WHY DO MEN CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE

Manzeni mkofiti. Welcome to Celebs Reflection. I am tired. I am so tired. Thank you so much for watching our episodes. Thank you so much for commenting. Thank you so much for subscribing. Najwa, the professional. But today, today I am not alone. I have a guest. But now this guest is not a professional. This guest isn't even a specialist. Heart of stone, yet a real experience, I don't know what you're talking about. This is just a, just, just a guest, Tell me. Nanyi is very tired. So, you have accumulated, because you guys keep asking for him. So, meet Timothy Kimani. Timothy, please come. Just a guest. Like, are you a specialist? Please ingia. Hello, Timo. Why Are you going to the market today, brother? Timo, please come. They're asking for you. They've been asking for you. Indeed. Let us clap for him. Yeeeah! Please get in. You are a great friend to me. It will be fine. Please put your phone away. This guest is stubborn. Timo, let's just go ahead. I can't introduce just a guest. You're not a specialist, you're not a... If I must speak, I would rather not speak like a person, That person is the one who should listen, that person, not a person... Ebuji, how would you introduce yourself? A friend. Huh. I'm a cute guy or something, just find something. Alright, everyone, meet Mr. Cute Guy. Yay! Welcome to our show. Thank you very much. I was very surprised. My name is Aki. Yeah, yeah. And I keep telling guys in the comment section, Please keep saying, bring him again and again. And now that you're here. If he doesn't come, we'll cancel the subscription. Like this one. If I had understood. You are the one who is late. No, they're not going to unsubscribe. When he speaks, he speaks. Now that you're here, now that you're back here, Thank you so much for coming. I am hungry. I've done everything I could; I've begged and pleaded. I don't know where you're coming from, but I'm not going there. Nita kulipa. I leave my own things. This one, it's hers. Sawa. Yes, I must pay you this one. For your time, for you. My boy, it's okay, but it's the same. Let's continue. Really? Let's continue. Why Anyway, I'm just a guest. Let's continue. So today, I want us to talk about how things change. Mostly dating versus marriage, but there's just this... Indeed. Marriage Marriage You see, I'm going to do it now... The country is correct. Sawa, I might just be a guest, not an expert. But at least I know how to say "marriage." You know, marriage— you don't have to spell every word. Use every letter. So I say... Marriage. So I say... Failure, we are together in failure. So I say... No, it's okay, marriage. Marriage So today we are talking about how things, and especially how men change. After marriage. Not women. What do you want? Who is the one who fears the Lord? Kuwagopa? Scared? A, a, engine. Another newbie? Afraid. A, a, engine. Am I afraid? Am I scared? Siko shi, sisi juu ingine. Engine. Mea Zana W. W-O. Worried. Huh? Worried. Necessary. Necessary. Two more people have been arrested for teaching in English. Therefore. Worried. Worried. Timotha, please stop talking. Now that I've said that, can you now relax and be a guest? Call me Mr. Timothy. In this case, I might just be a guest? Mr. Timothy, could you please relax and be a guest? Sawa. So today I want us to talk about how men. Last week, let me take you back. Last week, when I went to town, I got my makeup done. So of course, I'm expecting Mr. Timothy over here, This makeup is really beautiful; please don't ruin it with water. How are you feeling today? How are you feeling today? Your world, don't see Mr. Timothy in this case. Let's maintain, let's keep it professional. Okay, I thought my husband, who is that other Mr. Timothy over there, I felt proud because I looked good. To my surprise, alinipeleka mahali, but si mahali nilikua na expect. God. Therefore. Therefore, therefore, Therefore. It's like they go to a certain school and learn some specific things. I once heard someone say, for example, there's someone who said his, To Anabia, sir, please don't let me be punished for drinking poinje juice. It's not a bad thing. But it makes me wonder, before, I'm certain, I will take you to the place for the soup. Before angempeleka mahali, supu is not bad. Indeed. but a certain place that will make the person excited. At this point, I'm worried about Mr. Timothy. So do you guys go to a specific school, or are you from the men's conference? What changes? Do you women go to a particular school, nanyi mnafunzo wa vitu zinkine? What has changed? E, what's changed? What are we changing? You don't see yourself, and that is a problem. Because now, in our experience in this field, it takes two to tango. So when you see your partner has changed, Ask yourself, what might be causing the change? Because alternatively, we can also say, As a woman, you have changed. You no longer do the clothes you used to do. And if you are, then you're not doing it for me either. You're doing it for your girlfriends. You're going on a date with your girlfriend. You're wearing some very short ones. But whenever I am around or whenever I want it to happen, What are the promo details? There is a problem with the rope. No, I'm just saying, you called me here to talk. So don't tell me the problem I have; I'm telling you. The problem you have and you're not listening So, um, it takes two to tango, so we might change. but have you asked yourself as a woman How have you changed? You get my point? Point, neighbor net. Saini mzuri I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. Does Mr. Timo see this? Why Yes, with However, with Yes. Alright. Even back then, during our dating days, we looked good together. That is a very bad habit. But let's face the truth. When we were dating, We were doing things for each other. Greetings, friends. That's according to men. Leon, we used to do that. That's what we used to do. But now that you're married, you start doing it for yourself. It's okay to do it for yourself. But my point is, when we were dating, it was completely different. I was doing everything. For example, I came and found it written on the wall. Is that true? Before you came along, before my girlfriend entered my life, It was written on the bed. That's my question. Do you get my point? That thing was not passed because the exam was canceled. An expect... But when I'm dating you, I didn't realize it. Why? Because I am campaigning. We are doing things that, get me right, in a man's life, I don't know about women, but in a man's life, There before you is how I used to live disciples. I used to be carefree, naka vidya nataka, tunaka na maboys, Life was tough, nobody was helping. That's the first me. Then, when you're almost there, the plea, whatever it may be. Now when you're coming into the picture, I start behaving in a different way. At the beginning of the journey, where are you going, Mguo is the one who fell into the machine, and now he's fresh. I do things, for example, I remember When I was meeting my girlfriend, I used to wear a t-shirt kujipanguza. Okay, hula T-shirt, ya rafu, unakafuwe, unanika. You get the point? But when she came, a towel out of nowhere, Your towel might be the one I like the most; I want to make a turban from it. Do you see the things you do? Things that are close to me. Maybe it's old. We'd get there. Yeah, it's old. But you see, when you came into my life, I had to change myself for you as a girlfriend. Because as a girlfriend, there are certain criteria that might be evaluated. He who is poor is poor, he who is rich is rich. Those parameters. The same way on the other side. As a woman, as a girlfriend, there are things you used to do. It's time to go. The gathering is no longer taking place. You want to be taken out. Do you understand what I'm trying to say? Time. Exactly my point. There's no time. Where are we now, we're just about to leave and out How much knowledge is there, and how much knowledge is there? Suali angu kuwa, There was a time when I hosted a professional, Mr. Mamati. Haka niambia, don't expect this person to change. When you're dating this guy, you know he's the one, Do not expect this person to change. As it is now, he will remain there. Why were you sleeping late? I had nice socks and a nice laundry basket. Suddenly, you don't even make the bed. And that's why I keep insisting. You don't even open the curtains when you wake up last. Some of the relationships that last a long time Those are the ones you start out as friends. Not the ones where I meet you and I'm trying to appease you Because when I'm trying That was quite Mr. Mamati. This is Mr. Babati. Mr. Babati is saying That's very true about what Mr. Mamati is saying. And that is professional. You are a fraud. Just hear me out Now listen My point is It's very true how he is. But how is that point When do you know what that person is like? Do you get my point? You must go back to the time when he wasn't trying to get you. If you knew, you would understand. For example, I keep insisting. Let's start off as friends. Like those who are like Usha. He was a great leader. He began to date her, and they started dating. I'm sorry, but I cannot assist with that request. Where is that name located? Like they start off. Let us all be united as one family. That's why you know my true colors. Let's say, for example, I had a friend named Daphne. Daphne knew me as a boy. I had a friend named Annette. She used me as a boy. So, if there's a girl who wants me, She could go to Daphne. I am not a thief. If, for example, something were to happen and Annette or Daphne, we ended up together, She knew me for who I was. before I was tried And that's what happened. Celestine came, she's like, I'm seeing, And it's always good. I don't know, I can't tell you either. I was seeing someone else. She was seeing someone else. Yet we are such good friends. So she saw me before I started writing the poem. So now that I see everyone as friends I know, but my point is, are we honest with each other? while dating so that it doesn't happen, so that we aren't caught off guard? Because we were surprised and I knew who I was before I started changing for a girlfriend. Yeah, because back in the day, Mr. Timothy would make his bed and wash his bedding. But that is Timothy, who was looking for Celestine. So now you wait for me to leave. Things change, and time changes too. Let's appreciate the fact that time changes. Right now, do you expect me to wash Nini? And it's not that I can't. Sorry, I don't understand. The utensils are in the kitchen. The laundry basket is that one. Guo Chafu is here. I expect this person. There's a point. As a good person. Put it in the laundry basket. But my question is, I'm not being dramatic. But I have a question. I have a question. You call me, talk, let me talk. I have a question. He kicked off those socks. Where do people usually wear socks? He didn't go to the house last week because his socks were stolen. My point is, I'll take care of it. Really? No, listen, hear me out—you know me very well. The man who was there, he was killed. The man and the men are also with me here. The man is a stubborn fool there. The truth of the matter is that I will return tomorrow. The truth of the matter. Sasa ata tukideta uko narudia viyatu. E, you're late. Where are you not following? I can't take one week. Exactly. And that's how men are made. Because by then, I had already lost all hope of survival. What is the goal? Goodbye. Why? It's because men tuko hivo. I saw a small bird at my house. Your words are here. No, hear me out. We'll talk about your story there. Ask me in another episode that you're going to bring me here. Those who are with you there. Your man, so too the man That's a terrible idea, sisemi, really bad Just a little bit longer man, because and see Kubenda, Juwaki The fire of the sun burns, yet the moon still shines Mini kiacha iyo kiatu, na muu kuuliza, nema? Mini kiacha iyo kiatu, na muu kuuliza, nema? I always ask What's wrong with that jacket here, because I know that jacket is really cool, like how we think is, nimeva or t-shirt were minus two days So I have two more days, maybe this one I don't know, for example Hear me out Hi, I'm from town. Sibio, reo, tuko Nairobi. It's quiet here. In the form of. Kesho, I will be leaving from the gate to go to the market. Why Rather than taking a new t-shirt, I take a T2 shirt. Though it's clean, but if chafu. I am not afraid of the darkness, for I am the light. but he's clean. To Yes. Then, on day 2. T1. Day 3 There is a car ahead of us that we are following. No, this is an example. Maybe I was born with a cow and a spear. Indeed. I bought a T-shirt yesterday. I'm very sorry. Bedhri is the one who entered through the window. Where are you going? Yeah, right. So, I'm not endorsing this temperament. You should be able to eat well. But if it were there. That's the question. No, I don't care, but that doesn't matter. People are often embarrassed when they lose their socks. There are many socks, but the house doesn't need any more socks. This is it, the time has come to leave. And before you came into my life, I used to live here. But you never used to throw socks through the window. I'm here with you now, I'm here with you and I'm yours, just stay. You never used to throw socks into the laundry chute. When you arrive, you've changed this chair, look at it there. Mini was very happy with the boys, they were stressed. When you come, our lives become complicated. Yes, we need you. Your life becomes easier. You leave, you abandon my things, you put on makeup. Oil as cheap as dust. I only had one bucket. Relax, Mr. Timothy. Okay, thank you. Relax. But you get my point. We were fine before you came into our lives. You were fine before I came. Why do I come and change your life? I don't want to come and change you. You're here now, so just keep going where you were heading. I cannot provide socks. I suffocate, every place is suffocating. But my point is, Shida, mi naonagayo, that's the problem. Like, you can't do that, I wake up last, and I expect Niache to be in bed with the curtains closed. Spent an entire day thinking about drawing curtains. Draw the curtains. Did you open the lock? Yes. Mambo, I'm doing well. Open the curtain, and you'll see the light. That's kind of weird. So, tourism. Anyway, let's not get into this. We'll get to that. It's a completely different topic altogether. But my point is. Why do I feel suffocated in my own space as a man? And that's why you find people building beautiful homes. but they spend a little time in those houses because you are suffocating them. When I come and sit down, I want to enjoy something. You want to watch another kind of novel. What do I do? I step aside. They are coming to take the money they want. Why is your iPad the one you're taking, the one you want? Where is the man? I'd rather go hang out with a Kina Gerard. You're getting my point. We are feeling suffocated. That's why it's different from dating. From dating, we're like, Ah, tuachande, goodbye. Then I'm not, for the rest of the time, I'm alone, throw the socks however I want. But when we come, we are living under guidance. We are being led like sheep. It's zero grazing. So does that mean most men would prefer them to date forever? That's not what I'm saying. Because if marriage is suffocating for most men I'm not saying marriage. Hear me out It's individuals Marriage has never suffocated anyone. Okay So does it mean these individuals Who throws socks everywhere? When you are here What's up, my dude, what's good, like, does it mean, I had someone, Kwaza Mungina said, when he finished, When I saw the place with the stone, the wooden beam, and the roof, I didn't know how to replace it. That's enough, you're late, I'm going to the bucket place. I was going to the market, carrying things, when the basket broke. What's up with you, why are you always making trouble? You get my point? What is your opinion? No, listen to me, are you getting my point? Like, this won't work well, this will just get soaked in water, this is terrible. To take it from the thief I have a hidden room below the house At the very end That's the only role. You are a beautiful person. My heart is broken At the beginning Hard money Below the muagirika The fish is swimming. The day of the fire was terrible. Do you get my point? I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. This is a gift for the house. You are the one who is being blamed, not me. Anyway, a question for you. That's a topic for another day. Regarding killing plants. And in this country we are facing a pandemic of people who are killing plants. At the mummy, what do you call yourself? Mummy, mummy, parent plants. Whatever, I don't care. Plant parents The Nene cactus is dying. The cactus died at home. Anyway, I'm not going there. My point is, can we coexist? Yes, we can. Exactly my point. Can we make each other's lives easier? Hi, how do you think I could make your life easier? In marriage, as it were, let's not forget In dating, I take you out, I take you out You can take your time; that's fine. You look amazing, but time has changed too. and you realize from when we We're dating now, and we have new responsibilities that we didn't have before. You have a kid or two. That you didn't have, you have some things you're taking care of. By then, you are expecting something from your parent. Right now, you're somewhat taking care of your parent. You get my meaning. We have expectations. We have things that are changing. So it's unfair to expect what you used to get then. However, it doesn't mean we can't have fun. Why do we say "to bring to the boil"? I think, even then, I was taking it to the shop, it wasn't a problem. Saini issue Saini told him to stop. The man said. On the couch, it's not about me. You can be. No one else has ever forgiven me through you. Sure? Okay. What's up? Do you know? Here, you are the one, the person yourself. You spoke well first; you did a good job speaking. Now you're using me. Do you hear someone? E. A single drop of water, a single person. You hear? This is where we are. We have others. What about children, about studies, what else? You have to get, let's say for example, health insurance. Don't I take health insurance wherever I want, huh? It's you I'm talking to. Oh, no. Not you, it's you. I need both. What if I'm not able? Okay. Our priorities have changed. Now, this makes me wonder. So. What if I'm not able? Of course we discussed. You're staying past the honeymoon period. What if? You're staying past the honeymoon phase. Tell her she's overstaying the honeymoon. What if? You can't have your cake and eat it too. What if? There's this thing they say. Dating kulukua na iyo monthly what? It's called a monthly allowance. Girlfriend allowance When you start, now when you enter into marriage, Your monthly wife, huh. It's because time has changed again after COVID, Those people who lost their jobs. Time has changed. Time, for me, I think we fail to take time into account. We factor in everything else, holding everything constant. But time has changed. Time has changed, and a lot has changed. To some, you might be complaining, maybe zida iko kwako. For some, things improved. From here to the supermarket, the shopping carts are stuck and the shopping baskets are broken. So ask yourself. So long as time changes, everything else must change as well. Time in change is to change for the better. And it doesn't mean now, right now, you person. I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. Listen, fst, you're not making sense. It doesn't mean that things should be better. Do you realize you've had better dates than the ones you were having when you were dating? I am going to punish someone. Do you know you've had better dates than you ever had while dating? But only this time when you do your makeup. At a place, in a field, in the open It's when you're complaining I'm not complaining. As a human, this is another topic we'll cover some other time. When you call me, when people ask for me As humans, we Let us be wise. It's kind of The cabbage is growing in the garden. One is left behind, after all. One remains behind, after all. And it triggers an alarm What do you get? Cabbage is delicious Alarm The bottom is not yet finished. And you have to explain what happened before this cut. Action. Explain to them what happened. Oh, there was an alarm that was making noise; now we're back. So, cabbage, as you're saying. And we should be excited. We should be excited. Now, as we were saying, cabbage. Cabbage has a lot of leaves, okay? And I tend to think that's just how the human mind is—we're made that way. You tend to think, I want to be with you. What I want to say is that it will be as it is. But nothing else matters. Hi, then I'll be silent, I'll choose not to say anything else. And those socks are part of that cabbage leaf. Take off those socks, put on something else. He is cooking. Pull out that engine, remove it. I started buying socks very well with zippers and colors and sizes. But do you see something? Something is wrong. So, I say, this cabbage is too bitter for me to eat. He did it himself. At the edge of the cliff, he was thrown down to the ground. Without a step. Without a word. Then you'll get another cabbage. The same thing. Huyu is currently the only one who is here. He was leaving socks. Huyu ata troza na underwear anaacha chini. You get me? It's just socks. It's not underwear. Do you understand what I'm trying to say? I was about to say, let's go and get a belt. The belt is already torn. They're all in the laundry basket. He is putting it into the laundry basket. It's time to leave. Your belt. The boat is stuck. Give me a chance, you mighty belt. If you know, you know. But that's not where I'm heading. No, I'm saying. If we are saying these have changed, things used to be extremely deadly. But today is only manual. But that's not my point. That's not what I meant. My point is, let's try to make do with what we have. When I got the sock man, I was surprised. We end up choosing. You're the one who's facing the problem now, just as I did. The price is high for that particular item. The children of the mother are also the ones to be loved. He made a mistake. Yes, you get it He made groups and organized them very well. You realize that you're not alone Those socks might be a bit tight. To push someone else away from the front Sikwizi is coming Anatoleanga kwa mgurangu I have arrived, I am here Anathema Kemani My socks are here. He made Miku a very good mother, indeed. The mango is very sweet. I don't remember. Mkufu ya. You need that strength to stay with your man. I just realized that it's not only in my house Why don't we just leave it at that? It happens everywhere. I don't know, Mom, why did you start dancing? You guys never talk about your problems. Exactly. No problem. Are you my problem? You get. No. You are actually acknowledging. I like your challenges. You are actually the problem. In the relationship. No like challenges. You men never discuss. Women, we are very. if the father does not do it That's fine with me; I can live with that. Men live with their consequences. but women will find it extremely difficult to live with the consequences if for example There is a joke that is told about about a man who married a lady This lady couldn't cook, couldn't wash, couldn't do anything. What do you get? but whenever they went home he was asked Why do you love this woman? He said, "If only you knew." That was the only answer he had. so men Chose to see, to live with their problems. If only you knew. That is not a good thing. But the seme sitaki did it. No, but even diyo hiko life. Because we've started preparing this cabbage, we'll finish it. And then you'll end up hungry. It's raining heavily. So. Cabbage Vizu words. Only the one who is truly wise can understand. Mother. I'm sorry, I don't understand. You are able to talk. But maybe your socks in a zabadirika. But trust me, ni kia kwa dust bin, whatever you call it, Hiyo, when the time comes, you'll have something else to say. There's always something else. But now there are some things, it's good to realize two things. There are some things that are solvable, and others that are not. Others are silent. Some, I came to realize, we come from, we arrive with a lot of baggage. Whatever, what do we call this, kitumzito. Lena is very strong. Luggage. Luggage. We come with luggage. And with this baggage of mine, I want to be set free. Maybe you come with your own baggage. Some things you can sort. For example, if someone grew up with. M-M Laundry basket Hakona child, not a laundry basket. Did you have a laundry basket? No, we didn't have. It was a size. Hello. But tulipata. Kikapu. Yeah, kikapu. You are beautiful for being humble. It started off as a laundry basket. It ended up being a storage basket. It's already there. So my point was. Where was I? You come up with those you come Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, so I'm expecting you I don't know anything about it. and you're not able to, let's say, for example, I have childhood trauma from whoever, maybe from my parents, whoever Then I come, I'm trying to get it on you. Why are you doing this? If you do it like this, you'll definitely get stung. Because I've seen things happen, and it's not true. On the other hand, you're not understanding where I'm coming from. Natoka kwa shida, but hizi shida zingine, as we said When we're dating, we don't tell each other the truth, which is wrong. So from dating, so that it's not so different, Tell each other the truth. There's a song, a Kikuyu song about someone. who married a woman, and he used to tell her, We are poor here, Our place is to be moved to the cube until I'm able to build. Then this lady comes, truly, and leaves. Kikuwa ni ya kibuge ya kuwa. This lady left because Ameona Shida. But when Mwaze sat down I see you, my friend, yes. So who was in the wrong? The lady. Quote and quote, yeah. Because uliambo kukwa hivo, and you went. Three days ago, you were sent back, but at least you were informed. We never tell each other the truth. When we're dating, and that's the problem. Tell me the truth, show me your true colors. Mini Ambia, there are some people who are saying, When Gen Z, they just don discipleship, same as me, I'm just a beginner. Goodbye. You are very welcome here. I was about to say, I was afraid we'd be late I love you both, thank you so much. When we get into that, I won't ask for more, Because you said so, it's true. Do you get my point? So, let's tell each other the truth as I finish. Because I'm not going to be paid for this particular episode. Let's be honest with each other when we're dating. So that when we get married, there won't be much of a difference. You see, this is how we are right now, the bosses are the ones doing this job. Know each other. Do you know, we don't even know, We don't even talk about our parents when we're dating. Like budangu, I love this one, my mom is this one, yes, this is his picture. By this, let's go ahead. Do you know how my father met my wife? It's a very interesting story. So we are seated. And I think I'm going to close with this. And one more story about Ratu ni Kombusha. Now I have a question. Okay. Mom, you go first and tell your story. No, just say it and then forget it. I have a question. Because now not all men are like that. Not all of them are wakurusha socks. We have very neat men. Whether dating or married. Trust me, every person is a cabbage. You will find something. There is no one else like him. God bless the cabbage. No worries. There's always going to be something. There's always going to be something. And you see how a cabbage, and you see how a cabbage, It was about to collapse. It's amazing. It's fresh again. That's what we need to do. Sasa shide tunatoa hii. Why has this started becoming white, and these veins are green. One, one, one leg is white inside too. So you just pick your cabbage. A certain fish of that kind. Just pick your cabbage. I'm sorry, I don't understand. If that's the case. Alafu is fresh. I have to light a fire. A tutoa, a kanabaki hivi. Therefore. I will look for the name right away. Before you speak, before you make a sound. Look, you're doing great. Jupia is raising a red flag. Why are you so angry? Socks, vest, trousers, jacket, no jacket at the bottom. Aya, I'm coming to you. What's up, what's up, don't rush, you're going to a place soon. Hey, you're a slave, you're going somewhere, you're running, you're running, you're running. So by the time, yeah. Sijui brother ake, uliambua yeye, walikuwa, meshikuwa na wizi. And if it were to happen, it would be terrible. People like us. When you see a lion, you will fear it. Okay, so by the time he had finished explaining the things to the elder, Niju, you are the one who was given to him. These socks are still here, just like the others. I like these haukutua socks. So you're together because you can handle this cabbage as it is. All finished. You can manage it. Sasa hile imebaki. Yes. There are some things that a person wearing socks might say. That means there's always that cabbage in every marriage. You won't choose what will be given to you. You didn't choose this one; I gave it to you. So, I'm talking to you. I'll wait for the day. I asked people to help me harvest cabbage. Ah! That mistake was not intentional. Even the smallest fish has scales. It's time to go. On that occasion, their great joy was evident. Who did you break it with? You easily caught the chicken. Therefore. What do you get? Yeah, I get it. Yeah, so I'll finish off with a story. Two stories. One, how I met your mother. How I Met Your Mother No, how I met your mother. No, how my father met my wife. It is a very funny story; it's actually not funny. because we talk about them, but we've never met We've never created those; it's sort of of a tab like you're so rigid that you make your parents meet your Fiancé, quote unquote, how did they meet? I know. I thought you'd never ask, so I was graduating. from the Kenyans in mass communication and I didn't call anyone for the graduation because I thought for one or two days to the event The graduate is in trouble. I was like, tuna graduate mzai. It's a long way. Andi went to the market. Akaliza, for the past three or four years, It's better to pay the fees than to face the consequences. So my dad said, you know what, you're going to go with your mother. So then they came. Me and me, the one who is the master of the sea. Ah, we've reached the end, we're done. Goodbye forever. Nikara is a place located in the south. You roasted half a goat, Pikorina. There's a place called Pikorina's Pare South Bay. I saw a coconut, behind which there was a gourd. You are welcome. My friend knows how to choose meat. He sold half of it, and it was lost. But anyway, it was there. I think that's the army. Who the hell is supposed to show up? On the form, we've come with those same things, bit by bit. Madhe na Mama Didan, our family friend from Jos Kakamulu. Wakakamu, I am currently on my way home. This is the one, this is the place, this is it. I asked about those things, and he replied. Hey, which side of the bed do you usually sleep on? Finished. What seems like five minutes, we've finished. Sing the song. Sing the song. Father, give me a piece of land, it's mine It was a very silly I don't know who told us to sing It is present today By then the minister was already Pogisio So we sang a song Father, give me a plot of land The land is mine So Pogisio finishes I don't know what you're talking about, I have no idea. The one who planted the garden should be the one to tend it. You told me again to give you the farm Anyway, let's finish it. And then we went pale Piko Lina I'll tell you my story at the right time, or else I'll send you a form. Now let's fill out the form, please. My house will have a half-room next to it. Count the person. Father, please do not scold him. Saki sasa tena, iu ni musupa wanani. Your hand is so small, it's barely visible. That is asking Kemani where we are going. I'm like a haa haa haa haa haa haa haa. So no one knew you were dating? Even so, because you can see the two-sided nature of it. In a vibration, can you put it on mute? So nobody, so they didn't know So they didn't know you were dating. Who? Your parents You know what happened. We had a siren again So we had to stop I want to start as soon as I'm up there Ask So they didn't know you were dating. Who? Your parents My parents, they didn't know manze Oh my So, why are you asking about that request? What were you saying about that date? Where did you tell your parents you were dating? The truth It's your story. You know, these days I'm finding it's a story. Why do you exist? Why did you register with questions? You know, these days napata mpaka watoto wako. I have a boyfriend, and it's more than I thought. Oh yes. Sisi College A boyfriend is a boy who is your partner. God is my shepherd; I shall not want. I hope you are well. Be careful, help this young man. Rise up against the wicked people. Why is that? Anyway, let's continue. Now, my father insisted we go. For what do I wait? Uncle, let me ask you something. Another side end? No. Like, for you, it was bad because you're a street kid. Ama, it was bad, why? It was bad because growing up we never Talked about boyfriend and girlfriend. And Matthew, my mom used to pray for my wives. Another side. Then I'll go down. Okay, done. Now it's over. Now, where were we? So yeah, we never talked about relationships. and especially girlfriends. Uh-huh, okay. Mbia, the girl is the one who will be kissed by the avocado. Avocado is delicious. Fine. Yes, I said so, huh. The sky is changing, the wind is shifting. For the attempt. Kemani? You have placed it on the top of the hill. Sasa's graduation. Now, so we get to lunch and my dad insists, "Ni aje tuwede lunch." At the end of the day, only the metagenic key remains. Another side end. Where is that side end? Hi there. Anisawa, tuwede, tuwede, tuwede, tuwede. Hmm. Sure. This time I won't shout. But we never talked about it. This time, my dear, I'm ending it here, you, I have enough. I asked him where we could go to have lunch. Ranchi? No way. At that time, the first half of the dough was already spread out. We will have lunch later. What's on the scale? A little bit. He was punished with a meal of bitter food. I'm sorry, I don't understand. I am a teacher. Now, we're done and then we get served. So my dad sees this woman. She was wearing a dress. I like polka dots. I remember that photo. I'm there. The dress has polka dots. And it was a beautiful, beautiful dress. I like polka dots for the row on white. Hulikona bus station. Hulikona mbae BS. Hi there! Therefore. On the way. Now, we get to sit down. But all this time, Aya was already gone. I'm here, I'm working here. Wow, everyone here is really amazing. So, let's talk about something else. So, I got crushed, totally crushed. So, all this time, I've been watching. Then my dad asked me, Who do you know? Who is this? I was like, Therefore. I am not a time, Hey, let me introduce him. To I don't know how to introduce myself, maybe it's awkward. You know, that's the same thing. Who is this? The carpenter, his own master, the carpenter. She is my friend, Nika. Indeed. Oh, okay. We thought you were coming to study. Yes, Kia. You are not allowed. But you may graduate. Well, when you're about to lose, you tell me, okay. You're always so stubborn, you know. But you may graduate. Hey, kid, anime grad. But Sasa is not afraid of hardship or difficulty. Then, yo, it was the longest lunch I've ever had. It was sweet, yet it was difficult. It was the longest lunch. But Hawa is enjoying. When we heard, we enjoyed. I think a liongeza something. Who is Murembu? She's gone. I'll tell you the other story. Now, we have to, we have to hurry up. This is a very difficult situation we are in. Hands are coming, hands are rising. And she's the kind of woman who's wife material. So that's it, finished. All this time I'm like, mzaya mejamu. So we meet at the corner. I don't know who else could have done it. Nika introduced her, this is my friend. Haka means, why didn't he go home? You're not going to survive, are you? Is that a trick question? I'm like, um, just keep going, you know. A good man says that the signs of the prophets are evident. Father, how long have you been here? I felt as if I had played my part. Nika said, the surgery would take two to three years. I don't want to be left behind. Can you do this? Can you organize? First, let's go through December, whatever may come. Thank you so much, Mr. Timothy. Where is your house? Okay. Okay. Now, our history that we have come to know. Let me wrap it up in a story. It's for everyone to play a part in it. Don't say mimi eni husu. Don't say, ah, nini, nini, nini. For it to work, we must play a part in this. All of us together. Um And you might say, "Mimi eni effect." You're you, I've got my own life figured out, Nini nini nini, mimi kwangu utasema mimi, I don't care what you do; I have my own life. But in the end, for this to work, it takes two. There is a story about a rat, a cock, cockerel, cockerel of his, and a goat, on the cow. So one day, a farmer had all these things. Then his mind became clouded. A plan to prevent, to stop the spread. Panya was very concerned. And he went and told everyone. He went to the market, he went to the goat, he went to the cow. Akaambia, guys, there's a plan ready for the place. Aote, what are you talking about now? The game is exciting, the view is beautiful, and the weather is perfect. Eh, same here. Ngombe is currently in labor, yes, With this, we have completed it, it is finished and complete. I see, one day. That man's son went off, and he immediately fell into trouble. Ika mshika, no one was home. So the child bled to death. Hearing this, the guests who were coming began to arrive. If the child is not coming, then this child will come. When the sun sets, don't forget to light the lamp. You are welcome as a guest. Hahaha, people are going to see, look, it's just a mess. Sasa, what's the matter? Goat A sick animal. The elephant is very big. Kazema, haha, are you still in trouble, little by little? When your uncle's meat has been taken, why are you looking for meat? Ngombe. What did you first learn? Ngombe. A sick animal. So you're composing a haiku, aren't you, not that one, Anyway, at the end of the day, you're the one who's responsible. It must be. And with that, ladies and gentlemen. Thank you so much, Mr. Timothy. Thank you for your lovely stories. Thank you for your time. So, is this our story to tell? No, the story's ending should make me happy. Like, we need to be the kind of people that everyone should be. No, Kusumukweli, even ask those gentlemen. That's why I'm here We don't complain What did you do, and how did you manage to do it? Your place Say that we are complaining Oh, we're poisoning each other. What are you studying? No, it's okay. That's a story for another day No tuko zile za We are barely subscribed to the service Men are like that. Not in a bad way Men are like that. To be honest with you Sometimes it even feels good When you go, you will be tired, when you rest, you will be exhausted. Like a friend helps to build his life Stop lying No, sometimes, not every time So when are those times you want me? To give you the chance of my life? Well, because no worries, you can, Take me every other day. Thank you so much. But thank you so much for coming. If you say it once, I'll remember it; if you say it twice, I'll remember it. You'll see. I don't have to tell them. Wacha one of the first three comments. I don't have to say anything. I see what's happening. I don't know how you manage it. No, nothing. You speak like this, just say comment. But thank you so much, guys. If you want him back, tuambie, you need to apologize. Ah, you don't have to ask, they'd say, ni yafe yawe. You should be ashamed of yourself. I know where, we are not professionals. Any topic you have, just... They are not Kienyeji. Where exactly do you want us to assist you with Kienyeji? Layman, when you... Please, in the comment section, Tell us what you want us to handle regarding Kienyeji. Yes. Okay? Yes. Thank you so much, everyone. Thank you for watching. Please remember to subscribe. See you next week. On Celeste Reflection. Goodbye. Congratulations! Goodbye, so much. Thank you so much. I'm quite decorous. Thank you. Thank you, Mr. Timothy. Thank you.