活出下半場的悠活

We always think that the most important thing in life is to have something. When we were young, we often struggled to find it. Education, love, money, success, recognition, applause. We always think that as long as we can catch these, we can prove our value and bring a sense of security and belonging. But at a certain age, we find that these things will slowly slip away. Some things can't be kept, some things never belong to us. What will really stay is the true self, which is cultivated little by little. Many people at this age actually carry a deep anxiety in their hearts. It's not a pain, but it's like it's useless. No longer an important anxiety. The child has grown up. You used to be someone else's pillar, but now you feel that you are redundant. But in fact, you are still very important. The time of year is back to the most real moment in the heart. It lets us slowly learn to let go, let go of comparison, let go of pillar. Some regrets can't come to an end, some relationships can't be restored. The closer I am, the more tired my heart is. It's better to let go, give yourself space, and let new energy come in. The mother's year is a time to return to the heart and embrace your own atmosphere again. When we return to the purest self, we can feel the calm and freedom of the old.