WHY THIS HURTS A NARCISSIST For The REST Of Their Lives.

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Um, yeah, a lot of it is geared towards thriving and moving forward and, um, you know, being the warrior that you are. So check out mommy. So true merchandise. And, um, yeah, guys, you know, I just want to take a few moments to talk to you on this Friday. And, um, this conversation goes a lot into, I think someone said something about talking about how to defeat the narcissist. I did see that. I saw that high-tech gamers. I think I saw that question in there. Don't worry. So when we talk about defeating a narcissist, I think this is a great conversation for you to hear and understand if you have not heard it before. Something you need to plug into your brain because the biggest part of healing post-narcissistic abuse, getting past this, getting through this is reframing your mind about a lot of the things. Because if you've been in this abuse, you've been programmed and it's time to deprogram a lot of things. And as you deprogram, you start to defeat the narcissist by fault, just by natural, because naturally you're opposite of the narcissist. So once you catch on to their game, once you become educated you become empowered and through your empowerment you start to kick their ass you start to kick their ass so um i want to talk to y'all today as you saw the title this um as you saw the title this is just so true and so real there's only one thing that truly affects a narcissist because a narcissist is a narcissist and the fact that they lack empathy the fact that they're not that smart they're really not the fact that they don't live in truth they lack understanding they're not in the reality of the world plus so many other things contributes to the reason why a lot of them lack so much in their life but being that they are narcissists they don't care there's only one thing that affects a narcissist that hurts a narcissist that makes a narcissist bleed and for you the person on the other end being pulled in as a victim being victimized this is your ultimate weapon this is your ultimate weapon this is to me the biggest way to defeat a narcissist and I know that because this causes something that they can't come back from you got to remember when you're talking about a narcissist or when you're dealing with a narcissist you can never forget that the core foundation of this person is that there is no me. There is no self. They're not real. The person you got introduced to, the person you fell in love with, the person you were sleeping with wasn't real and is not real. Hi, Elisa Williams. Hello. Good evening to you. Like this shirt says, and I didn't even intentionally wear this shirt for this message, but it actually just kind of goes with the message because the narcissist is a fake. They are fake. Nobody in the world of the narcissist knows the real them the only version of what they know is this this this horribly flawed person with this horrible personality this disordered personality but there's no real there's no real sense of who this person is because the narcissist is is this creature that's designed to go around and mirror everybody there's a little bit of everybody in how they behave and in who they are and in this person that you fell in love with. You fell in love with somebody who came off bubbly, friendly, outgoing, personable, but little did you know they were mirroring maybe the last supply. They were mirroring maybe you to pull you in. Narcissist has no me. They have no self. This is vital for everyone who's in a narcissistic relationship, been in one trying to heal, you got to remember that and you got to always bring yourself back to remembering this was a fake. This person was a fake. The situation was a fake. Matter of fact, I was in a manipulation ship. I cannot call this a relationship. There's no way. This person never saw me for me. They got excited at what they saw of me and mirrored it so that they can lure me into their world and ruin me because what they were mirroring, what they liked about me, they also hate it because I am the only one who is capable of exhibiting that type of light. So being that they are narcissists, they thought they were in love, but really they hated what they encountered. And you all know this is real because you felt it. They call it the devaluation stage. They call it being discarded. That's the narcissist treating you with complete hatred, the way they really wanted to treat you in the beginning, but they had to cover the mask up. They had to pretend because there's no way you would have given them a chance if they didn't come the way they came. They had to make it seem like they were someone else. They had to make you think that they wanted to be married. They had to make you feel like they wanted children, like they want this great world, this great life. And maybe they did want that, but they're narcissists. And so wanting that isn't enough. Wanting that isn't enough. Wanting that is just potential. And so a lot of us saw that and fell in love with that potential, but we learned that was not enough. That is not enough. Because just because they wanted that don't mean they could give it to a real one. Because if you know a narcissist, you know there was no way they were capable of giving that to a real one. They talked about it, but they lied about it. That's what we know as future faking. They lied about it. It was never real for them. It sounded good and it looked good but at the same time they hated you because you're the only one who really got that business mindset you're the only one who actually really love people you you you can actually build a business because you love people it takes communication and being being a people person to be a successful business owner so many different qualities that you came in the door with and you were hated for but because they are narcissists they pretended to love you for it and on top of that. They pretended or they used you to mirror someone who they aren't. That's why a lot of us become betrayed. We feel like we were ultimately betrayed because it turns out to be nothing like what we thought it was in the beginning. The story does not end how it started at all. You encounter this situation and you're on this love high and then all of a sudden you get dropped on your face. And it's like, whoa, that's because the person you were with was never the person you thought they were. And eventually it became exhausting to keep faking with you. It became exhausting to keep pretending to be like-minded with you. That's why arguments started becoming crazier and crazier and crazier. All of this is all because this person only exists in what they see in you. They only exist in what they see in you. The narcissist fears and hates being made irrelevant. You want to know how to defeat a narcissist? You want to know what will hurt them for the rest of their life? This is what it is right here. To be made irrelevant, to be left behind, to be cut off and someone really gone no contact, like for real, for real, like for real, for real no contact zero contact you're not hearing from me you're not hearing my voice you're not even hearing what I got you're not you don't know nothing about me what I got going on it's just I am dead to you and you're dead to me I am dead to you and you are dead to me do you know how destructive that is for a narcissist when they need people to feel like a person they need somebody in order to feel like a somebody this is the only thing that hurt a narcissist is for them to lose whatever person they thought they were programming to be their dummy their doormat their primary supply the one they thought would never walk away would never leave oh we got married so you ain't going nowhere oh we had kids so you're staying you're sticking around nah if you start making the narcissist irrelevant because you start to pay attention to what you know about a narcissist and you learn their programming and you start to embed it in your mind that this person is a fake, you can start becoming unbothered, which shows the narcissist that they are irrelevant. You are irrelevant to my life. You are irrelevant in my world. And you mean completely nothing to me. To feel this from the very person that made them feel alive makes them feel dead. Because believe it or not, you make a narcissist feel alive. They need you to survive. Man, every narcissist fears and hates to be made irrelevant, to be taken off someone's radar. You're not thinking about me. You don't care anymore. You're not worried about what I got going on. You don't care if I got a new supply. You're not looking back. You're not checking my social media posts. Damn, you're really uninterested in what I got going on, right? Wow. Honestly, a lot of us who dated narcissists or were in relationships, manipulationships with narcissists, had we known some of the things we now know, we would have started treating them with a lot of irrelevance early on. And the relationship would have fell apart earlier than it did. Some of the marriages would have never happened because the key ingredient, you want to defeat a narcissist. You cut them off. You treat them like they're dead. You make you no longer make them a factor in your life, a problem in your life. You don't add their name to sentences. You don't mistakenly give them a call. You don't even have their number in your cellular device anymore. When people bring them up, who? I'm sorry, who? I don't recall that name. That's the past. Oh, such and such. Oh, that's somebody I used to know. This is what hurts them for the rest of their life. When you can stand on no contact and never look back to that narcissistic monster. I don't care how a narcissist is sitting somewhere making it look. They are beyond salty. They are beyond salty. Depending on what type of narcissist, they're going to make it look like, oh, I'm good. I got a new supply. And if they got a new supply, they probably are good because they got somebody else holding them up. They got somebody else blind to their wicked ways. They got somebody else enduring their torture, sitting there, letting them call them all kinds of names. They got somebody else waking up to that halitosis ass breath. But let me tell y'all something about people with bad breath real quick. I've noticed a lot of narcissistic people have bad breath. The reason why bad breath happens with people who it's like a problem for, these are people who hold nasty thoughts in their hearts and in their minds. And it manifests physically in their breath. They don't ever have nothing good to say about people. And they're selfish. It's all about me, me, me, me, me. And all that gets held up in here because it's coming from inside. Their dark ass gut is deep, but it's real. It's deep, but it's real. A narcissist needs people. They need someone to help them function, to keep them functioning. And if you're not doing the job because you started making them irrelevant, it, it's on to the next. It's on to the next because they need the next. They're going to spend the rest of their life messing around with the next one and the next one and the next one and the next one. And that hurts actually, even though they are a narcissist, that actually hurts because it adds more and more and more to the trauma. It adds more and more and more to their narcissistic depression. Now it's more and more and more time spent in self-loathing because that is not the life they ultimately want. It's sad, but it's true. They just can't keep a relationship. They can't hold a relationship together. But ultimately, there's nothing more defeating and more painful than someone actually mustering up the strength and walking away from a narcissist after they went through hell with them. Because while you're going through hell with the narcissist, the narcissist thinks that's it for you. Oh, you're done. I got you right where you're at for life. You ain't never going to get out of that. You ain't going to never be able to get back up and fix that credit again. You're never going to be able to lose that weight. You ain't going to never build no confidence after all the B-I-T-C-Hs I've called you because in their mind, they've abused you so much verbally, emotionally, maybe even physically to the point where they think they are all you have. You're so beat down, you're never going to be able to get up but when that is not the case and you're able to to bounce back it hurts not only was this person not able to hold on to a fake identity that doesn't belong to them because they stole yours but they weren't able to hold on to you and use you as a puppet for the rest of their life so they lost big time they lost big time being a narcissist they lost supply they have played with their image which is all they care about protecting now this is another marriage they got to explain and lie about how it how it fell apart because when they met you remember they lied about prior relationships for a reason make them irrelevant somebody asked earlier in the chat how do you defeat a narcissist you make them irrelevant you find a way to get out of it to disconnect this from this cord you find a way to stop allowing them to drain you the only way to do that is to get away from it it really truly honestly is if you're really dealing with a narcissist and if you are really an empath if you're really opposite from a narcissist there is no way you can thrive with them not in the same house not in the same room not on the same block you literally need to change your environment you literally need to learn how to ghost these people you want to hurt them you want to see them hurt cut them off and stand on that ---- don't cut them off and then fall for a hoover next year no cut them off and then then then never allow them back in. Never allow them back in. Let them bang on that door until their hand falls off. Let them hoover you until they feel stupid for doing it. Let them smear campaign your name. So what? Let the flying monkeys enjoy flying like monkeys. Hell, let them enjoy being narcissistic together while you make them irrelevant. The biggest key to getting away from narcissistic abuse, the narcissistic abuse cycle, the biggest way to defeat a narcissist is to hurt a narcissist. and the only way to hurt a narcissist is to stop entertaining the narcissist. Stop caring to respond to the narcissist. Stop talking to the narcissist. Stop talking about the narcissist. Move away from the narcissist. Shut off all communication with the narcissist. That is the only way because while you're doing that, guess what's happening? You get to heal. That's what makes it hurt the narcissist you get to heal you are actually not broken you are actually able to take whatever's left pick it up and rebuild that hurts because they're stuck broken no matter how many times they move on no matter how many more relationships they get to get into they're still a damn narcissist they're still broken they still got to manipulate everybody they still got to trick people to be in love with them but because you treated them like they are irrelevant because you said I want nothing at all to do with you and I can tell you better than I can show you so you're never gonna hear from me again that hurts you're not one of those supplies that they can put on that disgusting narcissistic trophy shelf that they have collecting all these different supplies throughout their life you are not on there you didn't make it you didn't make the cut you didn't make the cut you figured it out you figured it out because the fact is you only exist in what they see in you you are a mirror to them so guess what once you take that away they disappear y'all they disappear they are no longer relevant in any kind of way that pedestal we put them on stupidly we stupidly put them on that pedestal once they become irrelevant there is no pedestal yeah I did say that but you know what I lied I spoke too soon I said that before I got to know that behind that mask was a demonic creature I take it back you're not a real man you're not a good man I take it back because I promised y'all in the beginning we fed them a whole lot of validating comments and words and they had us fooled we were telling them that you are the king that I've been praying for you're the queen that I've been praying for not knowing damn well queen what you are a bad representation of queen you make queens look bad you make queens look bad once you take the mirror away from them they disappear this is when you step back and you start to heal and you see wow there was nothing queenish about that girl oh ---- what was i in love with what did i see oh my god was it just lust was i really just lusting after the devil oh ---- the ultimate wake up they disappear everything that you thought was is no longer there because it was never there it was never there the mask comes off your eyes too you're like oh shoot what did I see in this person you want to defeat a narcissist go ahead and make them disappear make them irrelevant you don't mean nothing at all to me you don't mean nothing at all to me because I know what you are I know what you are and what you are is a confused sick demonic troubled noodle brain narcissist that's what you are and this is what will hurt a narcissist for the rest of their life someone mentioned on a couple lives ago they fear abandonment they fear for people to leave them behind even though they abandon people but they only abandon people because they're cowards but they are afraid to be alone they are afraid to be looked at as the person that they truly are which is this broken baby make them irrelevant don't waste your time with them don't waste your time explaining yourself to them. Somebody said he has grease spots in his clothes. What are y'all talking about? I'm going through these comments. Oh, man. I'm sick of these hound dogs with spider legs. Queen Leandra, we missed you, girl. They take bird baths and have gummy bear teeth. I'm telling you, halitosis. I'm telling you. Just completely empty. Completely empty. We make these people feel good. We make them feel good. Some of them, they were so blessed to have ever met someone as beautiful as we are. Standing next to us made them look so good. Without us, they're nothing. Not that maybe they're ugly, but that's how they feel inside. They feel like they're nothing. They may not own up to that, but that's how they feel. They feel ugly. There's zero self-esteem. There is zero confidence here. And being the monster that they are, instead of getting help to fix that crazy ass problem, get a therapist to fix their own trauma, they rather break your confidence. That makes them feel good. So how dare you not do what you need to do and make them disappear by not pouring into them no more, not giving them that supply that they need. Everything that you give them is supply. Even if you're arguing, trying to defend yourself, you're giving them supply because you're arguing. It's not going on. It's not going nowhere. It's not going anywhere. There is no arguing with a narcissist. You already lost. You already lost. I'm looking at these comments, y'all. Let me see. Get some comments of the day out here before I let y'all go. But no, it's real. It is real. Just don't do nothing when it comes to them, says Corinne. Hey, Corinne. What's up, sis? Happy to see you tonight. Happy to see you tonight. Made them think too highly of themselves. Yeah, we did, Corinne. We did. We said a lot. We did a lot. You know, we really made them feel like they were up there, you know, and too bad they're not normal people because you should be able to uplift people, pour into people. You should be able to make someone feel mighty. If they're a king, they're a king. If they're a queen, address it, acknowledge it. But the narcissist is a fake and they come, you know, and throw rules over our eyes and deceive us, throw us off, come with these games. But after a while, a lot of us are not going for these games and they don't know what they're walking into until they walk into it. Because a lot of us woke up and we changed our moods. We changed the way we spoke. We changed our approach and the narcissist was confused. Some of you have went no contact and moved on with your life in a way where the narcissist is confused. They don't understand how you left after 40 years of imprisonment with them. They're still trying to figure this out, even though they're trying to act like they're happy. No, they're not. No, they're not. You were literally the air they breathed. I mean, let's be real. They don't have the capability to make it in this world. We're talking about somebody who can't even introspect, somebody who can't even look within themselves and say okay this is wrong let me make it right without without wanting to get benefits out of it you've got to make them irrelevant once you know what a narcissist is once you've identified what you're dealing with you have got to let them go you've got to make them irrelevant even if you're living with them right now make them irrelevant just because you're staying with them don't mean you got to kiss their narcissistic ass no you still got to let them know who the real boss is who really run the show who's really in control how unbothered you can really become because you're on to their game and you know that that's what they're doing they're playing a game become irrelevant man I'm telling you you've got to make the narcissist disappear the only person that can do that is us it's us we're the only ones that make that make them feel like they are somebody because they are nobody like I said a narcissist has no me there is no self there that's why you don't waste your time arguing with them you don't waste your time trying to get revenge and you know you just move on and you focus on your life because that's somebody who don't even know who the hell they are so what are you doing wasting your time wasting your words being hopeful for change they don't know who the hell they are and they are in their 40s and their 50s all hope is lost baby their mama couldn't do it jesus couldn't do it ain't no way in hell you're gonna do it not at all thank you so much for the super chat the Black Bella oh thank you so much for the love i appreciate you it's true yours truly said it arguing with them is a waste of time it is it is a waste of time because doing it only hurts you you're dealing with somebody who don't give a damn about what you're arguing about your points don't matter their points don't make sense you just keep running around in circles going back to stuff that's irrelevant old ---- it's like you got to really put in your mind a narcissist is a fake a narcissist is a fake and I have to really become unbothered with who they are how they are and make them irrelevant in my life I have to make them irrelevant in my life I have to I have to be able to get into position to where the narcissist feels that that they are irrelevant in my life you've got to make them feel it oh man I love that you guys be helping each other in these comments Elisa Williams I see you do I see you i see you i love it callie girl i just got hoovered on 131 after four months since the last hoover 7.5 months seven and a half months since final discard these people are dogs you're right alicia alicia welcome welcome they are they are if you don't learn how to make a narcissist irrelevant they will kill you with sadness they will kill you with depression because you're the one who cares. You're the one who bonded with the narcissist. They never bonded with you. They don't care. They never did, and they never will. So you want to save yourself? You want to stop hurting. Learn to become unbothered. Learn to go and stick with no contact. Even if it's your family, I'm telling you something so serious here, and I hope I'm helping somebody, because it is life or death, and some of us are so empathetic, we allow our love to lead us into death, and we cannot continue to live like that. We allow our empathy to take these narcissistic apologies and we cannot continue to live like that. We must make these people irrelevant in our lives or they will continue to manipulate us for full control in ways that you won't even notice they're doing it. When you know your parent is a narcissist, you don't play games and try to stick around. You learn how to deal with it from a distance if you can, from a distance if you can, because they're so manipulative, strategic and it's draining to deal with them it's draining to deal with them and as they age it becomes harder it becomes more difficult the only reason why many of you will be hated and I will always say that for those who are no contact those who have cut some narcs off you're probably hated talked about they're smearing your name left and right they're keeping your children from you all that stuff. They cannot stand you because you allow them to feel how irrelevant they really are. Even when they're living next to you, even when they're right there in your presence, you make them feel irrelevant and they hate you for that because you show the power within you. The power within you is no matter if you're in my presence or not, I know how to ignore you. You want to know the silent killer? Ignoring a narcissist. Forget blocking. Blocking is cool. blocking is good but I'm the queen of ignore I know how painful it is for a narcissist to sit there and know that you're ignoring their ass I ain't gotta block you I can just ignore you you gonna end up blocking yourself because you're gonna get tired of being unnoticed by me I'm not even going to press that message so you can see that I read it I'm never going to read it I don't want to read it I don't care to read it I don't give a damn what you have to say keep that ---- to yourself you should have explained that ---- five years ago when we were together don't hoover me a year later with a with a 10 page text message I'm not opening that I'm not creeping up on your social media so you can see that I'm interested in and I'm looking and I'm like I don't care I might see you in the grocery store and I'm gonna walk right past you like this like I didn't even see you we might be sitting at the light together got the same red light and I'm not and I know it's you I know it's your car I'm not turning I'm not turning my head this is me the whole time till that light turns green and i'm hitting that gas and i'm not turning left i'm not looking back i'm not looking over my shoulder you are irrelevant i don't know who the hell you are period and some of you that's your demeanor that's your mood and a narcissist cannot stand you for that and that is okay call you the queen or the king of gray rocking because by nature you will gray rock the hell out of anybody who thought they were gonna knock you silly because the thing about being able to defeat a narcissist what hurts them the most is when you understand how to handle them. Ignoring them paints that picture of, I don't have to accept your energy. I don't want no parts of that narcissistic ass energy. I'm cool. I'ma respectfully reject you every time, every time. And I might do it in a very nice and soft way. Shoot. Goodbye. Irrelevant. You don't mean nothing. This'll hurt them for the rest of their life. You never turning back Queen Leandria these Motel Six roaches get on my nerves they're everywhere they're everywhere says Alicia Walker they are we're everywhere too though we're everywhere too though they here and so are we we just gotta wake up i love um the the chat is on replay so i'm gonna go back and look through this because i see there's a lot of interesting chats in here can't help them walk away hey Robert Frederick he says can't help them walk away if you're still living with them listen they actually tell on themselves they do listen very closely say less listen more the ex-covert told me she couldn't let me in emotionally 38 years i wasted till i woke up wow that's deep thank you so much for sharing thank you so much for sharing hey eddie salas what's up you said that they get ed yeah he has it and he's out here showing off his disability says april oh my god oh my god yes this time he wrote i want to say i'm very sorry for all the dot dot dot i didn't read past that yeah it's like save that baloney for for somebody who wants it like what these fake ass apologies y'all nah keep keep staying firm on your no contact if you got discarded, take it personal and use that as no contact ammo. A narcissist has the audacity to discard you after the fight you just put up for that narcissistic ass relationship. Take that as never again. Take that as when I hear from them calling me a month later, when I see them trying to DM me a year later, take that as treat them like they're dead. I don't know you because you left me hanging. You left me for dead. I wasn't in your radar when I was trying to love on you. So, hey, I know that love doesn't live inside of you. So keep that ---- over there. Go ahead and make them disappear. Make them disappear. Somebody said they are for the streets and communities, community property. Mika Love, what's up? Good evening. Good evening. Oh man, I love it. Brother Hype Man, Nerd for the Word, I see you in the chats today. Man, I love it all. You guys, it's always. The engagement is amazing. I appreciate y'all joining the live, man. But it's really true. It's really true. Like Robert says, watch out for the fake emotional crying. It doesn't mean anything. A narcissist is a fake. They're fake at everything. They're just not realistic. You cannot take them serious. And to be honest, when a narcissist gets to apologizing and snot dripping and I'm saved now, I believe in church now. I'm going to God. I'm in prayer. I'm fasting. I bought a bible like all of that, all these excuses I got a therapist, no it doesn't work like that there are narcissists, it doesn't work, it just doesn't work like that, don't fall for it and they will go to the furthest extent to really make it sound good but they only do that because they are in desperate need of supply in that time, just think of it as a crackhead in need of a fix at that moment. They're willing to lie on their dead mama if they have to, just to get you in, just to get you in one more day, one more night. Don't fall for it. Robert said it, y'all. We told y'all. You got to be unbothered. That's the antidote. That's how you heal too. You got to start becoming unbothered. You got to start accepting the truth, accept the facts, and become I'm unbothered, y'all. It was good talking to you guys tonight. I appreciate all of y'all on this lovely Friday. I want y'all to go and enjoy the rest of it, you know, wherever you're at, what you're doing. I want you to enjoy your weekend too, you know, but I appreciate those that came in. Thank you to all my survivors and thrivers in the chat, sharing the knowledge and counseling folks in the chat and helping them stay on top of their game because people need it. People need the awareness. people need the motivation, people need the encouragement so I really appreciate those of you who are here being um a source of strength to others who need it, who need it because a lot of people need it you know and um gosh thank you guys for listening to me, being an ear, giving me the time and the opportunity to talk to y'all and share these words of wisdom, I really pray it helps someone. And I really pray it keeps us survivors going. Look forward to another live. I'll be back Monday night, guys, Monday night at 8 p.m. Eastern time. So good to see you all tonight. All the people who were here, my day ones, love you all. Look forward to seeing you Monday night live. Shout out to my new subscribers, to all of my new people. Don't forget, check out the merchandise if you're interested. The link will be in the description box for you. Life coaching sessions if you're available is there reach out to me if you have any questions but shout out to all my warriors and my real ones y'all it was so nice talking to you all um if i didn't get to your comments don't worry this this chat is going to be in the live replay but um love you all stay blessed stay true keep your head up keep pushing through keep thriving forward and keep loving on you all right this is what's going to hurt them for the rest of their life because they're going to see it. They're going to see that they couldn't destroy you when you're out here living and glowing. You're out here doing amazing without them, without them. That's the biggest part. All right, guys. Love y'all. Stay blessed. Until next time. Bye.