‘Love Is Blind’ Star Stew Says He Doesn’t Remember Awkward Reveal

She is saying that it has nothing to do with your looks. I think that's the whole premise of Love is Blind too is that once the reveal, if the spark isn't really there anymore, all the fans and all the viewers are like, it's got to be the looks. Do you believe her that it has nothing to do with the looks? I do. Yeah, 100%. And like she said that to me up front and, you know, shortly after the program ended, even though we didn't meet up on camera, you know, we go back to our normal lives. We get our phones back. by the time i was back into the hotel like i had a message from Jack she had found me through social media messaged me you know kind of gave a quick overview of herself and then we got back to Boston we we reconnected um you know and we're able to kind of discuss what we were and where we were but no like i i don't i don't think it had anything to do with looks and it's actually funny reading kind of like or seeing the overarching like narratives that are taking place on Instagram about like you know oh like further proof that love is not blind she dumped him because he's you know this hideous monster it's like no like that had nothing to do with it you know if you and you know from what she told me and you know kind of looking back it's like yeah i can understand why Jax would have maybe after the proposal started to have cold feet and then going into the reveal again i just expressed how overwhelmed i was and that i was just battling I mean, she was probably equally overwhelmed and just this whole process and her doubting my sincerity and, you know, whether I was there for the right reason or, you know, whether I truly was committed to trying to make it work with her, which I was. she kind of explained that you might have come off a little more douchier than how your guys's initial conversations were so i had to ask you i mean what do you feel like you came off a little douchey or do you think that's just who you are yeah oh no 100 like 100 that's like especially like you know going back and watching it like yeah of course like some of those and especially in the reveal moment like I can 100% see where where Jax was coming from and you know I think the one thing I would say kind of about that moment is it is so overwhelming and there's so much stimuli and so many moving pieces like you're standing in front of a door you're suited up you've got the cameras on you've got the mics you don't know when the door is going to open at some like random time the door opens and you know all of a sudden across this red carpet with fog machines and all the lights and cameras and boom mics you've got someone standing there and you walk up and you're like oh my god like what do I do with my hands like do I give the ring yet do I take a knee like how do I how do I do this and so much of my mental energy was just on like these simple otherwise like very easy human moments and just being like so self-conscious of myself in that situation that like my mouth was just like moving like words were just coming out like i was not like thinking and hearing those tracks back like i have no recollection of what i was talking about during the reveal like i just blocked out exactly exactly it's like we weren't even really drinking like that was like the first thing we did in the morning like that was like stones over but uh you know like my mind was just so occupied with all of these emotions and it's just silent and like if you've ever been in a quiet room like every now and then you may use this as an interview tactic you know you just go silent the other person will talk totally and what they say is probably not going to be the most elegant it may not be you know their proudest words and i think i kind of found myself in that position of just trying my best to like fill a silence absent-mindedly just like trying to process it all and so yeah i mean looking back of course some of that stuff was preposterous but you know at the same time that's not like who i am as a person or like the core of my identity that's just you know defaulting to like throw away humor and trying to just fill space