The Narcissist Uses God to Destroy His Victims #npd #narcissist #narcabuse

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Labor Day weekend I'll be in Chicago on the third and I'll be in Detroit September 4th Toronto Canada Saturday um September 24th it'll be my first time in Toronto those tickets are on sale too guys and Houston Texas October 1st email me at chaneljasmine.com at gmail chanel jasmine at gmail.com blah I have the email pinned down below in the comment section the first comment will be my email pinned for you guys all right let's talk about this topic here um I was uh thinking this morning and again y'all know I'm a deep thinker y'all know I'll be getting into um my thoughts about the layers of narc abuse from a spiritual angle I don't want to keep talking about the the topics like everybody knows all the abuse tactics all the terminology and stuff I don't want to keep rehashing old ---- so I try to you know look at things from a different perspective so I was thinking this morning I want y'all to please feel free to comment in the comment section so we can have healthy dialogue and help each other um I was thinking about love bombing let's talk about love bombing today in terms of uh you know from a spiritual aspect love bombing to me is like an abomination to God and I'll explain why and I was really thinking about that this morning you know God is love number one I believe in God I believe in God Almighty the Creator um he is the Alpha and Omega the only one um I know Satan has tried many times to be on his level and he has failed every time Satan has used many minions all throughout the centuries Satan always loses but um we serve I don't know about you but I serve a God of love God is love He's everlasting love. He's abundant. He's beautiful. Um, he's everywhere. So when I think of a narcissist, love bombing somebody, what I think of is someone, a master manipulator using love to completely destroy somebody How do you use love to destroy somebody? And furthermore, if God is love then wouldn't that mean that the narcissist is using God also to harm and abuse people let that marinate for a second I told you I get into these deep thoughts and I you know I can't keep them to myself I just want to you know let's do a video and see what everybody else thinks but love bombing is total utter abuse um I know devaluation is terrible because devaluation is basically the narcissist you know destroying your self-esteem behind closed doors the gas lighting projection um the backhanded comments to destroy your self-esteem the cheating all that happens in the devaluation you know the stonewalling the dog whistling all of that happens during devaluation a discard is just the straight up blunt in your face I hate you I'm cheating on you I'm about to force you to break up with me if not I'm gonna dump you you that the discard phase when they are not hiding it anymore they want you to feel the sting of the betrayal that's when the relationship is about to go up in flames but to me between love bombing between love bombing devaluation and discard I really think the love bombing phase is the worst because you have to be a horrible you know wait devaluation and discard you're showing me who you really are behind closed doors, right? The narcissist character is coming out during devaluation and discard. You're seeing them for who they really are during those phases. Okay. Remember there's three cycles to an abuse cycle for a narcissist, love bomb, devaluation, and discard devaluation and discard those two phases. You're seeing the narcissist true character behind closed doors. He might be hiding it from everybody else, but you get to see it. I believe love bombing is the absolute worst part of the cycle. And I'll tell you why. Love bombing to me is the worst because the narcissist's intentions are purely demonic. And as I stated earlier, God is love. If the God you serve is the same God I serve then he is he is an abundance of love he is love is everywhere it's everything love is gentle love is kind love is consistent so if God is love and the narcissist uses love to manipulate and finagle himself into your life then that would also mean that he's also using God to manipulate to get what he wants out of his victims because God is love and this is why so many people that marry pastors and ministers and deacons male and female male and female narcissists that are heavily into the church yeah because the female deaconess the female I know people that have dated and married female ministers and got their ass tore up too if you get caught up with a man or woman of god in the church and they're narcissists it's going to be the greatest mind **** ever because you would never think somebody of the church someone that goes to church every sunday hell let me take it a step further someone that goes to church all throughout the ******* week they're there for the finance committee meeting the building fund meeting they're there for choir practice they're in church every ******* day of the week and sunday but guess what they're master manipulators they're wolves in sheep's clothing where can a narcissist go and hide his horrible behavior and look like a saint the church so imagine all the people that married a minister a pastor a deacon what have you and found out as soon as they got married that they they got locked down by an abuser pretending to be a man or woman of god what a mind **** and i've talked to all types of people that have married you know men and women that's supposed to be of the church worst experience ever the devil hides in the pulpit you better believe it you know what type of person you gotta be to use the bible to use the church as a smoke screen to do your demonic work behind closed doors you know what type of low life you have to be so you know that's where I'm going with a love bombing. A narcissist uses love. He uses God to target innocent people with the agenda of securing them to get to their money or whatever he might need you for. He might need you to babysit his children. He's got kids with two other baby mothers and he sees you as nurturing. You might be a school teacher or a nurse and he's, he sees you're very empathetic and a caregiver so he he'll lock you down and use you to be his babysitter you know when it's his time to do visitation with his kids he's not going to watch the kids he's going to dump the kids on you or his mother and then he's going to run the streets with his other side chicks narcissists use all their victims they have multiple victims and each of those victims are providing them with some source some type of resource money sex drugs you know a place to stay sleep on my couch you know he can use this girl's car you know they use everybody and they have to love bomb to get to you in order to use you love bombing is the worst to me love bombing is abuse because you had to lie and pretend to be in love and you had a whole agenda to destroy somebody's life before using them that's wicked that's wicked um there's bible scripture i'm not off the top and i may be wrong. Y'all can quote me if I'm wrong. Y'all can correct me in the comment section. I believe it's First Corinthians chapter 14:33. If I'm wrong, please correct me. But I think this is it off the top. First Corinthians chapter 14:33. God is not the author of confusion. And what does the narcissist do once he is done love bombing you and he starts to devalue you? There's going to be, Listen, we all know during the love bombing phase, that is where you're getting the most sex. Y'all are sleeping together very frequently. Y'all are going out on dates. He might be buying you gifts, taking you out, you know, spoiling you, showing you off to the family. Oh, it's going so good. And he even told you he gonna put a ring on your finger. Y'all going to get married. You're floating on cloud nine. Love bombing feels amazing because the narcissist knows exactly what to say. He knows how to sleep with you, what your favorite sexual positions are, you know, what to buy you, how to, you know, give you cute nicknames. He knows how to finesse the **** out of his victims. Then when he knows that he's got his hooks deep in you, he knows you're not going nowhere. He knows you are madly, deeply in love. He's going to stop the love bombing and you're going to feel a shift in the energy. You're going to feel like something is off because his behavior is going to switch and he's going to begin the process of devaluation, making the small little backhanded comments about your weight, the way you cook your food, you know, the way you run your business, the way you know you dress. He doesn't like what you're wearing. He doesn't want you wearing makeup. He doesn't like your hairstyle. Then he starts to compare you to his exes. He starts to triangulate you against the women in his family. all those little things start to add up and and then he starts to gaslight you oh you're tripping you know you need to stop being so insecure he starts downplaying you know when you bring things to his attention that bother you narcissists lack the ability to have intelligent conversations because they're not deep thinkers they lack emotional intelligence they are what we call arrested development they're arrested in their thinking they're arrested in their emotional capabilities so they can't sit down it's like talking to a ******* third grader when you're trying to have a serious conversation it's not going to happen or they're either going to start you know argue with you they're going to gaslight you and bait you into an argument and you you're going to get more frustrated inconsistency this is where they get us and i want to caution y'all and you you spread this good information when someone is is trying to be serious with you and the first red flag when they start to become inconsistent with their behavior ladies especially these men because they don't communicate through words they communicate through their actions the moment he switches up that is your cue to walk the **** away there is no explanation needed there's no discussion because the way that he presented himself to you in the beginning when he was love bombing you he presented himself to be the knight in shining armor he sat there and listen to you complain about all your toxic exes and he knows damn well what hurts you and what doesn't hurt you. He's using everything against you. He's a grown ass man. He knows right from wrong. He's deliberately hurting you. He's sadistically hurting you. So when his behavior turns inconsistent, he goes from love bombing and then there's a quick shift and he starts devaluing you. That is your cue to get out. We stay way too long in these relationships when we should have been left a long time ago Love bombing is the worst type of abuse because this person is using God. They're using love and they have no intentions of loving you. They're just in it to use you and destroy you. And God's going to pay them back for that That's why you got to get rid of them so God can finish them off God bless y'all. Let's talk about it. This has been Spiritual Whistleblower