Choose yourself and walk away

If you are a beautiful woman, if you are a woman that has money, that has any talent, you better be prepared to become the biggest bitch ever. People, men and women, will attack you for no reason. They will not like you for no reason. Just because you're breeding, you will trigger them. So you better be prepared to have some strong-ass boundaries and to walk away every single time. Recently, I was in a situation with the father of my child, where I had given birth and I was in a country where I didn't have all of my rights, I didn't have my family, and this guy basically decided to blackmail me with my child. If I don't do this, then he's gonna take my child. If I don't do this, then I'm gonna get deported. And I was constantly thinking, okay, let me just try to be nice and pay for everything and do everything this guy asks, so he will stop blackmailing. But guess what happened? It got worse and worse. And guess what happened even now? He went online and he literally said, after I had to leave for my visa, that I abandoned my child. I abandoned my child. No, I abandoned myself, staying through all the bullshit for my child. I want to say to every single woman, if a man is blackmailing you with your child, give them the child. Let these men be single parents. We need to stop doing what our mother has done, what our grandmother has done. My mother stayed for 25 years with a man, let herself get abused because she was scared of the children being taken. I will not be blackmailed with my own child that I almost died putting on this earth. I don't want my son to grow up and think that it's okay to treat women like this, that it's okay to blackmail women like this. So if you're a mother right now, and I've seen so many mediums of women of like, I'm being blackmailed, and by the way, the system doesn't protect us. Court system, you will go to court, you will lose all of your money for years and years, and they will still not give you the child. Even if they give it to you, these men will not help you with child support. So guess what? How do we break this whole cycle that our ancestors all had to repeat? We break it by saying it ends with us. Let's make this world full of single dads. You know how many men were bullying me every day? Oh, she's a single mom, she's single mom. All men that have single moms themselves, they don't appreciate the effort that you put in. Let these fathers raise them. Why are we always putting ourselves in these situations where these men can just walk away for nothing? As a woman, you are not just sent to this earth to be a mother. You are not just sent to this earth to be a wife. You are a powerful woman. Stop giving your power away to these men. Stop giving your life away for these kids that tomorrow all are going to be just ungrateful. Hi guys, my name is Az and welcome back to my channel. Okay, let's get into it. First things first. First thing is when someone holds something over your head, you walk away. Whether it's a friend, whether it's a boss, whether it's a relationship. Oh, I'm gonna leak your news. Oh, I'm gonna do this. Oh, do it. You show those people no fear. The only power they have over you is that you are scared. When you show these people I am not scared of you, you will not abuse me, you will not use me. That's when they lose all of the power. Right now, my ex is begging me, begging me, texting me. Oh, I want to give you your child. Oh, now you want to, huh? Because you realize I don't give a f**k and I never give a f**k. Another thing is you better run away from people that are insecure and jealous. Listen, these jealous insecure people will completely try to dim your light, try to humble you and take every single soul or essence that you have. Whether it's friends, colleagues, your relationship, run away. When you see that they're trying to compete with you, when you see that they're saying these slight comments of like, oh you don't, you're not all that, oh this and that. When you hear these things, run for the hills. These people will only get worse and worse. You cannot make these people feel secure in themselves. You cannot control this person. They will only get more insecure because they are triggered by you. There is nothing you can do. You can't sit there and say I'm gonna change myself and then they will like me more. They want you to stop breathing. They don't want you on this earth. Your essence, you breathing triggers them. You can't do anything but walk away. I don't care who it is. You walk away from these people and you save yourself every single time. There was a point where I felt like everything was just hitting me at once. My schedule was non-stop and my brain just wouldn't slow down. I felt stressed and honestly just stuck in survival mode. Starting therapy really helped me to take a step back and figure out how to manage everything in a healthier way. I learned coping tools that actually worked for me. For example, how to set boundaries and how to stop carrying everything on my own. It didn't make my life perfect overnight. It made me feel way more grounded and in control of my life again. Having slow mornings where I can center myself makes all the difference to make me feel grounded. Better Health is a sponsor of today's video and they are on a mission to make therapy way easier. With Better Health, therapists will listen, ask questions and help you see things from a new perspective. Better Health makes therapy accessible wherever you are, whether it's online or through the app. Fill out a questionnaire and you'll match with therapists in as little as a couple days. 82% of clients recommend their therapist. Click the link in the description down below or visit betterhealth.com wizard list to get 10% off your first month at Better Health. Because no one should go to anything alone, Better Health is here with you. Another thing is understand that a lot of people are projecting especially onto women that have any privilege. This society's biggest enemy is a beautiful successful woman that doesn't keep her mouth shut. I swear you will have spiritual warfare on you. These demons will unleash and try to bring you down. You need to understand these people are projecting. These people have no life and they will never accomplish anything. It's men that cannot be with you and it's women that cannot be you that will be your biggest enemies. You still have to walk. Whatever they say about you, they are projecting because they're talking about themselves. You are what you say I am. Another thing, do not be with people that have nothing to lose. These people have nothing to lose. They have no job, they have nothing going for themselves. That's why they're hyper fixated on you and bringing you down because there's nothing going for them. You don't argue with them, you cut them off quickly. I need you women to understand if you are a privileged beautiful woman, it is dangerous for your life to engage with these people. Just now I saw this guy, makeup artist, Miss Venezuela. She was sitting and he takes a scissor and attacked her face with scissors. There's women throwing acid in other women's faces because she's beautiful. You guys don't understand how jealousy and hate will drive people to do the most insane things. Guard yourself with your life. What you can do with these people if you have a lot of haters, bullies, whatever, is use their energy and you transmute. Energy is energy. It's not neither good, it's neither bad. It's just you being sent a lot of energy and see, hater energy is very obsessive energy. It's not like just they're sending you love. No, it's like they're investigating and they're creating stuff so they're like very very deep into it. This energy is really good if you know how to transmute it. For example, you take this energy, you can always ward your name. That's what I always do. I say that anytime I'm name spoken, good or bad, I get more beautiful, healthier and wealthier, more protected. I say all of these things so whenever someone speaks my name, I just get more blessings. And second of all, you use that energy to create something out of it. Create something because anyways if energy is being sent to you, your creation will get attention. When you create something, you can get more abundance out of it. Don't just sit there and victimize yourself. Never ever allow yourself to be a victim. People that are haters, people that are bullies, these are victims. They think that life is against them, whatever. People that take power back over their life, they never see themselves as a victim. I don't see any situation in my life that happened to me as like, oh I was a victim. Maybe when I was a child and my father was abusing me, that's when I was a victim. When I'm older and stuff, no I don't believe I'm a victim. I don't believe that. Because at the end of the day, this situation was I still have authority and power over my life. If I'm just a victim, that means that the other person has all the power and they don't. I can walk away. I can rebuild myself every single time. Another thing, stand up for yourself. Do not allow these people to talk down on you. Do not allow these people to constantly bully you. Stand up for yourself. No one is going to do it. No one is going to come and be like, oh I'm going to defend her. No, if you don't defend yourself, no one's going to defend you. Whenever someone comes to you with any weird energy, tell them, why do you talk to me like that? Like just now, I had a situation with this guy. I went on a date with him and he was like all normal, whatever. And suddenly, he just switched and I swear these people are like demons that are possessing them. It's so weird. What's going on in my life is so spiritual. It's weird to me. So like suddenly, he switched and he goes like, yeah but you for example made all these women bitches. I was like, excuse me? And then he's like, yeah and it came out of nowhere. I put this guy in his place so ******* fast, he started trembling. He was so ******* scared and I walked out of that date. Do not ******* talk to me like that. I stand by what I did. If these women are bitches that watch the wizard list, let them be the biggest bitches ever. Men abuse, use, rape women and when a woman comes online and says, let these men provide or don't just be with these men for nothing, oh then suddenly it's a problem. Then suddenly you guys are threatened. I'd rather be a bitch and an evil woman than a woman that gets used and abused every single day. When a man or anyone tells you that you are a good woman, you should take that as an insult. Because in this world, to be a good woman means you have to bend over backwards and you will still not be good enough. Nothing a woman does is ever enough. Ever. For example with me right, all of these women analyzing my situation and like, oh she shouldn't have got married too fast. Oh she did this too fast, did that too fast. Okay so I'm a stupid bitch. Okay let's say that. But then when Christy Sarah comes online and then she was 14 years with her husband, gave this man three children and she was, they had a whole empire. Everyone loved them right? Suddenly he cheats on her and everyone in his comments is like, oh he looks so peaceful now because she was annoying. Also Christy Sarah did everything right but she was annoying. I did everything wrong and I deserved it. So whatever a woman does, it's never good enough. You guys are jealous and big man. Another thing is focus on money. I've said this again and again. If you are a woman, you have to focus on money. Do not focus on these relationships. Do not focus on, I need to be a mother, this and that. No, no, no. You focus on money. If you don't have money as a woman, you will be in the most shittiest situation. You cannot trust anyone. Not a friend, not whoever. Anyone can switch up on you like this. Why? Because we cannot control other people. A person can have a psychosis today and they can completely do something irrational to you. You can't control them, you just hope for the best. So you need to make sure that you always have money so you have the freedom to walk away. If I did not have money in my situation, I would be so fucked. Guys, I would be so fucked. Every day I'm so grateful. Thank you God that I have money to walk away. Time and time again, I have seen women being left with no money by these men. Even if they give them children, they give them everything and they are left and stranded with nothing. You are a powerful woman once you have your own money. Also, focus on yourself. Listen, for my fans and for people that subscribe and stuff, they don't like drama and I know that they're not invested in my drama either. My personal life, you shouldn't care. You should learn from this. You should literally look at this and be like, ----, I should definitely not do that. I should definitely not get blackmailed, not even over my own child. Stop focusing on other people's lives and start focusing on yourself. Look, my ex, for example, has a weird obsession with me. I don't know what it is, but it's a weird obsession and all he does is focus on me, focus on my life and what happens? He completely has destroyed his life. He has lost everything because of it and he can't stop focusing on me. This is what happens when you indulge in negativity. You're jealous, you're a hater. These people will never make it. If you see a woman online that is talking about me constantly, 20 videos about me, please take that as an example to never be like her. That's a pathetic woman. I'm sorry it's pathetic to come online and constantly talk about other people if that's the only thing you do. You have nothing going for yourself. It's sad. Focus on yourself. These people will never accomplish anything. They will be 80 years old tomorrow and they will have nothing to show for it. And last but not least, let go of trying to be a good woman or caring about your reputation. See, throughout society, women have always tried to upheld their reputation and tried to be a good woman, this and that, but what it actually does is they're just trying to control you and the patriarchy thrives off controlling women and other women are also trying to control women because they're oppressed themselves. It's oppressed people oppressing other people. No, you don't want to be like that. That is when you accomplish nothing. No one is going to give you applause because you were a good woman and because you listened. My mom for 25 years listened, did nothing, did everything she had to do and guess what she has to show for it? Nothing. There are still till this day people that believe my father was a good man and that she was an evil woman. Can you imagine that? Do not ever give up any of your life, anything that you have going for yourself for anyone. If someone doesn't make you happier, richer or more beautiful, they should not be in your life. Either you're gonna learn to become the biggest bitch ever or this world is going to eat you alive. Believe me, I've tried to be kind, I've been a people pleaser, every single time I'm getting punished. God punishes me when I give more than what I receive. As a woman, you cannot do that. We are here on earth, we are the creators. This earth is filled by our children. There's mothers and their children. We should be respected. People should come to us with respect and if they can't do that, if you stay, then you will bear the karma for it. So you better walk away. Anyways guys, I love you so much and yeah, see you in the next video. Bye-bye!