How To Look CONFIDENT Dancing At A Party When You're Not (Always Works!!)

What if I told you that looking good on the dance floor is not about the dance moves at all. It's about how good you make them look. You will be able to do that even if you've never danced before in your life. Let me show you how. Applications are now open to work with me with my personalized help, feedback and a proven system that already in the past 18 years has helped thousands of people enjoy dancing in social settings. If you're interested in working with me I'm going to post a link below where you can sign up for a free consultation. Definitely do it so we can get you dancing this year. First let's see what people who are confident on the dance floor look like. They look happy, they are smiling, they're enjoying themselves. You can see their moves are energetic but do you ever notice what specific dance moves those people are doing? I'm willing to bet that you'd have no idea because we notice their energy, we notice how they're moving, if they're enjoying themselves. Even I wouldn't be able to tell you how many moves they did, what they were moving. It just looks good because what I want you to know guys is that it's never about the moves. It doesn't matter how many you know, it doesn't matter how many you're using in one song, it's how good you look doing them. This is what counts. So just to give you an example and we're going to practice it today so you'll know exactly how to do it too. Let's say I'm doing this little jam, a little heel move, whatever basic step, right? I can make it look like this and I can make it look like that. There are no specific dance moves that will make you look good on the dance floor. It doesn't matter how many tutorials you learn from. If you cannot make the move look good on you, it's not going to help. You're in charge of making the movements look good. I hear that a lot from my students. They want to dance to an energetic, like a faster song, so they're asking me, okay what energetic moves can we do? Any moves, you just have to make them look energetic. You have to add the energy to the movements yourself. This is me not putting effort into the movement. I'm kind of lazy with it, I'm just doing whatever just to kind of get through the movement, just to do it. And this is me actually putting effort into making the movement look better. I'm actually trying, right? So I'm smiling, I'm not looking down all the time, I'm making sure the body is loose, I'm not like controlling, I'm moving the arms. When I say I'm smiling, I'm smiling again because that always helps a ton. I don't know if you see the difference, but I think it's pretty clear and I think the movements on the right side look so much better, right? They're so much more entertaining. I look like I'm enjoying myself and not forcing myself to do random moves. And you can see it on the dance floor all the time. You see what people are just kind of going through the motions, they are kind of stuck there, they look like they don't want to be on the dance floor. They are doing those movements that you can see here on the left. And then people who actually have fun, this is what we want to look like. You see me on the right enjoying myself, smiling. It's the same song, I'm using the same moves. It just looks better. Mind you, you still of course have to practice those movements. Don't just start adding energy and smiling and doing all kinds of random stuff to a movement that you don't know. You have to first know how to do it properly, right? With rhythm, you have to know the form, how to do it. So this is what I want you to do. Not necessarily with those steps that I showed you. Actually, I want you to pick the movements that are easy for you. It can be something that you've always done on the dance floor, something you learned from me in the past. Even if it's a basic two-step, you can make this thing look so much better. Take the movement that you know, get in front of the mirror, or actually no, first do it without the mirror. Because if you watch yourself, all the craziness, you're not going to kind of be able to get into it. But first practice without the mirror, put your favorite song on, pretend like this is your favorite move in the world. Pretend that you're like the happiest person, your song is playing, you just want to show it and see what happens. You're not going to see because there's no mirror, but you will feel different, I guarantee you. And then after you do that several times, get in front of the mirror and like consciously start tweaking, you know, what looks good, what doesn't. Make a conscious effort to make the movement look good on you. And do it, practice it that way until you like the way it looks. Like I'm sure you've seen those TikTok videos where people do those little viral dance moves. It's not specific moves that they are doing that make them look so good. As dancers, it's our job to make the movement look great, otherwise no one will be entertained, no one will be watching me if I dance like this, right? The energy is just not there, it looks like crap. In that like a professional dance world, we call it dancing full out. You have to give it your all and you have to do it to each movement, only then you will look good dancing. Not something that will happen overnight, you have to practice it, you will get better at it, but start today and let me know what happens. Let me know in the comments if you're going to try it, let me know if anything changed because I feel like this exercise will be a game changer for you. If you're an adult over 30 years old who is uncomfortable dancing in social situations, who doesn't know what to do on the dance floor or how to make it look good, I invite you to apply to my online program. I helped so many adults just like my client Toni, who started just like you and now she's able to dance at any event and this is her update from her dancing all night at her friend's birthday party. Below this video in the description, I'm going to put a link to a free consultation with me, book it and let's get you dancing! you