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Tâm Đắc Cổ Nhân welcomes you Have you ever wondered why some people upon hearing just one statement about cause and effect On impermanence on the fleeting nature of life it instantly feels so true so familiar That's exactly something I've understood for a long time Some people grow more fond of peace as they age no longer concerned with winning or losing when faced with sadness they don't quickly blame life but quietly wondering whether I needed to learn something from this experience If you've ever felt this way perhaps you are carrying within you a very special seed the seed of courage There is one thing in life that I often observe And perhaps many of you here have experienced something similar Not everyone finds comfort simply hearing about the path Some people hear the words "cause and effect" and feel distant from them Some hear the idea of life's impermanence and think it's That's merely a consolation for the weak Then there are those who upon hearing the word "smuggling " mmediately thought that this was a life of disadvantage not fighting back against life Yet there are also strange people who upon hearing just a simple sentence instantly become still and quiet needing no further persuasion No need for lengthy explanations Just hearing briefly about cause and effect impermanence and how to let go of attachments in the heart is enough A gentle tremor stirred within their hearts That was something that had been there all along I've met many people who weren't scholars of religious texts nor had they been visiting temples since childhood Some come to the path later in life having experienced the full range of joy and sorrow gain and loss Yet when they hear a very fundamental teaching of the Buddha's Dharma They nodded naturally again Not because they understood every profound layer of meaning but because deep down they felt this was right exactly in a very strange way so precisely that further debate is unnecessary Consider this: some people upon hearing the saying "you reap what you sow " immediately find it perfectly reasonable They reflect on their lives recalling how doing good deeds brings peace of mind while wrong actions are inevitably followed by unfavorable outcomes No need for lengthy explanations—they naturally connect it to their own experiences That statement isn't some distant philosophy to them like a mirror reflecting back everything they've been through Then upon hearing that life is impermanent Everything will eventually change a sentiment some find overly pessimistic But to those who are well-versed it seems like an obvious truth They look back on their lives on relationships once so close that eventually drifted apart Those joys that seemed destined to last forever ultimately fade away The sorrows once thought insurmountable gradually fade away When they hear the words impermanence they feel no fear ey felt only a deep sense of familiarity as if someone had just spoken aloud something they themselves had sensed for a long time but never before named They say letting go makes the heart feel lighter Someone who has never reflected on life might think this is advice for the失败 But those with a tight grip heard those words with a completely different mindset They recalled the times they'd clung too tightly to something Maintaining a relationship preserving a sense of belonging holding onto pride And it is precisely this effort to hold on that exhausts them When they hear the idea of letting go they don't feel loss Instead they feel as though a door has just opened within their hearts What's interesting is that sometimes just a brief sentence is enough to leave them silent for a few seconds It could be a simple line from scripture It could be a sharing from a temple abbot at a small temple Or perhaps just a brief sermon accidentally heard online Yet in that instant their hearts sank Not because they were surprised but because they realized something deeply familiar in those words Someone listening to the sermon suddenly fell silent—not from drowsiness but because something profoundly deep had just touched their heart Some memory from life some experience they once went through At that moment they said nothing but there was a clear quiet intensity in their eyes Dear viewers this is not some mysterious matter In Buddhism this is called "căng " Căng is not something lofty or mystical It is simply a seed The seed of understanding of goodwill and of the ability to turn inward to reflect upon oneself That seed may have been planted a very long time ago according to the Buddhist teaching from past lives It can also be nurtured from profound experiences within this very life When the conditions are right that seed begins to sprout That's why hearing the same teaching each person responds differently some forget it immediately upon hearing Some people hear it and feel nothing personally involved Yet others who hear it ponder deeply for a long time They took that saying home carrying it with them in quiet moments wondering if life truly worked that way Actually the person who has a spiritual awakening isn't someone who instantly understands the teachings It's not about attaining enlightenment immediately upon hearing a sermon Something great Not becoming someone more special than others The only difference is that their hearts easily connect with teachings on awakening These things do not bother them nor do they resist them Instead they felt as though they were reuniting with something familiar Some people after hearing a simple sermon immediately began changing a few small habits They became a little less easily angered Blame others a little less Focus more on your own actions and words These changes are small but deeply real And did you know Those moments of sudden understanding are often the first sign that a seed within your heart is beginning to awaken Not everyone has this experience But if you've ever heard a very simple teaching and suddenly felt your heart sink deeply It's as if someone just voiced exactly what you've quietly felt for a long time—that perhaps that seed is already somewhere within your heart It doesn't make you special But it might be a very gentle reminder that It's time for me to look more deeply into my own life And as that seed begins to softly sprout within the heart You will notice a very subtle shift in how you perceive the world around you Not a loud change but a quiet one It's not something so obvious that others can easily notice but oneself will feel it very clearly The things that used to excite me before suddenly lost their appeal especially places that are overly bustling I often hear people confide that when they were young they greatly enjoyed being in crowded places loved long gatherings and cherished lingering conversations Even a slight disadvantage makes the debate more interesting But then at some point in life Naturally they no longer feel at ease with those things Not because they dislike people nor because they wish to withdraw from life It was just that a very natural desire began to stir within them—to have a little peace and quiet Dear friends this is a very common trait among those who are spiritually advanced The more they grow the more they cherish inner stillness But what matters most is understanding this correctly: preferring quiet doesn't mean weakness nor does it mean avoiding life The person with dementia still lives among people still works still takes care of their family and still interacts with others The only thing is deep down they no longer wish to be drawn too deeply into the noisy clamor There are disputes that go beyond winning or losing They may have once participated with great enthusiasm But now when they hear someone starting an aggressive argument They felt tired again Not because they lacked arguments but because they began to realize tha There are arguments that even when won don't make me any happier Once the mind sees this clearly naturally I lose interest in entering them anymore Gossip stories are the same way Previously when hearing someone talk about another person they might have been curious and exchanged a few remarks But at some point when stories like these arise they suddenly feel a faint sense of hesitation within themselves Not because they appeared morally superior but because they realized that after sharing those stories their hearts often felt heavier I've said my piece Sometimes it feels like there's not real joy in the heart Even chatting with others something many consider a very ordinary pleasure in social gatherings with someone who's tense The excitement gradually faded They began to lose interest in hearing about others' mistakes Instead they want to spend more time reflecting on themselves Thus their interests quietly shift Sometimes they just like sitting alone thinking Not about anything too profound but simply reflecting on the day that’s passed Have I said anything wrong Have I done anything to hurt someone else Or can I be a little kinder tomorrow Some people have started preferring to visit temples more often—not to ask for anything grand but simply to step into a space of quiet clarity where voices grow softer footsteps lighter and the heart itself calms down Just sitting for a few minutes in that space They felt somewhat relieved in spirit Some people prefer listening to a simple sermon It could be while driving while doing housework or while sitting alone one evening The teachings on cause and effect on living with kindness on letting go of attachments are not distant philosophies to them Every time they listen they understand a little more about their own lives Some people turn to a few pages of a book You don't need to read much—just a few voices are enough to make them think Sometimes after reading a short passage they close the book Sit still for a moment letting those words settle in your heart And sometimes what they enjoy most is simply sitting in stillness Doing nothing no phone no conversation not even trying to seek anything new Simply sit still allowing the mind to settle after a day full of upheaval In that stillness they feel closer to themselves than ever What's interesting is that many people going through this phase once thought they were becoming unlike others They looked around and saw everyone still buzzing with excitement over the lively festivities and animated conversations I on the other hand prefer quiet things So they began to wonder if they were becoming too withdrawn Yet from a Buddhist perspective such change is not necessarily negative Sometimes that's precisely a sign that the heart is beginning to turn inward When young the mind tends to focus outward more seeking joy recognition and new experiences mother But as the seed of awakening begins to sprout the mind gradually returns to itself Returning is not to escape the world but to understand it more deeply Returning to look within and see what is unfolding in our hearts The joys the sorrows the resentments the desires When one begins to clearly see these things People naturally want to keep their minds a little more at peace And precisely from such small moments of stillness the true path of practice begins to take shape Not through grand oaths nor sudden changes Simply dedicating a little time each day to quiet the mind From that stillness wisdom gradually unfolds Just as still water can clearly reflect the sky so too must the mind be calm to see things as they are The more I grow the more I prefer quiet moments over overly bustling places—yet don't rush to think I'm drifting apart from life Perhaps it's just a simple sign that your heart is beginning to find its way back to itself And as the mind becomes accustomed to such stillness you will notice yet another transformation how I face the challenges of life This is a very clear sign of someone who is emotionally resilient But sometimes they themselves don't even realize it It's when they face sadness instead of immediately blaming time They inevitably end up asking themselves once more Take a moment to reflect on the life around you When suffering occurs the most natural human reaction is to look for a cause outside oneself People tend to blame others first Feeling wronged by someone else Feeling hurt by them If not blaming people then blaming circumstances Blaming life for being too hard Blaming oneself for not being born lucky And if the answer still isn't found blaming fate I thought it was just because heaven didn't favor me Those reactions are actually quite normal Because when in pain the human mind often seeks a place to ease its burden Blaming others can sometimes make you feel lighter if only for a moment But you'll notice that sense of relief rarely lasts After the anger has passed sadness remains But those with a strong sense of pride often have a very distinctive reaction When things don't go their way they still feel sadness and pain still experience very human emotions They are not made of stone However after a period of calm other questions often arise in their hearts They begin to wonder if perhaps they were wrong somewhere This question isn't meant to guilt-trip yourself nor to make you constantly take the blame But they simply wanted to look back at the entire story more honestly There were times when in that relationship I myself had said something thoughtless Sometimes we unintentionally hurt someone without even realizing it Then they go on to wonder about one more thing Could I have planted a cause in a previous life This way of thinking closely aligns with the spirit of karma The person who believes in fate doesn't hastily assume everything happens entirely by chance They understand that every action every word every thought can become a seed That seed may sprout very quickly but at other times it may take a long while to germinate That's why when facing adversity they don't just focus on the present—they look a little further a little deeper Perhaps I've once treated someone the same way Perhaps I've once caused some sorrow But now I truly understand how that person felt And then a very important question often arises in their mind What should I learn from this story That question is truly the turning point Because when you ask it like that Their hearts are no longer entirely trapped in resentment They began shifting from merely feeling pain to seeking meaning within it After a person experiences a emotional breakdown Instead of just blaming the other person they began reflecting on how they loved They realized they might have had too many expectations Sometimes we want others to be exactly like the image in our mind From that realization they grow wiser in their future relationships After experiencing failure at work a person initially feels sad and disappointed but then gradually begins to wonder if they might have been too hasty Maybe I wasn't truly ready after all From questions like these they began learning to move more slowly to be more careful more patient You see don't you This perspective doesn't instantly erase sorrow But it allows sorrow to become a teacher Instead of just a wound it became a lesson Getting stuck in the habit of looking back inward like that People with a strong sense of urgency tend to mature more quickly They don 't necessarily live longer than others but they understand life more deeply Every experience they go through leaves them with a new understanding And for that reason they rarely dwell too long in resentment Holding a grudge is like clutching a hot coal in your hand In anger you think you're throwing it at someone else But before he could throw it his own hand was burned first A person with a tight schedule though sometimes still angry or sad But they soon realized holding onto resentment only加重 their hearts Once they understood this they gradually learned to let go Not letting go because the other person deserves forgiveness but because your own heart needs to be lighter I often tell many people that The signs of a cultivated seed are not always gentle nor always calm We are still human and there are moments when we feel weak But the crucial sign is that after every fall Do I ever look back at myself Whenever you face difficulties do you ever ask yourself what lesson is there for me in this situation Is there anything you could do better in the future Well quite possibly deep within you you're holding a very precious seed That seed is the ability to look within and in the path of practice it is the first step toward truly understanding oneself And when a person begins to turn inward and look within like this you will gradually see a very distinct quality emerge in their heart That is they become more sensitive to right and wrong in their own actions Not in the sense of being easily hurt Yet they are sensitive to the cause and effect of their own actions Those with a disciplined mind invariably experience this awareness very clearly When doing something that truly goes against their conscience their mind immediately senses it No reminders needed no judgment required Just within themselves a very slight but very real discomfort had arisen For instance when accidentally lying to someone For many people a small lie is considered a completely ordinary thing But people with anxiety often feel uneasy inside after speaking Even if the other person didn't notice even if everything outside remained normal they couldn't stop thinking about those words inside They wonder why they have to speak this way Is there a way to be honest while still being kind Sometimes when we accidentally hurt someone else—perhaps in a moment of anger saying something quite harsh— At the time I might have felt a brief sense of relief But only a moment later as the anger faded my heart began to sink again The image of their face the sadness in their eyes or the words I'd just spoken kept replaying in my mind Sometimes I lie down but my mind just won’t stop racing You’ve probably felt that way too Outside no one reminds or criticizes yet deep inside a sense of unease lingers That feeling was like a faint golden bell ringing softly within reminding me that what I had just done wasn't truly right Some people find it hard to sleep after something like that They lie awake replaying every word said every action taken Sometimes the next day they主动ly seek to blame each other even though the other person hasn't said a word of reproach To outsiders they might seem overly sensitive But in reality that's precisely a sign of a mind deeply attuned to the subtle currents of human emotion and intention Once the mind has grown accustomed to goodness any action deviating from that path becomes easily recognizable Like a white shirt even a small ink stain stands out clearly What's truly valuable is that this sensitivity to cause and effect doesn't arise only when we do something wrong it's equally evident when we do something right There are times when you do someone a very small favor It could simply be giving directions to a stranger yielding your seat to an elderly person or helping someone in need Sometimes no one notices it and no one praises it But once it's done you feel a deep sense of relief inside Or sometimes I say something kind to someone who's feeling down Just a few simple words but seeing them calm down warmed my heart a little That feeling isn't loud joy but a deep profound inner peace Forgive others in the same way I had been really angry with them before But after some reflection I decided to let it go When you truly forgive you'll experience something truly strange: the first person set free isn't the other person but your own heart In moments like these those with a calm mind clearly sense that lightness They feel their heart as if relieved of an invisible burden No recognition is needed no praise required They still know deep within that they are a little calmer than before Having experienced such profound realities firsthand they gradually came to believe even more deeply in the law of cause and effect Not because they read many books nor because someone forced them to believe It's because they directly felt it within their own hearts When one does wrong the heart feels heavy When one does right the heart feels light When one plants an ill- intentioned word the mind becomes restless Sowing a kind word brings peace of mind These feelings repeat again and again gradually becoming a deeply moving lesson Therefore a person with self-discipline does not need many external rules to control themselves They don't need someone constantly reminding them what should and shouldn't be done Because in their hearts there already exists a very clear observer That observer is their conscience When conscience becomes strong enough it shines like a light illuminating every one of one's actions Before saying anything I started wondering whether this would hurt anyone Before doing anything I ask myself whether it will cause regret later Over time their way of life gradually became gentler Not because they were trying to appear good in the eyes of others Because they understand that keeping their minds clear is the way to protect their own peace Therefore dear listeners if sometimes you realize that merely doing something against your conscience causes inner unease When you help someone your heart feels noticeably lighter That isn't weakness On the contrary this could be a very positive sign of a mind keenly attuned to cause and effect And it is precisely this quick responsiveness that often serves as one of the clearest signs that the seeds of practice within your heart are gradually growing And when a person begins to resonate with cause and effect in this way you will gradually observe another transformation arising within their heart This change does not happen immediately but usually comes very slowly and quietly over time It's about fame and profit rather than victory or defeat gradually losing the strong appeal it once had A noticeable trait of someone with a strong sense of self-worth is that they are no longer overly driven to win at all costs This does not mean they have become lazy or stopped striving in life They continue working striving and doing their best to fulfill their responsibilities Yet deep down their hearts were no longer driven by the need to surpass others When young this was actually very difficult to avoid Almost all of us have gone through a phase where we felt the need to prove ourselves To prove that one is better righter more deserving of recognition When entering a debate we want to be the winner When working we want to position ourselves above others When seeing someone else succeed we sometimes can't help but feel we must achieve the same Even more than that These emotions are profoundly human I think by now you've probably recognized a reflection of your own past somewhere in this Because when people don't understand life much they often believe that if they win more they'll be happier But life gradually teaches us very real lessons A person who once won a major argument Their arguments were sharp their reasoning compelling and in the end the other person was left speechless But once the argument ended they realized their relationship was no longer the same as it once was I won the argument but lost the warmth in our relationship People are very successful in financial terms They worked tirelessly striving to earn as much money as possible to prove their worth In the end they truly achieved it But at some point they realize their hearts are always tense Fearful of losing what they have anxious about falling from their position terrified of having to keep running faster and faster Money may increase but inner peace does not rise with it A person maintains their dignity in every situation Never willing to admit defeat never the first to apologize Outwardly they appear incredibly strong incredibly steady But only they truly know how exhausted they feel inside constantly maintaining such a perfect image These experiences gradually led those with tight schedules to rethink their perspective They no longer saw life merely as a race They began to realize that some victories didn't bring peace after all Some things that made them feel superior only weighed heavier on their hearts And from that realization a sharp piercing question arose within them: what was the point of having won after all Is victory worth it if it costs you a loved one Is it truly happiness to be slightly ahead of others if it means living in constant stress every single day When he reflected on that the man gradually realized a crucial truth: not everything worth winning is worth winning The best arguments are those you know when to let go The best victories are those you choose to release Not because I am weak but because I understand that preserving inner peace is sometimes more important than proving I am right I've seen many people become much more at ease in their lives once they truly understood this When someone says something incorrect about them they no longer react immediately They wondered whether staying silent in this matter would truly mean losing something And sometimes they realize that silence is actually the wiser choice In their work as well they still strive to do their part well but no longer obsessed with having to stand on others They understand that true success isn't just about the position one attains but also in the peace one maintains throughout the process From this point onward their minds began to gently release attachment to fame and praise It's not about abandoning life entirely but letting go of attachment Money is still necessary for survival work is still needed to support one's family and honor remains something precious But all those things no longer weigh heavily on their hearts They began to understand that there were more important things than surpassing others More important than proving how talented you are is maintaining a peaceful mind and showing kindness to those around you and maintain inner peace when returning to oneself Dear viewers when a person's mind begins to perceive life in this way That usually indicates they've been through quite a few experiences Those experiences were like strong winds blowing away the leaves of greed and ambition from the heart And as those leaves fall away what remains in the heart is a profound stillness No longer does one need to win so much Just live in a way that keeps your heart light sleep without regret and wake up still wanting to be kind to life and to those who matter to you Sometimes that is truly the real victory And when you look more closely at the lives of those who have achieved great success you'll notice something quite remarkable At first glance this may sound unusual but upon closer inspection it's actually quite common Many who carry the seed of practice within them do not lead lives that are overly smooth Some people seem destined for an easy path only to stumble hard along the way There were relationships they had poured so much affection into trusted so deeply yet in the end left behind wounds that were hard to forget There are phases in their lives when they endure hardships so profound that even they find themselves wondering why this has happened to them From the outside one might think it was just bad luck But if you look deeper you'll see that it's precisely these hardships that become major turning points in their lives People usually only stop to think when they face difficulties When everything goes smoothly when life flows peacefully when your desires are continually fulfilled Very few people feel the need to look deeply within themselves At such times it's easy to seek more joy more success more recognition outwardly But when adversity strikes when something in your life falls apart When a sorrow deep enough enters that is when people truly begin to pause Those with inner discipline are precisely those who know how to stop at such moments After a fall they weren't just sad—they began reflecting more deeply on life They wonder why this happened What in their life needs to change Was there something they failed to see before Those questions gradually opened a new door within their hearts People only begin to understand attachment after going through a relationship filled with pain Earlier they had believed that love meant holding on tightly But only after going through brokenness did they realize that some things break more easily the tighter you hold on People only begin to reflect on how they live after experiencing failure in their work Previously they had only chased success and sought validation from others But when failure finally struck they began to wonder what truly mattered in life People must go through very difficult stages financially within their families and in terms of health Those days were by no means easy Yet precisely in those moments they have the greatest opportunity to look deepest within Dear friends adversity sometimes sounds like a great bell It wakes people up from the illusions they were once clinging to When someone once believed money could solve everything But then they encountered pains money couldn't soothe They began to understand that life held values deeper than wealth When someone once believed a relationship would last forever only to later witness its change They began to understand impermanence From such experiences a practitioner gradually gains deeper insight into life Not understood through theory not learned from books but grasped through their own experiences After much upheaval they began to realize a simple yet profound truth: life is truly impermanent What I have today Tomorrow might be different Those who are by my side today One day it might take a different path The emotions felt today though intense will eventually soften with time Recognizing this does not make them pessimistic on the contrary it makes them more清醒 When they understand that everything is subject to change They are no longer clinging too tightly to external things They begin learning to appreciate what they already have in the present But there was no longer chaos as everything changed Gradually their way of life also shifted in a very gentle manner Previously they paid a great deal of attention to their outward appearance How should I be perceived by others How should I maintain my image What must be proven before the world But after much experience they began to understand that such things are incredibly fragile Others may praise you today but they could forget you tomorrow Fame can come quickly but it can also vanish just as fast Therefore they began prioritizing the mind over the form They pay greater attention to keeping their hearts upright Keep your thoughts calm and peaceful Keep your words from hurting others Previously they might have cared deeply about reputation But after enduring many ups and downs they realized that fame if not accompanied by peace of mind makes lasting happiness difficult to achieve Therefore they began to value peace more than reputation That means they still live in the world still work still strive But no longer striving to achieve external things by exhausting oneself If any success causes the mind to become overly tense and uneasy for too long They are ready to slow down You see this path is not one that separates you from life It is simply the path of becoming more awake within life itself And when they arrive here those with a sense of pride come to realize a very important truth: having pride doesn't mean you're better than others This is something many people misunderstand when they hear the term "căng tu " Some think it's a special sign feeling as though I belonged to some higher class But in fact in Buddhist teachings a seed is simply a seed That seed may already lie within each person's heart But even the finest seed requires care to sprout and grow If there's tension but no willingness to improve oneself no desire to reflect on bad habits no effort to learn how to live more kindly Yet the seed may remain still in the ground for a very long time Conversely there are people who initially don't think they have any anxiety at all Yet they live with great kindness and sincerity constantly striving to improve themselves bit by bit Over time that way of life gradually made their hearts even clearer Therefore stretching the string is merely the beginning Whether to continue or not How far will you go down that path In the end it's always each person's own choice Dear viewers if in your life You have gone through difficult trials that made you reflect deeply If those setbacks led you to look more deeply into life Beginning to value inner peace more than external pleasures one might find those experiences were not meaningless after all Who knows Those very challenges that seem difficult might quietly be the doors opening allowing the heart to begin stepping onto the path of awakening And if that seed is truly within you the most important thing is not to wonder whether you are tense or not What matters more is that each day I can be a little kinder than yesterday a little more at peace than yesterday and a little more self-aware than yesterday The path of practice is not found anywhere far away It begins right with the smallest changes within our own minds Dear friends if somewhere in the signs just shared you see a reflection of yourselves That could be something truly worth cherishing The ancients' wisdom wishes you well on your journey through life Always keep a mindful heart aware of reflecting oneself and strive each day to live with greater kindness and compassion May you always maintain inner peace no matter life's ups and downs and never be swept away by rivalry or worries Wishing you always have the wisdom to understand life the compassion to care for others and the serenity to move through every change life brings Thank you for listening to the entire video today Goodbye and see you in the next video