The Narcissist’s Cell Phone Trick #npd #narcissist #swb #cheater #toxicrelationships

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Um, this video, I want to talk about the narcissist and his cell phone, her cell phone, and the tricks that they play with their cell phones and i'm not just talking about um text messages you know them hiding their phones or um you know texting multiple people the cheating is inevitable you're going to find out about the cheating eventually they try to cover it up and then there'll come a point in time where they won't cover it up they want you to know inadvertently they want you to inadvertently find out about the cheating because they triangulate and they mention the names of the people very casually to get your mind wandering and get you feeling insecure. So the tricks that I'm referring to in terms of the cell phone, narcissists love to do this thing where they will deliberately leave their phone laying around. They'll try to play like they don't want nobody going through their phone but oh everything is strategic with an arc everything is calculated so they have this thing a lot of them because some of them are over protective of their phones and they don't want you going through their phone but then there's another part of the game and the other part of the game is this they will deliberately leave their phone laying around and open for you to access they want you to go into their phone they want you to see who they've been texting, or they want you to see some photos, some really special photos that they have stored on their phone. Why would they do something like that? Why would they deliberately leave their phone open for you to see the evidence of them doing something? Well, number one, they want you to get upset. They're looking, this is all about narc supply, narcissistic supply. They want you to get emotional. They want you to get unhinged. they they they love the drama they want to fight they know what's in that phone and and they'll leave the phone open they'll walk into another room knowing all that ---- is on their phone and they know you're gonna go through it they waiting on you to question them what's this in your phone what is this who is this and you know what they're gonna do they're gonna downplay it why are you going through my phone why are you even going through my phone you crazy this is why i can't trust you going through my ---- but they guilty in a ************ they deliberately left the phone they already been ******* up in the relationship why would they leave the evidence around to cause another argument a bigger blow up because they strategically left the ******* phone for you to find they want you to go through it they looking forward to the next argument they're gonna play like you the troublemaker i got a video on this you know they like to stage the breakup so that you break up first so they got to deliberately cause arguments and stir up ---- so that you're always blowing up it looks like you're the villain causing all the arguments you're going off for no reason you're ******* insecure now you're going through the phone they want you to go through they want you to go through their phone so they can specifically say i can't trust you why are you going through my phone never mind the fact they got evidence on there that they ******* and sucking everything moving in the streets or they got nude photos on their phone motherfuckers texting them pussy pics they flirting and ---- they don't they're not gonna look at the evidence even though they wanted you to look at the evidence to trigger you they're gonna they're gonna totally deflect and ignore all the evidence on their phone they're gonna be focused on you i can't trust you why would you go through my ******* phone that's why we can't be together I can't trust how can we be together and I can't even I turn my back I can't even trust you you in my phone they're not going to acknowledge the evidence the incriminating stuff they're going to be focused on you busting them how dare you call me out for cheating who the **** are you to call me out on cheating when you're breaking my trust by going in my phone in the first place they gotta justify their cheating they gotta justify their ******* gaslighting they gotta justify all their ---- it's never their fault they're going to deflect it's it's like this let's just say you got a toddler right you got a baby toddlers are curious they love to explore they love to get into stuff i had a child my baby was messy when she was two and three years old There were things that she did and I, they got, you know, babies love to get into lotion and Vaseline. And if you leave something out, crayons or markers, they're right all over the wall. They'll go play in the toilet water. Babies are very messy. They get into stuff, but when they make this huge mess, I've seen hilarious videos where they've taken baby powder or flour and they threw it everywhere they made a mess in the living room they covered the couch with flour and that's what babies do you can't get mad at the baby you cannot get mad at the baby the baby is being a baby the baby doesn't understand right from wrong it's a two-year-old having a good time making a mess so why would you penalize the baby you should be penalizing yourself because you didn't put everything up you're supposed to put the flour up you're supposed to put the markers up where the baby can't reach Vaseline lotion why was that within reach where the baby could grab it that's mommy and daddy's fault you don't penalize the baby so the narcissist wanted you to go in his phone because see if he didn't want you in his phone his phone would be in his pocket he put his phone up he knew what he was doing he wanted you to go in his phone they do different things to stage fights, arguments, gaslighting tricks. Um, because they're, you guys are almost at the point of the breakup, the discard. He, he needs a reason to break up with you. He needs a reason to call you crazy. He needs a reason to vilify you to his family and friends. So if y'all are having these arguments that he is, he's baiting you to argue, he's setting the stage. He already know you're gonna go through his phone what he knows it already he wants you to see the evidence in there so that he can sit back and say how dare you go through my phone this is why we're not gonna make it i can't trust you i can't trust you he's not gonna acknowledge what's on that phone he's gonna focus on you going in his phone but then let's take it a step further he's going to triangulate you you know let's just say you find out there's three women texting him and sending him nude photos he's gonna triangulate you with these women because now you want to know who the **** are these bitches and trust me these sluts they know who you are you're the main woman you're the main girlfriend your wife you're the you are the main supply all these bitches in his phone know about you and they don't care they're trash so he also gets double doses of narc supply because now that you found out about these women in his phone the triangulation is successful you're getting upset you're getting emotional you know he's cheating he's getting supply he's getting supply and if you contact these women oh he's really going to get a triple dose of supply so you see there's the flip side to this cell phone stuff a lot of narcs yeah they do like to hide their phone because they don't want you finding out about the cheating but then there's the flip side there's a lot of them that deliberately leave their cell phones out and they want you to go through it they want you to see what's in it so they can continue the triangulation they can continue to stage catfights to find a reason to break up with you or either force you to break up or have reason to break up they'll accuse you of not being trustworthy but they're never going to acknowledge their cheating and their disgusting behaviors all of it will be projected onto you and you will be vilified and he will go around telling everybody you're the cause of the breakup not the underlying cheating y'all this stuff is so warped and dysfunctional it's it's unreal it's unreal that these types of people exist in this world uh you know when you identify them please you got to get far the **** away because their logic their warped sense of thinking and the way that they see things and the way that they feel self-entitled to you know forcing their opinions down our throats and their their ideologies and and they crazy they crazy you leave your cell phone out knowing I'm gonna go through it and and you didn't have sense enough to delete the ---- off your phone should I happen to go through your phone then when I go through your phone and this is for a situation of you I'm not talking about dating a narc you've got to be in a committed relationship y'all are living together y'all are engaged this is a very serious relationship because if I'm living with you motherfucking right my cell phone is open. You can go through my cell phone. I ain't texting no men. I'm transparent. I have nothing to hide. So when we're living together or we're in a very committed relationship, ain't nobody hiding ---- in this house. I'm going to answer your phone. I'm going to go in your phone. You should be comfortable because if you're not guilty of doing nothing, you should have no problem with me going in your phone. So like I said, if you answer the narcissist's phone, if you go through it, he leaves it out so that you can go through it and you find some incriminating ---- on there. he deliberately did that ---- he wants you to see that ---- he is now triangulating you well he's been trying to triangulate you but now you're seeing the actual evidence with your eyes and it's very hurtful and yes at that point the relationship is on its way down it's on a down downward spiral when the narc is getting to the point where he's getting really sloppy um with covering his tracks or he's deliberately allowing you to see certain things the relationship is about to be over the discard is right around the corner so either you got to beat the narc to the discard or he's planning to discard you because the cheating is evident okay so that i was just i just want to do this video to describe the flip side of the cell phone ---- yeah they do like to hide their cell phone but then there's the the other case where they want to want you to go through their phone they'll pretend like you're violating them how dare you go through my phone but they're the ones that planted the phone in plain hindsight for you to go through it to find the evidence and now y'all are arguing that narc wants to wants you to argue he needs a reason to to accuse you of starting arguments and this is why we're not gonna make it i can't trust you he's getting supply and then he's also justifying his reasons for breaking up with you the discard is imminent y'all gotta know the game man all right to the next video this has been a spiritual whistleblower take care guys