Discover a powerful realization about what “home” truly means after years of travel, adventure, and living in six countries. In this video, I share how an unforgettable off-road trip through the Dominican Republic—ranging from frost-covered mountain pines to coastal palm trees—revealed something unexpected: for the first time in my life, I genuinely look forward to coming home. If you’re exploring the Dominican Republic, considering a move, or simply curious about life near Cabrera, this video offers real insight into finding your place, feeling content, and knowing when a region truly fits. Join me for an authentic, uplifting story rooted in experience and discovery.
Well, hi. Welcome back. It's good to be
with you. Uh, we're just getting back
from a three-day off-road trip, which
was just marvelous. But, you know,
something that dawned on me, and I've
lived in six countries uh, in my
lifetime,
and
I never really realized it until
recently.
Every time that I used to go away on
holidays or adventure trips or whatever,
when it came time to come on back to
where I reside where home base was, I
always had that element of damn I don't
want to go back.
I want to stay and you know this is a
great time and why I like where I I I'm
going back to, it's not where I really
want to go back to. I want to stay on
this trip.
This is the first place and that means a
lot when you when you when you gather
what I'm saying here. This is the first
place that no matter where I go to,
whether it's back visiting the states or
Canada or any place in this country, and
Leanne and I over 18 years have covered
over 230,000 miles in this country, so
we know a little bit about it. But the
unique and the uncanny part is no matter
where I go here and the diversification
is second to none. We just got back from
a trip that we were over 7,000 ft above
sea level and you know that that the the
smoke would come from your mouth and
there was frost on the leaves in the
morning and here we are 18 degrees off
the equator. If that doesn't speak
diversity, I really don't know what
does. You know, there was
my goodness, uh, pine, northern pine,
uh, evergreen. Uh, I saw some birch
trees, and then I also saw banana trees
and palm trees scattered within.
Again, if that doesn't speak diversity,
I don't know. But here's the point.
Living on the outskirts of Cabrera on a
cliffside here where this is rush hour,
what you're listening to behind me, just
listen.
I want to go back home.
I've enjoyed the trip. The trip,
wherever it is, is fantastic. But the
important part in what I've recently
learned is
there's no place I'd rather be. I'm
looking forward to going back home. Had
a great time. It was wonderful.
Off-roading or whether it's white water
rafting or whatever Leanne and I do,
it's all great. But when it comes time
to come back home,
we don't say, "God, do we have to go
back home? Can't we stay longer?" We're
a-okay with it. That says a lot about
this region. So anyway, I'm looking
forward. That's just a lesson I recently
learned and I thought it was an
important one. And uh I guess when
you're really content with where you
are,
that speaks volumes. And I'm looking
forward to seeing all the folks coming
out to see us this winter and uh
really didn't have much more to say
other than that. It was just a very
uplifting experience. For the first time
and recently I just started noticing
every trip I I am glad when it comes
time to be coming home to where I live
on the outskirts of Cabera. That says a
lot. And you folks coming to see me and
all those who are thinking about it, I
promise you I'll show you more in four
or five days together, then you're going
to learn in months on your own. And
without the least bit of pressure,
you're going to find out right quick, is
this area right for you or is it not?
You're going to know inside. You won't
need me to push you, and you won't need
me to tell you. It's going to dovetail
into two separate things. One, I can't
wait. Let's find a place. um this is
right for my family or this is the most
beautiful place I've seen but it's not
right for me. It's either too quiet or
it whatever the case may be. But in any
event, you're correct. But you're going
to know it from within. So anyway, it's
just uh wanted to share a a pretty
valuable lesson that I learned recently
and uh I guess I found our place or my
wife and I guess we found our place.
There is when you when you're happy to
go back home after a holiday, no matter
how much fun you had on it, that speaks
volumes. Anyway, it's old Barry. We'll
talk to you soon.