you are not him

You are not him. The world has lied to you many times and now you're delusional and you believe all of that stuff. But as a man, you don't deserve attention, you don't deserve success, you don't deserve love. As a man, you have to earn it all by yourself. Thinking that you deserve all of that is delusional. We live in this world that just because someone thinks they've got a nice physique, they deserve attention as a man, but that's a false fallacy. If you disappear tomorrow, how many people will actually notice it? This idea that a lot of people care about is not reality. We don't have as many friends as we think we do and that's why it's super important as a man to stay grounded. Delusion can be your best weapon if you use it wisely, but if you use it just to feed your ego, it can be your worst nightmare. If you use delusion as a dopamine loop just to feel better about yourself, it's not gonna help you grow. It's not gonna give you the results. But if you're gonna use delusion as a way to grow, it's your best weapon. If you tell yourself you are that guy and therefore you're gonna put in the time and effort to make it work, now you've shifted your mindset in a completely different way which will elevate you and your life. That's why as a man, you can't say you are him, you are that guy if you're not willing to put in the effort, if you're not willing to go through adversity, go through rejections. Because a real man is built from the bottom, has suffered a lot, and comes from nothing and built his own empire. That's a man that can say he is him. That's a man that can say I am that guy. If you're someone that never had to face adversity, never had to face rejection, got everything handed to him for free, you're not that guy. You are just delusional. And all of this sounds amazing, so what should you do to stop being delusional or at least use your delusion to your advantage? Well, the first thing is you need to stop using delusion as a way to feel better about yourself, but use it as a way to help you grow. So instead of saying to yourself, yeah, I'm good enough, tell yourself I am that guy and therefore I'm gonna do X, Y, and Z to make stuff happen. This little mindset shift makes the biggest difference in your life. I've seen it with every single person in my life. People that used to say, yeah, I'm not good enough, I'm not confident enough, but once they start to see that they have power over their lives, they have some sort of control over their lives, and they're able to succeed if they put in the time and effort to grow as an individual, they become a dangerous species. Because the individual that's delusional enough to put in the time and effort to make stuff happen, is willing to put the time and effort to grow as a person, is a dangerous man that no one can compete with. Because that's the type of man that can say, I am him. That's the type of man that can say, I am that guy. And therefore, if you are someone that wants to be delusional, but use it to your advantage, this is the way.