This is Day 3 of The Nervous System Wealth Recode, a 9-part video program.
Today we name and release the inherited and survival-based money beliefs running underneath your financial decisions.
The Nervous System Wealth Recode is not about budgeting, hustle, or positive thinking. It's about dismantling the nervous-system patterns, beliefs, and survival strategies that silently control how you experience money — so you can build a relationship with money that feels safe, honest, and sustainable.
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So today is day three of the 13-day nervous system identification
recode. I think I have to change that name, but either way, I probably will by the time this
comes out. So I'm on day three and one of my, I guess, my practices is to know what the day is.
So today's 12-4-2025 and numerology is a big part of our lives, whether we like it or not.
And to pay more closer attention, to be more able to navigate the vibrations of the world,
I calculate what number it is in the scheme of one to nine. And so today came out to,
if I did all the numbers together, it came out to the 16, including 16, and then I broke it down to
six plus one is seven. So of course, seven is the number of completion,
perfection and spiritual wisdom. So now I know how to navigate the day. That's how I navigate my day
on remembering that, getting that into my consciousness, that today is a spiritual wisdom.
And I'll take that word with me. All right. So day three is really the realization goal today is to
name the identity you unconsciously keep honoring. Is it caregiver? Is it survivor?
Or is it over giver? And it could be all three, but we're going to spend at least five minutes,
you know, in this, or it could be less, into this practice. So what we're going to do is identify,
we're going to interrupt. I don't do struggle anymore. So I don't do struggle anymore.
We're going to take that and we're going to add to it the somatic practice, somatic, somatic. I
keep saying it wrong, but somatic practice. I'm getting my door. It's close. Somatic practice,
gently tap on the sternum and your collarbone. I don't struggle culture anymore.
Frequency that you're listening to is alpha waves and that's the calm and alertness. So
we'll spend a few minutes into this so we can figure it out. And you have to be open
to here. Can't want to rush this. It could be in seconds. It could be not at all. There's a later,
but it's putting your body in control. It's putting you in a place that you can understand
and then gently realize I don't do struggle culture anymore. Struggle culture in this
practice that you're doing now. I'll prompt for today's what struggle
identity am I still loyal to? What struggle identity am I still loyal to?
What struggle identity am I still loyal to? And as you do that, you're scanning your body to find
where the sensation lies. When you say that, what struggle identity am I still loyal to?
And the scan comes to my eyes and the realization comes to being the caregiver because I've been
the caregiver all of my life from the start of responsibility for my siblings. And each person
that I see realize needs help, I become that for them. And that is a hindrance to me because
I spend too much time giving and not enough time knowing that I don't need to help them.
In thinking of that, someone called me just for a chat yesterday and we ended up on the phone two
hours. I don't do struggle culture anymore. So once your body receives it, it will literally
stop you from tapping. It will feel safe enough that you don't have to remind it. So now that
you have gotten to that point, it may take you some time. It may take you twice. You might have
to do it twice or longer, but it just depends on how quickly that you accept it, you embrace it.
And I'm on a mission to really embrace my space and embrace who I am. So
realization came to me quickly. This is day three.