WHAT IT REALLY MEANS WHEN HE SAYS, "WE'RE BUILDING."

So I just had this girl ask me, what does it mean whenever a guy says we're building in response to what are we doing relationship wise? Number clear this up once and for all we're building is an ambiguous dismissal meant to keep your hopes up and your expectations down about what y'all are really doing in the timeframe is supposed to be happening in. But I still don't understand why y'all even asking what are we doing? When of course it's clear y'all are building, but y'all the ones holding the building permit just like anything else. If you want to build something, you got to have a permit. And if on your permit is marriage, but you see that he's trying to build a situation ship or friends with benefits ship a lifetime, a boyfriend and girlfriend. You shouldn't be asking them ----. The first time should be a warning that ---- don't look right. Tighten up. And the second time you should be telling him, dropping materials where they're at and get the **** off the property. Go build your bullshit with somebody else. That's it.