I'm living out of a suitcase, I think you should try it too

The Refined Gentleman
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Aug 25, 2026
I'm living out of a suitcase, I think you should try it too
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AI GeneratedThe speaker shares his experience of leaving his permanent home in Chicago to spend a year traveling with minimal possessions. By whittling his belongings down to a single suitcase, a guitar, and a bag, he explores the mental freedom, intentionality, and shift in perspective that comes from prioritizing experiences and quality over the accumulation of material goods.
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So you can probably tell I'm no longer in Chicago and that's because a few weeks ago I made the
bold decision to not only leave apartments and leave cities but rather than relocate and find
somewhere new to settle permanently I decided to actually embark on a whole year of traveling
and in that process I cleared out my entire apartment, donated and got rid of an absolute
ton of stuff. Clothes, books, possessions, all of that and the only things I left Chicago with
were a suitcase, a guitar and a messenger bag and that's because I've decided to embark on this
period of traveling with very few possessions. I want to travel very light and I'm going to talk
in this video about the kind of freedom that that affords you but also the lessons that it's taught
me about quality, about being intentional, about caring for your items and then choosing experiences
over possessions. Now I would consider myself to be a fairly minimalist person but even for me
whittling down everything to just one suitcase was no easy task and I'm sure if you've ever packed
for a week-long vacation or two weeks even for that short duration of time choosing what will
go in that suitcase can be pretty difficult but I found that it has really made me value the
possessions that I did choose to take. I had to choose which two or three of my 10 suit jackets
am I going to bring, which two or three pairs of my gosh I had like 25 pairs of shoes which ones
will I take and ultimately I made those decisions based on the quality of the items, their versatility,
what I could wear them with other things but maybe the most important of all was actually
their sentimental value, the memories that I've already made with those items and the memories
that I do want to make. When you live out of a suitcase you also have to be incredibly selective
about any new items you do purchase. I was in Paris for three days, London for three days as
you know they have incredible shops there and believe me I was tempted but you get to the
point where you actually have to make a decision of if I buy this jacket then I'll have to get rid
of the one I have. I love this jacket, I've worn it for years, it feels like a second skin to me
therefore I'm actually okay not buying anything else and it kind of gives you that sense of
contentment and satisfaction with what you already have. You also have to consider the functionality
and the versatility. Now I'm not the biggest advocate generally for functionality, you'll often
find me choosing style over function but they don't have to be separate. In this first leg of
my travels I'm going around Europe and I'm encountering some pretty different climates,
London and Paris are a lot colder, a lot rainier than the Costa del Sol here in Spain.
So I've had to choose items that I can layer, wool suits, polo shirts, scarves, waterproof jackets,
things like that. You also have to choose items that are comfortable. If you're going to be sitting
on a plane for eight to ten hours or a train for two to three hours you don't want to wear
trousers that are strangling you down in the crotch, you want to wear something that's roomy
and comfortable and I found myself gravitating to the same two to three pairs of trousers.
But really the reason I chose to live just out of a suitcase, it wasn't necessarily about the
practicality or the cost of storing things, moving things. The reason was more of a mental decision.
When you live with less your mind has so much more space. Space to think, space to experience
and I'm feeling an incredible sense of freedom from traveling light. And in our everyday decisions
as consumers we're often deciding between an experience or a possession. Now I'm not saying
that possessions can't be an experience in of themselves but ultimately I had to decide what
do I value more? Do I value the comfort of having a large wardrobe, of having all of my books,
of having my plates and my utensils and all these different things that I've collected over the
years? Or do I value the adventure? Do I value the fresh start? There is an incredible feeling
of excitement when you board a one-way flight with just a suitcase, a guitar and a bag on your
shoulder. And that's a feeling that I want to keep going for the foreseeable future. But of course
when I'm traveling around I don't just throw my possessions in any old suitcase. Whether you're a
frequent traveler or you've just got a vacation coming up, you want to make sure that your
luggage is not only incredibly functional and will protect your possessions but it also helps you
arrive in style. And that's why when it comes to my suitcase I always choose today's video sponsor
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use that and you will get 30% off a Carl Friedrich. Now that I've whittled down my possessions to
merely the things that I love and that I need and that serve me, it started to change my personal
definition of the word home. Often we define home as a physical building or a set of possessions
that we surround ourselves with. But now once I unpack whether that's in London, in Paris, in
Madrid, I am home. And home is no longer defined as a physical place but it's more a state of mind.
And the few things that I do take with me everywhere give me that sense of home. Just as my
routines do and I'm trying to keep those as consistent as I can wherever I am in the world
while still making room to break the routine and enjoy different cultural experiences and
spontaneous moments which make the whole traveling process worth it in the first place. But even when
I do return to a permanent home base, I'm definitely taking the suitcase philosophy with me.
No longer is home defined by the possessions that I surround myself with. It's a feeling and it's a
choice. And when it comes to buying more stuff or traveling with less, there is no other philosophy
that gives you that same level of freedom, of mobility and adventure. What an adventure it is
to arrive somewhere with just a few amazing clothes, a couple of things that you need like
your phone, maybe a laptop and then you'd go out and experience the world exactly how it was meant
to be experienced. Now living out of a suitcase isn't forever and it's not meant to be forever
either. But there are some important lessons that I'm learning in this process that I know
I will take with me going forward even when I settle back into a permanent home. Most of us
would do better to travel lighter or simply just have less clutter in our homes. Now I know that
some people go on fairly extended trips just using a carry-on. Personally I like clothes a little
too much but really having a checked bag these days isn't as much bother as it used to be because
it's typically a very short wait to actually get your case on the other end and then you can pack
it with all of the things that you need. We've all seen people at the airport that arrive with
suitcase after suitcase and they have to pile up their trolley and drag it through the terminal
and then pile it into the taxi or try and struggle with them on the train. It's so much easier to just
arrive with a bag on your shoulder, a sturdy checked case and then you can jump in your uber,
jump on the metro, go wherever you need to go without being tied down by your luggage. You also
realize that often we own things that serve a very very similar purpose. Like why do I have five pairs
of oxford shoes? Why do I have all of these books that I've never read? And this isn't to say that I
don't love stuff, I don't love collecting just as much as anybody but I think there's a time and a
place for that in your life and especially as a young man I think it's better to put more value
on adventure and freedom. Already the things that I've experienced on my travels so far and the new
perspectives that I've gained have been incredibly inspirational and I think you're going to see the
results of that on this channel and you'll see a new level of creativity, a new level of enthusiasm
from me which has all been inspired by the travels and the experiences that I've had so far. So I
can't wait to keep this going and see what happens next and personally I'm not missing home at the
moment, I'm not missing my old apartment or my old city. I miss some of my friends, I've been lucky
enough to catch up with them, some of them on my travels but I think because I've whittled down
the most important possessions to me including ones that have a sentimental value, I feel like
I'm able to bring home with me wherever I go and then I've got the room and the freedom to make
all these new memories and establish a new sense of personal identity and a new sense of home.
There's something very exciting about being an international man, somebody that travels, somebody
that imbibes new cultures voraciously and in order to be a man like that you can't be tied
down by infinite possessions. You have to be more minimalist, you have to choose quality over
quantity and of course you need the right ways to carry them and next time you travel, even if it's
for a long two-week summer vacation, I encourage you to focus less on what you will bring and more
what you will take from the place you're going. Let me know down in the comments where you are
traveling to next and if you will be traveling light also, perhaps bringing just one suitcase.
If you do, I highly recommend that you make it a Carl Friedrich. I've been traveling with these
cases for nearly two years now and they really are just the best in the business and as you can
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have for you and I'll see you in the next video.
