The Narcissist’s Totem Pole - PART 1 #npd #narcissist #polygamy #toxicrelationships #ex #cheater

Hello beautiful people, spiritual whistleblower here with another video on narcissistic abuse before we jump in real quickly uh tomorrow Thursday New York City, I'm doing a balloon release for all the fallen victims of domestic violence at Tompkins Square Park 4 p.m. if you're interested in coming email me or inbox me on Instagram and I'll give you the meetup location 4 p.m. Thursday we're releasing balloons in the park you won't be there no longer than 15 20 minutes unless you want to hang with me afterwards and we get a bite to eat or something okay new Yorkers um then the rest of the month starting next week I will be in Houston Texas October 16th for the support group birthday celebrate my birthday and all the Libras October 16th which is Saturday Houston Texas then I'll be in Dallas Texas uh October 22nd which is a Friday then I'm in Austin Texas the 24th which is a Sunday you want tickets to come out we're celebrating my birthday we're going to talk narc abuse and have a really good time email me at chaneljasmine@ gmail.com uh what else what else and I'm available for phone consultations too uh while I'm traveling I do take calls on the road all right so again we're going to continue uh the triangulation series y'all love when I talk about triangulation and I when I break it down on the whiteboard here so today i want to teach you ladies and fellas all you gotta do is flip the gender in the video to make it suit your situation. If you were burnt by a female narcissist, it's the same thing. Just change the gender. Ladies, I'm going to teach you the real deal of what narcissistic men, their whole game plan. I'm just going to dismantle their entire ******* game plan. And I'm going to do a visual on how they do this ---- and how you can stay the **** up out there rotation. Okay. I think moving forward in the, in the future, I think polyamorous relationships, polygamy is going to be legalized. That's where we're going. That's where we're headed. They're going to normalize. It's normalized now, but I mean, legalized polygamy everywhere. And if they do that, you might as well stay single. I'm not sharing my husband with nobody. And if I catch him cheating, he's, he's out the door. And if y'all are going to get married, Make sure you have prenuptial agreement. I'm not getting married unless we have a signed contract before we get married. I'm going to put down the do's and don'ts, what I will and won't tolerate. Cheating, side babies, you know, you get another woman pregnant, anything disrespectful, you put your hands on me, you break the contract, I'm going to kill your pockets. That's how you get a narcissist. You destroy them financially and then you discard them like trash and you move on with your life. You relocate and get far away from them. so here I want to talk about how you know the whole blueprint of a narcissist okay and how you how you specifically can dismantle their blueprint because I'm sick of this ---- y'all we we got to get hip to the game and we got to beat them before they beat us you got to pull the rug from underneath their feet before they pull the rug from underneath your feet you understand so here we go I call this the totem pole of foolishness. The narcissist has a totem pole method. Okay. And I've broken this down in other videos. It's been a long time since I talked about the totem pole. If you don't know what a totem pole is, um, shout out to all my, my, my native Americans, the indigenous, a totem pole is basically a monumental statue. It's made out of wood. They carve, they carve different masks. Okay. They carve a mask out of wood and they stack different masks on top of each other. And it's just, you know, symbolizes the leadership in their communities. And, you know, it tells a story of their history. So you'll see a totem pole in the native American, um, Pacific Islanders, you know, it's cultural. So in this case, I'm going to use it metaphorically in, you know, to define a narcissistic, um, you know, the mind of a narcissist and how they operate and how they use their victims and how they, you know, work against people to get what they need. Totem pole. Let's just say on this totem pole is the main girlfriend. You're the main wife. You're the wife or you're, you're the fiance. You live together. You're going to be a number one position. All these others, these are the side chicks. These are the females he's ******* in his family, his female cousins. These are his coworkers, the low hanging piece of ---- fruit. These are the high school girls that the, you know, the, the women that he claimed, Oh, that's just my friend. No, he's ******* that friend. These are all the bitches beneath you on the totem pole. Okay. While you're in a relationship with a narcissist, um, and you're in that number one position, he's going to degrade you and devalue you in such a manner that he's going to break you down and knock you down. You're going to, he's going to knock you off of that number one position, you're going to go all the way to the bottom. And then whoever's underneath you is going to be moved to the first position. So whoever's in number two position, it could be a baby mama. It could be the coworker. It could be the side chick, the hood rat. He's going to move her from the number two position. She's going to move up into your position. He's going to knock you down and he's going to hope to turn you into a side chick. This is why they hover peep game. This is why they Hoover you after the breakup is they, they trying to pull you back in to keep you locked in. How do they keep you locked in with sex? You're not going to be number one no more because there's another woman in the number one position. However, he still wants to keep you as a **** buddy side chick. That's why they come back around and try to pull you back in. So you're going to go from being number one and you're going to get knocked at the bottom of that totem pole. You're going to be at the bottom girl. Yes, you could be married. They treat their wives like ----. They will rub the side chick in the wife's in the wife's face because when you're married the narcissist feels you're not going anywhere You're locked in you're you are to accept the abuse and cheating So he will throw the side chick in the wife's face and treat the wife like garbage and cheat He'll treat the side chick better, the side chick don't have a baby, side chick is not obligated legally to listen to him So he's going to treat the side chick better until he locks her down with a baby peep game so I'm going to teach you triangulation, how the narcissist uses this system, the totem pole system as a form of triangulation to get what he wants so he can stack his harem, pay attention, right, so here we go, let's get our triangle going at the top, this is the narcissist, the side chick We'll be right back.