Danny Dyer & The Rivals Cast Judge REAL Affair Confessions | Am I The Problem?

This is outrageous. And they're real stories as well. Oh no. The lesson here is do not have affairs. Well, we're going to play The Hook's Am I the Problem? I'm going to read you a few real life stories about affairs, relationship dramas and revenge. You have to decide whether the person telling the story is the problem or not. The first one is... My wife and I have grown apart and I've fallen in love with a married woman who makes me feel understood. We've been having an affair and now we're considering divorcing our spouses to be together but we'd be ripping our families apart and potentially hurting our children in the process. Should we choose our own happiness or are we the problem for putting our feelings first? Is there a compromise? Could they wait a bit until the children are older? How old are they saying? I think until they've left home. Just keep the affair going. You think? It would be too hard, darling. It's a lot of skulduggery. It's quick and about. This is the situation we're in, isn't it, darling? Whatever you want to be. Oh. You know, like, do you go with your soulmate? I feel like everyone deserves to be happy, but what if your happiness affects other people? But it affects other people, but maybe they can be happy too. I think I'd always put my family and kids first. I don't know about you. So I'm going to say just don't worry about the affair. Fine. So we're staying. Just have one last sort of... One last trade and then bump back to, you know, back to the moment. I've never heard that. Have you heard that? Have you heard of a trade? I don't think I've heard of a trade. And you're trading sort of limbs and fluid, isn't it? Oh, oh, I see. Trading. Right, okay, that's right. So we're saying that maybe they're not the problem until... Just relive it in your memory and then if they're not dead, go and re-enact it. Fine, okay. Okay, I like it. Okay, the next one is... I'm in love with my best friend's 21-year-old daughter. I'm a 40-year-old businessman and I've recently started developing feelings for her. She's shown interest in me too and I want to see where things go, but her dad is also my business partner and I know he'd see it as a massive betrayal if we start dating. Am I the problem for risking my friendship and business for a relationship? What should I do? I've never felt this way about anyone. God, when you say it like that, it sounds sort of so wrong. It does, it does, yeah. It doesn't sound okay. Okay. It's not, is it? I think people are still rooting for it. Well, you kind of want her to have agency in all this as well. What does she want? Exactly. Rather than her dad sort of deciding what she wants. Well, we know what she wants. What she wants. Yeah. If she wants him, then I think they should go. Yeah. She's trying to stretch it out between the ends. I'm starting Spoiler. It should be together then. 41, is it? In the book, she's like 19. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, that feels like a little bit more of a problem when it gets teen. As a teen, yeah. to Yeah, that's right. My husband had an affair with another woman speak that lasted around a year and a half. I eventually decided to stay with him and try to rebuild our marriage. Recently, his former affair partner died and he's been openly grieving her. now. I understand that he may have had genuine feelings for her, but watching my husband mourn a woman he betrayed with me is incredibly painful. He says I'm being insensitive by expecting him to hide his grief. Am I wrong for feeling like I should come first? It's it, isn't it? Is that in the show? That would hurt. Is that someone? Is that storyline still alive? But like the first one was about us, then it was about Rupert and Turkey, wasn't it? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't think so, is it? This is an actual one. I think that she's right to feel like that. I don't, I feel like, I understand why she would have a problem with that. I agree. They're immortalized, I think. Yeah, I think so. I had an affair with a close friend who used to run our Dungeons and Dragons sessions. My husband found out and we've been trying to repair our marriage but I've told him I don't want to cut this man out of my life completely because he's part of our friendship group and I still want him to run our games. My husband thinks I'm putting my affair partner ahead of our marriage and says he can't move forward while this man is still around. I think he's asking me to give up an entire friendship group because of one mistake. Am I the problem? I think you are the problem, my darling. I think you are. I think you are the problem. Dungeons and Dragons, what is that? It's a sweet thing, isn't it? And you paint the little models, no? Yeah, it was in the IT crowd. No, it's a whole like... I've never done myself. It's like the board game that's got all of this. Yeah. They all play characters in it and they become really... It's a bit like Minecraft, isn't it? Yeah. So who's the problem here? I think, I feel like she's the problem. I think she's the problem. Draco's the problem. I think she needs to sort of... That's a mistake, but I've got to walk away from that group. I agree. You've got to ask him. Also, you're an adult, and you shouldn't be playing a game like that. Oh, that's lovely. Yes. That's quite embarrassing. I'm sorry. I feel like the fact that we're playing the game is more problematic than the affair itself. Yeah, I'd worry about that. I'm married, and I recently had an affair with a 19-year-old woman who was just broken up with my 18-year-old son. She's been around our family for a while and I knew getting involved with her was wrong. Things have become even more complicated because she might be pregnant, and there's a possibility I could be the father. This is outrageous. I know I've betrayed my family, but I'm struggling with what to do next. Am I beyond redemption here? I think the lesson here is do not have affairs. That's a common denominator. Very complicated and quite incestuous. It's just filth, it's filth all round. Yeah, it is. Yes, it is. Every sh** that is, Jesus Christ. Yeah, and they're real stories as well. Wow. Oh, dog. Yeah. Yeah, really. Yeah, real- Oh, sorry. Sorry. Well, that is my final question. Hopefully we all leave a little bit more morally right, at least I do. Oh my God, it's so good. Well, listen, enjoy the rest of your day. We can't wait to see part two, and thank you for having me. Thank you. Thank you. See you later.