Leslie Mann, Isla Fisher, Anna Faris & Michelle Buteau Play AITA

Hi, I'm Leslie Mann. And I'm Isla Fisher. I'm Anna Farris. And I'm Michelle Buteau. And we are playing the Hooks' Am I the Problem. That was good. Am I the Problem for going on a girls' trip instead of taking care of my husband after surgery? I've been planning a two-week girls' trip to Greece for over a year, and my husband needed his wisdom teeth removed and was offered several surgery dates to choose from, but he booked the one week I'd be away because he wasn't mentally prepared for the earlier appointment. We argued, but his mom agreed to take care of him instead. So I still went on my girls' trip to Greece, and his surgery went fine, but when I got home, my mother-in-law confronted me and called me a terrible wife for neglecting my husband. And choosing my friends over him. What? My husband and his entire family are still angry at me. Okay. Am I the problem? Nah. Truth be told, they're the problem. They're the problem. That's why you needed that vacation, because they're crazy. She's telling the truth. They are the problem. Am I the problem for going on vacation after my friend got kicked off the flight? So three friends and I booked a vacation to Hawaii and spent about $800 on the trip. At the airport, one of our friends got stopped because security found a vape in her bag. Girl. She says she just forgot it was in there and didn't intentionally bring it, but it didn't matter anyway because the airport police department was called, and even though she wasn't arrested, she was not allowed to board the flight. Obviously, we still went on the vacation, right? But now that we're back, this friend is demanding we pay her $800 back because she missed the trip. Yikes. Am I the problem if I refuse to pay her back? And should I just do it anyway to keep the peace? No. I feel like both of these people that we've just discussed are not the problem. Am I the crazy one for even questioning this idea? First of all, who? I don't know what a vape weed pen is. Oh, I have one right here. Oh, would you want to fly with me somewhere? I'll give you $800 if it doesn't work out. No, but don't you think that's crazy? Of course, as an adult, you accept responsibility for your actions, and you pay the consequences. I would actually have gone further. I would dump my friend into the cops and have her arrested. It's a felony what she did. She committed a crime. She's a bad influence on my children. She's a bad influence on my life. I don't want to be friends with her anymore. And as for the first, relax. What? Guys, that was a bit. That was a joke. No, that was really good. Am I the problem for ending a friendship over a flight voucher? Oh. My husband and I went on vacation to Mexico with another couple. We had a pretty good friendship that consisted of regular barbecues and getting togethers at the house since we're neighbors. The trip was great. Honestly, no complaints. But the flight back home ended up being overbooked, so the airline offered a $3,000 voucher per person for two people to take a later flight. Before anyone was picked, we all agreed that if one couple got the offer, the two wives would stay behind together while the husbands flew home. When our friends got picked, I told the gate agent, no problem, the wives will stay. The couple immediately switched to, why would you say that? We were just joking. And the wife even said, I'm not staying, I would like to be with my husband. And then decided they both take the $6,000 voucher for themselves and stayed back while my husband and I got on the flight. We haven't spoken to them since. Am I the problem? Yeah. You are the problem. Maybe. The whole thing. You are the problem, because I'll tell you why. Like, that's clearly a joke. Somebody saying like the two wives will sleep together and stay back, it's like, I don't know. I feel like that's a big call. I think leaving your spouse and then separating, I don't know. I think this friendship has gotten too intense. We don't know what happened in Mexico. I don't even understand what happened. They had a pretty good time. Which airline gives that high voucher? I'm more interested in that airline. I want that voucher. But I think the quartet here created the mess themselves. It sounds like you're all the problem. I feel like they're swingers. There's more to this. They're swingers. No doubt. I'm with Isla. Couple friends are very hard, though. It's hard to find a good couple. Yeah. And it's a big step to go on vacation. You may think as neighbors, but there's a lot of time. Oh, so then they have to live next to each other? I guess so. After this? Yeah. We haven't spoken to them since. I think that you should speak to them. Maybe move. But just keep it casual. Yeah, I think great idea. Great idea. I think just sell your house up now and move. Yeah. That feels good. Yeah. We've solved it. Look at us. Am I the problem for vacationing at my sister's dream honeymoon destination? My boyfriend surprised me with an anniversary trip to a tropical island. Who says tropical, by the way? Okay. When I told my family, my sister got furious because it's the destination she's always dreamed of honeymooning at. This is a cold read, guys. Thank you. No, no. Even though she hasn't actually booked it. She says if I go first, I'll ruin the magic of it for her and want it to be canceled. The trip, I refuse. Now she's threatening to uninvite me from her wedding. What? And my parents say I should change my vacation to keep the peace. Am I the problem? No. Oh, I'm a bit, yes. Me as the sister. Really? I'm on, I think she's the problem. Really? If it was with the same hotel, okay. But like. No. No, but you get married once. It's her thing. Just let her have the vacation. It's the honeymoon. There's a lot of countries in the world, guys. You don't, tropical climates everywhere. I feel like they're fighting about something deeper. Yes. And it isn't actually. They should speak on it. Yeah. Vacation. Yeah. That's right. Yeah. They have other deeper issues and need to go to therapy. Yes. Family therapy is covered by health insurance. Yeah. But I do believe in like, in embracing the idea of one's own personal experience. If you happen to be wearing the same outfit that your friend is wearing or whatever, I just don't believe in that mentally like ruffling you. You know? Yeah. Life is too short. Your experience is your experience. Life is too short. It doesn't matter what. Yes. And so I have been back. I'm on my third and final and happiest marriage. But I have been back to places that I love with my, thank you guys, with my husband to reclaim it. Yes. I believe in that idea. So to get hung up on, I hope for a future where these sisters can be like, oh my God, did you love it? Tell me where to go. Yeah. You know? That's where it should be. That's crazy that we both love the same thing. Right. I want the best for you. What would you say is your best tropical vacation you had with all of your husbands? First of all, which husband behaves better than you? No! I lost. Sorry. Oh man. I like, I splurged on Tahiti. Tahiti? Yeah. Ooh. And just keep on reclaiming it, you know? Yeah. It gets better and better. I'm going to take my next husband to Tahiti. Okay. It's kind of mellow, you know? And it's a splurge for sure. Yeah. It's a fortune. Couldn't even find it on a map. Being at this hotel is a splurge. This hotel is magical. Bananas. It's magical, but $34 for a latte. Oh yeah. Wow. We got to sell this movie, guys. Stop showing my tatas. Yeah.