Do Not Take Care of Your Dying Narc Parents! Let Your Toxic Siblings Do It!! #npd #narcissist #narc

Let your siblings take care of your dying parents. Don't get involved. Walk away. Don't do ----. Your parents treated you like ---- your entire life. Now they need you to wipe their ass in the nursing home or if they're in hospice care. Now they want to call on the one child that they ******* abused the entire time. Nah, player. Call on your favorite child. You know damn well your toxic, abusive mother has a favorite child. Whether that's your spoiled, lazy-ass brother who refuses to pay bills or your gold-digging, lazy-ass ******* sister that feels entitled for everybody to take care of her. She doesn't want to work. She hates working. So mommy will buy her gifts in order to control her so that in exchange she has a place to live or whatever she needs. she don't want to work for ---- she rather just get it out of mommy yeah your mother and father they play favorites and usually the child that is the most spoiled let's just say okay I'll give you an example with my siblings I have a brother and sister and I'm the oldest my father's favorite child is my brother I do believe my brother is a narcissist um and my father has has trained my brother unfortunately uh to be enmeshed my brother will not cut my toxic narcissistic father off for ---- they have a toxic codependent enmeshed relationship and my brother knows my father is a piece of ---- father and he's toxic yet my father uh my brother refuses to cut my daddy off same thing with my sister she has a very codependent enmeshed relationship with my toxic narcissistic mother she knows my mother ain't about ---- she's trifling and abusive yet my sister will not um she has no integrity she chooses to stay connected and tied to my abusive mother in exchange for gifts and money and validation and that's the clue y'all i'm just going to tell y'all off the rip when you see an adult have a very close um enmeshed relationship with their narcissistic parents and they know their parents are toxic nine times out of ten that young adult is also a narcissist narcissists don't cut ties with their abusive parents they just don't, they'll talk ---- about them in the streets uh they might you know fall out for a couple of months but they always go back and maintain that toxic relationship with their parents knowing their parents ain't ---- so you will usually be the one child that's isolated and you will not deal with mom or dad because you refuse to enable their abusive behavior and staying in a broken environment, the same environment that you were raised in where your family broke you. You can't heal in the same environment that broke you. You can't change or unlearn the toxic parent of the toxic patterns that your parents taught you unless you remove yourself out of that toxic environment. So you move away from your parents in order to go to therapy and heal your siblings will not they'll talk ---- about your toxic parents but I guarantee they won't cut them motherfuckers off because they're just as ******* narcissistic and toxic as your parents so what ends up happening as your parents get old and age and their health starts you know falling apart deteriorating they start having chronic health issues they know your siblings are irresponsible they know your siblings are cheapskates they don't want to spend money on people they like to take money from people and spend it on themselves your siblings are some self-centered selfish money hungry greedy motherfuckers that's how your parents train them your parents spoiled them remember so your siblings are highly narcissistic self-centered they're about pocketing money money they want to spend on themselves and nobody else so if mom and dad gets old and age and they start getting sick that means they're going to have a lot of expenses medical expenses nursing home transportation utility bills rent all that yeah and not only that your parents are going to need somebody if you don't want to stick around you got to pay a home aid a CNA a health care worker to come make visits to take care of your parents if you're going to do it like that somebody's got to pay for that so because your parents have pushed you away because they've abused you your entire life they know you were the most responsible one they groomed you when you were a little child you were taking care of your siblings you they turned you into an adult before you turned a teenager before you became a teenager you were cooking meals and taking care of your ******* siblings you were the third adult in the ******* household so you you had your childhood taken away you grew up fast no thanks to your ******* parents forcing you to take care of your siblings but your siblings don't have those same survival skills that you have and by the way this is called parentification when when your parents turn you into a parent and you're still a child your childhood is robbed from you so guess what when mom and dad get old and age and they start having all these chronic health issues and they need a very responsible adult preferably one of their children to take care of them i can assure you they're not gonna want your brother and sister they know your brother and sister are ******* spoiled and self-centered because they're the ones who ******* taught them to be that way they made you to be the responsible one so guess what they're going to want the more responsible child to take care of them in their last days. They know your siblings are self-centered and don't want to take care. They don't want to take care of themselves. Lazy bastards. They don't want to spend money and pay your parents medical bills. They want to put the money in their pockets, they're cheapskates, gold diggers, money hungry leeches. That's how your parents raised them. No, but not you. You're not selfish. So when your parents get old they're gonna come sniffing around for you they know you're the more responsible one they know you would take care of the bills and handle ---- and see that things are taken care of properly because you've been taking care of the whole ******* family since you was 11 years old you've been taking care of your siblings and everybody when i got my first job in high school i gave my mother my whole paycheck to put food in the house because she refused to work with her fat ass I've been taking care of my siblings so your parents have trained you to be a ******* parent before you even grew up they're gonna need your ass when they're on their deathbed they're gonna need your ass when they sitting up in hospice on their last breath be it cancer a stroke whatever they're gonna want to call on the more responsible child because they raised some ******* brats and their plan backfired they just knew that you'd be sticking around you'd be there in the last days and you cut them off I'm not taking care of no you abused me my entire childhood and throughout adulthood no you're cut the **** off I'm not taking care of mama or papa no you go to your favorite ******* child and make arrangements with your favorite ******* child let's see how that goes you raise the ******* brat so let that bratty child come out they motherfucking pockets and pay your medical expenses make sure that everything's set up and good to go in the nursing home let your favorite child do all of that leave the responsible child alone the one that you bullied your entire ******* life nah you can't do your children any type of way and expect them to be there for you in your last days. It don't work like that. Let your siblings do the dirty work. Let them get their hands dirty. They got to play catch up. You already put the work in. You had your childhood robbed from you. Your work is done. It's just beginning for your siblings. Let them wipe mommy and daddy's ass and put them in a nursing home and pay all the medical expenses. That's not your job. Y'all have a blessed day.