YOU BEING UNBOTHERED IS HURTING THE NARCISSIST.

What's up beautiful people? This is your girl, Mommy So True. Welcome to my channel, to all my new subbies. If you're new to the gang, welcome to the gang. We are thrivers, we are survivors, we are over and done with narcissistic abuse. Ain't no narcing us. Check out that merchandise. Rock your shirt, rock your hoodie, rock your hat. Get something for somebody else that you know is being narced. Let them know, ain't no more narcing. It's a new year, our energy is different, the atmosphere is different. These narcs can't get us how they used to get us. You guys, for those of you who don't know, I am a life coach and also someone who has dealt with narcissistic abuse. So my channel is all about me thriving. This is my journey, these are my stories, my testimony and everything I know on the educational aspect because I am a professional health educator. So I don't just create stuff and make up stuff and come sit over here and talk to y'all about something that I have no idea about. So welcome to my community, join the team. You guys, we're here to motivate each other, encourage each other. I do not tolerate any narcing in my comments or in my life, period. Actually, at this point, this is a no narcing tolerance zone for me. You guys, I'm going to jump into today's video because I need you to know that what you have done has completely gotten up under the skin of a narcissist. You guys, my subscribers are some amazing survivors. My subscribers are some thrivers. Y'all are some strong people. And after dealing with the narc that you dealt with or as you're dealing with a narc that you're dealing with, you now have gained some education and some strength behind you that there is no narcing you any further. And if you're here with Mommy Sochu on a weekly basis because you clicked that notification bell, you're not missing out on my weekly videos, you're thriving, you're gaining more strength every day. Number one thing you can do to get up under the skin of a narcissist, more specifically, to narcissistically injure these clowns, is to not be bothered anymore. To no longer be bothered by the stupid things that come out of these people's mouth really gets under their skin. The fact that they cannot make you feel like trash when they're calling you trash. The fact that their words can't pierce you like they used to because you're not showing emotion. You're literally just being unbothered. You're literally ignoring whatever is coming at you. Your ear can't even hear it anymore. This is the biggest way to, I'm not gonna say piss off a narcissist because that's not what we're trying to do. I ain't trying to piss them off. I don't have time to piss you off. But I do have time to let you know that I am not the one. I do have time to let you know that all that ---- you keep doing to me, I'm not going for it no more. Everything that you keep saying to me, everything you keep, you keep trying to downplay who I am, you keep trying to devalue the woman that I am or the man that I am, and I ain't going for it no more. All the lies and deception, I'm not going for it no more. When a narcissist can get into your face and say things to you and your emotions show that you're not bothered and you're not moved and that those words are not even hitting you like they used to, they feel completely stupid and defeated because they're seeing that they're losing power and control over you and that's what you want. You don't want a narcissist to keep feeling like they can keep a hold of you, control you by telling you awful things about yourself, by making you feel wrong when you're not wrong, by making you feel like you're feeling something that you're not feeling. A narcissist is a Mr. or Mrs. Know-it-all. They going to tell you you mad when you're not even mad, just to poke at you, just to get that reaction out of you. So when you're completely unbothered and you give them that silent treatment, you are narcissistically injuring their ass. A narcissist thinks that they are God and when God talks and God don't get a reaction, God don't like it. So God the narcissist don't like when you sitting somewhere unbothered by all that stupid ---- they say. When you literally train yourself to become less predictable, you detach from a narcissist whether you live with them or not. If you stop showing emotion behind the things that they're saying to you, it's going to mentally throw them off. So many people are dealing with narcissistic people who don't know how to stop being cruel. Everything they say is harsh. Everything you do is being judged. You're criticized for just snoring. You're criticized for having small hips. You're criticized for having short hair. You can't win with a narcissist. Nothing you do will ever be good enough. They're going to call you out your name. They're going to make fun of you. They're going to talk about things that they know you're insecure about just to hurt your feelings. But when you become unbothered by their attempt to hurt your feelings because what they're really doing is showing how disgusted they are of themselves. What they're really doing is letting you know that there is so much self-hatred in them, they want you to hate yourself because misery loves company and a narcissist will love your company with that miserable ass life that they have and that they have to wake up and live every day. Nothing like getting away from a narcissistic spouse. And then when hoovering happens, you're silent to it. You're just unbothered to it. Any type of communication, you're just silent to it. You're unbothered to it. You're not showing emotions when you hear about some supply because you don't care. You no longer give a damn. And you have to really mentally get to that space because if you keep giving a damn, you're going to keep losing your hair. You're going to keep having messed up skin. Those dark circles under your eyes are never going to go away because you still care a little too much. Narcissists have many personal problems. I call them the professional PPP people. Everything about you that they don't like is a personal problem. When you start to shut off your emotions with a narcissist and they hate it, they don't like the new you and they feel like you've switched up and you've changed up. It's a personal problem. PPP. These people are professional PPPs. Personal problem people, okay? They lose control over you and lose control over your emotions. It's a personal problem. When they can't stand that you're not reacting and crying while they sit there and laugh at you cry, it's a personal problem. When they're shaking their head, pissed off, trying to figure out why you're not reacting the same, why you're not getting mad anymore, why you're not spazzing out because they're talking to you crazy, that's their personal problem. I am no longer moved by your words because your words are not real. Everything they're saying about you is not real 9 times out of 10. They project their bad behaviors onto you. Everything they're saying is wrong with you is what's wrong with them. That's a personal problem. Today I just wanted to drop in and let you know this one very secret to narcissistically injuring a narcissist. This one very secret to start detaching and disconnecting from them mentally. This is how you start letting them know. You don't have control over me. Your words no longer move me. Your words don't shake me. Your actions are clown activity. At this point, I just laugh silently watching you and listening to you. Mm-hmm, you're stupid. I'm going to make you feel and look stupid by just sitting there. Quiet, silent, unbothered. And now the duck ain't going to have no choice but to go look for a new supply because this supply is no longer giving you a damn thing. If you agree, make sure you like, comment, and subscribe. Share your experience. Share your testimony. Let me know how you've been unbothered by the narcissist. Let me know how your healing journey is going and how you're at the point where you're unbothered. It don't matter if they are somewhere spreading the worst things about you. You're unbothered. You know it's untrue. You know it ain't you. You're somewhere trying to get your life together. You're somewhere trying to put together everything that they destroyed. So you ain't worried about that. You are now ready to put everything together and live a better, happier life. They said somewhere talking about you, that's a personal problem. You still worried about me. I ain't worried about you. Unbothered. Next, goodbye. Unbothered. You guys, this is your girl Mommy So True. I'll be back with another video. I will see you guys next time.