How German Dating Culture Is Different From India

Dating in India vs Dating in Germany In Germany, it's honest, clear and direct. In India, This is my Indian date. Hello. He is saying that he will see you in Germany. Don't do anything because you are mine. Do you have a love story? I do have a love story but she turned out to be a cheater. She turned out to be a cheater. What does cheater mean? She cheated on him. Sorry. Yummy. Look at that. Thank you. For Ned. Guys. He just gave it for free. Ehrenmann. That's what we say. It means champion. Okay guys. So this is how it looks. You get one sausage and then spicy ketchup and then curry powder on top. And then you eat it like this. I hope you enjoy it. Thank you. Bye. That was a very pleasant meal. I would rate it 10 out of 10. So this is what Germans would do on a date. That's kind of boring though. That's not true. Okay. Let's compare how we travel during the date. In India, we go on dates in auto. Even though the auto is very open, people still do some shady things. How many shady things did you do? I've never done it. Oh, okay. I don't know if I can do it today. I'm supposed to flirt with you, okay? I told you, you wouldn't let me. So this is how Germans usually go on a date. No. No? In the train. Yeah. Why would you go on a date in the train? How would you travel then? Oh. Well, the thing is in Berlin, people don't like going by car. So you either go by public transport or you go by bike. Let's do three activities to check our chemistry. Sir, do you have a girlfriend? Dogesh bhai. Dogesh bhai? He has a partner. Okay, first activity. Eye contact test. Okay, start. Basically, whoever blinks first, loses. Don't make such a bad face. I can't do it. I lost. Bhai saab, such bad expressions. Did you feel any romantic connection? Zero. It went to minus. Let's try it with a German girl. I said let's try it with a German girl. Cut it. So while we eat this, we're going to do eye contact. Okay. Cheers. I'm twerking with my nose. Let's do flirting test. So, Marisha. Flirt with me. In India, it's like, did you miss me? From there, it will start. Okay. Did you miss me? And, why didn't you lift my calls? Why didn't you lift my calls? No, nothing like that. Okay, let's do it now for real. Did you miss me? Yes, a lot. Did you do it or not? No. Why didn't you do it? Where's the stick? I want to see how Germans flirt. It has to come natural. And we can involve other people too, right? In relationships? Like, where we are here right now, in Berlin, that's a thing. A lot of people are polyamorous, or they have open relationships. Like, multiple partners at the same time. It's not really for me. Like, I don't like that. But, a lot of people do that. But, if anyone wants to volunteer, you can put my name on it. No. And guys, their marriages are like, literally like signing a contract. Yeah, yeah, that's true. Yeah. So, next week I'm going to be at a wedding. Like, it's an official wedding. Yeah. So, they are signing the contract of being married. And then, who gets what money and assets in case they get divorced. Yeah. They have to sign this. Yeah. And then, the party is on a completely different day. So, one day it's just the formalities of signing the contract. That's actually good, you know? Yeah, and then you have to go to the notary or like, with a type of lawyer as well. Yeah. So, he helps you to set the marriage contract, who gets what. This is exactly what I mean when I say Germans are direct. But it also can kill the romance a bit, right? If you're so pragmatic about something, then the romance is kind of dead. Yeah, there's no tension. There's no tension, exactly. This is why many German girls I've spoken to, they say like, they don't date German guys. Yeah, I haven't dated a German guy in... Yeah. Nine years. What? Yeah. Holy ----. Yeah. Don't you miss German sausage? Don't you? Currywurst was... Oh, no, no, no. No, no, no. How was your family with dating when you were growing up? It was very different then. Even if I am going out... I used to go out for cycling during school. Yeah, yeah. My dad used to follow me with my bike. He used to follow me. To check if I was talking to a guy on the way. Wow. But now he says, find a guy. Get married. Why were they so strict? Just like that. Were they scared that you will run away from the house? Yeah. That was the main reason. So how is your family with dating? Let's say when you go out on a date, do they know about it? Yeah, I tell them. Wow. It's not like in India where you have to have like two personalities. Like the one, how you really are and the very innocent version for your parents. Yeah. We don't have that. Obviously, some things are private. Yeah. Fair enough. But we don't really have to lie about things. We just say how it is. Yeah. How do you usually end dates? Like hug? I didn't have that many dates. By chance, if it goes well, then hug. What about you? Let's go. I don't have a scene. So how do German dates end? What question is that? How do dates usually end for you? Do you guys hug or kiss? In general, I would say if you like the guy, you might already kiss on the first date. But if you don't like the guy, then you might just give him a hug and leave. Yeah. Okay. So finally, I'm going to ask them the important question. What advice would you give to men who want to impress and get on a first date with a girl? What relationship advice would you give to someone? Very nice. Hey! What relationship advice would you give to a stranger? I have more than one advice, so I keep it very, very quick, okay? Okay. So my first one is rather than making about yourself, being like, oh, I'm rich, I'm hot, I'm famous, make it more about her, showing interest in her, remembering what she said and following up on it. And also, it's important to be honest about who you really are and what you're really looking for rather than trying everything to impress the girl, like doing what you think she might like. But you should rather be honest about it so you can see if you're actually a fit. Your mindset should also be, I want to figure out if she's a fit for me and I'm a fit for her rather than trying to bend in any way to fit to what she likes. Yeah. No love-bombing because that's weird. So explain what love-bombing is. Love-bombing is if you're way too in from the first date. Like, if you're like, oh my God, I'm in love with you and all the things I want to do with you. Like, it's too much because that gives a woman the impression that that's how easily you fall in love. That means you're also easily going to fall in love with someone else or fall out of love. Open your eyes. Is it hair ties? No, it's not hair ties. Oh, wait, wait. What is it? Oh, it's a bracelet. Cute. Nice. Thank you. Subscribe.