STOP ENTERTAINING CONFUSED MEN!🚫

Team Jackson, what's happening? Yes, I do have a few more layers on today because it's cold as hell out here But before I get started, I just want to thank everybody who supported the sale I'm a mentally stimulate me card game a date night card game, which was 50% off It's still 50% off for those who want to check it out. I'll put the link in the caption But real quick man I've been seeing this mean floating around Basically saying as a woman you shouldn't expect a man to be a finished product or to have everything about life figured out or to Be perfect and to an extent I understand and I agree But I do believe it's in every woman's best interest to at least require that a man knows exactly what he wants out of a Relationship and a woman otherwise, you're gonna be dealing with a confused man and confused men Do not commit like on that first date when y'all are first trying to figure out each other's intentions Are you trying to figure out his and a projectory of you know, whatever it is that's to come and you ask him You know, what do you want in a woman? What are you looking for in a relationship and he gives you any kind of answer similar to well, you know You can't really put it into words. You know what I'm saying when it comes though. I'll know you know that right one comes You just gonna know the feeling is there you're dealing with a confused man and the thing about confused men Yes, they do rely on their feelings to be their GPS through life and relationships They think their feelings would figure everything out and while I'm an advocate for trusting your gut instincts That's with regard to knowing exactly what you want and being able to measure everything else according to that But when you don't know what you want and you think your feelings will figure everything out They'll actually end up fooling you because the misconception with confused men is that when the right woman comes along? Everything's gonna feel right. However, even when you guys are a perfect match. You guys are soul mates. They're gonna be time They're gonna be phases without and within the relationship where it doesn't feel as good as it once did because there's always Opportunity to grow closer together no matter how right you are for that person There's always gonna be an opportunity to grow closer And whenever you're in the time when you're experiencing that distance that you guys still have to close that gap You still have to close by growing together It ain't gonna feel that good before a man who's chasing that feeling He's either gonna be out the door the moment that that discomfort comes or he's gonna be out and in back through that door By way of cheating or ghosting because he's still chasing that feeling that he wants had and once that doesn't feel that's good He's gonna come running back and that's not commitment on the other hand when you're dealing with a grown man who either by Experience of being in a bad relationship and knowing everything or learning everything about himself through that or by just doing the homework on himself And understanding what kind of man that he is when you ask him Hey, what kind of relationship are you looking for? What kind of woman do you believe best suits you? He's gonna sound something more along the lines of you know What this kind of personality best complements me as a man? These values are what I need in a woman to for us to be equally yoked and on the same page so we can have Some consistency whenever we raise these kids that I do want this kind of relationship this marriage This is what I'm on the market for he's gonna be definitive and the best thing about that is When the feeling ain't as good when you guys are in a relationship He's gonna default to the understanding of what he has because he knows exactly what he wants therefore He's still gonna act in a way that protects that Because he doesn't want to mess it up as opposed to a man who says well the feelings are everything and when that feeling is Gone, so his so is he even better than that? You don't spend precious years in in the gray area or just confuse with him because people always say, you know Misery loves company. Well, guess what? So does confusion you'll come into a relationship knowing exactly what you want But because you're trying to love a confused man, you'll end up saying things to yourself like well our labels, you know Necessary is marriage overrated or is that just something society says we should want whenever you came into the relationship knowing that you wanted all Of that, you know, you don't incur the responsibility whenever you're dealing with a man who knows what he wants You don't incur the burden of trying to convince him of the value of a relationship that you already established that you wanted out The get-go just to have to hear in the future, you know, I did this marriage thing for you I ain't want to get married in the first place. You really pressured me I ain't want this relationship to begin when I told you I was just trying to feel things out I did this for you You don't have to deal with that whenever you're dealing with a man who knows exactly what he wants from the beginning You don't have to bear the pressure of trying to show and prove to him that you bet you're everything He could ever want and need and can't find anywhere else While you're being everything that any man in his right mind could ever want and need it can't find anywhere else While your man is out dealing with other women trying to see for sure that he can't find it anywhere else You see when you're dealing with a confused man that doesn't know what he wants He can have it right there in his face and still not know what he has So if you're dealing with confused men, don't act confused whenever he leaves you heartbroken in your time wasted because that's what confused men do So y'all let me know what you think in the comments. I'll let y'all later. Peace