that if I don't leave the pain and resentment behind,
then I will always be in that prison.
From Duy Nghich.
Forgiving others is actually a form of self-improvement.
The third story.
A rich man went to buy tomatoes.
He asked the seller,
How much is a kilo of tomatoes?
The seller said,
16,000 VND for a kilo.
He chose two tomatoes, put them on the scale,
and then chose the biggest one to go with it.
The seller looked at the weight and said,
10,000 VND.
He took the biggest one out of the scale,
saying he didn't need it.
The seller slapped him once,
then said in a sarcastic way,
7,000 VND.
In fact, the biggest tomato
was heavier than both tomatoes on the scale.
Obviously, the seller was unreasonable.
Everyone around him was very dissatisfied.
But the rich man was still very calm,
took 3,000 VND out of his pocket,
gave it to the seller,
but he didn't take two tomatoes on the scale,
but took the biggest tomato
that he had just taken out of the scale,
then happily went home.
From Duy Nghich.
In exchange, he came up with another method,
he would find a way to solve the problem.
The fourth story.
The girl didn't want to do the exercise because she was playing.
She said to her mother,
Mom, I don't want to do the exercise,
they are really boring.
The mother was not only not angry,
but on the contrary,
she looked at her daughter,
smiling,
so I will do the exercise,
then you check for me.
The girl happily agreed,
yes.
The mother finished the exercise,
then took the girl to check.
The girl checked very seriously and carefully,
even explained the wrong sentences to her mother,
and was very excited to finish the exercise.
Finally, the exercise was completed,
the girl also understood better than the knowledge
when explaining to her mother.
From Duy Nghich.
Just change your position,
clever in everything,
will bring different results,
but no need for drugs,
try to follow the right path.
The fifth story.
After Columbus discovered America,
many people think that
this is just a coincidental coincidence
that Columbus only did this
thanks to luck.
At a party,
a nobleman asked Columbus,
Columbus Day,
we all know that America is right there,
and the day is just a coincidence to get there.
If we go,
we will definitely find it.
Faced with the question of confusion,
Columbus was not confused.
He put a boiled egg on the table
and talked to everyone.
Ladies and gentlemen,
who can put an egg on the table,
who can do this?
Everyone was excited,
but this time everyone failed.
Everyone agreed
that it could not be done,
and forced Columbus to solve the problem.
Columbus smiled,
he took the egg,
hit the head of the egg on the table,
and put the top of the egg on the table.
The egg stood still.
After a moment of silence,
everyone whispered,
whispered,
nothing,
no one could do that.
Columbus then said,
that's right,
it's that simple.
It was not difficult to find the American egg,
it was as easy as making the egg stand straight on the table.
But I would like to ask you,
before I could do it,
did anyone do it?
From Duy Nghich,
anyone who has seen something done,
they will find it easy.
However,
if an unresolved phenomenon,
finding the result,
is a difficult journey.
Likewise,
creativity is actually as simple as that,
the important thing is that you dare to think,
dare to act or not.
Creativity,
in essence,
is an open attitude,
is the creation of a new idea,
new point of view,
new change,
it also shows a new angle,
when looking at the problem.
The sixth story.
There are two emperors,
living in two pagodas,
on two mountains adjacent.
Between the two mountains there is a spring,
two emperors every day,
will go down the spring to get water,
in the same time.
So,
five years have passed.
One day,
because the emperor on the left side of the mountain,
no longer went down the mountain to get water.
Because the emperor on the side of the mountain had to rest,
or he slept and woke up sad,
and did not think much more.
Until the second day,
because the other emperor still did not go to get water,
on the third day as well.
Just like that for a month,
because the other emperor began to think,
or he was sick.
So he climbed to the side of the mountain,
to visit his friend.
When he saw his friend,
practicing Tai Chi in the pagoda,
because the emperor was very curious.
Already a month,
he did not go down the mountain to get water,
maybe he did not need to drink water,
because the other emperor
just pointed to a well,
just hit.
Five years, every day after the practice,
I dug this well.
Now, I can get water in this well,
without going down the mountain anymore,
and I can spend more time
practicing Tai Chi.
From Duy Nghich,
we often forget,
about the time after work,
go dig for yourself a well,
nourish yourself with special abilities,
in some field.
If we know how to take advantage of time,
we can be like the emperor,
on the other side of the mountain,
waiting when we are old,
we not only still have water to drink,
drink in a leisurely way,
but also have more time,
for your own pleasure.
The sixth story.
When a high-quality potato,
entered France,
but now, farmers are not very interested.
Because to promote the cultivation of this potato,
the French government tried to promote,
but it was not effective.
Then,
someone came up with a trick.
Not long after,
people suddenly discovered,
that these potato fields,
were full of soldiers,
standing and watching all night.
A potato field,
but there were soldiers watching.
Farmers felt strange,
they said to each other,
this potato must be very precious.
The soldiers were confused,
people came to plant it,
bring it to their fields,
and take care of it.
So, just after a season,
this high-quality potato,
was known by many people,
and was cultivated all over France,
became one of the most popular crops.
The seventh story.
The story of Tu Ma Quang,
is a very famous story.
Tu Ma Quang is a scholar,
a famous scholar,
who was a general
under the two great generals.
Since he was a child,
he was more intelligent than others,
and had great talent.
One day,
Tu Ma Quang and his friends,
were playing hide-and-seek,
in a garden,
each person ran to a place,
to find a place to hide.
At that time,
a little boy,
jumped into the well,
the boy was choked,
and screamed,
the friends were very scared,
worried,
but did not know what to do to save him.
Because only Tu Ma Quang
was calm,
he took a stone to break the well,
so the water ran out,
and the boy was saved.
If someone fell into the water,
our common mind
will immediately think of saving people out of the water.
But Tu Ma Quang,
used a stone to break the well,
so the water ran out,
and the boy was saved.
Story number 8
In World War II,
the Allies watched the bullets
on the planes shot by the enemy.
The result looks like the image on the screen.
They reinforced the planes
in the places where they were shot,
so they could stand
better.
Since then,
they have reinforced the places
with red dots,
and on the surface,
it is a reasonable number.
After all,
those are the places where the most bullets were shot.
Then, Abraham Quang,
a mathematician,
came up with another conclusion.
The red dots only indicate
the total number of planes
that can return to the base.
Abraham Quang said that
aircraft manufacturers
should improve materials
so that once the bullets are shot,
the planes will fall right where they are.
This phenomenon is called
the existence of an angel,
or the angel of the survivor.
And in the simplest sense,
it means that
when we look at things that exist,
we should focus on things that do not exist.
Hopefully,
with the above 8 short stories,
it will help you practice
different thoughts,
open minds,
goodbye and see you
in the next content!