If You Were My Daughter, I'd Share 5 Brutal Truths About Men That You'd Need To Know!

If you were my daughter, I'd give you five brutal truths about men that would save you years of heartbreak and wasted time. You see, men, well, they're like guitars. Some are beautifully made, some are cheap knockoffs, and some will never sound good no matter how much you practice. You can polish them up, restring them, even play them gently, but the wood underneath never changes. The trick is learning to recognize the sound early before you waste years trying to make the wrong instrument play the right song. So here are five brutal truths about men that you need to know so that you can choose the right guitar and not waste your life trying to fix the wrong one. Brutal truth number one. If you want to know who a man is, you got to look at his friends. His friends say a lot about him. If his closest friends are cheaters, disrespect women, or treat relationships like a game, odds are he does too, because you are who you're surrounded by. A man is shaped by the company he keeps, and no one spends all their time surrounded by people with bad habits without picking some of them up. So pay attention to how his friends live, talk, and love, because it's a mirror of his own values. Men are like guitars. Even a good instrument will sound off-key if it's always played in a broken band. Brutal truth number two. The second truth is that when a man tells you who he is, listen to him the first time. If your boyfriend or a guy you like does something strange or makes a mistake, pay attention. For example, if you catch him lying about something small or even stealing something, and then later he cheats on you, the signs were already there. Likewise, if he's honest and caring to strangers or does the right thing even when no one's looking, that's a sign that his character is pure, and he'll probably treat you similarly. My point is, actions are never just random. They're tied to a man's worldview and his character. One mistake doesn't mean he's a bad person. Everyone makes mistakes, but mistakes can give you a glimpse into who he really is. Heraclitus, one of the oldest and most important philosophers, simply said, character is fate. What he means is that character, or the way we think, feel, and believe, is ultimately the way we end up. Our internal world affects our external world. That means that a man's beliefs form patterns and habits, which ultimately shape the world that's around him, what his situation is, what his environment is, how healthy his relationships are. You see it all the time. A guy cheats on his girlfriend and he swears it was just a mistake, and she finally relents, getting back together with him, just for him to do it again. That's because cheating wasn't just a mistake. It was part of how he thinks and sees the world. Men are like guitars. One bad note can be forgiven, but if the wood is warped, no amount of tuning will ever change the sound. But before we get into brutal truth number three, if you're enjoying the video so far, you're gaining any sort of value from it, I would really appreciate it if you hit the like and sub button. I make videos like this every single week, so if you like what I'm doing, or you like the messages that I'm putting out, I would really appreciate you joining the team. Back to the video. Brutal truth number three, and I kind of feel like I'm not supposed to say this one, but the truth is intimacy is valuable, really valuable, and giving it to the people who matter most speaks volumes about a man's character and reveals every hidden intention inside of him. You often find that patience itself reveals character. When you take your time, you don't rush into anything, you enjoy a slow burn. The right kind of man will make his intentions clear by staying, while the wrong kind of man will quietly leave and completely lose interest. What makes intimacy attractive isn't just the act, it's the meaning behind it. Think about it like this. Things that are rare are valuable, and things that are valuable are attractive. That's just human nature. So when you take your time in being intimate with a man, you become more rare, which makes you more valuable in his eyes. Men are like guitars. You should be selective about which ones you choose to play, because the wrong one will only leave you feeling frustrated and out of tune. Brutal truth number four, a man who wants you won't confuse you. If he's serious, you'll feel it. Mixed signals usually mean he just wants you when it's convenient, when he's lonely, or when he's just looking for your body. And it's not something you should put up with. Real interest doesn't leave you second guessing, no. If you find yourself constantly decoding texts, or wondering where you stand, or making excuses for why he disappears, you already have your answer. Men are like guitars. When you're confused whether it's in tune or not, it's probably not in Finally, brutal truth number five, men will always show you how they feel with their actions, not with their words. You see, words, they're easy. Effort is not. If he says he cares, but never shows up, never makes time, or never follows through, then the words, they mean nothing. Pay more attention to what he does rather than what he says. This is good advice for dating, but it's also just good advice for life. Because actions reveal truth far louder than promises do. Men are like guitars. You don't judge them by the promises printed on the label, but by the music they make when they're actually played. And then I'll speak into the voice memos app on my phone, and then for the rest of the week, I'm basically trying to come up with video that pairs with my audio. So the audio comes first. In most clips, I'm not actually talking. In most of the video clips, I'm not actually talking. That's overlaid audio. That's coming from a different source that I've pre-recorded, I'm just kind of mouthing over what I'm hearing. So I'll basically have the audio play in the background when I'm filming, and I'll talk over it like I'm actually talking. It's a weird way to do things, but it keeps a good, it keeps like a systematic structure in making these kinds of videos. And I'd also love to hear what you think in the comments down below. I really, really appreciate you watching. Peace and love.