Married Couple Plays Agree to Disagree!

What's up guys welcome back to the channel hope you're doing amazing as always if you're new here my name is sam And my name is jess and guys we are back with a part two Of agree to disagree. This is gonna be fun. We did a part one like how long ago is it like six months ago Six months something so we're back everyone is doing like a lot of people are doing this video now And so I think I want to do a part two because we got some good questions this time I feel like last time we kind of held back and like did something like really I thought we did something I just feel like we did some easy questions. We got some we got some juicy juicy questions today So I didn't know if they are so I know I kind of wrote them all I was watching other people's videos. I kind of taking it like pulling from like different ones So I think it's gonna be really good, but you guys need a refresher on how this works We're gonna ask each other a question We have our glass we have our board and then we're just gonna slide to if we agree or disagree on the topic conversation You ready? You want to rock paper scissors who goes first with a pick? Okay, here we go All right, okay All right Let's see if we get a divorce after this being friends with someone of the opposite sex is wrong in marriage Wow, we're just starting off strong. Okay What Okay, I say disagree. Can you explain to an extent there's a line But like we're like i'm friends with like are like my guy friends wives like we're all That doesn't that's how I don't think that counts either like what? I feel like the question like just like a one-off friend that like isn't married and isn't friends with like you Yeah, I feel like that's like my own little friend. Yeah, it'd be like a friend that you like a girlfriend you had like Yeah, I don't know not even prior to our relationship Just like if you were like it's hard because we're always together So I feel like all our friends are mutual to both of us. Yeah, but like that'd be like we just have mutual friends But there's no really opportunity High school that you never dated just like a friend But like if you guys were like still like texting and like hanging out today while we're in marriage I feel like that would be weird. I feel like for some people. I don't know I feel like that's just weird for us But I feel like there is a line still like I feel like some people can like make that work I feel like some people make it work But I also feel like a lot of times that does lead to issues like yeah When they say like the girl has like her guy best friend, yeah But like I feel like by the same time like there's people I work with like the people I make music with Yeah that are like my friends and their guys, but it's not like you're texting them outside of like hey You got my song yet like I feel like and you know them as well as I do like I feel like the friends that we have we're both friends But so it's not weird. Yeah, and and they're also all married too. So yeah. Yeah, I feel like it was a single friend Yeah, yeah, I agree I agree yeah, so I switched mine by the way because yeah, I found I sound controlling but no I Okay, you should test drive the car before you buy it Go ahead you want me to go go ahead Okay So I would disagree because for those of you that don't know we did wait for marriage and I Didn't put strongly disagree because I know that like some people feel like they but they want to see if they connect on that Level, which I guess like is important But I feel like basing like if I should marry someone based off if we have good sex or not is bs Like it's just so stupid like you guys can get better to like that It's just that I you can figure out i'm sorry if i'm offending people But that's the stupidest thing ever like i'm not gonna marry you because you suck at having sex like that's the stupidest thing ever Like I feel like that you could feel if you have that like attraction and that's the point of like a marriage like you like Progress and like everyone's everyone's not gonna be good at something the first time they do Yeah, I feel like me too because like the first time you do something no matter what like if it's tennis or if it's having Sex like you're gonna probably suck at it. I don't think but that's why you have your whole entire life to like obviously Yeah, 100 and like obviously we waited because of like religion stuff But like even outside that like I don't think you you need to like I think outside religion I think waiting until marriage is also beautiful just because you're like waiting for that person and like waiting and then it just really assures that you're only gonna have sex with the person you marry because you know I think a lot of relationship issues could be avoided if everyone did that obviously that would never happen But I feel like that's just our opinion. I know some people probably get really upset about that But I feel like yeah, you don't need to touch out of the car like yeah It might be nice. Yeah, it might be nice and fun Take a little joy ride, but it's not like a necessity to like base like I need to marry I should marry this person or not Yeah, because I think you guys you can always get better. You can always work towards things communicate If everything else works like that can be figured out. That's what i'm saying. Yeah Next up i've worried about your friends of the opposite sex. I'm getting all the friends questions Okay. Oh, I really have to think about this Okay, but i'm only putting not strongly disagree just because of like maybe high school because there was like Some of my friends trying to be your friends. I didn't trust them and then you would like not that I didn't trust you But like I don't what was it? What was it if you don't if you were worried about one of your friends? I feel like when you were new to the high school you kind of just became friends with everybody which is fine But then once we started dating like you were we were still in high school Like I had I had friends that were girls you had friends that were guys and obviously I was just naturally like worried about that just because Not like I didn't trust you I was like a high school dude is gonna like not care if you're like you have a boyfriend or not Yeah, and I think like in the beginning like maybe like I was more like flirty with everyone and so like I could see how that would make him worry if like I had friends in my science class or Or something that like but it's not that I didn't trust you though Yeah, I was worried about that and I would say like I when I started dating sam I had come out of like a really toxic relationship where I was constantly worried about girls and when we started dating like that's one of the biggest things I had noticed was like I would Like see him with his girlfriends and it was like his friends that were girls. Let me clarify And his friends that are girls. Yeah, it was like so like it was an automatic difference Like I could just tell that he wasn't trying to flirt with them in a way that would like make me nervous and I like quickly like realized how much I could trust him and then like those fears that I had Previously had had because of experiences like completely just went away and I yeah stopped worrying altogether Like I I feel like like like maybe like initially I was just like nervous about like girlfriends you had but that like yeah Went away, especially not anymore because like oh, yeah like I trust him completely to be like He could go on a drive with any of our friends and I wouldn't know that they would both like I wouldn't have to worry About anything. Yeah, we got married too soon too young I thought we've answered this we have Strongly disagree, there's not much to say on this like just no like I I honestly don't think we got married too young But that's also I feel like we are a rare occurrence like that wouldn't work for everyone And i'm not saying like if you're 18 right now and you've been dating a boy that you just met to marry him Like i'm not saying that we were together for four years before we got married and we had never taken a break We've never had any serious never had any problem We were like really lucky to find each other and I used to I don't think we stressed that enough Like I feel like we're a really odd commodity and there are a few of them like in social media that Are similar like they met and just clicked and it worked and I thought we definitely had like it's not like we've never like Stumbled across any problems like we definitely had problems But like we never like just like called anything quits and like throughout high school. I think we have like good communication Yeah, like we've definitely fought and had like issues but we're both really good about bringing them up and not like pushing them under the rug and we like fix them right away and I Think that's like led to like a healthy marriage. It's just like making sure we tell each other when something upsets us So we don't like distance from each other strongly disagree I would be okay. If you were friends with your ex. We got a lot of these They're all like similar And none of these are agreed Yeah, i'm going to strongly disagree on that. I'll just say strongly disagree because your ex before me was a d-bag I'll just say that I won't That's all i'm gonna say not a great relationship and I wouldn't want I mean you wouldn't want to be friends with him either I feel like also even if you guys if you're if your past relationship ended like fine It was just a mutual thing. I feel like being friends with someone that wasn't a toxic relationship It was just like you guys mutually just like Ended things. I thought it was gonna be kind of weird like you guys. Yeah, we're like romance like like you have that connection Yeah, it'd be weird. You probably just can't be like friends like it always you'd always have like yeah that like a little weird Yeah, I don't know. I'd put this strongly disagree just because yeah I feel like that would just make me a comfortable not that you couldn't like Be cordial with someone and like if it was like a group setting and they happen to be there like I don't care Yeah, but not like we're friends like We say like friends not that you can't like be cool with them Say we're like at a high school reunion and a bunch of his exes are there Not that we wouldn't hang out and talk to them but like Like kind of just like like like a normal friend It's like if you were to go get like coffee with them i'd be like no, that's weird. Yeah, that's an ex Yeah, or even yeah texting. Yeah You like probably follow some of your exes and I don't care that might seem weird, but you also didn't have we also We did it when we were 14 Those are like middle school ex like not even a thing. Oh, you don't follow. I don't follow I'm, like cool with most of them. Yeah, because they were like, yeah, you follow a lot of my exes You were like 12 and exactly. It wasn't even a thing. It wasn't even serious Like it's not like we're like we're at a time We're 30 right now and we have that'd be different like if he had like a long-term ex That like he was maybe intimate with I think that'd be different like I might feel different but anyways I've always been attracted to your body Of course Yeah, yeah Obviously I think sam has just gotten hotter as time goes on. Oh my gosh Same with you. I feel like we like I will look at pictures like sam goes to the gym Honestly, like every day now, but like we look at pictures from like I used to be He'll be like, oh my gosh Look how skinny I was and you can tell now like seeing how he is but back then like I like I literally thought Oh me too. Like I thought you looked like As you grow and you like grow together your body's will change and stuff but like then I thought I thought you were just as hot then as now but like looking back you can see the difference which is crazy But anyways, i've always been very attracted to you. Yeah, if I could that thing would be freaking outside the house Okay, it's okay to go through each other's phones I'm gonna i'm gonna say agree just because I feel like it's okay Yeah, like it's not a bad thing to like I feel like if there's nothing Like why would it be bad to go through someone's phone? Like even like if I would only say disagree if it was like you shouldn't have a reason Like if you're going through your phone every single night making like if you have a trust issue That's like your like your problem that you need to figure out but if it's just like I don't even know because we don't look through each other's phones, but if there's like a once a Year, like oh i'm just gonna like skip the that's still weird though. I feel like that's not an issue We never really go through each other's phones but I feel like we're both okay if the other person needed to like or like one like if you needed my phone to like You do this all the time Like you've like take my phone out to the car to like record a tiktok because you need a phone to like play the music Yeah I'll need to like sing something in the car Like can I use your phone to play music like if I was like doing if I like was doing something shady like I would Be stressed out about that because you have my phone alone and you could but like yeah So whenever I like i'll go through like if I need like a picture or like some some kind of text We're like looking for some kind of thing for like our business or whatever Like I feel like i'll go through his phone and like there's instances where like you'll see a phone number for business That I don't recognize and it'll make the thought cross my mind like oh my gosh Like yeah What if that was like a text that happens a lot because I don't like we I feel like we both don't save a lot Of numbers if they're just like one-off conversations for like just like and I know for a fact Like I don't even bother to read the text usually because I know like I know that you would never do that But it's just like the feeling you get when you think like oh my gosh Like what if there was like they're always what if imagine like imagine like that and that's like scary And that's why I feel like just some advice like if you're someone that maybe had trust issues in a past relationship Try really hard to like go into future ones Like trusting them like like try to trust like unless they've given you a reason not to like don't be that person that is always on edge and always wanting to go through someone's phone because That creates so much anxiety in your life And if they've given you no reason not to trust them I just feel like it just brings so much like aids to relationship if you're always wanting to check someone's phone and whatnot When like you don't need to you know I mean like I feel like we don't have any problems and I feel like if I was always checking your phone like that Would make me more worried if I was like, oh tonight 10 p.m We're going through each other's text and I would hate that too. It'd be like It would make me more nervous just thinking about it But you just yeah, you know, your person's not gonna do anything because they love you like trust that I have lied to you I'm, trying to think if I ever have Come on Come on what you definitely lie, maybe like as a joke i'm like, oh I didn't eat that but that's a lie But like I would like laugh so, you know I want or like what if it was like a like a birthday surprise or like when I propose I had a lie with you About where I was because I can't just say like, oh, yeah I'll just give you the lie But it's a lie, but it's like for that person's benefit and you're gonna tell them Okay, but you but you would be on agree if that counted Like because you I know you've lied like I know that but like outside of that like i've never like lied to you Like a bad thing like I didn't never ever told you that I don't want you to know something that I was never gonna Like end up telling you about later, you know, I mean, okay Well, but i'm gonna keep mine there because okay, whatever I guess we have different we have different like opinions on that question But a lie is a lie. Okay. Well, we've lied for surprises Like joking lies like oh my gosh No, I didn't do that Like you make it obvious, but I don't think ever like said like oh i'm going out with my friends and then like went shopping By myself or something. I've never lied to you about You and your partner should have all of each other's passwords So phone social media. Oh, this is a hard one. I feel like I mean I'll go strongly agree. Really? I feel like not even as a thing where you need them to like make sure they're not doing anything But I feel like if the other person doesn't want that then that's a red flag So like you just like you shouldn't have them because like why not like why like, you know what I mean? We shared like all of our passwords when we were in high school and dating like I feel like it's more important when you're married to have each other's passwords because like you're married but like I feel like it's kind of weird like let's have our each other's snapchat passwords But it wasn't even like we had each other's passwords because we were always like checking what each other were doing It was just like I don't even know. I don't even know how to explain it It's just like uh, you're my girlfriend so you can have like my maybe that's just like what it was back It was like kind of like a cringeworthy thing where you like are walking into their stuff You couldn't log in but like that was more like you could check it was like a trusting like I trust Yeah, I feel like that's what it was It wasn't true. Yeah, I feel like but I think that's a good thing though Like you didn't know that person would give it to you. But at the same time it's kind of weird Why do you need that? yeah, but I think nowadays like obviously like we both have each other's like faces in our phones that you can just like Yeah, because it's just a convenience thing I feel like if I need to like Like you're saying like go through something just to find something like it'll be all the time where like you have something on your phone That I need to send to somebody for like something and there's no password that I would not need you to have I feel like that's sketch if you like like no, you can't have that one like that one You can't have you cannot log into my facebook messenger. That's what i'm saying. That's weird. So I strongly agree with that We're happier on social media than we really are like off camera. I think so Go down just go there. I'm gonna go there. I feel like social media I feel like okay this is hard because I feel like i'm A happy person like i'm not like just so sad off camera and then just like have to start smiling for camera But I feel like we never post like that like any of us I mean, we make some videos of some like some hard things like on youtube We do I feel like instagram's different like maybe stories like there's certain like our feet Really like I feel like social media like we have like highlights. Yeah, and that's just like for like that's kind of like a problem I feel like but it's also like that's just kind of how it is The people aren't like some people do but like not everyone's just going on when they're having a bad day And I also don't want to just be posting all the bad things because when I see bad things I feel sad also So I don't want to make all our followers always be seeing all the sad stuff because that makes them sad well, and sometimes I feel like sad things are From my personal experience is like sad things. Sometimes you can't share because yeah That's that's why I was going to say like some things you just you can't aren't meant for everybody to know Yeah, out of like respect for other people you can't share like hard things or whatnot but like as far as like our Personalities like it's not like we get on like or like we end the video and then we're like really sad Yeah, like I feel like sometimes i'm more like hyped up off camera like with our friend and stuff I feel like I like I don't know. I feel like it's not even like yeah, not just like a thing You like plan to sit down for a video. It's like this is what we're doing today This is what we're going to film. Yeah, and then you sit down and do it It's not like you're real like just what's real but it's real but not like you're candid You're not always recording the moments where we're like just spontaneously having like a fun time Sometimes those vlogs like this isn't just us like catching moments like but stories. I feel like highlight that Try our best to like have a balance of like showing like real moments and also like Having time off camera, but yeah, I would disagree. I feel like we are just as happy as we show. Yeah. All right Last but not least we say the best for last I have considered cheating Last time the main question was have you considered divorce? Right? That was like the big question Wait, what? I feel like if you've considered cheating then you might as well just break up the person because yeah You don't love them enough. Like if you're considering that then you don't like you shouldn't Thought about it like you basically have done it like not exactly but like but your your heart's already gone that way Yeah, so you shouldn't be with if you've legitimately like thought about like like not like oh my gosh I thought about the fact that I would never cheat and like thought about like but if you really thought like That person's hot and I would cheat and i'm gonna get their number i'm gonna plan like that's where my direction is going Your mind is there. Yeah, you're not you haven't been like you've already not been loyal in your thoughts and that's like So strongly disagreed come on now never Wow, what a video that was fun. I like these videos. I like these types of videos guys comment down below If you want us to do more stuff like this in the future part three If you guys get 5 000 likes we'll do a part three for 5 000 likes Anyways, if you guys enjoyed make sure to smash the like button. 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