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Ever feel like someone flirts with you, shows interest, but never fully commits? In this video, we’ll explore the subtle and confusing signs they like you but are emotionally unavailable, and how to spot when someone is just leading you on. Whether you're in the talking stage or deep in mixed signals, we’ll help you figure out how to tell if someone is leading you on or serious. If you’ve ever wondered about those moments when they flirt but don’t commit, this video is for you.
Special Thanks to:
Writer: Rida Batool
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: @amandasilvera
Animator: Evelvaii
Animation Director: Cindy Cheong
Producer: Psych2Go
References and sources for further readings:
Clay, S. (2022, May 19). Red Flags of Breadcrumbing in a Relationship. Psychology Today.
Freeman, S. (2021, March 2). How Narcissists Use Faking to Lure Partners. Psychology Today.
Cohen, B. (2020, February 13). Is the Person You're Dating Playing Head Games? Are You? Psychology Today.
are they into me or are they just
playing games it's hard to pick up on at
first you tell yourself maybe they're
just busy and didn't see your message
maybe they'll call you back after work
maybe they just have a lot of close
friends maybe they like their alone time
and Constant Contact is just not their
thing maybe maybe and more maybe between
deciphering text analyzing social media
posts and trying to decode behaviors
it's no wonder we often find ourselves
struggling to form relationships that
offer genuine connection and stability
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are Key signs that someone might be into
you but is also keeping you in a state
of uncertainty helping you recognize
these behaviors so you can take control
of your emotional well-being and
navigate your romantic life with
confidence and self assurance number one
one the breadcrumb ever feel like you're
chasing crumbs rather than receiving a
full loaf breadcrumbing is when someone
gives you just enough attention to keep
you interested but not enough to truly
connect they'll pop into your life and
string you along or make you think
they're interested in you then disappear
just as quickly says counselor and
author Dr Stephanie saris PhD they might
drop a good morning text here or there
or Le leave a flirty comment there but
when it comes to making real plans Ghost
Town it'll seem like they're making just
enough effort to keep you in their life
without ever truly committing or taking
things to the next level breadcrumbing
is worse than ghosting because it's more
sadistic says Carol liberman
psychiatrist and relationship expert
ghosting is merely a coward's way out of
a relationship breadcrumbing is a slow
and painful death of a relationship ship
whereas ghosting makes it clear
eventually that the person is gone for
them it isn't going anywhere and they
know it but they don't ever do you the
favor of saying
so two future faking talk is cheap
especially when it comes to Future
fakers they may paint a vivid picture of
a life together complete with vacations
meeting the parents and future plans
that seem too good to be true spoiler
they usually are according to Dr saris
future faking usually goes hand inand
with breadcrumbing where they vaguely
reel you in with some grand plan for the
two of you in the future that just never
materializes then cut off all contact
you may wonder if you said something
wrong or blame yourself but future
fakers use these promises to create an
emotional bond without any real
intention of following through this
falling off the radar isn't about you at
all they probably got their ego needs
met and then moved on if their actions
don't match their words it's certainly a
red flag speaking of future faking
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they're playing games just kidding
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respectfully of course three engaging in
power plays power dynamics can make or
break any relationship if someone is
constantly engaging in power plays like
intentionally making you wait for their
text replies canceling plans at the last
minute or always needing to be in
control they're playing games all right
mhm these tactics are often used to keep
you off balance and maintain their upper
hand it's to give them comfort that
you're still willing to communicate with
them they are likely keeping a rotation
of people they can contact when they
need an ego boost every once in a while
they ensure that the rotation is still
fresh according to psychology today this
can stem from various psychological
factors such as fear of commitment low
self-esteem or insecure attachment
Styles a healthy relationship should be
about mutual respect and equality not a
tug-of-war of
power four the jealousy
tactic do they start mentioning their ex
completely out of the blue or keep on
flaunting how many people have crushes
on them sound familiar if so they're
likely deliberately trying to make you
jealous
they're manipulating your emotions this
could be through flirting with others
talking about their ex or posting
suggestive photos online their goal to
make you feel insecure and more invested
in winning their affection they may
openly flirt or show interest in others
while still engaging with you according
to author Shahira Arabi they may be
using a mind game known as jealousy
induction to get you to compete over
them with other potential partners they
enjoy that competition for their
attention because it makes them feel
valuable five relationship but without
labels Do they hide under the I don't do
labels tactic when someone likes you but
is playing games they often avoid
defining the relationship they might say
things like let's keep it casual or I'm
not ready for a relationship right now
while still wanting all the perks of one
they never talk about feelings or where
the relationship can go and anytime you
bring it up they either make jokes or
deflect they're nice and friendly yeah
but you have no idea how they really
feel about you dating and relationship
expert Sabrina bendry says sometimes it
seems like they really like you and
other times you have no idea and you
feel like the rug could be pulled out
from under you at any moment this
ambiguity keeps you in a state of
confusion and always guessing their true
intentions
we've all been there you're getting to
know someone new and just when you think
everything seems great they suddenly
pull back leaving you in a whirlwind of
confusion such mixed signals can be very
frustrating and emotionally exhausting
whether it's due to their fear of
getting hurt uncertainty about their
feelings or even just wanting to keep
their options open if they can't or
won't Define the relationship you
deserve someone who who can be clear
about their feelings and intentions it's
important to recognize these signs and
take actions that align with your
selfworth don't settle for crumbs when
you deserve the whole loaf remember
you're worth more than games you're
worth a genuine
connection got any experiences or tips
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