Explore the latest episode of Baghban, delving into the risks associated with children's mobile device exposure. In this episode, the program's host, Mr. Syed Arif Rizvi, engages in a meaningful discussion with esteemed guests Ms. Sadia Amir (Principal & Trainer) and Ms. Fozia Badar (Social Activist), addressing the following concerns in depth.
Mobile Phone Exposure on Children How does the use of mobile phone affect children physically? Are parents concerned about this issue? Children are more effected by the harmful radiations of phone! Are schools and institutes conducting any campaigns to make parents aware of the dangers of mobile phones? Parents are unware of what children are watching on phones! Decrease in children’s physical social interaction due to excessive use of mobile phones! Is there a way by which the child does not get attracted to mobile phone? How can children be kept away from mobile phones? Why is it important to reduce child’s screen time?
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Bismillah Rahman
Rahim Nazreen, once again in our
program Baagban,
Khushamdid Baagban means the place of education where
human education takes place. The
education of children who turn into human beings is
influenced by many things and activities.
Often we think that the
thing that affects the education of children is their
parents, their relatives, their mother
and going further, there are schools where
children are educated, but
in today's modern era where technology
is at its peak and different types of gadgets and
technology are being invented and our
generations are also influenced by them and are
also using them to the fullest, so whether these
businesses of technology are
affecting the education of our children or not, this
is a very deep topic in itself
and there is a research going on on it all over the world right now,
especially gadgets like internet, social media
and mobile phones. Do mobile phones have
any effect on children? There are effects and
what are those effects, is it
positive or negative or very dangerous,
from which we should keep our children safe and
save them. Our topic today is
that the effects of mobile phones on children,
when we talk about children, our
focus here will be more on children under 10 or we can say that
under 5 years of age,
those children are those who use
these gadgets with the permission of their parents
and the speaker of our program is
also a father who is a gardener who
educates his children.
In this program today also we have two special
guests, one is Miss Sadia Amir who is
also a principal and also a teachers trainer and also a
parenting and parent trainer.
We will take their feedback on this topic.
Welcome to the show. Assalam Walekum Walekum Assalam.
Thank you. We hope that you will
also get an idea of this show, how this
program is conducted and Inshallah, on this topic
we will talk to you about being an educationist and being a teacher.
Parenting counselor, we will
take feedback from you as to what are the effects of
mobile phones on children, Inshallah. And the second guest with us is
Miss Fauzia Badar, who is
also a social activist, and because
in today's era, social media and mobile phones are
also a means of social communication, so
what is happening in the world,
we will try to understand that from her perspective as well, and it has
also evolved into a business, which is
also related to health, it is related to health,
so Assalam Walekum, welcome to
our program,
Inshallah, we will be pleased with you, viewers,
before we move ahead with our program
and start the series of questions, we are
taking a small break, keep watching,
stay with us in our garden,
Bismillah Rahman Rahim, viewers, once
again in the garden, Khushamdid, as we
said, our topic today is the effects of mobile phones on children,
today in Pakistan and almost
in the whole world, this statistics is increasing,
in Pakistan, 50 Most of the
children who are below 7 years of age
use mobile phones and
according to the recommendation commentators in the world,
if a child spends more than 2 hours on screen
time, whether it is on mobile or TV,
some or the other effect starts on him.
Children who
often use mobile here in Pakistan,
about 63% of them are on games, those who
play games, about 22% of them are on mobile,
they watch cartoons and videos and the
rest of the time they are
doing communication or some other thing on mobile, the
recommendation time as
I said is 2% less than two hours,
but in Pakistan more than 50%
children spend more than two hours on mobile phones,
their screen time is
more than two hours. Now the question arises here
that why, it is understandable for older children that it is
in their power, they take it, they
find the mobile, use it
or the parents bring it for
them, but those children are small, who are toddlers.
Whose age is less than 5 years, it has often been
seen that parents, especially
mothers, give mobile phones to their children
because they have to do their household
chores, they are busy in their routine
or whatever their hobbies are, so that the
child does not get disturbed, the
child does not cry, the child does
not get irritable, therefore, they easily
give the child something on the mobile
and the child remains busy in it for hours,
but this facility which she herself provides for herself,
what are its effects, are there its
medical effects, are there its physical effects
or psychological effects, what is it after all,
we move towards our guests, first we will
take their opinion on this,
what are the physical effects of using a mobile phone on the child,
my question is to you,
first of all I ask you that you also do parenting, so
a child who is
on mobile phone for more than two hours, does it have
any medical effects, physical effects, can
he get into any kind of difficulty, have
you considered this Have you observed this
or studied this or
notified something in your parenting
programmes?
Thank you so much. First of all, I would like to
appreciate your programme, then its name and what you did with the topic. This is very much needed at this time
and in this, parents and
our students
need to make children aware about this and as far as
you talked about its effects,
Allah has given khayr and shar of everything in everything.
It depends on our thinking how we
use it. Our preferences
determine its future, its thinking.
But if we see, what I think is that
if children under five years of age
use mobile phones too much, then there is a
question mark on the responsibility of mothers as a mother. They
lack the capability that they are not successful
in handling today's children positively. To
save themselves
or for convenience, they give mobile phones to children.
In our school, we saw in the research,
we did the analysis, statistics, when we We
collected that our children were
very weak in socialization. Our children who were
medically not fit, had some problem or the other
with them. For example,
someone's eyesight is not good, there is a vision
problem, socialization is bound to affect them
because when a child takes a break from a specific time,
here, that is, this
statistics is from Research Gate and
I think, there is
also a report from Pakistan Medical Journal that 33% of children who spend
more than two hours on mobile, their
eyesight becomes weak and they have to
wear glasses. So, you have also observed this, it is
exactly the same in your school.
We also arranged sessions on this.
Our aim is that we want mothers,
parents, first of all, the fathers should
see that they should give ease to the mothers of the children
at home and make it easy for them to attend those sessions. That
in today's times, how should the upbringing of children be with
reference to mobile, social media.
Then, when mothers
give quality time to their children, instead of using them,
Mobile has a very
positive effect on the upbringing of children. Now, we would
first talk about its effects in a question.
What could be the effects? What have you observed near you? For
example, the
children with weak eyesight are
weak in socialization. Their relationships are affected
with others. Obviously, they
lack patience, tolerance and communication. They do not have any problem with posture. They have problems with
posture. They have problems with back pain. They have problems with
elbow pain, hand pain. Continuous
use of mobile in this way
leads to all these medical problems with children. Would you
like to say something on this, Miss Fauzia,
being a social activist,
what kind of trend have you seen in the society that are
parents really concerned? Do mothers also think
about this that what effect can this thing have on the children
or they just
look at their convenience that it's okay, the child is busy. Yes, of course,
thank you very much. You have selected a very good
topic and when this will be discussed again and again, then There will be
awareness and people will also
think. I think that neither is this being
talked about much nor are mothers
thinking about it because it is such an easy task
that even if a seven or eight month old child is crying,
mothers try to
show him an activity on the phone. Now Imam
Ghazali says that the first five years of education are
when the child will be educated using mobile phones and gadgets
and the human to human relationship will reduce,
of course, there will be effects on his nafs or his
body. It is getting affected and his
5 year old
child's relationship
with gadgets is going to turn his whole life into trauma.
People will see this in the times to come. The tendency towards suicide and
all this and hyperactivity in children. The
thing that I have seen the most around me is that
I have seen children hyper that
when they are not with their emotions, not
with their parents, not with their siblings,
you are attached to gadgets, then your
maximum emotional effects are happening because of the
gadgets only. So,
he is watching the content in the gadget and the game is
not giving him comfort, it is affecting his brain,
you see
what he is playing, he is
not constructive at any point, when he crosses a level, he feels that he has to do something
else, that
anxiety is developing and this anxiety is
then reflected in his behavior with people at home,
in school as well, his patience level is also
low and of course it will also affect his education, so
basically the entire
personality of the child is affected,
but it has also been seen that often mothers are
also happy that look, my child has seen this
poem or this song on the mobile
and now he is repeating it very easily at the age of 2 years,
she gets very
excited that my child has started
speaking very well, has started learning by doing these
things, but she is
not seeing the negative effects, this happens at that time,
this happens with those parents who
sit in controlled time and use that gadget
positively. which is not
happening 99% of the time because it should not be visible then
I am a woman in our society, if there are a lot of
people around me and I
go to my friends circle and meet them or
my relatives, then I should
see that constructive attitude after using the mobile,
if that is not visible then it means that it is
very less percentage of that in today's era
which is also the era of multitasking that every
person has to perform multifunctions here, so is it
correct to say or this analysis that your child spends
two-three hours on the mobile, rather here a
specific percentage is that the
screen time of a child is up to six to seven hours, here there is a very
significant percentage who are using it so much,
they are continuously attending to only one screen
and their focus is
not anywhere else, so their attention being lost and being
multi focused, isn't it the effect that the
child remains focused at one place only and is focused only on that
He doesn't even know what is
happening to me, what is going on
around me, what are my parents doing, who is coming, who is
evolving in this at a young age, isn't this a very worrying
and dangerous effect which it
can have on the child's future development, on his
education, on his other upbringing aspect,
yes, this aspect which you just mentioned is gaining
intensity to a very dangerous extent
in our society and
everybody is wed, when the parents come to know about its negative
effects, by then it is too
late and education is
in research on this, by figuring out research and studies,
efforts are being made to give this awareness
here, anyway,
generally at places in your programs that
we have to control this check, this use,
this should be positive control
and researchers are now saying that
children should not have mobiles or screen time before eighth class,
but obviously our children, our youth have to
progress ahead and its use
Even without this guidance they will be left behind. So we need to
keep a check on them and how they
use it. For example, as a nation
our children or we are lagging behind in research, then what if
we guide them to
explore it, do research through their
own educational topics with the help of this technology,
plan activities in it. We can also
lead in this way. Now
many of our educational institutions or many
parents who have awareness
try to do it. Some mothers have
this point of view that
how can we control it, but they are helpless. When the
same children go out to their friends, to society, to
schools and it has
become a symbol there that you should have a good
mobile, you should have those
tablets. It is compulsory
in many societies. This thing is going on as a norm. So
we are really upset with it. Now
every child, even if our children do
not have books in their hands, the concept of book reading has
ended. This mobile has created screen time for
our children. It has had many effects on us that the
reading habit which used to
develop as readers, now children only
play games of their choice or
watch movies, some times we see that suicidal
cases are improving a lot due to this,
recently one of our children from
Sheikhupura who had gone to Canada,
we came to know that he committed suicide,
when his friends were interviewed there,
they told that he was always busy
to observe the movies and he used to regret
that he was away from his parents, that he had wasted a
lot of his time,
he had lost a lot of his things
and because of this he
attempted suicide, so parents
need to be very careful in these things,
we should adopt proper strategy for this in the educational institution and
we should see in which direction our youth is going,
we will continue this discussion
but before we move ahead towards the next question,
we will take a small break, viewers
stay with us and watch. Stay tuned to our
program
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Baghban Welcome back to our program Baghban
once again in our program
our Khushamdid discussion is going on a very
sensitive and very important topic which is the
effects of using mobile phones by children. We have just learned from our guests
specifically what its effects
can be on the soul and what is happening and some
parents are also concerned but they do
not know how to get out of it and to
some extent there is also a lack of awareness
due to which parents are also careless.
According to another medical research, the use of mobile phones on children has a
very dangerous
effect. Any wireless technology,
when wireless signals come out, it has
radiations, it has
electromagnetic effects, those
radiations go into the cells of the human being and
disturb the cells and due to which
diseases like cancer occur.
After 2020, the global cancer rate has
increased to 47% worldwide and this is due to several reasons.
People say that it has
happened due to vaccination, some say that it is
also increasing due to the artificial food items used in Asia. There are
many reasons for this on which research is
going on, but one reason which is told is that
mobile phones and wireless
devices affect children
four times more than the
effect on humans. The brain
tissues and brain skin of children are
weak and they
receive radiation very easily. Now
because this is a very sensitive issue, if
confirmed reports come on this, then the
mobile industry and gadget industry are
badly affected
and the capital suffers huge losses. So there are many
things which harm humans,
but today the world is a world of profit,
everyone looks at their own profit, so the
capitalists who do business of billions and trillions
of dollars from this industry
always keep its losses in mind and
never let it happen, but there are some
well-wishers of humanity who do not pay attention
to this. We do research, investigate and after
investigation we present the facts. Now is it
proven or not that the
use of mobile phones by children
affects their brains and
diseases like cancer which can occur in the future, this will be
known with time and experience
but there is no harm in taking precautions.
We have lived our lives without mobile phones. It has been
a
long time, maybe 10 years, since
children have had mobile phones. We have never
seen them in our childhood, never
thought about it. We have also
lived our lives, so parents
can also protect their children from it. Now we move on to the
next question which we take from our
guest that medically
it is clear that there are issues with this. You have
also told about nafs or nafs and physically also there are
problems, there is posture, eyesight, hands also become
weak, neck pain occurs,
all these things are proven through reports
that this happens in children. The survey that has been done
here is now We have another question related to this that one
scenario is that there are very concerned
parents who save their children
after understanding when they
get the warning but there are some who do
n't care even after knowing.
Now such parents don't care about it, not only he is
using it but what he is doing on that mobile, which content should the
child
watch and which content he should not watch,
for example all thoughts, violent
content, if he gets into it, then
it can have very negative effects. So
being an educationist and being a social
activist, is there any such campaign going on in our country
through which either we are
running schools or any
NGOs are doing this work in the society,
parents should be made aware that if your children are
using mobile, then what type of
content should be there for them, what content can have
very negative and negative effects on
their personality, their development, their souls,
like you yourself said that we
are in a world of forgiveness, if any campaign is run then also
If it is for a good cause, then those
selfish people, whose businesses, whose
industries are related to this, start trying to stop it even before it starts.
So no doubt,
we all have to play our role in this.
Every individual, whether he is an
educationist, or someone related to the field of health, or
whether we are like being
parents, now there is a lot of awareness among parents that
sessions should be arranged for them on
how to educate their children in these difficult times.
Alhamdulillah, parents
try to adopt this thing. They understand.
I would like to share a figure. There used to be
parenting sessions in an institute and there,
monthly parents, initially the number was very less, but the
graduates
started expressing their gratitude and tried to involve other people as well by
motivating them, so
we should not be disheartened, we all have to
play our role. No doubt,
those who
invented this, their own children should be saved from
screen time due to this technology. We are very far away from this. For us,
this is a world where
we consider this use of technology as everything. It is a
symbol and we have to move ahead with its
help. But we have to
look at our preferences and correct them. For
example, you had also said one thing earlier and
it is a fact that the
use of mobile phones leads to lack of social interaction and socialization. On the
other hand,
our religion and indeed our culture is a
very social culture. There is social
interaction in it. But this social
interaction does not end with the use of technology by children.
Now they go to social media and do virtual
social interaction through chatting
or on Facebook pages. Socialization
happens later but it becomes digital and
not physical. So, the
community is moving towards digital socialization. The youth are
gradually moving away from physical socialization. So, what can be the
social impact of this?
I would like to know from you,
Mrs. See, the child of the
age group we are talking about,
I do not think that he
needs digital socialization because he would be
with them first. Evolve which
people are living with in real, the world we
talk about digital socialization is when
people are doing business, when people are studying
and they have to compete in the world, now
one beautiful thing about this gadget is that
you just talked about campaign that there should be a campaign, so
we can run the campaign on that mobile itself and
see, marketing is a very
big name which brings even the bad thing in
front of you, then you
start using it with every food,
so I think marketing is
needed, people like you, people like us and
many influencers are talking about this
in Pakistan and when they start telling the facts and
figures
in numbers, its disadvantages, then the
child who is watching it, somewhere or the other, when he will
see it, those things will start running in his mind, so
talking about parents, if they are
watching on mobile and a reel comes in
which a lot of disadvantages are being told
like just now ma'am shared the facts and
figures, you shared the facts and figures,
when every second, third person starts watching it The influence will talk,
parents who are aware will
start talking, then this content will start coming on the social media which
they are watching on their mobile, so
this is basically
a plus point that you can
also show the disadvantages of it on the same mobile, but on the one hand,
if you look at the mood of our nation, the status that is there on social media
or on the internet,
I am not talking about myself, there it is that the
Pakistani community is
more into Jugat Baazi on the internet and
you can see our TikTokers,
what are their preferences, they are on that only, so
this campaign may not be successful in a
way that the community which is not interested in
understanding the scientific things about their community,
about their issues, they
just get fun and frolic, this type of
content, which
starts giving them temporary momentary pleasure, so
here how do you overcome this challenge,
but look, you are also working,
we also work, so we will not leave this work just because it will make
them
If there is no impact, but there will be
some impact, that means the effort should
continue and if the effort is
affecting even 10, then it is
better than zero and it will be
multiplied by 10, it will be multiplied in the same way
when we talk about 900 years of
hard work, even then Hazrat Nooh al-Salam got
only 90 people, but later
Islam became the most powerful religion in the world, the
believers of Allah, whether Christians
or anyone else, the one who believes in the revelation of Allah has become
a majority
in the world, so the effort should continue so that
we can warn, we will continue the
session, but before that let us take
a small break, viewers, stay with us, this is
an interesting topic which is related to you, your
children, your and our generations,
so give some time and try to at
least listen to what we are talking about,
then if you find it appropriate, then definitely take
it forward. We are taking a small
break, we will be present with us again with our program
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Stay Bismillah Rehman Rahim Nazreen, once
again in our program Baagban,
our topic is Khushamdid, the effect of using mobile phones on children, especially
on small children, the toddlers who do not even go to school yet, they
are at home, often mothers
give them mobile phones in their hands, according to a survey
report, which is a survey report,
80% mothers have confessed
that we give mobile phones to our children
so that we can do our work peacefully, 80% is a
very big figure, which means eight out of 10 mothers are doing
this work, that they are
giving mobile phones to small children and they are
not even aware of what they are doing on that mobile,
what content they are watching, often that may be
good for them, but then we
live in the external world, we
like materialism, that is why we are neither able to see the effects of these things
nor take interest in them,
but there are also such people who are present with us
in the studio today that Those who are trying to get
their generations away from these things
and we are also trying the same
here. Now
in this last session we move towards a question that
what can be the practical steps that a
father should take so that his children stay
away from the medical, physical and nafs effects of mobile phones. One of them is that the
mobile should be taken away from them forcefully and
not given to them but there can be some other way so that the
child is not
attracted towards it.
What can be close to you from a young age? See, when you
take something from the child and do
not replace it, then he will enjoy it.
You have to give him a replacement first.
This can include your outdoor activities.
You can give it to the child to play with and you should engage with him.
In some activities, colours bring
you closer to nature.
Painting, doing art work,
making blocks for small children and such, now
you can do so many indoor activities with the
child so that he stays engaged with you
but one thing in it is that you yourself will have to engage. You will have to be
creative yourself, that
is, the child does not have that
ground to do physical activities,
when he is there, then naturally you
can take him away from it and because of
that the child gets tired, when he is physically
active, his body gets exerted, he
sleeps well and he
remains more peaceful and relaxed, these are the
things that I have experienced myself,
exactly this, I wanted to talk about this also, there is
one more statistic which is
very interesting that children who
use mobile phone for more than two hours,
they are not able to sleep for more than six hours
constantly at night and their day time
sleeplessness also comes up, that children should
often sleep during the day also, small
children cry but they do not sleep because of the
mobile phone, this is a
proven effect that the sleep of children gets reduced, that
they do not get tired at all and
see one more thing, the signal that the mobile is carrying is
not matching with the human signal, the human
signal is the
oldest in the universe. The signals that we have
now, this WiFi, when a person carries it
with another person, then those signals have an
effect, those signals will affect
your entire body, ultimately your behavior,
your sleep will also
not be complete and when you do not get your sleep,
your normal attitude towards people will
also not be better, the sleeping
time also changes, the child
goes into a different cycle, often this complaint is
common these days, even in the medical field,
people come to the pediatrician that
our children do not sleep properly, they do not get sleep, they
remain awake the whole night, they do not
go to the root cause of it, medically they
check whether there is any virus or
bacteria, but the
biggest virus is this mobile phone which is
given in the hand by the parents, so
now if you come towards the activities also, then
we have already discussed in this session
that the schools themselves have become a commercial
business in such a way that small
10 marla schools are built on top of a canal,
which do not have a playground, which do not have any equipment. There are
outdoor facilities which do not have any
activities, then how can that child get
attracted towards activities? The
only thing left with him is the mobile on which he gets
everything, so this is a common social
problem of ours, today if you go to the toy market,
you will not find learning toys, activity
toys, it is exactly like this, this is a
fact and our effort, this channel's
effort is also that there should be inclination towards these things
and in fact such products should also be brought
in the market which
increase the interest of children towards activities, so one thing you have given is good
suggestion that parents, especially mothers, should take out
time and
evolve in activities with children,
in our childhood we used to do colouring, painting, there were
colour books, book reading,
colourful books had stories, we used to read them,
we need to turn towards such things again, someone near you,
you being an educationist, do you
give solution to parents who are parents who
want to keep children away
from mobile, first of all I would like to tell you this I would say that our
mothers should perform their activities and
household responsibilities
during the children's school time, when the children are
in school, and when the
children come home, that time should be
for their children, but those children who do
not go to school, who are toddlers,
under five, under five, then they should plan properly,
obviously they have to make a routine for the children, no
work is difficult, we just
need 40 days to develop a habit, okay, this is a little hard
work, like in this mothers have to be a little
careful, when
within 40 days we develop a habit of the children,
you set a routine for the children's
sleep, do your work during sleep,
as soon as the children wake up, you sit with them,
discuss with them, play games with them, you should
recite poems to them yourself, instead of
giving it to the child on the mobile, you should
listen to the poem yourself and narrate it to the children, you should do storytelling,
see, in the olden times, this was the
storytelling of grandmothers and grandfathers
How many children's learning was ours,
socialization is rights, why are we as a nation
traveling in manners,
relationships, and rights, later the
reason for this is that our children and we children do what
their parents do,
children do not do what their parents tell them to do,
when parents themselves are
sitting with mobile phones in front, generally mothers
keep mobile phones in front even while cooking, fathers are also like this,
then children will also do the same thing, so it should not be like this that
we
advise mothers to keep their smartphones
in the drawer and keep a small phone
with them in which there is no display and nothing
happens, if any calls come then receive them on that, in case of
emergency and when the child sleeps, at
that time they use their smartphones,
whatever they want to do, they have to go on social
media or fruit activities or watch videos, with
this they can make a system that the
child will not even see the gadget
in which he is attracted, when he will see it, he will
ask for it, when he will ask for it, he will get frustrated,
after all mothers also get fed up The mother does that and the
children trouble her so much. Then
she cannot see them cry. But she is
preparing them for this thing. God
forbid, she
cannot face the future. The children develop
ADHD, hyperactivity
and all these diseases in their lives.
Then later they start running from here to there to psychologists,
psychiatrists and everyone.
But they do
not pay attention to how
a day in the life of our Prophet (peace be upon him) had
a proper portion of family time.
We miss it a lot. There is a
verse in the Quran itself for the companions that do
not disturb them at this time. This is
their personal time. This is their family
time. But that system has
ended here because this is the same
family time in which we can tell the children, not
directly but indirectly. We
can guide them as to how they should spend their time.
What things should we discuss while sitting together. The
things that parents are
observing about their children should be
discussed indirectly with them during family time. But, if
doing this at an individual level may be a
difficult task for many mothers, then why don't
schools bring forward this concept as a play group
concept, that from
2 years of age
to 4 years of age, the children should be taught only in play group
activities, motoring
skills, occupational skills, which should be
developed in the child, his concentration,
his attention building, all these things
through play group activities, which I do
n't think is the world of it here. Now, I
recently read a research to train some
of the teachers and in that, Alhamdulillah, I am very
much happy. I have to say the same thing with regret
that the work that Allah told us to do
in the Quran, to pay attention and worry,
that is not a book of Tafcorn. I did a
research of a western person, of an
educationist, and now there is a
new concept in early childhood. Years and that is
play based learning, not activity based
learning, pleasure based learning, so now
this concept is being promoted a lot, in
it, let them be free in the
classroom, you give them an environment and give
them resources and then they have to
learn, they have to be independent, they have to be
happy, so I am very much happy with that and I
think that we should reduce screen time through this,
that is, now in that research it has been prohibited that
you should not allow screen time in classrooms, it
should not be more than 20 to 30 minutes, you should not do screen time at
all
per day, and earlier it was per day, after making a big
difference, now we want to move towards improvement in it, something is better than nothing,
so now play based learning is
a good concept, in this the
teachers are well connected with the children
and these are the things mothers should also guide us,
play plays an important role,
when we do activities, the
child is controlled in that too. Should not
control in early years. We should guide and should
listen. We should motivate them, listen to them, do
storytelling. Books should be around them.
This is a time when
children’s brain development is at its peak in the first six years.
When we fill their surroundings with books
and discuss good things with them
through those books, then the
children, if I tell them that even if you keep a mobile in front of you, they will
not be using it. Finland is the
world’s number one education system.
I was reading a study from there and
I saw a very good and beautiful point in it
that the success criteria of a teacher and a school there is that
a
child should be excited to
go to school. Here, the child gets
excited that when will the school be over tomorrow,
when will I go home and pick up the mobile in my hand. If
we bring in this system, there should not be such
activities in the school, fun based,
pleasure based, learning, activity based learning,
so that the child gets excited that I have to go to school, I did
this with my friends yesterday, I have to do this today, I have to do this
today. If I have to do this
work today, then it is for my own
sake because I don't think that in our culture
you will find very few percentage of
educated parents who are
inclined towards activities and have a big focus on the
upbringing of the children, on their development, on
their cognitive learning, who do
not know at all, do not understand what is
close to them, the child just goes to school, gets a
position, gets marks, moves ahead, passes, gets a
job, they do
not focus on character development, personality building, so this work will have to be done by
private schools only, those
schools which have this kind of inclination, only then
maybe an overall improvement can
start coming in the mass, then our
program is towards that, if you want to add something to this or
say something, and if there is any such instruction, any
guidance that we
can give to the parents that
how to keep the children away from the effects of mobile phone, I do
n't know this, if I look at its root cause, then the
parents don't have time, you see, these
80 But of the families, both fathers and mothers are
working. We in the brand system
and in this corporate sector, our timings have evolved to such an extent that
I say that
in our sector, timings should be focused
and parents must have proper and
quality family time with their kids. Job
timings should be such that
when our fathers come home after doing their morning jobs, they also need
relaxation and at what time they
give time to the children and the children keep waiting for them.
This is the first problem according to my experience,
because of which our children are
away from their parents, there is a gap between them and their parents. Yes,
when mothers who are working
come home tired after their jobs, they just have to do everything
quickly, do this, do that,
if they have this much time,
in this, parents also need to moderate their preferences
a bit, they also need to
change, we need to change our expectations from our life,
brand
system, we need to We should adopt simplicity.
Then what is the use of spending so much time and earning so much money
if our children are away from us and
we face its after effects in the future
when we travel,
our children travel more than us, so we should
set timings with the children.
Discussions with them are so important, it
develops their cognitive development, it
develops their skills to talk and
communication skills, they know how to speak openly, they
learn how to be in groups, they have
effective communicative skills, so
all these things start from home.
Schools no doubt have their own
responsibilities, but a child
spends six hours in school, there the
screen time is controlled, but when he goes home,
those things are completely opposite to it, then
what should the schools do there. So I think
our government should also be involved in this, for
problems like energy crisis etc.,
they sit and set
timings for 8 o'clock, why don't they
think about family Our
generation gap is also increasing. Our children are
not educated properly because our
parents are busy. The parents of the children are
very busy. Thank you very much.
You addressed this topic in a very good manner
and we hope, Inshallah, that
our parents, our visitors will
benefit from this and will also practically implement these things that
we have discussed here
in their lives.
Visitors, this is a very important topic for us
because its effects can be seen
on the children throughout their lives. Therefore, we should
not take it lightly. We should think about it
and pay attention to it. Okay,
mobile phone technology has its own
advantages as well, but every advantage comes with its own opportunity
and purpose. It comes at its own time
and comes within its limits. There are
disadvantages in both, in excess and in wandering.
Islam, our religion, has also prohibited that one should
not cross the limit in anything
when a child is capable of it. At the
age of 10, he can stay in foreign countries for up to 10 years.
Children should not have mobile phones, so
we should avoid this
here also, as madam also
said, parents should give quality time to
their children, indulge them in activities, take them
out-doors, take them to parks,
make them do physical exercises, make them do physical
fitness games and schools should also
play this role, schools should educate
parents, school is not there just to
teach syllabus to children, the job of schools is to
educate children and
in the education of children, if parents are an
integral part of it, who are involved in it after 6 hours,
then educate parents
also, train parents also,
educate parents also, when we take a holistic approach
then we can solve these problems
but in the short term it is important to protect our
children especially toddlers from mobile phones, do
not use it,
keep mobile phones away from them so that they do
not get attracted, interest does not arise,
we will keep bringing similar topics to you so
that your There will be guidance and
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