Married Couple Plays Agree To Disagree!!

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What's up guys, welcome back to another video.
I'm here with the beautiful Stevie Steve.
That's me.
And we're gonna play Agree to Disagree today
as a married couple.
I've seen a lot of YouTubers doing it
and it looks kind of fun, so.
Yeah, I'm ready.
And the cool thing is Megan knows all the questions,
I don't, so I don't know if I should be scared
or excited about that.
I'm the intel here, you ready?
Yeah.
Question number one.
You're ready to move out of Arizona.
Did you say strongly?
Yeah, what'd you do?
I said disagree.
Disagree?
I'm not ready yet.
I'm open to the idea,
like we've been talking about it a little bit
and I know summers here are just brutal,
but I don't think I'm 100% ready yet.
I put strongly agree because if I could just move
all my friends and everyone out of Arizona as well,
then I'd be out of here in like a second.
The summers are absolutely brutal.
There's so many parts that are just so sketched
that you're like, what am I, where do I live right now?
And I miss living in a city.
Like I lived in San Francisco, major city.
Florida, you drive a little bit and you're in a major city.
I just miss that.
I'm open to it, especially because summers here are so bad,
but I'm just not ready yet.
Like my whole family's here, I grew up here.
I'm just, I need a little more time.
Megan has also never experienced anything
other than Arizona, so just putting that out there.
I've lived in California, Arizona, Florida.
Experienced Tucson.
Oh, gosh.
You do not have to have similar interests to be compatible.
I agree with that.
I think you have to have similar values,
but I don't think you need similar,
like we have different interests
and we still get along pretty well.
Yeah, like I like cool things
and Megan just really doesn't.
She likes reading and, you know.
And gardening.
And gardening, you know.
No, like we definitely have similar interests,
but at the same time,
like we have a lot of differences as well.
But that's cool because then she shows me her interest.
I show her my interest and it works out sometimes.
Stephen's super interested in just going around
to car dealerships all day and talking to people.
I like haggling on cars I know I'm not gonna buy.
It's some sick game to me.
Being friends with an ex is wrong once you're married.
I said that.
Does he agree?
I think it just depends on the situation.
If it's like an ex who's trying to get you back,
then like, yeah, maybe don't be friends with them.
But if it was a mutual, amicable breakup, then who cares?
Yeah, I think it's circumstantial for sure.
Like, if there's still feelings,
then yeah, probably you shouldn't do that.
And I don't even think like the marry thing
has to do anything with it.
I think just like when you're in another relationship.
But at the same time, like if you guys are cool
and you guys are friends, whatever, then whatever.
That's exactly what I just said.
Okay, next question.
Megan starts most of the arguments.
Strongly agree.
Strongly.
I think your moodiness sets me off.
So like, I start arguments.
Pop off, queen.
But it's because of you.
That's a perfect example.
But she's just blaming me for s**t.
Anyway, let's move on.
No, I think there's a healthy balance
between me starting stuff and her starting stuff.
And sometimes she's just so like,
the world is amazing and rainbows and butterflies.
I'm just like, shut up.
Yeah, because that's not how I think.
Because I think realistically and she thinks,
it'll be okay.
Yeah, I think I'm very, very optimistic.
And I think sometimes you want to be pessimistic.
So you like, don't like it when I'm optimistic.
Whatever.
But I think you're not even better about that.
Next question.
You're ready to have babies.
I think.
That's awkward.
Mentally, yes, I'm ready and I like can't wait.
But I want us to be married for a little bit longer.
Like I want to enjoy our married life together
before we bring a baby into it.
I guess like, yeah.
Whatever.
Agree I'm ready, but I still want a little more time
with just me and you.
Sure.
What's your take?
Do you agree, disagree, whatever?
Doesn't matter.
I've already said if I disagree or disagree.
I just want more time with you because I.
I want less time with you.
Which is why I think the baby would be perfect.
I have heard from so many people who have babies
that like your entire relationship changes.
You're not sleeping, you're not spending time together.
Like your whole life revolves around this new person.
But yeah, everyone says like give your marriage a year
before you have kids and I think I want to do that.
I just love you so much.
Steven is the messier one.
Strongly disagree.
Strongly.
Here's the thing about Steven.
He's neat.
He's not clean, he's neat.
So he doesn't like to see anything out.
So he'll just shove it in a drawer.
And here's the thing about Megan.
She's just dirty and not neat.
I love to clean but I want to clean
when I have time to like fully deep clean.
So I'll leave things a little bit a mess
for a couple of days until I have the time
to like fully scrub.
Megan just everywhere is her closet.
So she'll come home and she throws her computer
and her bottles and her backpack and her food
and her everything all over the communal space
and it drives me nuts.
I need clean lines.
He loves nothing.
He likes it to look like no one lives here.
Megan spends more money.
I knew you were gonna say that.
I feel like I'm like more impulsive
and frequent with my money spending
but you spend more in the amount.
Yes and no.
I don't have a choice for a lot of the things
that I spend money on.
Because it's like business wise.
It's for the business.
What was the question?
Amount?
No it was who spends more money.
Oh well I spend way more money.
That's what I was saying.
Yeah you spend more but I spend more frequently.
I'm rubbish.
Anyways, going out for girls or boys night
is not okay once you're married.
You will stay home.
Yeah.
Please take her.
Stop doing that.
I feel like if you're like going out every single night,
boys night, that's a little weird
but if it's like every once in a while
you just wanna be with your guy friends,
that's, I don't care.
You trying to tell me something?
No.
You want me to stop going out?
I'm explaining why I said I disagree.
We never go out anyways so.
We literally don't do anything.
We would rather order food in and sit on the couch
than go out to dinner with friends.
We love our friends, we just don't like to leave our house.
I don't.
Okay.
You dislike your in-laws.
One, two, three.
Steven.
Strongly disagree.
Your in-laws are crazy but my in-laws are cool.
Love mine.
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Steven does none of the housework.
I would say disagree.
I think you do, you help to help me with the dishes.
I pretty much, and the sole one who takes out the trash.
Yeah.
Yes, yes, yeah.
Whether it's necessary or not, I don't know
but she does 7,000 loads of laundry every single day.
Steven goes through so many workout outfits
and like I'll wear.
One a day.
I don't care if this is gross.
I'll wear the same workout outfit like two days in a row.
Ew!
But I don't sweat very much.
You sweat a lot so I understand why you change your clothes.
Sounded like a very backhanded thing to say.
I don't know, like you work out a lot harder than I do.
It's fine, like you're disgusting and that's it.
No, I'm just saying you work out a lot harder than I do.
Eat your donut.
Yes, I do most of the house cleaning, I would say.
Different responsibilities.
Yeah, couples should share passwords
for all their accounts slash to their phones.
You ain't touching my bank account, fool.
Not like that.
It was like social media accounts.
I don't know, like I don't feel like I need your password.
I'll ask you if I need to see something
and you would show me.
Would I?
You would.
You do.
Yeah, I think for us two it's like super different
because like this is my work.
There's a level of trust.
I don't feel like I need to go through your stuff.
You've never given me a reason to not trust you.
Now you on the other hand,
I'm waiting for this moment to come up.
I'm gonna devour that Instagram.
Oh yeah?
You can go through it if you wanted to.
Hey, you're at like 5,000 followers now.
You're growing.
You shouldn't hang out one-on-one
with someone of the opposite sex
if you're in a relationship.
I disagree, but not strongly.
Like obviously it depends on the relationship,
but like you and Laura, I don't care.
You guys can hang out all the time, doesn't bother me.
Again, circumstantial.
I think like if you're just doing it to do it,
then that's kind of weird,
but if like you have friends
who have been your friends
or people who you work with, whatever,
prior to the relationship, then you're chillin'.
Yeah, and yeah, circumstantial, like I trust you,
so I don't really care if you're alone with a girl.
You're not as happy as you look on social media.
Steven.
I am miserable.
No, I would do agree though.
I would definitely do agree.
Oh, I think we're very happy.
No, we are very happy.
But I think we've talked about this before.
There is definite times where we go,
like we go and we film a video,
but right before we're like,
press record, I'm like,
what up guys, welcome back to another video.
Yes and no.
I have a very hard time faking it.
Like if I'm mad at you.
So you haven't been doing it long enough.
Yeah, I have a very hard time faking it.
So like if I'm quiet, you'll know there's a reason why,
but like you, on the other hand,
yeah, you're, well, I don't know.
Very rarely do I not be able to turn it around.
Turn it on, turn it off, yeah.
But no, I think for the most part,
like what we portray, we are very happy,
but of course there's things that you don't see
behind closed doors.
Very happy.
Yep, yep.
We moved too fast in our relationship.
Steven.
This is why we can't do challenges like this
because you're not honest about anything.
I changed my answer.
We definitely moved fast.
I mean, we've been together for two and a half,
almost three years and we're married already,
but at the end of the day,
number one, I feel like that's becoming way more common.
I don't feel weird about it.
Everybody moves at their own pace.
And I quite simply was just, you know,
at this point where it was like, she'll do.
Are you really cute?
Mm-hmm.
Oh my God.
You chewed on it.
I can't even like fake sad about that
because I know it's not true.
We were perfect examples of when you know, you know.
Like it was just very clear that we wanted to be together
and we both kind of had our life plans already.
We had our shit together.
One of us did.
And it was me.
And it was Scalp.
I don't have any regrets about our relationship.
I think the only thing I would say is like,
I wish we met earlier so we could have gotten
our lives started earlier.
But at the same time, like the timing was perfect for us.
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