Using Your Discernment to Filter Out Narcissists #npd #narcissist #narcabuse #propheticword

good morning everybody spiritual whistleblower here live from austin texas um i'm having such an incredible time i want to thank everybody i finally completed my final round of support groups for 2021 i went to houston dallas and austin and new orleans for the month of october celebrated my birthday with you all i had an amazing time i just want to thank everybody When I get back to New York, I'm going to do a whole recap of the entire summer. You know, I met some amazing people and, you know, this was a growing experience for me. The good and the bad. And, you know, I'm planning some great things for next year. But I want to thank everybody for the money, the cards, the gifts. I got some beautiful gifts from you guys, the cards, the letters. I had a picture of a young lady and her daughters gave me a beautiful handmade card with a photograph I have some of the most amazing supporters so thank you guys um want to do a quick video while I'm in Austin because I'm having such a good time I haven't been able to squeeze a video in I mean I've been getting it in here in Austin uh let me get to some shade look at it look at that I love the sound of nature man you cannot I just like peace anyone knows me knows I like a very peaceful environment so let me sit over here in the shade it's a little bit better all right um what do i want to talk about today and don't mind the hole in my shirt i'm in my workout gear so i always put on my you know you guys know how i dress when i work out and i do my morning cardio my my t-shirts and hoodies and sweats so take my best off i was thinking ladies um we really got to do a better job of investigating i always talk about you know find out how a man was raised you know when you meet his family his mother your in-laws but we really got to get into his character before we fall into deep before we even talk about marriage we really got to start investigating a man's true character and how do you do that we get so caught up of his looks um how well he's dressed his job title or if he doesn't have a job you cleaned him up you got him looking good and you start observing him around his friends in different environments and even on social media it's just funny he's on his best behavior when he's around people and we got to understand that none of that she it doesn't mean nothing uh we should be observing his behavior when nobody is looking That's what I'm what I mean by that. And I'll give some examples. I'll use, you know, my my last situation. There were multiple times that I witnessed my ex behave like a ******* animal behind closed doors towards other people. We're not talking about me now. I'm talking about other people, his behavior and different different scenarios. I remember the first time we went out to eat because I wanted to go out with my friends to go out drinking to wet willies and he started a whole argument about that so he ended up going with me instead and he was just so nasty the whole time like he totally killed the mood we're sitting there ordering food and he's sitting here saying horrible things to me like I mean no table etiquette no class ******* rude talking ---- being disrespectful mad because I like to go out nigga I'm a city girl you knew that you trying to break me down to be a ******* southern belle go find you a southern belle I like to go out I like to do what I like to do I like to live I like to travel he tried to he's he really tried to change me when we first went out to Wet Willies i it was really supposed to be me going but his insecurities thinking i'm gonna meet up with a dude or whatever i don't know what happened but he totally just destroyed the whole mood everything that was his character what i was witnessing when nobody was looking was his character he wasn't a gentleman he was a douchebag another uh time i witnessed him slap his neighbor and his mother i'll tell you really quickly okay um his mother had a dry washer and dryer her dryer was not working a piece on it didn't work so she called the neighbor over now this guy is much younger than her i suspect she was ******* this dude because his mother has a reputation as the community whore i'm gonna keep it real she's slutty dude came over and he was fixing a dryer now my ex he hooked up the dryer to begin with he got the dryer for her so it was like he walked in like what the hell is going on why do you got this dude our next door neighbor fixing a dryer he's not you know he don't know what he's doing and out of that ensues some sort of argument his mother was sitting in the kitchen and both of them both of the men started arguing my ex and the neighbor and he this neighbor he's known him for a very long time I'm guessing back into childhood so this guy is not new like my ex has known him for a very long time they get into this argument and his mother is sitting there she has this demonic grin on her face she's smiling like she's happy that two men are fighting over her and I'm like why you know this is your house why would you allow your son you know he has a hot temper you know he just got out of prison why why are you encouraging him to fight why not tell the man tell the neighbor to go home tell the neighbor to go home no she's sitting there she's enjoying I'm telling y'all she had this smirk on her face because I tried to break it up I was like look no no tell him to go home no my ex was like no and my ex ended up slapping the ---- out of this guy and I thought it went way too far it was not that serious the guy ended up peeing on himself he was on the floor my ex was on top of him you know I'm just like this was something so minor why did you have to hit the guy and looking at his trifling mother she sat there enjoyed the whole show like oh look at these two niggas fighting over me I must be that bitch that was the vibe I got from her she should have been mature enough to tell her son go in the other room and send the ******* neighbor home no she set that ---- up I'm very disappointed in both of them but what I learned in that moment I said this man has the potential to be this angry over something so minor and put his hands on his own neighbor he's known this guy since childhood my ex can turn on me and put his hands on me this is his character I'm looking at this is this is who he is when nobody's looking and sure enough he ended up putting his hands on me at a later date he's violent so what I'm saying y'all we got to pay pay attention you got to monitor people's behavior when nobody's looking that's who they truly are not what they present to the public they get around their circle of friends they get around their family yeah they're gonna be on their best behavior yeah they're gonna be charming yeah they're gonna be the life of the party yeah they're gonna be well-mannered all that that's bullshit that's a facade who they are when nobody is looking is who they truly are ladies another thing too don't think it's cute you know you're laid up in the bed with your man and he's sitting up talking negatively about his baby mothers oh I hate that bitch. She's a hoe, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You know, that bitch get on my ******* nerves. That bitch is always, he's talking ---- about the baby mother or he's talking ---- about an ex-girlfriend. Don't, don't be sitting there feeling like you that bitch because he's tearing another bitch down. And I'll tell you why. You don't know why he's mad at the baby mama. Maybe the baby mama don't want to **** with him no more. Maybe the baby mama got a new man and he's jealous. You don't know why he should, you know, if he's really a mature man, he shouldn't have nothing to say about his baby mother. He should be at peace. And depending on the age of the children, in my case, my ex, his children are grown adults. So why is he even bringing up his baby mothers at all? You ain't gotta pay no child support, nigga. You ain't gotta drop off no diaper money, no milk money for the baby. Your kids are grown. So why are you bringing up your baby mothers? Ladies, don't ever sit up and think it's cute. You laid up in the bed with your nigga and he's sitting up and he is tearing down his ex-girlfriends and baby mamas. Cause let me tell you something you're next in line just like he's dogging them and talking ---- about them to you he will be tearing your name down to the next bitch he's going to add your name to when your relationship is over he's going to be talking ---- about you or if he's still ******* the baby mother he is still ******* that baby mother he's going to go lay up in her bed and talk ---- about you never trust a man that talks bad about any of his exes any woman watch how he treats women does he address women as whores hoes bitches does he call his mama a bitch how does he talk to his mama how does he talk to his sister you got to catch him when nobody's looking how does he treat women that's who he really is yeah when y'all get out in front of the public he gonna be on his best behavior yeah he gonna be a gentleman yeah he gonna be charming that's bullshit you gotta catch him when nobody's looking so yeah you know my ex he bashed the bet he bashed both his baby mothers to me one's a hoe ran through **** do he say he talked a lot of ---- but at the time I didn't know he was ******* one of them he could have been ******* both but I definitely know now he was ******* one of them and you don't think for one second he'll talk ---- about you to her play y'all against each other so character is everything stop looking at his presentation stop looking at how well he's dressed what he does for a living start getting into who he is when nobody's looking analyze monitor always look at his family because another thing too his family is messy if his family is two-faced if they they they'll turn on each other they gossip about each other they tell each other's business then guess what he's going to pick up that behavior and he's going to do it to you he's going to do it a lot of these men love drama more than women he gets that from his family his mom and the toxic messy women in his family have taught him how to be messy and two-faced that's a character flaw you don't want to be with no man that gossips and and you know you think you having a private conversation but he's taking all everything you tell him and he's running it back to his mama or his female cousin or his his old high school female friend you know they got friends but they really be ******* them friends from high school and ---- character is everything is he a man of God when y'all go to church if y'all go to church because a lot of these niggas don't even want to go to church. They fake Christians, they atheists and ----. But when he goes to church, does he really do his best to live by the word? Does he take what he learns from Sunday and apply it to the rest of the week? Or does he go back to being a demon the rest of the week? Go back to being an asshole Monday through Saturday? Church is all about presentation, character. We've got to do better discerning people's character because of who a person is when nobody is looking. That is who he or she really is. That is their true persona. Not what they post on Facebook, not what they wear to a first date, not who they are around a group of friends, not who they are around their children. How do they treat their children? Do they fall out with their kids a lot? Are they rude? You know, I know a lot of men that have daughters. They front like they're good fathers to their daughters on social media, but they talk ---- to their daughters when no one's looking and they treat women like ----. Character. everything's a front when you're dealing with a narcissist a sociopath you catch them when nobody's looking and that's who they really are all right I'll see y'all later the next video I'll do I'll be in New York let me enjoy the rest of my trip I love you guys take care