Women Are Worried Men Will Have Too Much Fun Enjoying Being Single This Summer 2026

My female co-worker has already 39 people she's talking to on a dating app. See the only thing that I run into when it comes to that is that you started this three days ago. Two days ago. Like do you realize like for guys we have to wait like weeks to get like likes let alone a person that we are interested in. Now don't get me wrong I feel for this man he wants love like anybody else but the thing about it is there are some men that feel a certain sense of entitlement for wanting certain women and when they can't get that they get frustrated. That's why they get mad at the rich aunties. How dare you be rich and attractive and fit and have all these things going for yourself and you don't want a man. Like I feel like they feel like women belong to them. So how dare you play hard to get. If I'm on a dating app why aren't you throwing yourself at my feet and they get frustrated when it doesn't work out like that. The fact that women have collectively decided to raise their standards is something that frustrates so many single men because as I said before and I'll say it many times again settling is how a lot of them get picked. They don't want to come to the table with things that women actually want. They want to come to the table with money because that has been the easy solution for decades and decades and decades. But women are making their own money so we're asking what else you got and a lot of them are tapping all over the place because they don't know what else they have. They can't add emotional intelligence that they're kind that they're patient that they're romantic that they know how to listen or whatever it is. They can't add anything besides money. So when you say I don't need your money they don't know what else they can offer you. So they get frustrated with the women. Why aren't you throwing yourselves at us. If my life is already amazing and fulfilled for you to come in here you're not going to come in here and disturb the peace. You're either going to add to it but I will never let you take anything away. They don't understand. Out of all those matches she'll be lucky to get along with at least one. Having hundreds of matches doesn't automatically mean you'll find someone you're actually compatible with. Quantity has never been the same as quality. Real connection is rare and most people eventually realize that endless options often create more confusion than better relationships. Just to let you guys know how low quality these men are on the dating apps and that they're not really there to find their match they're just there to play dating with you so they can try and hook up with you. These are what they'll do and if they do any of these things they're trash. Don't make the same mistakes I made. I had a guy that would get my seatbelt for me he picked me up took me to a restaurant and then told me that he downloads and uses the apps because he's sexually frustrated. Got it. Another time I was walking to the bathroom and when I came back he said hey you didn't look very good from the back but then when you turned around I was Modern dating has become more complicated than ever. Everyone wants the perfect partner but fewer people seem willing to build something imperfect together. Expectations keep rising while patience keeps shrinking and that's a recipe for disappointment. Men and women get frustrated by dating apps but often for different reasons. Men get frustrated because they find it tough to get matches. Women get frustrated because they get too many matches. Men get frustrated because when they reach out they don't get a reply or they get a lackluster reply. Women get frustrated because men suck at starting intriguing conversations. Men get frustrated when a woman ghosts them after a few days of chatting. Women get frustrated when a man only wants to be pen pals and won't ask her on a date. Men get frustrated when women look really good in profile pics but not so much in person and women get frustrated by that as well. I can't help the women but for you men I can help. There's a method to the madness. Give me a follow. Yes because all the good men have checked out after being rejected multiple times obviously you'll only get trash and chads there now. After enough rejection and disappointment many people simply stop participating in the dating scene altogether. When emotionally available people check out the dating pool naturally changes. If respectful relationship-minded people leave the experience for everyone else becomes worse. I have a theory about modern dating and dating apps. I think that we're actually not supposed to date as many people as we do and hear me out because I'm not talking about body count. We are schmecks positive over here and we do not shame how many partners you choose to have. What I'm talking about is that I think we end up meeting and going on dates with way more people than we're supposed to. In the sense that when I think about the times pre-dating apps which I lived in, I'm turning 39 so I was around before dating apps became a thing, you had to rely on just meeting people in the wild. Obviously going to school, having a job, that kind of stuff made it easier and makes it easier to this day because you will meet people in the spaces that you frequent yourself in. I also think but I'm not sure that back then people were bolder when it came to like picking up in public and I'm talking about picking up in like a respectful way because there's a disrespectful annoying way to do it. You would have a partner like every once in a while, every few years sometimes, that person that came along every now and then that you just felt a spark with and wanted to pursue things with. I just remember having crushes. My dating life was dictated by who I had a crush on and like fantasized about all summer. I don't remember honestly the last time I had a crush, like I don't remember. I mean I kind of fell in love with someone I saw in the elevator today and that was like the most fleeting moment ever but I am thinking about that person for the rest of the day and we didn't exchange a single ******* word but you know that if I cross paths with that person in some kind of social space because I did not know what the **** to say in a three-second elevator ride, there would be something brewing. With dating apps today, I feel like we are sorting through so many ******* options and going on dates and trying out all kinds of people and then feeling disappointed that most of them don't work out and I think that it actually makes sense that most of them don't work out because those people that we actually have a spark with and actually want to end up dating are few and far between. So my thinking is kind of like is it even worth bothering with the in-betweens? Maybe they still teach us something or help us grow but a lot of the time I feel like they just like bring a bunch of bullshit that we have to deal with and heal from. Of course there's the idea that we want that intimacy and connection because it is harder to meet people in the wild but then I'm like is it? Is it just because I'm like in my late 30s, I work from home, I don't really go places anymore because I feel like if I went to more spaces and was around more people, I would meet more people in the wild. I think it just makes sense that dating apps are exhausting because it's not natural. Men suffer the most in this chaos, endlessly swiping, chasing connection only to be used for attention, validation, or free therapy. Dating apps turned vulnerability into currency, leaving good men drained, cynical, and emotionally numb. For many people, dating apps have become emotionally exhausting rather than exciting. Endless swiping, shallow conversations, ghosting, and chasing validation can leave someone feeling burned out instead of hopeful. Looking for a genuine connection shouldn't feel like a full-time job. The reason 1 million and one why the dating apps ******* suck is the men on there are ass ******* ugly. Y'all literally built the fire then climbed into the pot. You decided amongst yourselves that putting effort into how you look, caring about your appearance means you're gay. Now you're unattractive and women don't want to be with you, and yet you somehow still feel entitled to having an attractive, intelligent partner, but then she makes you feel insecure because you don't like how you look, you don't feel good about yourself, you lack self-confidence, and then you blame her. If you don't put effort into how you look and how you present yourself, why would I think you're going to put effort into me and our relationship if you can't even do it for yourself? Take a ******* shower, get a haircut, get a skincare routine, and start wearing some better clothes that fit and look good. Put some ******* effort in and you may start getting some more matches. And if you're going to be offended by this, I would strongly suggest you look at the amount of matches you have and take a look at yourself. Do something about it. Oh really? You know what's actually wrong? The men you women sleep with are not the same men you date. That's what's broken. You can't tell a woman to lower expectations, but the reality is one of the data I've seen on dating apps is that all of the women want the same few guys and they shut out the rest. Yeah, okay, so there's a few things I'll respond to there. So one, going back to the income graph, I want to just call out that, yes, right now in a few urban markets women are making more than men. So women in DC and New York under 30 are making more than men on average, but in most situations men are still making more than women, but we're talking about a projection. Going back to the dating research, so yes, it's exactly as you described. What we have right now is there's fewer and fewer men that are hypergamous mates for women. So if there's a much smaller pool of guys, then what you have is you have a bunch of women competing for the same men and then a bunch of guys get ignored. But what I also see is that those top guys are having a hard time deciding. So I feel like in my coaching practice as a dating coach, I'm working with a lot of women who say, what do I do? I've changed my profile the way you said I should. I took your class, but I still feel like there's just not enough great guys. And then I work with these CEO men who are having such a hard time choosing. And so I think we really have this exacerbated problem where so many women are competing for the same men and then a bunch of guys are getting ignored. And then what ends up happening is where do those guys go? And they go online. They go to porn or they go to Reddit. I mean, I love Reddit, but they're really going to some of these red-pilled communities. And so what you're seeing now is just men really opting out of society. So when you go back to that stat, one in seven young men in the UK is neat, not an employment education or training. They have just opted out. Social media and dating culture have changed how people approach relationships. Too often, appearances and instant gratification take priority over compatibility, character, and long-term values. That shift has made genuine connection much harder to find. Fellas, get off the dating apps. Get off the dating apps if you want any good results out here. Just get off the dating apps. They don't even like y'all on dating apps. They can't stand you guys on dating apps. They complain so much about how bad the dating apps are for them. Leave the dating apps. Just leave. They look for the red flags immediately. They'll screenshot y'all and send it to the best friends. They're doing TikToks of y'all. It's embarrassing for y'all out here. They swipe on seven out of a hundred of y'all. That's how much they don't like you. Get off the dating apps. Save yourself a ---- ton of time, stress, and everything else. And get up out here in the wild and go after what you're interested in. Focus on yourself, but develop your interpersonal skills. Get up out in the wild and start going after what you're interested in. Don't let them gamify you anymore because they're sick of you guys on dating apps. I'm telling you, they can't even. They complain about you the most, how bad it is out here. Get off. If you have self-respect, you need to get off the dating apps. Don't be sending roses and hearts. They can't stand you more when you send roses and hearts. They get sick. They're like, ugh, he sent me a rose, girl. Yuck. Oh, you think I'm playing? Ask the girls when they get sent the roses. They don't even look at him. It's almost pathetic to them. It's like, yeah, he sent me a rose. They have overwhelming numbers and options on dating apps, and you don't get it. You ain't doing it. You're not having any success on dating apps because you're on dating apps. Get out in the wild. I'm telling you, I promise this is going to save you. Your life will be so much better if you just hop your ass off. Dating apps are extremely toxic, and hypergamy puts every man in a bad position, no matter how good they are. Dating apps reward attention, not necessarily compatibility. When everything becomes a numbers game, many people end up comparing endless options instead of investing in one meaningful connection. That's why so many users walk away feeling frustrated, disposable, and emotionally drained. Thanks for watching, brothers. Remember, stay focused, stay free, and keep walking your own path. If you found value in this video, drop a like, share your thoughts below, and don't forget to subscribe for more content on self-mastery and independence. Until next time, walk tall, stay true.