All Women Give These 10 Signs When They Want You (Most Men NEVER Notice)

How many times have you walked past a woman, made eye contact, and thought, was that something? Or was she just looking at me? Or, I don't know. And then you did nothing because you weren't sure. Here's what I need you to understand. Women are giving you signals all the time that they want you to approach, but you're missing them. You're not seeing them, not because you're dumb, because female attraction is subtle, indirect, the opposite of what you would expect. You're waiting for her to stare, to smile, beg to wave you over, but that almost never happens. In this video, I'm showing you 10 subtle signals women give when we want you to approach, signals most men completely miss, and you'll learn what they look like, why we give them, and exactly what to do when you spot them. I'm not guessing what these are. I'm a woman. I do these things, and I'm about to tell you exactly what they mean, all right? Let's get into it. I'm Larni, and from here on out, I'm gonna be your very own personal wing girl, and every week, it is my job to give you the no BS insider info about what women really want versus what they say they want, plus the most effective methods to win over any woman you like, so hit that subscribe button now so that you never miss a video. All right, before I show you the 10 signals, I need to teach you something critical. It's called reading her baseline, so here's what I mean. Every woman has a default way she acts. Some women are naturally touchy with everyone. Some women smile at everyone. Some women are super friendly and chatty by nature, and if you don't know her baseline, you're going to misread everything, so let me give you an example. So you're at a party, and a woman keeps touching your arm while she's talking to you. You think, oh wow, she must be into me, but then you watch her talk to other guys, and she's touching their arms too, which means she's not into you. That's just how she is with everybody. Her touchiness isn't a signal, it's her baseline. That's just how she acts. Now, if you notice she's not touchy with other people, but she is touchy with you, that's a signal. That's her treating you differently than everybody else, so here's the rule. Before you decide a woman is into you, watch how she acts with others first. Look for the difference between how she treats everyone else and how she treats you. That difference is where the truth lives. If she's quiet with everyone, but lights up around you, that is a signal. If she makes eye contact with you, but avoids it with other guys, that's a signal. If she laughs at your jokes harder than anyone else's jokes, that's a signal. The signal isn't the behavior itself, the signal is the contrast, okay? You got it? All right, we're good, so now we can move on. So now let me show you the 10 subtle signals to look for. The first signal is when she looks away immediately. This is a huge one, and it's completely counterintuitive. So when I walk past a man that I'm not attracted to, I'll either smile politely or just look at him with no expression. No big deal, he's there, you know? I'm not into him, but when I walk past a man that I am attracted to, I look away fast. Why? Because I don't want to be obvious. I don't want him to know I'm interested. It feels too vulnerable. So I glance, and then I look away like I wasn't looking at all. Most guys interpret this as rejection. She didn't even look at me. Wrong, she looked, and then she looked away because she's attracted to you. The key is catching that quick glance before the look away. If she looked at you at all, even for a split second, and then immediately averted her eyes, that's interest. It's not rejection. This is one of the most subtle signals that women give, and now you know what it actually means. All right, sign number two, she gets quieter around you. Another counterintuitive one. You'd think an interested woman would be really talkative and engaging and animated, but a lot of women get quieter. I'm one of those women, okay? We get quieter around men that they're attracted to because we're nervous, we're in our heads, we're worried about something we might say that might sound stupid, so we clam up. Here's where baseline matters. If you're in a group and she's chatting with everyone else, but suddenly she gets really quiet when you join, that's not her ignoring you, that's her being hyper-aware of your presence. So pay attention to who gets nervous around you. That's who she likes. Third signal, when she fidgets, which I fidget a lot. She fidgets with her hair, her jewelry, her clothes. That's one classic that most men don't know why it happens. When a woman is attracted to you, she becomes self-conscious about how she looks. She wants to look good for you, just like I do in these videos. She starts fidgeting, she starts adjusting, playing with her hair, touching her necklace, fixing her shirt. She's not even aware that she's doing it. It's subconscious. If you're talking to a woman and her hands keep moving to her hair, her face, her jewelry, that is her body saying, I want to look attractive right now. And there's only one reason that she'd want that. The fourth signal is when she finds excuses to be near you. That one is so subtle, but so powerful. She doesn't approach you directly, that would be too obvious, but she keeps ending up near you. Again, proximity. At a party, she's suddenly in your area of the room. At work, she walks past your desk more than necessary when her desk is on the other side. At the gym, she's on the machine next to yours, and she's not going to make the first move, but she's putting herself in position for you to make one. If you notice a woman keeps appearing in your orbit, that's not coincidence, that is strategic. She's hoping you will notice, she's hoping that you will say something. So say something. The fifth signal is when she laughs at things that aren't even funny. You make a dumb joke, a really dumb joke, the kind that should get a polite smile at best, and she laughs, like it's the funniest thing that she's ever heard. That's not because you're secretly hilarious, which we might be, but most likely not, that's because she's attracted to you. When women like a man, everything he says seems funnier, seems smarter, seems more interesting, and we can't help it, it is biological. Remember, baseline. Is she laughing at everyone else's jokes like this, or just yours? If she's finding you way more amusing than you actually are and not doing that with other guys, she's into you. So make your move. Now, once you spot these signals and actually work up the courage to approach her, there's something you need to make sure of. 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If a woman asks you something random, anything, that's her saying, I wanna talk to you, please talk back. So take that hint. The seventh signal is when she remembers really small details about you. So you mentioned once, weeks ago, that you really like Italian food. Now she brings up this Italian place she heard about, or she brings Italian food to work and then shows you she has it. That is not a coincidence. That's her telling you she's been paying attention. When women are interested, we remember everything about you. Your favorite drink, that story you told, the name of your dog. If she brings up something you mentioned in passing, something most people would totally forget, that means that you've been on her mind and it means she's thinking about you. And people don't stay on your mind for no reason. The eighth signal is when she teases you or gives you a hard time. Oh, you're one of those guys. Wow, that's the best you've got. You think you're pretty smooth, don't you? This isn't her being mean. This is her flirting, her attempt to flirt. Women tease men that we're attracted to. We poke you, we challenge you, we give you a hard time. It's playful, it creates tension, it's fun. If she's busting your balls a little, if there's a spark of mischief in her eyes when she does it, she likes you, so play back. The ninth signal is when she mirrors your body language. And this one's subconscious and incredibly reliable, okay? You lean in, she leans in. You cross your arms, she crosses her arms. You pick up on, sorry, you pick up your drink, she picks up her drink, right? This is a nervous system reacting. It's called mirroring. And we do it automatically with people that we like. It's our brain trying to create connection and rapport. So if you notice she's matching your movements, your posture, your energy, that's her body saying, I'm with you, I'm on your wavelength, I'm locked in. And that is a green light. Tenth and final signal, and this is the clearest one of all, is when she lingers. The conversation could end, the interaction could be over, but she doesn't leave. She stays, she lingers, she finds reasons to keep the conversation going and talking. Oh, one more thing. Oh, actually, I was wondering if before you go, right? These are all things that she would say. A woman who's not interested will find a polite exit quickly. Bye, see you later. A woman who is interested will drag out the interaction as long as possible. She's waiting for you to escalate, to ask for her number, to suggest you continue this somewhere else, to go in for the kiss. If she's lingering, she's hoping. Don't make her wait forever. So here's the bottom line. Women are rarely going to walk up to you and say, hey, I'm interested, are you gonna ask me out? We communicate very differently, more subtly, more indirectly, not because we're playing games or because we wanna make it hard on you, but because we don't wanna risk rejection either. I know it's not fair, but that's just where we're coming from. So we give hints, we give openings, and most men walk right past them because they're looking for something obvious that almost never comes. Now you know what to look for, the quick glance, followed by looking away, getting quiet around you, the fidgeting and hair-touching, finding excuses to be near you, laughing too hard at your jokes, asking random questions, remembering small details, teasing you playfully, mirroring your body language, and lingering when she can leave. But remember, always check her baseline first. The signal isn't the behavior, it's how she treats you differently than everybody else. These are the subtle signs, stop missing them. Now, knowing the signals is step one, but what do you actually do when you spot them? That's where most guys freeze up and they're like, I don't know what to do. So you see the signal, you know she's interested, and then nothing, you don't know what to say, you hesitate, and the moment passes. That's why I put together something called the Signal Decoder Guide, and it is completely free. This isn't just a list of the 10 signals, it is a complete system for reading women and taking action. And inside, you'll get all 10 signals broken down with real world examples, exactly how to spot her baseline so you don't misread friendly as flirty, and most importantly, word for word scripts for what to say when you spot a signal. So there's no more freezing up, no more, what do I say, no more watching her walk away while you're still in your head. This guide gives you the confidence to actually make a move when the moment is right. So click the link in the description below to download it for free. Stop missing your opportunity, start making moves. That said, thank you for watching this video to the very end. If you've ever looked back and realized you missed signals from a woman who was clearly interested, now you know what to look for next. So hit that like button and subscribe so you never miss a video ever again. I'm Marni, your wing girl, and I'll see you next week.