THE #1 PROBLEM WITH BABY BOOMERS #narcisist #babyboomer #oprahwinfrey #narcissisticabuse

Okay. I'm back on Oprah Winfrey's ass, honey. I think I'm about to make 10 more videos on this whole ******* no contact being a trend podcast that she just did. Baby, when I tell you I am all types of triggered first and foremost. Okay. This is my second video on this. I don't know how many more videos I'm going to create, but as many as needed, if it'll help people to heal and to validate those of us who went no contact because we had to it was it was the last resort bitch let's talk about the baby boomers in my opinion the most narcissistic generation uh next to their predecessors their parents the silent generation and by the way oprah is in fact a baby boomer I digress and if you didn't catch Oprah's behavior throughout this podcast extremely narcissistic very covert covertly narcissistic passive-aggressive standing on the fence trying to play both sides when she too is a victim she should know all too well what that pain feels like and that her mama never validated her she turned into her narcissistic mama but that's a whole another video see when a woman is covertly narcissistic and she has children let's just say she gives birth to two daughters she's going to create two different versions she's going to create a daughter that's just like her a duplicate narcissist and she's going to create another child that she's going to bully and ---- on oprah although her mama abandoned her and and treated her poorly oprah became her mama oprah is now the abusive person that her mama was so you know that's where she gets off gaslighting her audience that's why she had to turn her comment section off she's grifting and using no contact you know to to drive up ratings and get views and and make money off of it but it does in no shape or form is it about healing and helping others to heal. This is a grift and scam to her. That's another video. The problem in my opinion the number one problem with the baby boomer generation they have normalized accepting abuse as a means of survival. They, they, they have normalized it into the ground. They cannot function unless they are manipulating people and using people and when you call them out for it or try to reason they deflect or they play victim and they have done this with their children. They did not create children. I've said this a million times, they don't create children out of love. They create children because it's a trend. It's about the appearance the facade the optics of looking like you have a beautiful family. Everything is about image with a narcissist and I can assure you that's why these motherfucking boomers created children that they didn't love. They wanted the appearance of a healthy, beautiful looking family, but they didn't want to put in the work or the commitment to raise the children with love. They just said, **** it. You know, if I don't put a roof over my child's head and give them food and clothing, I could go to jail. I can get in trouble. And Lord knows if I get in trouble and arrested and my children get taken from me, that'll **** up the illusion that I'm a good parent, so they even resented the fact that they had to take care of us financially but they will they will take every chance they get to throw that ---- in your face to justify that they were there for you as a parent, I think the ****, not the baby boomer generation, they most of them were abused by their parents and grandparents, the silent generation, and they've normalized it so much that that's their number one excuse that they tell their children when we raise complaints when we are trying to be seen and heard by our baby boomer parents and we try to have a decent discussion between two adults not just mother child, father son, it's adult and adult respectfully. The boomers will not ever acknowledge their kids as grown adults. You will always be a little child in their ******* eyes that they can talk down to and not respect see I wish I could have went on this podcast and told Oprah to her face. They wouldn't want me on that podcast. I would end up getting kicked out, but I would tell Oprah, like Oprah, no contact is not a trend. It's, it's a final decision because when you have a narcissist for a parent and most baby boomers are narcissists period, um, they, they, they will not try to hear you. And what ends up happening, your mental health takes a beating your physical health. you know, I say this so many times, you will develop autoimmune disease. You will become chronically ill and sick from the narcissistic abuse. Let me go deeper and darker with this. When you have a malignant narcissist for a mother or father, their number one goal is to drive you to off yourself. If you are the scapegoat child, see, they usually have one favorite child or two favorite children and they'll glorify and put those children on a pedestal but there's also a targeted child that they choose to bully and if that said child grows up resenting their narcissistic parent and you know they're trapped and trying to get out or they either have gotten free the malignant narcissistic parent that baby boomer will hate that child for escaping so you know this is based on my experience and the experiences of others who have sat and talked to me we all have come into agreeance that your narcissistic parent, when they hate their child, they want you to off yourself. And there's three ways that you can off yourself. If you continue to take the abuse, you can become chronically ill. Some people develop cancer and pass away. You can off yourself through suicide because when you don't have a support system and your narcissistic abusive parent has isolated you and turned the family against you and you feel like you don't have a way out. Yeah. Suicide is, is the last resort for many, or you can escape and marry another narcissist. And the only reason you marry or, or get into a relationship with another narcissist is because they have the same personality as, as the person who raised you. See, we attract what we are familiar with. And when you are raised by a narcissist, you, you, your, that abuse has been drilled and programmed into your head for the first 20, 30 years of your life. So of course, you're going to attract a spouse who behaves the same way as mom and dad and your parents know that and your parents will sit back very sadistically watch you get dragged and and destroyed in your own marriage with kids your if your mom is a narcissist she will pressure you to have grandchildren just to watch you suffer because your daddy made her suffer your daddy mistreated and abused your mama so now because she's male-centered and sick and very misogynistic and jealous of you, she will pressure you to have grandchildren and she'll lie and tell her friends and family, Oh, I'm going to be a grandmother. But behind closed doors, she's setting her own daughter up to fail. She's not going to help you with the, with the baby. She's not going to help you grant. She's not going to help you babysit or any of that. She's going to watch you struggle. And she's going to watch your spouse dog walk you because why your daddy dog walked her. And instead of breaking a generational cycle of trauma, your mama should want better for you she should encourage you not to have babies or get married but to live a fruitful life as a single woman and get money and be happy trust me when i tell you my mama did the same thing my mother begged for a grandchild only to set me up to struggle as a single mother that's why i don't **** with her yeah my mama is a baby boomer by the way so oprah um yeah the baby boomers are highly narcissistic and they push their children to the point of no contact. It's a means of survival and your therapy and healing will not start until you go no contact because if you continue to go back and forth and try to get the approval and validation of your narcissistic baby boomer parents, they will prolong your trauma. Thus, you will need more therapy once you decide to cut them off.