HUSBAND FROM HELL! HE TOOK MY MONEY TO FEED ANOTHER WOMAN & IMPREGNATED HER

Inakuwaja otuangu wanguvu, mini reprezenta Ali, your entertainment PA, the AI is always for amazing, siku zote na tia bidi. Kikisho, welcome to different stories, and today I'm joined by my special guest. Amikuja here for the year to share his story and legacy. My name is Anita Bitutu. I'm a mother, and should I say, an ex-wife now? Yes. So I'm here to share a story, just to shed light on what's currently happening in society. And I feel like you're completely missing the point, overlooking the fact that single mothers are the issue. You say you know, but you don't even realize it. You are either a single mother or a person. We are not supposed to be having single mothers. because there's a baby involved, it's hard for her to be a single mother And I'm just assuming the baby will be affected by ata kua in the near future. So, is it fair that babies are just being born out of wedlock? So yeah, this is it—I'm just going to share my story. This is how things unfolded. So I met a guy during the coronavirus period, and of course, We were friends at first, and then I fell in love. I want to believe so, but I think I also moved too fast. because I remember, we were told it would be like today and tomorrow. I'm really interested in getting to know this guy now. So over time, of course, before likuwa, there was something weird. Weird how some shows just end up being. There's a new project that's been ongoing, so I've been interested in it. You know, the things you're doing online aren't what you'd expect from a mature man who's supposed to be in love. Those are the things that used to excite him. So me, I'm here visiting him, and he's busy on the phone for about 30 minutes, talking about So at first I used to find this so weird. I know I was young. I was about 19 years old, and for me, I don't know. Maybe I grew nili nili machuaraka because of me at that time. I was thinking these things aren't relevant. I didn't know much about the internet because I was mostly conducting business online. So this time, the house is too. So, I'm making friends, and I was just about to add them online. So I was like, also easy just accepting what's really going on. So over time dost now we are friends, and friends have grown into something more. So it came to the point. He didn't really like telling me. I would do whatever you want to make you my girlfriend. No, but you know to CC Kenyans. Normally, one wouldn't say manga. You know, if you invite a quack. Yeah, you'll wish I were your girlfriend. Yeah, okay. But for me, it was a strong belief that I was still waiting to be asked. Mostly I get some. And I would believe. I don't want to like. And I think that's exactly what most women actually do. Like when you look at something and fail to notice it. Yet it's a big deal because. And when you realize it doesn't change. It means it's something you don't believe. Like what I did. I'm not advising any of you to go do that. So yeah, with time. We started having conversations. And I was trying to make him like me. Outgrow these strange things he had. And certainly after some time. He was now a good man. And now we are in love. And we decide now we sit down. And we talk as if we could be partners. And are you ready to, like, get married? And I was like, that's just fine. And the proceedings began to take place. We even went to his parents. You know, it's a traditional wedding, in short. So we did that. And upon returning. We have to move in now. When we move in. We talked about things. You know when you're living with a man. Of course you're going to be together every single day. Of course, there's a possibility that you two might have a baby. So we talk about it. Are you ready to have a baby? So if you are not. We take measures. But are you ready? Everyone was ready. And we planned this—this is what's supposed to happen after we have a baby. And boom. So our baby is not an accidental baby. It's a baby we planned for. So we get a baby. And life begins. Okay, now I'm pregnant. So when I met this guy. He was pregnant. As if he were doing his usual things. His business. As if there were no strain. So I was ready. And as you can see, I'm not even straining. Because I was also handling various tasks here and there. So we are here as partners. So after some time. It's been about 6 months. This guy starts telling me. That you know the job. You started having problems. So he is not receiving the money he used to get. So I had to contribute. But now I was heavily pregnant. So I wasn't working as much. The thing that I could do is. Withdraw cash. From the bank. And give him 200. Because I know. He was doing it. So one day things will get better. I don't even like that. I'm not supposed to be helping. You're my partner, why not? So I told him. So from six months. It reached a point where the savings were no longer there. And he isn't getting the money right. So I told him. Let me get going. I was doing that job. Normally I was selling. These are ex-UK goods. At that time, I was selling toys. And furniture. It's a tough job. You carry heavy things. Heavy, but I didn't mind. Because I am someone accustomed to handling demanding tasks. So I didn't mind. I was teaching him as well. Because he didn't know how to do these jobs. At first, he had doubts. He used to say, "I can't do that." Because he was accustomed to working in an office. And that's perfectly fine. There is no problem there. When you get used to it. You can't just start something else right away. So over time, I drew him into that life. He used to take me. I used to work. He used to tell me to go back to your house. You're working hard. But I used to say we would sleep outside. We cannot. Now we are in this COVID era. He used to go to work once in a while. He used to tell me things would get better. Due to COVID. So we were about 9 months along. This guy now. He has completely changed his mood. At first I was shocked. What really happened? But now he has reached a point. He started to tell me, you know. You're not doing this. You're just trying. As I was providing. And of course, he will sometimes tell me. You are not doing enough. And I tell him honestly that this is the only thing I can do. I cannot do better than this. But yeah, because you're doing too little. I was strained as well. To get to do the very thing he was talking about. So I don't know. For some reason, he started to change his mood. Something that most of the girls are overlooking. Because I don't know. Kids start to get stressed for no reason. So I tell him. Today I came and told him. No, today we'll just eat for two. He told me, "No, we will eat for two." We're supposed to be eating a thousand bucks. And I don't have the thousand pounds. And you are providing. No, this time I am providing. I am just providing. Because he has nothing to offer. At the time. If he had had money, he would have provided it. That's what I used to think. But now I'm just scraping. Because he is doing office work. You can't bring money out of nowhere. So you have to pay yourself. So I'm doing what I can. And we are trying. So it came to a point. I was at home. I don't know how to refer to these things as red flags. I'm just in the house. And I am sleeping. Because this guy. You can't even realize where he's going. So I was getting up at night. This guy is not in the house. What time is it? Six or seven. And you know there was a curfew. You were laughing. So I was sleeping. Of course I'm just telling him. He was still watching. He told me he would come to sleep. I am going to sleep. I am pregnant. I am tired. Sometimes when you wake up at night and he isn't there. You ask where he was. And he's just like I was on the balcony. I just want to believe. You know my mum can't possibly do anything wrong. He was on the balcony. That's just it. We let it pass. The next time I found him. I had been visited by my younger sister. So I told her. The baby doesn't want to sleep. So you will come and bring him. So when I went to sleep. This time he took longer ExecutionContext: Over two hours. But when I woke up, I was worried. Where could he be? It's curfew time. I don't know where he has gone. His phone is just here. I went to his phone. I want to know where he is. He left his phone. I am worried. It's so weird. When I went to get his phone. I just found out he was I don't know. He was visiting ladies. I didn't intend to look at them. But I was like, They were from Instagram. But not his phone. After I found out. I was shocked. Not just one lady. There were many ladies online. Those programs. I don't know. Perhaps he was with me for a long time. He felt as though he were pregnant again. He felt as though he were coming back to life. So I asked him. He came back again. He was already married. I was fast asleep. I didn't realize he was coming back late. That was the day I woke up. He came. I started trembling. That thing was hurting me. I'm pregnant with your child. I'm just carrying your baby. You were just out there. Trying to flirt with girls. I don't know how to proceed. I was shaking. What's wrong? Who is this and who is that? Why are you meeting them? I didn't ask you where you came from. Who is this and who is that? You just think whatever you want to think. I felt so bad. I left the house. I wanted to leave. Was there a curfew? Yes, there was a curfew. I told him I cannot tolerate it. Someone flirting with me while I'm pregnant. It's terrible. We had already talked about this. This should be a serious matter. If there had been something bigger, we would have discussed it. So I jumped. I took the baby. I told him this is my sister. I got out. He calls my mom. There has been a small misunderstanding. Please tell her to come home. But I'm telling my mum that things are serious. I just need to leave. I don't want to stay here. I don't want to be in that situation. So I left. I stayed at a hotel. The next morning he called me and told me I went to sleep in a man's house. I went with a child who was four years old. I went to the hotel to relax. To cool down that feeling. Because I knew I would be better the next time we meet. He kept telling me I was pregnant. He realized I am not. I didn't reply. I went back and stayed with him. We apologized. That night it was over. We went to the delivery. I remember I started to feel faint. I was ill and I was feeling faint. Due to stress? Yes. I told him. I will take you to the hospital. He asked me what I wanted to do. Of course, when you're pregnant, you're so emotional. You want to be treated like a princess. But for him, he wanted me to know what to do. I never knew what to do. I'm too pregnant. I have no control over my emotions. I don't have control. That was also annoying. We were close. He didn't want to take me to the hospital. He told me you're a big man. I was so emotional. But girls love to be treated. I told him. This is just pregnancy. It reached the point of delivery. At the time all this drama after you found out he would be visiting other girls Did you go back to his house then? He gave me a convincing story. He told me it's just Instagram. I'm just living in a flat. I have not cheated on you. As a good woman For the mbira, my day wanted to be with you I am sorry Nowadays Mafulu At the moment Umafalu Fangirl Mafulu A funeral Mafulu African wild dog Mafulu Unafalu What's the problem, you know I was doing, I was working hard So the child was born around 7 months of pregnancy So Ika Bidini, like in a little break quarters So I had to give birth So I've been working for almost 3 days. Amaa, my doctor told me So you just go through CS And that is what I wanted from Kitambu. I didn't want to go through labor But he was like, no, you know, you have to labor normally. So misi kukuana, iyo time After I saw, I became like that Yes, I'm like, well, you just want it You go through CS Why do you want to go up? An additional amount due Kuz Insurance was covering only What is it? The insurance covered only normal delivery. So of course I understood Nili worked for 3 days and I was getting mad. The doctor arrived late. Sasa, we want to literally do a CS But he said, No, we can't do a CS. So vile, lifika tu lazima Deliver itafd The doctor asked me Do you have any money? Top up and then I'll pay you And I was like, imagine I don't have And do you know what the response was? That's what you're saying now, but you'll regret it later. Eh, what have I been doing wrong? You told me, I told you, you told me You changed what I was doing I have the money, I just don't want to give it to him. You are in labor right now Yeah, I was in labor. I was just about to give birth. So I wondered why he told me that. And it felt so terrible Me, I never wanted to let him down. I hated myself, and I said no. Anyway, I said so—there's nothing I can do right now. So after that God helped me when I was just 5 centimeters tall. The baby had just given birth. So they wanted to just force a normal delivery So if you're a mother, you know people get cut literally. They get cut a lot of times. So I had to do that because you have to be 10 centimeters I mean, I was just 5 So they had to shorten it to your 10 What do you get? Yeah So once again I delivered It took me so long to heal I remember it was about three months. So all this time You know I was just in a relationship. So of course he gave me After that day when I was discharged from the hospital He told me he would give me KSh 18,000. I don't have a problem. This is my partner. I asked someone and then I gave it to him. Of course he gave it back to me later. I don't remember. Later in the years he gave it back to me So we deliver and we go home And now he told me to go to my mum So when he took me home I didn't tell him. He was just telling me he doesn't have So I had to figure out a way to help me buy a baby. That we need to You know But right now I don't have He gave me that statement. You know you borrowed money. I told him I don't have He told me I want you to buy me KSh 100,000. He told me I had borrowed Actually, I was just waiting for him to give me KSh 100,000 At that time I couldn't get KSh 60,000 So I asked my mum for some And of course I asked somewhere else Shilox or something else I gave it to him and told him I only have KSh 60,000. After three days he returns and tells me He has not received He has not received the additional KSh 40,000. So he doesn't want me to buy him So I bought him. He told me about the additional KSh 40,000. He is supposed to give my mom something. And then he will sort me out So I bought him another KSh 40,000. Where I bought him I was supposed to pay him interest after one week. Because he had already told me His money will arrive after one week. So Of course he didn't give my mom the present. And I was like, why not? You know I can't tell my mum. You are supposed The present has not arrived because And then I don't want her to know It is I who am giving the man the money. I'm protecting him, he's my man. So He told my mum Of course he told me My mom's present won't arrive. There are other things she has She wants to buy a lot of things for her son. So I didn't know where he had taken the money. So I guess life went on like that After The baby was 1 month old, and I went back to live with him. This is where things are now. Became too serious And I was like, am I really in the right place? In the right relationship The way we used to We used to talk Have conversations Life was good. From the moment I met him First, when you do something wrong He's like, are you trying to manipulate me? I am who I am; I'm not manipulating you. So for some reason I was afraid of crying. So when I am hurt, I would hide myself In the bathroom and cry Until I am done crying Then I would go back to the office. Because he'll be just like you're trying to manipulate me So I'm like Why wasn't I seeing that this relationship Is really toxic It was toxic. I was just like blinding myself So I went back to live with him. And this time This guy Goes to work, comes home late I don't know Things used to happen Now this is After I have gotten the baby 2021 So I got a baby Now I am taking care of the baby. So we never used to have a problem He would come, he would cook. I wash the dishes Modern What do you call it in today's relationships? A woman does everything. Given that Those three months I was sick I had not yet healed from the wounds. From getting the baby So when he comes home He would scold me. I didn't want him to scold me I was really trying I wanted us to have a very good relationship. Yes So at that point I don't understand why things are negative. But because I realized he had another woman. As if he had another wife So those are the things That was disturbing him There was nothing really wrong with me. The things that were bothering him You're bringing me pain. Pain I didn't know at that time How did you find out? This time We are not living in the same house. Because In January I needed to Go back to school So when I told him I wanted to go back to school He was like, "You're not going back without the baby." I told him it's not going to happen. So in short, he was discouraging me. That I should go with the baby That I should go to class and come back I told him, "Can we please move?" To a location that is closer to the school So that I can at least access school He was like no one else. We'll just live here. I felt like If he doesn't want me to go back to school I would be a disappointment. To my parents So I just needed to go back So I told him, if you don't want to support me Let me just Go I went to a place I found a small house. I stayed close to the school. I would go to class and come back. To see the baby after 30 minutes That made him mad. But it didn't make him mad. It's just because You know when we were living here He would come to the house and call me. That I had prepared dinner He told me not to let the maid cook supper. So I cooked dinner. And then he told me he's going to be home. By 9:30 It's 10:30, he's not home yet. By 10:30 I was tired and asleep. He doesn't eat. Because I did not serve him Now the situation has changed. We had agreed not to cook for him. But now I have cooked So cooking for him hasn't helped. Now the problem is I have not served him. That was the trend. Sometimes he would Buy things for me Baby carrier, curry coat And now He has gone back to work. Yes, he has gone back to work. But he still lies to me Things have not been good. But even his small business That he earns Sometimes it was just bills. You know I am a person. Who wants bills to be paid on time? So He would come and tell us It's the 15th, you guys haven't paid the rent. And I'm like, why haven't you paid the rent? He gets it, he's like What have you contributed? The baby was not even a month old. So I tell him I can't work. I don't have anywhere I can get money. Whenever I can contribute That is what he does. When I support him He used to ask me not to let him go to work. Now I realize he was not going to work. I was giving him money. So that he can go to work And I wasn't going to work So I was just saving I told him I can't save. I am planning for our future This time we had a hard time. Because I had moved out When I went to school He told me he had moved out. From that time onward I told him I am going for a walk. He said I'm not going. I was like Is there something wrong? I used to go to school on weekdays and come home on weekends. He said, "No, I am not going." Why? Because he has never been able to pay rent And he feels like he has to move out. So he moved out. Things like that So I told him If you don't want me to come Just leave me alone I want to be the best I could never be When I stopped asking him Not to go to work He told me He has no money. I live alone. No one is paying my rent. I hustle to get the rent paid So that I can go to school I am like a single person I don't know how He comes to my house. Every single day in the evening But the problem is When he comes to my house He doesn't want to go home with the three of us. So when he comes to eat He asks me to pay rent. Where he is staying Uber is KSh 700. So I pay KSh 700. But he was like, "I'll pay you." I told myself he would pay. But I remember when I gave him KSh 100,000 He was shocked. Because I gave him I pressured him to pay me back. And he told me one week later So now When I pay him via Uber I feel like I shouldn't ask him When he should repay me Because if I ask him, we'll be in a lot of trouble. Because I truly love him So it came to a point What is it called? It came to a point Where school was tough I didn't want to go. Because I have to hustle Rent is a lot of money. So I decided to give up informational Because now His job is not paying him. As he told me So I am doing a lot of work Because I know he will come home When we finish eating I'll get him fare So it came to a point I was fed up. I told him that if you have to visit Come with fare Do you know what he told me? That the small amount of fare That you are giving me I told him I'm not even I am just like You're pushing me too hard. But you're pushing me too hard It makes me feel strained. So I remember He told me you left me Sometimes you left me And now I'm stuck I told him I didn't know you were Stuck I wouldn't let you go through that Because you know I've always wanted to be there for you. I wasn't even sure you wanted to be with my wife. But he knows He has a wife somewhere. Things get toxic How did you find out? He has a wife. It was just the other day It's not even a week. Like this Sunday Do you know This Sunday has passed. Where I live Do you pay him an Uber? I don't pay him an Uber. But I still give him the fare Because from where I live It's far away. Sorry for laughing So he comes to visit. And he comes to walk So at this time Let's say You want to know how I found out So he had reached a place Normally when we are with him The couch is like this. When I sit on this couch He wanted to sit with me. So this time, when I sit here, he comes. I am like He has started to pull away But his phone He doesn't want to have a smartphone. He has a small phone. It's called Tutunulu So he hides. He does this. I didn't want it to be an alarm. Because when I asked him He told me to just send him money. I told him that's fine. But this night The phone was ringing. He isn't picking. And I'm getting the impression that he's ignoring it. I told him. Why are you ignoring the phone call? He is like You're just annoying me. I told him it's okay. The other day we were at the supermarket. We were buying food. So I am talking to him I'm trying to talk to him. He is always on the phone. I told him, "Is there something?" Disturbing you He's just like you're trying to be a control freak. Imagine out of nowhere Out of nowhere, he told me I'm trying to be a control freak. I heard a guy What have I done? I didn't want to ask him again. But this night I asked him because I am concerned. Perhaps it's because There is a bill that he has not paid. And something is troubling him. And he can't share There's ego. He doesn't want to share. Of course he wants to deal with you. He went to sleep. I left him in the sitting room. Doing his thing Then he came back. I realized the phone was still ringing. He wrapped it. On a handkerchief And he was beginning to exhibit those traits. So I noticed it was a red flag So I pretended That I was asleep When I went to the restroom He hid the phone. I noticed something weird. So I pretended that I was asleep. I took the pants. And put it on the wardrobe I took the phone. I went to another restroom. I locked the door. Immediately He knocked. Why did you leave our bedroom? I told him I was just here. So I wanted to see what's really happening So I wanted to see Who was calling? I picked up And that girl asked me Who was she talking to? I told her This is Joe's phone I didn't want to mention names. So this is his phone. You know what we're going to do. We will cut that part. I asked her Why are you taking his phone? And I told him And I told her It's because I think He doesn't want to pick Is there something I can help you with? Maybe it's bothering him. So he hung up. I heard something. I looked at the messages. It said You're not taking care of me and all that stuff The baby And I was shocked Have I been living a lie? Because I had never noticed anything And I've been with this guy for three years now. I have never noticed anything. So I was shocked Next I realized He has never sent me money. I was shocked. I took his phone. I asked him And who is Malia? And who is this? And he was like I don't know Who are you talking to? I told him. I have received your messages. Yes, it's blocked, but of course. I receive messages He told me you're the one doing the checking. If the messages are blocked He called again. He told me not to pick. Who is he talking to? So I picked up the phone and pedal to the lady. Hello I am Mama Sekani And I have realized that you are asking for You're asking for money. From My husband And she's like He told you to ask me that question And I'm like no I just want to understand the relationship between the two of you. And he is like Don't ask him So I put it on loudspeaker. And he is saying Don't ask him; that's why you're talking to him. So they're just joking. So no one wants to tell me what's going on But where are they staying It's like they're talking about me. There's a way they have told When he is at my place If I don't answer the phone He will say, "Who are you?" So she already knew you were there. It's like the girl knows. There's an arrangement And I don't know because I am in the dark I know he comes on weekends. So I am alone in the dark He is fine with that life. So I was like shaking And this guy is like, just calm down. It's not a small matter to have a baby. So I ended up asking I have a child out there He told me Things happen Shit happens back then I messed up one day. And I got this girl pregnant. And now there's a baby involved Now you know what I can do I don't want you to leave me But now there's a baby involved You've hidden it from me for six months. And he is like And then I asked Why is she saying That you are supposed to leave the key at your door She is supposed to leave the key at your door. And he is like no one else I left the key in the jumper. Because it was cold He was just lying to me. Even after I found out You know, I believe his story. Do you live with a girl or not? I don't live with her, I live with her So it's okay But I am pregnant. And then I told him Can we talk about it? We can't talk about anything. So he wants to be He doesn't want to make me cry So that I may cry the way I cry This time I told him Just go home, go to your place I just need some time alone. He told me where you want me to go I don't have a fare. I told him. I can't give you a fare now that you have a baby out there. I have one child, and he has another. I can't just give him a fare. I feel bad this time. I don't want to make him go through this again So I told him Just send him a fare He told me his brother sent him a fare. So in the morning I was with my little sister I took her to the hospital. My brother called me. He told me Now the brother is calling Mataji. Asking for money to go to his place And he tells me I told him what had conspired. He told me he doesn't know. He lives with his wife. I was like I was in a public area of the hospital. I got beaten up. Now what is this Even the brother knew? Yes, everyone knew I was alone in the dark You and your family The worst thing is Even if he came close to my mum She was just hanging around us. We didn't notice anything. He knew how to hide. So according to The way you came to find out Did you notice that you came Afterwards in the relationship, or did you come first? I came first because I went to their place. And their parents received me. They told me I am the wife. They were worried that the guy is getting old. Because he is ten years older than me He is getting old, and so are all his other brothers. Is already married So of course I am the first wife. So I didn't know about The second wife So let me just tell you How it happened His brother told me Bibi, why have you guys never told me That you know about our birthday I came because He told us He has already told you. So you see what he is doing He is making people believe that I am okay with it So they won't even mention it Because it's not an issue So they know I know, and I'm good. So at that time I was like I cried. He was like, just call mum. And tell her what conspired So I called his mom And I told her I told her He had a child. And he told me he had another wife. And I didn't know As if I am shaken And the mother is like Let me just tell you the full story Yes, there is another woman. And we were told you're okay with it So we said if you guys are just okay with it You have decided to leave the church. Then that's just it I am okay. And I remember I didn't even know what to say Of course they talked to me. They told me we need to talk to you. So I went and listened to what they were telling me So they told me They brought someone. Who was a student? Or something He was a student. But he was working. So it's a staff-student relationship. And that is what ruined his job. Normally he used to invite The boss But it's not really the boss. What brought about the problem is This guy messed up with a student. And you know, normally that brings up Termination Of course, the girl was sent to school. And the guy Fired her from the job And how is your relationship with him now? Right now he is still like He is sorry. For everything he has put me through But you know I can't accept that, sorry. At first I was accepting it because I never knew he was cheating on me. I didn't want to believe that I overlooked But right now there's no way you're going to tell me you're sorry. Because you're already with another woman Who has been living with you for He lied to me; the baby is 6 months, but he is 9 months. So you've been living with a woman for over nine months. That's why you've been shouting at me. For no good reason I am trying to be the best woman I can possibly be. But you are still Giving me a reason Just to It doesn't make sense One of the things People can ask What is your reason? For coming out just to share this story The reason why I am telling this story now Is There are many women in this situation. As you can see How many ladies are out there Are single mothers Almost all of them are my age And it's because Men have normalized it It's just okay to come. You are getting someone pregnant for your own benefit It's not really that you want To be a wife And it's not fair to the baby You know the baby is going to grow up And most of the time It is not You'll get someone else. In the future, that guy will be fine. With that other baby It's like It's nature. It's not your child So I don't want Before you enter into a relationship And you see You want to take things Even if you get a baby You can get married, but take your time. Find out Who are you going to get? What kind of life are you going to build? Because you can build In this relationship The way I built And you love blindly He has realized your weakness. And The way he has recognized your weakness He is using it to manipulate you You see What hurts me the most is When I do a difficult job A difficult job Normally even people who are looking at me working They are like you're doing a difficult job. This guy Even has the audacity to come and tell me That you are doing a job Like a man You know what hurts the most is He tells me that Because he knows You have to stay at home. You have washed and bathed. You can be a slave queen. Because he has some way He compares me to that. And mind you Even that previous Like the month before Before I realized that is I helped him pay. I helped him pay the rent. Like the good woman that I am Because I don't know if he has someone I am helping my partner I don't have a problem. Let's say I am raising a family. I am paying I'm helping Dad. And mom and their kids And they still call me baby mama So I don't know When they sit together They tell me to let me go and visit the girl. I'm coming home with some money. I come with rent I come the day after Because he would come and then lie to me Let me go and wash my feet on the balcony. I can't read between the lines So I'm just saying To the girls who are just with this Young If you are in a relationship And you are married. Make sure that Your husband is staying. Don't be like me Because he doesn't want you to go Find out what's really happening Because if you stay in that relationship Imagine if I found out ten years later How bad would it have been Right now I haven't slept for three days. Imagine it with a relationship of three years. What if it had been a relationship lasting ten years? I know there are people in that state. You've been with someone for ten wonderful years. So when you realize It's already too late. You are hopeless. Will I ever get out of this? Let me just stay Where would I go with 5 kids? Where will I go? Before you just decide To get pregnant I don't want you to have single mothers It's not fair for the babies. So before You want to have a baby 5 months, 6 months 1 year, 2 years Give it time Understand his motives Don't ignore Of course, there are good people out there. But they are not all good people. I really hope the baby is okay. We will get through this period. Maybe no one will Because there are things like this I am not going to raise him with that hatred. Don't ignore Act on it That's where you will be able to help yourself I don't have much to say. I hope you have learned From today's story The story was very compelling. Different from what I expected But I really appreciate you. For sharing it My name is Presenter Ali The air is always amazing behind the camera I am your host, director Captain Sikuz Don't forget to subscribe See you all in the next episode.