Your Mother & Sister Measure Their “Level” of Success by Getting a Man

Your mother and sister think that getting a man is the biggest prize or biggest accolade a woman can have in her life. That's because your mama and sister are pick-me's. You understand? See, your mama tried to instill in all of her daughters that her level of success is measured by whether or not she can get a man, keep a man, and bonus points, get him to marry you. That's what mama taught her daughters. Not college, not a successful six-figure, seven-figure business. Mama really believes in her heart that a woman's value is measured by whether or not she can get a man, keep a man and bonus get him to marry you bonus bonus and provide for you okay that's because mom is a male-centered pick me but see if there are multiple daughters if you have sisters all of y'all are gonna um be forced to accept mom's uh grooming and teachings unless you escape you're gonna escape and your sister's gonna be stuck and your sister's gonna think just like your mama mama's a narcissist and therefore mama's going to train and groom your sister or sisters to also be narcissistic and once you understand the psychology behind female narcissists female sociopaths they are extremely codependent and their value because they're so insecure they tie their value to whether or not they can get a man and keep a man even if he's a low-down piece of ---- a serial cheater pedophile predator they don't care they just need to be able to say I got a man I got a husband I got a fiance look at the ring on my finger meanwhile they're miserable the entire time let me explain something to you your measure of success in who you are should not be tied to whether or not you can get a man your mother taught you wrong your mother taught you wrong and what's so ******* crazy about the way your mama thinks and your sister they actually think women are jealous of them and the fact that they're in a relationship or toxic marriage they really will get out here and falsely accuse women, single women, women in their family, their close girlfriends they think everybody is jealous of their messy toxic situations with these men they don't even like these men, I guarantee your mama don't even like sleeping in the same bed with the nigga if she's sleeping in the bed, they sleep in separate bedrooms or separate houses, separate homes. Even your mama just wants a married title so she can feel validated as a woman because she's deeply insecure, she wants to be able to proudly announce to single women and the women in her family, women her community, "Oh, I'm married, I'm better than you" whole time she know the nigga is trash, he's dirt, scumbag, predator, cheater, cheap with his money ain't tricking like he used to, but she gonna hold on to him for dear life just for the sake of feeling validated as a woman, that's how she measures her value by her married title to a piece of trash man, and you know what she's going to teach your sister the same way. Understand this your mama and sisters are ******* delusional, they are losers, they are losers, you understand you want to know what a loser bitch is in your family? Look at the male-centered women, the women that center their lives around having a man measuring their value by whether or not they can get a ring on their finger. Those are loser bitches. There are so many other amazing ways that you can get out here and make your mark in the world without a man and be successful at it. Baby, my resume is like 20 pages long and it was done without a man. There is no man, not even my father, that can sit up and say he helped me with anything. There is no man out here who can say he funded my lifestyle, he funded my education not even my daddy, I did it, so don't sit up and believe your mama and sister for one minute that your value or your measure of success should be tied to the fact of whether or not you can get a ring on your finger that's bullshit them bitches are miserable I guarantee you they're unhappy with the niggas they got I promise you they're not happy they're not being provided for and kept like you think they are i guarantee you they they gotta work jobs they gotta do something because the nigga is not funding them a hundred percent but they will hold on to that man for dear life just to have a conversation with a single woman and say i got a man i got a fiance i got a husband oh really tell me what type of nigga he is and i'll tell you what type of bitch you are because if he's trash and a cheater and broke you just as dusty and pathetic as he is y'all are on the same level and you sitting here trying to convince me that you're better than me because you got a man and I don't kick rocks y'all stop letting your mama and sister play with you you shouldn't even be talking to them what you should be doing is cutting them off and get out here and win win at life stay consistent don't even look back because they're watching you while they're stuck over here with miserable men they're watching you get ahead in life without a man and they're going to hate you for that they are going to be so mad that you were able to get so much accomplished without a ******* man and they're still going to falsely accuse you of being jealous and envious of them because they're that ******* delusional they're narcissists narcissists narcissists live in constant delusion honey i promise you stay away from your mama and your sister and level up don't be a male center pick me they are i promise you they are loser bitches they are losers and they know it but they got to convince themselves and everyone else well see i was able to get a ring on my finger and where's your ring at. Bitch, I can buy my own diamond ring. Matter of fact, if I buy a ring, my ring will be more money than that raggedy ring the nigga put on your finger. I'll drop twice as much money on my own ring than your man did for you, honey. You're stuck with a dusty and you know it, loser bitch.