Your Mother Has a “Transactional” Relationship with Your Siblings (IT’S NOT LOVE) #narcissist #npd

This video explains that when a mother plays favorites among her children, it is often a tactic of narcissistic control called triangulation rather than a reflection of love. The speaker argues that the \"favored\" children are not more loved, but are instead in a transactional relationship where their obedience is traded for rewards, while the \"scapegoat\" child is punished for seeking autonomy.