The Primal Energy In A Man That Creates Instant Attraction (Female psychology explained)

Starting off today's video, if we want to fully understand the raw power of a man, we first and foremost have to discuss what men have been told, taught, and honestly a belief he believed he had to follow to get him results with women and to be this high value man. And a lot of dating advice nowadays is not actually setting men up for success, rather teaching men they need to go above and beyond just to get the girl of their dreams by doing things and not being. And there's two options, you can do, you can act out, you can perform to get the results you desire, but when you do it from that place, nothing stays because it's not being attracted from an authentic, genuine place where you are actually seeing your worth and value. Which leads me to my first point, true attraction isn't created by what you do. And this could be one of the very first of many things you believe that are not true. And by doing things just to get attention, just to be liked and not rejected, you may put everything above yourself, which is also going to lower your value no matter what you think you're doing is right or not right. Which is why I'm starting it here because if you can drop the act of performance, of feeling like you need to put on this show for women, that's when you're going to become a man that truthfully radiates this very powerful energy of you not trying to be anyone you're not. You not needing to show off your material things or the words of affirmations that you think women are just going to fall in love with. That can just feel like you're either overcompensating for something or you're all talk, no action, which can feel like love bombing. And that's one thing a lot of women experience now in the dating world is feeling like they're only getting this one version of a man. Maybe he has it all together, says all the right things, and yet that woman feels like there's something missing. Even if you're doing every single thing right to the book. And that's because the book was never meant to make a man feel genuinely good about who he is. And that's why men who don't perform and actually act through being a genuine person by maybe showing his flaws, maybe it looks like being awkward sometimes, and knowing that your perfection is not what is going to make a woman feel connected to you. And that's why I think it's one of the most important traits for a man to lead with is being his genuine self. Because you really can't go wrong in dating when you are allowing yourself to take steps being who you are and honestly standing tall in that version. And going back to this magnetic force field that is around a man that sees the value in himself, the magnetic force that you're seeing in red, these are the thoughts and beliefs this man has hard wired into his brain to believe that allows him to be viewed in a way that comes across as not phony, not fake, but real. It's his raw masculine energy being directed back into himself that will give women this silent reassurance. You're a man of value because you're a man that has made one of the hardest decisions for himself to actually like yourself as a man. Something we don't want men to do because once he understands that he is in control of his life, he can give himself everything he wants, then he's a man that can't be controlled because his inner power comes from within. Now the second point that piggybacks off the first one has everything to do with letting your energy do all the hard work. Now the word energy may be kind of woo-woo, it's not something you can see, it's not something you can see or is a tangible thing you can pick up, but it's something that we all have to put on every single day whether we like it or not. It's just what's the basis of the energetic tone you walk in the world with? Is it an energy that lowers you or could it be an energy that raises you up? And with a man that lacks self-esteem, pleasure over purpose, lacks ambition, and settles for a life he doesn't even want, that is a small-minded man that maybe your things you have make you feel tall and allows your ego to inflate you to a level that women just see as arrogant or there's just something off about your presence and your presence is your overall energy field doing all the talking for you. And that's why when a man actually lifts himself up, he's a man of his word, he's okay being alone, he actually likes his own company so he doesn't need to chase the next best thing, and he's the type of man that will invest his resources back inside of himself. This is the man that is willing to make harder decisions even if they're uncomfortable because the payoff of that man choosing himself that will always give him positive results because he's no longer playing as a low-caliber man who believes in all of these things that makes him considered a man in today's world because that's something I think a lot of people are confused with, that a man is just this one-size-fits-all thing. He has to be macho, he should have opinions, but he should keep them to himself because if a man is strong-minded, he's harder to control and honestly the list can really go on, which is why I really just want to keep it simple with you guys. You don't need to do too much because every single woman you date is just a reflection of where you are at as a man inside of yourself. So use the women that are attracted to you to allow you to see yourself in a more clear way, and if you're not liking the results from these things then it is up to you to change them. Not your things, not what you can do, but what you are actually doing for your energy field that is either making or breaking your attraction, the respect a woman can have for you, and how her nervous system responds to your energy. And a very powerful analogy I can share when it comes to your energy is looking at it like electricity. You can't see it moving through a wire, but you can see exactly what it does by it being turned on. Like the electricity in your house, it serves a purpose. It allows you to see things clearer, have more light inside, and provides you with a level of comfort. Same goes for a man that keeps his energy field clean by eating healthy food, working out. This is a man who is healthy not just energetically, but what he does for himself shows the level of respect he has. This can be shown through his physical body. His body is just the reflection of the discomfort he can handle in his life, and making harder decisions that come with a payoff of strength that someone can tangibly see, but they don't see all the energetic investments that had to be made to get you the body you are in now. And if you're not liking what you look like right now, that's something every single person can change with the power of setting forth a new plan, by waking up knowing exactly what you're doing with your energy, and not giving it away so freely to people that don't even want the best for you. They just want what your energy gives to them. Whether that's validation, approval, or just being seen, this is something men need to understand. Your life force energy is the very thing that keeps your internal house lights on, and when there's electrical damage, things will not work properly. But when things are wired correctly, you don't need to try to turn on and off the lights, they just do it. Same goes for your applied action in your life that can make a huge difference in the energy field you're emitting to women, and how they sense that even if they're not consciously doing it. It's how their nervous system responds to you. Which leads me into point number three, which I like to call the domino effect of potential. Now the domino effect of potential first and foremost starts with a man who was brave enough to see where he is not showing up to the best of his ability, and with that you're able to uncover deeper truths, but also deeper lies that you have been believing about who you are, what you're capable of, and your potential you have on this earth. Now when a man lacks clarity, he lacks the ability to take action in ways that that has the power to create transformation in all of these layers, because you're a man willing to do the work. Now having work ethic may be useful in the workplace, but having the work ethic to do things for yourself, for your life, for your future, that's a man's ability to create a new path for himself that is going to lead him exactly towards his fullest expression becoming manifested. And that's a man who can stand tall knowing the work he's doing on himself is not just for himself. It's not just for the benefit of having a clear mind, or the freedom of financial security can have. It's more so an undertone of complete belief that you are utilizing that will have a tremendous impact on the partner who's going to be right next to you. And when a man has that really solid relationship to himself, he has his path laid out and he's not afraid to start a new one. If he's going in a direction he knows is not working out for him. He has awareness and he has the courage to follow his excitement. Even if that's you being 35 years old and wanting to create a brand new business, or getting out of your corporate job and becoming a YouTuber, or a coach, or something that lights your heart on fire, that is what you listen to, not the outside opinion of others. And when a woman experiences a man who has reached his potential, or is not afraid to climb the ladder of his success, what that creates is a domino effect of her reaching her own potential. Because you have caused inspiration to occur. And when a man can not only be the leader in a relationship, the leader of his life, and he knows that's not just a role to make his ego feel better. It's something he actually takes with genuine care of leading not only himself on the right path, but inspiring other people to do the same. That is exactly what builds trust, honor, respect, and that overall admiration that you should never have to ask a woman to give you. And if she's not giving it to you, look at how you're showing up in your own life. Are you the type of man that is only doing things to get the overall approval from other people? Or can you walk the path of doing things whether someone is in your life or not, but if it's moving you to a higher level, then it's worth the wait, it's worth the climb, it's worth the uncomfortability. And every single woman you are with in different chapters of your life, they are most likely experiencing different versions of you. And if you can learn from every single partner, every single relationship that didn't go well, and you can be honest, you can be real with yourself, there is no other option than for you to become a better man. A man that is willing to see things clearly, that can take accountability in his life, that can do the uncomfortable thing, start something new, believe in himself. Because when you are operating out of that frame of mind, the women you will be attracting to you are not only going to want to support you in this version of yourself, but she is also going to want to become her best self. This is the power every single man has over a woman, but most men don't realize they are able to tap into it and use it for good. And a woman will always notice a high value man in how her nervous system is responding to her presence. So work on yourself men, become the best version, and set a good example of what masculinity is. And if you liked today's video, give it a like, hit the subscribe button, and I will see you in my next one. Bye.