“Let me ask you a simple question — when was the last time you were actually happy just driving to the grocery store?”
On a beautiful mid-December day, Barry shares a simple but powerful reflection on life, time, and environment. What starts as an ordinary drive to the grocery store becomes a reminder of how much modern stress has disconnected people from life’s simplest joys. In a world filled with noise, pressure, and constant urgency, this video asks an important question: Is your environment helping you live better—or making life harder than it needs to be?
If you’ve ever thought about slowing down, simplifying your life, or even relocating for a better quality of life, this message may resonate deeply—especially during the holiday season.
Well, hey there. Here we are in the
middle of December on a gorgeous day.
And it kind of reminded me of an old
Jimmy Buffett tune, Rust Soul, where it
says they're freezing up in Buffalo
stuck in their cars where I'm lying here
the sun and the stars.
So, you know, uh, my wife just asked me
to go into town and pick up a couple of
things. And let me ask you a question.
When's the last time you were ever happy
to just take a ride into town to go to
the simple grocery store?
I can't really say it's ever been
something on my to-do list. However,
what's really incredible about here
is the simple fact of a simple life. And
I think people don't put enough emphasis
on that in the way the world is and the
kind of hoopla with the geopolitical
situations, the economy and so on and so
forth. People seem to have lost touch
the importance
of the simple things in life, which in
all honesty, I truly believe that life
is simple and actually people are the
ones that complicate it. I'm going over
a speed bump.
>> Hello.
>> Hello.
>> And I just wanted to take a little video
here and
kind of take a moment. Here we are mid
December
and it's just a gorgeous day. Actually,
the last couple of weeks have been
nothing but gorgeous.
And I just kind of kick back and I
reminisce about how fortunate I am and
my wife too for that matter. Uh to be
living in such an environment
where the simplicity of life becomes
what's dominant.
Yes, the world's got a lot of problems
and yes, we all have problems. But is it
something that should be focused on or
should the better, simpler things that
are dialed in in your life should be the
emphasis of your focus? I ask you,
I mean, wherever you're living, when's
the last time you were just happy to
take a ride to the grocery store? All a
couple of miles. A beautiful ride as
you're witnessing.
not people that are all stressed out and
kind of ready to jump down your throat.
We're a couple of weeks away from
Christmas and you know already we've
been invited to a few little gatherings,
but that's not what's important. What's
important is
over 18 years of living in this area,
we have really
helped a lot of people to enjoying a
better life, a simpler life, a life with
a lot less stress. And all I could say
is
if you're not living in a place that
brings the same kind of satisfaction
to your life, maybe consider voting with
your feet. A lot of people are and it is
just something that
more and more are recognizing the
importance of time.
That's the one element. That's the one
gift that cannot be replaced. Anyway, I
was just thinking about this, you know,
being it's the season, the holiday
season, I had some time on my hands and
I figured, you know what? I'm going to
do this. So, I pulled over, set up
camera, and I thought this was important
enough to make mention. If you're not
enjoying the atmosphere that you
surrounded your atoms,
well, your atoms are going to change and
adapt to the environment. So, if you
find it's getting a little stressful,
a little bit uncomfortable, and just
does not seem the same as what it once
did, consider voting with your feet. My
wife and I will be glad to introduce you
to a multitude of friends.
We'll be glad to introduce you to some
excellent properties, be it for building
or be it with properties that are
already improved. And I can almost
guarantee you with over a hundred
relocations
that
your biggest complaint is going to end
up being once the adjustment period is
done is going to be I could have done
this 10 years ago. Why did I wait?
Anyway, I want to wish everybody a
wonderful holiday.
Make it a great holiday. Enjoy family.
Enjoy friends. Enjoy a little bit of
spirit if that's your thing. But above
all, start thinking about what's good in
your life, not what's bad. As Wayne Dyer
once said, if you change the way you
look at things,
the things you look at change. Anyway,
it's just something to think about. It's
old Barry. And all the best.