Attractive vs Unattractive Men: What Women Notice First

In today's video, I'm going to be breaking down the honest truth more men should know when it applies to their attraction. Because there could be two men that are equally attractive in a room, but for some reason this man stands out without trying because of who he is behind closed doors. how he lives his life and more importantly the energy he brings to any room he walks in. but before we get into it you guys i first want to mention that i have created my first paid discord server and on there i really recommend men to just check it out because if you right now are looking for real results in your dating life but you feel like you don't really know where to start you don't see maybe your improvements because sometimes We need a third perspective to see into our lives for us to actually acknowledge the things that need to be changed, which is exactly why I'm inviting the men listening today to join and really start showing up for yourself, having a place to hold yourself accountable, for you to give other men advice based on your own life experiences, and for us to all thrive together as a community. So take this as your personal invitation. The link will be down below and I'm so excited to see you guys in there. So without further ado, let's get into today's video. Now, when it applies to a woman perceiving a man in a attractive light, it has everything to do with the power of self-belief that man has programmed himself to not just embody, But back to that word, truthfully believe within himself. When a man truthfully does not believe he is deserving of attention, whether that's good or bad, and just him taking up space in any room makes him question his worth, that is an energy you are infusing into your moment. And I know for some men, you're like, do women really pick up on the energy I give to a room? But you would be so surprised how frequently women are attracted to men who aren't necessarily trying to be the center of attention and not trying to be approved by his peers. It's just a man with this quiet sense of confidence that makes her not only feel secure with him, but that's because of the own personal security he has gave back to himself. Which is exactly why the first way for a man to truthfully be very attractive is to have a strong sense of belief. Now, without self-belief, you are basically asking the world to define who you are. Or you're falling victim to your insecurities, making you feel less worthy than others. And the middle ground here is self-perception. How do you view yourself? Because a man who has self-perception can actually see things clear rather than a man who is distorting reality to fit a certain story he is playing into, whether that's good or bad, which is exactly why this is in the middle ground between unattractive and attractive, because it could make or break your attraction just to begin with. Because when a woman sees a man questioning his worth, questioning his abilities questioning his own character by maybe being a people pleaser maybe it's by being mr nice guy and she's catching on to this is not something that's genuine he's doing that just so i like him he's okay with me testing him because maybe i'm his only option which can kind of make a woman take a step back rather if you were a man with strong self-belief You have a strong self-perception, then what other people think of you is none of your business, which is exactly why this is number two is a man speaking highly of himself. Now, don't get this confused with an arrogant man, a man who needs to be at the center of attention and the man who shows off his material things or certain parts of his life to make himself feel better. Now there is no issue with having luxurious things in your life. There is no issue with wanting really nice things for yourself. That goes back to a man with strong self-belief. He thinks he's worthy of it, but he doesn't just want those things. So other people think highly of him. The energy he's broadcasting is not coming back in words. And that's a man with strong presence. Now an unattractive man does not have a strong presence, which honestly equates to just him being forgettable. And being a man who is easy to forget is a man who does not contribute anything to the room he is in. And that doesn't require you to be put on the line of rejection when it comes to stating an opinion. Even if it's different from another person's, you can still be quiet and add something to a space, add something to a woman's life. Even if it's not in the same ways an extrovert would do, which is why really what's making this man more attractive is the energy he has gave back to himself. Unattractive men beg the world for approval. And when you're begging for anything, It means you don't have it. So if you don't approve of yourself, you're always going to be chasing it, even if you have a good woman in your life, which is why a lot of women are completely turned off to men who follow a ton of Instagram models. When maybe you have a partner at home, maybe it's you in a cycle of watching pornography, you constantly needing female attention. I want the men who maybe can relate to that. to ask yourself why do you need that because another element to a highly attractive man is actually his ability to commit to commit himself not just to a relationship and he can actually put his all into that without the fear of rejection so maybe that could look like himself sabotaging by actually doing things that he is not proud of An attractive man will commit himself fully because that is the way he operates in his life. When he has an idea and he truthfully wants to see it through, there is nothing in the world that will hold that man back. He is actively participating in the life he wants to create, which is exactly why when men have a hard time committing, you are not allowing yourself to become your most attractive version. Not only is this a quality we as women are biologically wired to look for in a man, but it's something that separates boys to men because true masculinity is the ability to create. But to create, you need to have a high vision for your life because attractive men are not complacent. And listen, we can all get into routines that maybe are not helping you become your best version. maybe that's you skipping out on your workouts, sleeping in, drinking in excess of alcohol on the weekends to numb to some degree. these can just be habitual things that are allowing you to ignore your reality, which is exactly what unattractive men do. they ignore reality. Instead, an attractive man will actually look within to actually rise above any situation that he doesn't like for himself, which has everything to do with attraction because there is so much unhealthy advice now for men that basically puts them into this one box. If you're not six foot or above, if you don't have the nice cars, money in the bank. you don't have things to contribute to a woman's life then just don't date don't go after what you want stay in your basement and rot away and yes that's harsh advice i do not advise that because even if right now you're in a body you don't feel that good in whether you're maybe overweight or you just have goals in your life that to some degree scare you On the other end of that fear is actually your ability to embody that new character in your life by repetition and by practice. And that is something an attractive man will always do for himself, is give himself the opportunities. He doesn't expect opportunities to come to him, whether that looks like women chasing him, him waiting around for a miracle to happen, for him to actually enjoy his life. Because if you are in that position, you're going to be waiting a really long time. And that is why I recommend for the men right now, whatever body you're in, whatever chapter of your life, you have the ability to rise above whatever it is you're not wanting. And sometimes that requires putting yourself out of your comfort zone. Whether that's you going to networking events, putting yourself out there. Because a man who is fearless doesn't mean he does not have fear in the body. He just believes less in the fear and more about how he will prosper through it. So he actually gets to see the light of day, which is why an attractive man has a certain amount of light to him that people gravitate towards. because his energy is charged and it's not charged by things that take away that like distractions like alcohol drugs constant pleasure seeking instead he seeks out fulfillment and pleasure is only half of the experience of what true fulfillment can offer to a man's life and that's why in all reality attractive men do things differently than most people today Because you have the ability to actually put yourself out there, to be brave, to go against the grain if need be in order for you to actually lead yourself in your own life. Which is why if you want a really strong healthy body and you're sitting at home on the couch expecting things to change, you need to get up every single day with a mission, with a plan. And that is how you create that momentum to further allow you to prosper, for you to be put into rooms where opportunities are attracted to you because you've changed your own self perception to believe you are an attractive man. Because attraction is not just about how good you look. A woman can be with a quote unquote attractive person physically, but if there is There is a lack of emotional maturity. if there is a lack of character and integrity and life force energy that man has inside of himself then the relationship is going to fizzle out quite quickly because women do not thrive in relationships to a man that does not have the ability to be the man in his own life, in his own story. a woman would not only feel much safer but I'm highly attracted to a man that has all of the things we just stated versus an unattractive man who really and truthfully just has not put the work into himself yet. And if you're in a position right now where you're like, Maya, this was great advice. But I don't really know where to start. Maybe you don't have a lot of people who genuinely want the best for you. And that's exactly why I'm opening up my coaching services again for the men who are ready to see change in their life. And not only will I help you and guide you through this transformation, even if the first step is looking like booking just a one hour call with me, that is you investing your energy for you to be your most attractive self. And sometimes the hardest step is the first one. So if you guys are interested working with me one-on-one when it comes to your attraction, when it comes to your confidence, when it comes to your dating life. And how everything else is going to be positively affected when you are positively affected by who you are and who you choose to be. So if this is something you're genuinely ready for, definitely email me. My coaching email will be right here as well as linked down below. And I would love to further assist you. So if you guys have been positively affected by my videos, by my advice, and you are looking to give back in any way, I will have my donation links linked down below and anything is appreciated. Your presence here is appreciated. Without further ado, you guys, if you enjoyed today's video and you want to see any more videos like this, make sure you give today's video a like, hit the subscribe button, and I will see you in my next one. Bye.