Drug addiction and children | Manshiyat aur bache - Baghban S2E6 | Save the Children | bachey Bachao

There are figures of around 28-30 years where youth are getting into trouble with drugs. I can say that now around 10 million people in Pakistan's total population are addicted to drugs, or it could be even more. The reason behind this was exam pressure, family pressure. Because of which, if you do n't score good marks, this will happen. You can say that all these drugs are from someone or the other, directly or indirectly as a fashion, because of pressure from friends. I have also seen people selling even the smallest things in their house, why to take drugs. I have seen such parents whose father and mother themselves give money to the child, so that no one knows, go and get the drugs. Which types of drugs are the most consumed at this time? [Music] Haij Billah Min Shaitan Ram Bismillah Rahman Rahim Assalam Walekum Nazreen. Once again in our programme Baagban, Khushamdid Baagban is a training programme, where we especially make the parents familiar with the subject of training. They also teach their children and guide them on how to give proper upbringing to their children. While on one hand it is necessary to teach good values ​​and good morals to children so that they can play a good role in their society, on the other hand, protecting children from riots and difficulties is also a part of upbringing. This is what the Quran has called Taqwa ka Taqwa, that is, safe life. And the life of a human being should be safe both spiritually and physically. Just as the human soul gets many diseases which are natural, similarly the body also gets many diseases which are natural. Some diseases are such which are not in the control of the human being. It happens due to negligence or due to his negligence, bacteria, viruses and different types of germs which are present inside him enter inside and harm the body. But there are some diseases which are completely natural and occur very rarely. With age, a person moves towards it and then it takes the form of a disease inside him. One of those diseases or problems which is very common in our country at this time is drug addiction, i.e. consuming intoxicants and substances for mental abuse, which is a problem in the whole world and often in cases of drug trafficking, i.e., those who trade in drugs, are punished with death. It is considered a crime so serious that it is the biggest problem of this substance. The biggest problem with this substance is that young people often get addicted to it. Young people get addicted to it and if we look at the statistics, then almost every youth in Pakistan, I don't know how deep the statistics are, but we get figures of around 28-30%, where young people get into trouble because of drugs. Now, drugs have also come in many forms, one is the old one which was traditional, which is called cannabis, which is called charas, which people used to take so that they remain silent and forget their sorrows, but now its new in-house laboratory made There are also versions, it is a very important topic for the father, especially our effort today will be to guide the fathers as to how they can save their children from this world's mischief when this time comes and secondly, God forbid, if someone has got this disease, if a child or a youth has become a drug addict, then how should he be treated and at the same time we will also try to know what are those things that a youth who is from a good family, educated family and belongs to a religious family, in spite of that he still gets involved in it. As always, today also we have two special guests with us, first of all we have with us Syed Zulfiqar Hussain sahab who is the Director of Drug Advisory Training Hub, Alam wa'laikum, thank you very much for taking the trouble and this topic is absolutely related to you and Inshallah our full effort is that we will listen to you often and the viewers would like to know what kind of problem this is and And I believe that it is a service to the community that if we warn you and if someone is saved or someone is saved because of our warning, then it will be a great favor, Insha Allah. And with us is our respected Amina Malik Sahiba, who is a psychologist, she is in Jina Hospital and also in Farooq Hospital, and Insha Allah, we alam waaleekum, we would also be pleased to hear from you here that nafsically, the nafs background of this issue and the nafs difficulties that not only those youth face, but also later on, what their parents face, when a youth gets involved in this, then how is it managed, we will talk to you today, Insha Allah, on these topics, but before we continue the series of questions, we will take a small break, keep watching the program Baaghban, welcome back viewers, once again in our program Baaghban, our topic today is drug addiction among youth and teenagers, what are its causes And what is the way to save our children, our generations from this? We are moving towards our guests and my first question to Sulfiqar Hussain sahab would be that first of all we would like to know this, the audience would like to know the basic information of drug addiction, i.e., in which age group of children it is more, which type of drugs are consumed the most at this time, how are they available, how easily are they available, I would like to know this basic information from you first. Thank you very much. You have two very good questions in your conversation. The first question is, which age group of people are these and among them, because when we define children, they are up to about 18 years of age and from 18 years onwards, our youth is included, so there is no doubt that Pakistan, which is a big country, the recent census has about 23-24 crore people, if we talk in terms of Dad Shamar, I talk about the Government of Pakistan, the 2013 census, in terms of drugs, this has been found in it. We were told that 6.7 million people are using hard and clean drugs, including alcohol and at that time, there were no tests for such addiction. Being an expert, I can say that now about 10 million people are addicted to drugs in the total population of Pakistan or it may be even more. The government is conducting a survey and its report will come in three to five months and almost all the new drugs have been included in it. The current situation is very serious especially with regard to children. That is why whatever I will say will be evidence based because I have spent many years in this field. The latest situation at this time is that addiction is increasing a lot among children below 18 years of age and among young people. You see, the cases that come to me or I go to different educational institutions, especially schools and the children of upper level, O level and A level, the addiction is very high in them and then there is addiction in middle and upper class children as well, but their reason for using drugs is that they have a tendency to use drugs. Now what are the different drugs in it? With time, changes have also come in addiction. Organic drug and synthetic drug. Organic drug in which you have opium, our hash is an organic drug. But after that, there are a lot of chemical drugs in which there is ice, SC LSD tablets, Heron, after that, other drugs which are organic in which has hash is also opium, alcohol and different injections, pharmaceutical drugs. Almost all these drugs are used by children and now there is nothing hidden in this. We should hide it or say such and such thing. No, I am talking about the areas of Lahore, where the middle class people live, where our Pathan people of morning and evening live. Their children bring snuff puri and distribute it to everyone during recess time or break time. Then the children bring cigarettes, E cigarette, Peacock cigarette which is cold. Now, the upper class children who are studying in O level, A level, our Defence Baria Valencia, Burki Road, Bedia. All the societies on Road Rai Road, Model Town Gulbarg, their children either use e-cigarettes or they have vaping and after that these children who especially use ice and also use SC LSD tablets, this is increasing rapidly among children today. What pleasure do they get from this, what pleasure do they get, what state do they form after taking it, there is a common thing in addiction that the addiction you get in the first dose, any kind of drugs, whether it is SC LSD tablets, alcohol, opium bunchers, ice, you reach the grave to take that addiction, that is, your body does not get that addiction, then gradually you increase the dose of children, you can see this as a fashion, you can see in many areas of Lahore where there are shops near schools, when there is recess, there is so much ruckus on that shop, if you see, children are using cigarettes, now we have the cigarette law but there is no implementation, now the child who is taking the addiction is taking cigarettes. No, now he doesn't know that, if a friend is using drugs, he also comes to church, the church gives him a little status, he also becomes a status symbol, no friend, I will say a little more now because generally in childhood, you have a desire to grow up and to become big and to show off, so in that desire to show off, you also use drugs, after drugs, then gradually when you go further, then nowadays there are a lot of nicotine patches, nowadays nicotine patches are increasing very rapidly among boys and girls, especially girls in schools who are studying in upper class and O level, almost you can say that all these drugs are due to some or the other thing, directly or indirectly as a fashion, due to pressure from friends, due to family background, etc. But my question was that is there any tension or stress, to overcome which he gets relief or goes into a state of unconsciousness, do you not have any such tension, what tension does the child have? The child may have to take money from home more, those cases which come to us on peer-80, especially those who are below 18 years of age, do it because of their friends because one thing is certain in addiction that when you do drugs, one brings the drug, the second provides the place, the third brings new friends and the fourth one spends the money and when all this happens, all of you do this exercise together, I will come to your side here, madam, as Aakar sahab said, basically the peer status and the environment have an impact, so even at the personal level, such problems can come in a child or a young man or a teenager, whose solution he can only look for in drugs, it is exactly like this, there are many factors which come in the child in this way, first of all, if you see that if a child is getting addicted, then why is he doing it, first of all, there can be your family issues, there can be family conflicts, secondly, which is a very big factor of yours, the environmental factor is one of the home. One factor is your peer pressure, now in the peer family, you can do a little ups and downs, if the family is explaining or there is a little support from the family, or if someone's parents are middle class, then those parents will be a little strict, they will keep a little no how about where the child is going, what he is doing, what is not, okay, if the child is from the elite class, then those parents from the elite class leave the children alone, they do not care at all about what their child is doing, what is their child not doing, so first of all, you have peer pressure, in peer pressure, the children are meeting friends, if someone has smoked a little, they will say, okay, you also smoke, taste it a little, later don't smoke, if the child is saying no, I don't want to smoke, then four or five friends are sitting together, come on, smoke a little, take a puff or a little like this, and when they pressurize the children, they take one puff and say, friend, okay, for the first time, he will feel a little that I should not do it, I will do it for the last time. I am doing it for the first time and the last time, I will take it the second time, even then under pressure when I take it for the third time, he will take it himself thinking that it is not creating much of a problem, I took it today and yesterday also, there was no problem, so I will take it like this, then chain by chain, the same as sir said, first there is cigarette, then in that way slowly and slowly like other electronic things, like vaping, but in cigarette there is a lot of element of status that soldiers have to show off, they feel a heroism, they feel bravery inside cigarette, but taking ice and tablets, which is not even visible, its effect is only on oneself, to take a playful and not to enjoy, it gives peace to your mind, now if you take a small example, I am at the clinic to get a shampoo, then a girl came to me, she was in fits, she was having fits, foam was coming out of her mouth, so I stabilized her a little, after stabilizing her, I talked to her a little. So I came to know that the reason behind this was exam pressure and family pressure that if you do n't pass then this will happen, if you do n't score good marks then this will happen and due to that pressure she started taking ice and she started taking other vapes like this too. There were some effects on her body and her body could not bear this pressure and she started having attacks and epilepsy. These are the factors that disturb your body too, now what was there in your mind, there was family pressure, there was school pressure and there was the rush for marks, so due to this the girl started taking ice under pressure, her peer group, who were her friends, suggested that take this, your tension will reduce a bit, this pressure will keep going on but you will also get peace, that girl started taking those pills, those pills which are of different colors, she started taking vape and when she told me that when I take these things then I get peace, I don't know what I am doing but it happens so much that my mind is asleep and I get peace, I can't talk to anyone. If we reveal it, then the main fact which people go after is a solace, in a state of uneasiness, pleasure has to be relaxed, the mind has to be relaxed, and because the mind is not relaxed, it has to be relaxed for relaxing activities, and one more reason is that your friends offered you to try it, let me add to what madam was talking about, that this is for the parents as well and for the parents as well, that they should see the changing in their children, what is the science of behavior changing, yes, this was our question, how do we know, now see, today it does not let you sleep for about 25 to 30 hours, which is a pressure, there is a burden of studies on you from the family as well, there is this pressure from the family, I have a relative, her daughter is aunt's grandfather's daughter, grandfather's son, he scored so many marks, how many marks have you scored, now that same friend, he should get ready first They tell you to use this thing, it will make you feel sleepy for a little while and you will get the benefit. What is the benefit? You will not be able to sleep for 30 hours, you will remain awake, you will become isolated from the world, your memory becomes sharp, your studies improve, you think that slowly you start getting addicted to it, but it has been seen that when one year passes, those who take ice regularly, whether they are under 18 years of age or older, gradually your dependency becomes high and you cannot live without it and then you become a chronic ice user and after that these three drugs, alcohol, ice and bhang, take you towards mental disorder and psychosis as well. There are three such drugs in which ice is present, alcohol and bhang, these take you towards mental disorder and psychosis. If you go to any treatment center, even if it is private, there are about 50 patients there. So there are 20 patients in it who have gone towards mental disorder because when you took the poisonous thing, you could not sleep for 30 hours, you think, your thoughts change, you are sitting, you start cleaning, you start cleaning the walls, you think ok I will kill this person, I will kill my brother, all kinds of thoughts come to your mind and you are having a very nice conversation, doctor sahab, we will take a small break here, after that we will come back and we have to continue this question especially for the parents that what are those signs on which the parents should be on red alert, that if this sign is seen in the child, then it means that he is taking drug intake, there is a practical guidance which we have to give to the parents, we are present after the break, viewers keep watching the programme Baaghban, welcome back viewers, once again in our programme Baaghban, our Khushamdid conversation is going on on a very important topic which is drug addiction, till now we have understood that the symptoms of drugs are extremely dangerous. What happens and why do children often turn to drugs? It can be due to peer pressure or mental stress and educational stress and various kinds of family problems as well. They turn to drugs to get out of this condition, to relax or to gain extra energy. Of course, the common drugs of today, in our context, are ice or crystal, whatever you call it. Our question here would be that both of you will have an effect on the nafs. I would like to know from you in terms of physical science and we would like to know from you that how can parents know about that science which is absolutely apparent, clear and obvious, so that it can be guessed that the child might be taking drugs. First of all, before knowing about the science, parents should understand one thing that if their child is an addict, they have come to know about it. See, when the mother and the father take their child in their arms, then they should feel the pain of his breath. Through this, we come to know what my child or daughter is doing. When their child becomes an addict, one should not fight with him or her, one should not fight or quarrel, this is the first starting step. Now after that, what are the signs? The signs are for the parents to see that the child used to wake up on time in the morning, used to go to school, used to go to work, goes to college, does not go to university. Nowadays, there has been a change in him. He used to wake up late, used to change his clothes daily, used to go to the barber once a week for a haircut. After that, check his hands to see if they are black or not. Check if there are any lightening under his eyes, check his clothes, if there are any holes inside the clothes. He often fights at home. Why does he fight? To get money, because of addiction. After that, the parents should see that this child of mine wakes up at night, leaves the house, sleeps in the morning, does not feel like studying, talks for long on the phone, fights with his sister, fights with his brother, fights with his father. Even there are such cases, I have seen that Parents start fighting and beating each other because of addiction. This is that science. If the parents understand that this is the science that these changes have happened in my child, then you can quickly take him to your doctor. We can say this from a religious point of view also that when the strength is lost in a person's personality or his character or his actions, moderation is lost, he starts showing abnormal behavior, at that time it becomes the first sign that there might be a problem. Then they can start looking for the physical science, the medical science that you mentioned. But there is one more thing here, that is, the parents get stigmatized, that is, my reputation will be tarnished, my relatives, my neighbors get to know about it, everything gets known at the beginning. To save myself from that stigma and defamation, the parents put up curtains, they themselves put up curtains. I have seen such parents that the parents themselves give money so that no one comes to know about it and they go and get drugs for their child. If you come to know about the stigma that my child is a drug addict, then you should quickly take him to the nearest treatment centre, first to a doctor, to a sciatica and counsel him. And the most important thing is that in Punjabi it is called ' parchaai aana' (shadow), the shadow of drug addiction, which is called 'saya', falls on the parents as well. Counselling of parents is also necessary. First, the child should be treated first and then the counselling process should be done. Counselling of parents is very important. How do you see what major psychological changes are visible in the child after which it can be guessed that he is taking drugs? First of all, the child starts getting anxious and starts being timid. In the beginning, when the child is taking such things, drugs etc., he gets a lot of energy and his interest also increases a bit. The urge to work increases and becomes stronger, but with the passage of time, it starts reducing. Digestion starts coming, twitching starts, he becomes an agitator, then your behavioral change comes a lot, the child will fight again and again just like what Sir said, if you say anything to him then he will talk in a very strange sense, will give double meaning to one thing, that you are not doing this, then you are doing that, will not look at the parents, will start fighting again and again on the same thing without any reason and then because of that he will again start staying isolated, if he starts staying isolated then his thoughts will change, thought change, thought process will completely change, different thoughts will start coming, now it can be of any kind, sometimes it goes towards psychosis which is a very serious mental illness that your child says that I am seeing things, now when you are doing this kind of intoxication, when you are taking alcohol, then you do not know what is going on in front of you, you get completely sidelined from reality, he says I am seeing things, although it does not happen like that, he says I am hearing voices. If this does not happen then one starts getting addicted, one starts getting dull or the mind cannot be controlled by it. The Quran also says that do not go near Namaz in a state of intoxication. There is no benefit of Namaz. You do not have any sense, you do not have any sense, you start behaving differently, then taking money for the same thing and doing that thing again and again, the people who play the biggest role in this are the parents. Nowadays there is an issue, for example, the marriages of the youth do not happen, they do not get married early, so what if a youth needs to get married but there is pressure from the family members, his sister is not getting married or he is not getting a girl of his choice, should he also get addicted to such drugs, it is exactly like this, it is such a common problem nowadays that any patient comes to you, if any patient is coming to you, then he is coming under this issue that he comes to you with such a big slip, miss, such things, these are the issues And when we reach the issue, the end result is that we have to get married, because your sexual activity happens till a certain age, you must have an idea that it happens till a certain age, okay Allah has also told you about this thing in his religion that at what age you should get married, that is why he says that you should get married timely, when you cross that age, it creates problems for you and in this the biggest role of the parents is to look after their children and when this thing does not happen satisfactorily, because taking drugs your sexual activity increases and while doing it you also get into sexual dysfunction, we have also seen some such cases where I will add and I get calls from many such parents, many of those who are getting their daughter married, they call me for the investigation of the child that please guide us and help us, so they tell me that please find out about the child, he is in active class and works in such and such office or he has a relationship with such and such person. If it is a business, then there should be no use of drugs. You should believe that 50% of the children use drugs and I thank Allah that this responsibility should also be seen, how the parents have handed over their responsibility to their relatives and not to anyone else, they trust a third person, so how do you know that he takes it, I have been working in this field for 35-36 years and I thank Allah that I have not seen the child in front of you, I see the child in front of me and tell him that we do artificial intelligence sharing gathering of that child because our networking coordination is very high and I try to go and talk to that child also and in the same way I have come to your office to give a lecture on drugs, I get to know about him from his offer because often in corporate classes also one has to go to educational institutions and give lectures on drugs and people call and because of this there is a networking, so I thank Allah that what I tell you that when many parents When we heard that this boy is actually using ice and our daughter is going to marry him, they refuse to take it, giving some excuse or the other saying that it is not for a child who takes this thing, what are its long term medical and psychological effects, if seen in the long term, if you are taking it in a very controlled behaviour, if you are taking it in small amounts, if you are limited to cigarettes or a small amount which cannot make you addicted, you can leave it as well, but if you are taking it in a higher amount and your dopamine, that pleasurable activity is high, you want to take it, your body is requiring give me more, give me more, then when you start taking it, your body will get addicted to that thing, your body will not work till the time you are taking that thing in whatever amount, till the time your body does not get that amount, you do not do it, then it keeps on happening with your body, it keeps on happening for a long term and when it becomes long term that you cannot live without it, you cannot do anything. Yes, I have also seen people send even the things of their house, they sell even the smallest things in the house, because they are ready to do anything to get intoxicated and the same long term, we have discussed the same thing earlier also that they go towards mental illness, it happens physically, what organ damage happens in physical, such things happen, later in physical you get plugged, your lungs get damaged, obviously your lungs also start getting damaged, this happens in smoking, but if you see the intake in that, when you take it, then you become a chronic addict, in our definition of drugs, it is that when you regularly take it, your dependency becomes high, it increases, you cannot live without it, then you become a chronic addict and chronic addiction happens when that period of five to six months passes, now madam has said absolutely right, you take it occasionally, you take it in a birthday party, in a wedding, after two months, after four months, we will not call him a drug user, but when If you take it regularly, your dependency will become high, the NSR will increase, then at that time, I work on the roads, gardens, parks in Lahore as well, a lot of people sitting on the road take five injections of pharmaceutical drugs daily and one injection of heroine, now if we take them for treatment and when the test result comes, then believe me, HIV, AIDS, hepatitis, TB, heart problems, all the diseases from A to the root, if they come under that drug, chronic drug, the whole system gets clogged, everything gets clogged, because of which you do not come towards recovery, yes, we take a break here, Nazreen, stay with us, our wonderful discussion is going on and Inshallah, we will continue it after the break and we will now talk about its solution, Inshallah, keep watching the program Baaghban, welcome back Nazreen, once again in our program Baaghban, our Khushamdid discussion was going on about drug addiction and we understood what it is. What are the signs that would help the parents to know whether their child is addicted to drugs or not, what are its consequences, how the system of a person's body gets disturbed, gets disturbed psychologically and then what is that nafs or wudu hath also due to which this child, who is young, goes towards drugs, now we move towards our last and important question that Allah forbid, if someone's child is facing this problem, he has started taking drugs, then what should be done with him and before that what preventive measures should be taken to save him from this, how can we ensure that our child does not go towards this and keep him safe, first of all this is that I often say one thing that it is very important for parents to give a friendly environment to their child, talk to the child once a week in a friendly environment, discuss his problem, whether he is male or female, secondly tell this to the children and make them understand that they should have a maximum of three friends and a minimum of two friends. You need his information, his family information, what his father does, where he lives, you need that and your image should be with that other family, you have to control that social circle and then you have to pay attention to the home environment, then you have to control your mobile system a little, if we are not able to control that then you have to control that, then the extra money that you give to your children, the children take it with them to school or inside the institution that there is a party today, so and so is happening, you should reduce that extra money that you are giving to the child, the biggest thing is that when you discuss with the child what his problem is, if you talk to him in a friendly environment then many things get solved, now if your child is an addict, then he has become an addict now as compared to before, no, here we can say that we should not let a psychological problem aggravate, that means the biggest preventive measure for the parents themselves is that they should not do anything with their child. I will take an irrespective I will add one here I will add one here I talk about a lead class school in defence I had gone there to give a lecture I have gone there two to four times so after giving the lecture when I came out to go to the principal's room 111 boys and girls stopped me they said Sir we are in isolation I asked you about your father he said my father is in Saudi Arabia one said my father works in Islamabad he does not give us time we live with two friends our mother comes father comes once a month so that circle of friends we our parents this attention this tension is the main skill which can keep your children away from drugs or and this is very kalidina Nazreen towards which I think you should pay attention towards children from an early age pay attention to them pay attention to them and it is a very clear thing to child psychologist that excellent reward What happens to a child is attention, there is no better reward than that if the parents pay attention to him, his actions, his good deeds, then it itself is a big reward for him and then he becomes obedient to his parents, he does not destroy their trust, so you have said an important thing, a good thing that this is a big clear message here, but if our social environment here today is of a status that we have to put them in big multinational schools where elite class children are also coming, about whom, as you said, their parents do not care what they do or what they don't do, on the other hand, one has to go to colleges and universities, the child has to do engineering, has to get degrees, there already exists such an environment, now when a child comes from a good safe school, let's say the school was good but now he has to go to college, university where there is this danger, then what should the parents do as a preventive measure that how can he be here again like what Sir said that If from the beginning, the gap between parents and children will not exist, the child will know his values, he will know his circumstances, he will know all the moral values ​​of his family, he will know that I have to walk in this way, this is my way. Similarly, when you teach a child something in childhood, teach him some learning, teach him some practice, teach him anything of this kind, then it lasts for a long term because it gets embedded in the mind of the child that I have done this work, it lasts till the end, he sticks to that thing, okay, if he remembers that this is what I have to do, okay, now there is no gap between parents and children, there is more communication, every parent is trying to talk to the parents instead of their friends that this is the problem we are facing and if the parents are solving it, then it will be more effective that you can avoid these things, if you are going to college also, if that The place itself is such that the effective measures have already been taken in it that if this child goes there, you can make him your mayor that I have to do this much, if I have to make friends in college, then what should be his values, what rules should he have, as you yourself said that we should control the social circle, but won't the child become offensive, here the parents of a youth keep so much check and balance that who is my friend, whom do I talk to, nowadays he is on social media, no, you will have to do this, sir, now there is no second opinion in this, I will request you and the parents of your program that you should develop the parenting skills more in you, enhance things, I still say, look, I give the example of Lahore, there are about 120 places on the streets of Lahore right now, there are about 8000 children sorry drug addicts, go and see the condition of the children and women are also sitting there, this is the time to come, you will have to look at things by hook or crook, see, Middle and upper class parents, they do it by hook or crook, but upper class parents, at some stage or the other, they too, come to know about these things, as people of real life are saying, but when this thinking, the good definition of parenting skill, does not come inside you, until those things, that is, how to take care of the children, how to tell the children, how to do the housework, that is, this child who is on the mobile phone at this time, does not even let him unlock his password, the parent does not let him go into the room, he tells the parents that he is in his room, he knocks on the door, there was no privacy in our times, parents should control this from beforehand and they should not get into this situation, when you keep things under control from beforehand, you will keep all those limits from beforehand, you will keep a complete red line, then you can never get into that thing, that your little one, when you are on social media, a little bit Many children may be ahead or behind but the same thing is that when there is no gap, things will be discussed and the environment of the house will be fine, things deteriorate from home, it is from home but for a youth you said a good thing that parents will have to enforce this thing, if the child is not showing you his social contacts, has grown up, is going to college, does not give the mobile, you will have to enforce this, you will have to take it, you will have to check it otherwise it can have very damaging effects for him, I say one thing that often we have put a mask on our face, whether it is parents, people of the society, stakeholders, or the government, I am a part of every committee of the government, in planning we have put a mask exactly like that which is the mother's mask, we are very happy with it sir, when you remove it, after removing that mask you will see what is the environment of our society, in which direction is our society going, we have adopted those big things, achieved them, built big houses, learned to sit in big cars, when We have not learnt the etiquette and manners, we do not know how to cover ourselves with it, we do not know anything, so we cannot move ahead and I say this again and again that the time is coming, you will see that this is a drug, it is a huge lava, it will explode like an earthquake and we will all be swept away in it, sir, it is not a small thing that in a population of 22-23 crore, there are one crore drug addicts, crore drug addicts, now the survey of the government will come, you will see in it, the government itself will get worried as to how do we publish the survey report, do more, we will be defamed in the world, if we do less, we ourselves are worried as to how do we do it, along with this a mafia, who wants to do business, is also finding ways and selling all these things, it is easy for him to do business, so see, he will never stop, good and evil are inseparable, we have to see which way we have found, now for one last question, our task is that if someone gets seriously involved in this, then how do we rehabilitate him, basic points, my thought For that I have already said that first you should establish a relationship with your doctor who is your GP. If the child has become a chronic addict then this is basically a case of psychiatry. You should take him to a psychiatrist, whatever his method is. Either if it is serious then admission will be for the first three months. After that there is a process of counselling and that is for about six to seven to eight months. How would you tell the parents to manage this situation? First of all, the environment of the house should be a little normal. If someone gets addicted to it, how should that situation be managed? Or the same as what Sir said, if you come to know that your child is like this, then what do we do? We start beating him, doing things like this too much. So we should first support the parents. And if we are supporting them, then the same thing that a psychiatrist can do. This is fine. This treatment is of a psychiatrist. You have a treatment of four to five days. So that there is no withdrawal from detoxification. If the child is not able to relax then what do we do that we take him for procedures, first four or five, if it is very serious that you are taking it again and again, you cannot live without it, you are having a lot of physical symptoms, everything of yours is coming out positive, then how do you stop that thing, there is a treatment of five to six days, then we give him drips or in this way it is all a matter of the psychiatrist, he does it and after that there are sessions and counseling procedures, which go on for about six to seven months, okay and in this again the same thing happens that the parents also have to be very humble about which way we have to go and they need the most support, until that is not done, the child will also not work on that thing, the child will also not agree or and after this when this happens, then the parents will also have to remove those things of theirs, which is another thing because the matter is big, time is less, the relaxation rate is 90 here, you should not think that I have cured the child, the child will stay for two months I have seen a child like this, the patient client leaves the treatment centre after three months and reaches home later, first he comes after consuming drugs, we have to take care of these things also, the way we talk to the child, the way he sits and stands, his upbringing, we have to control ourselves a bit in that, so you have to do your own things as well while you are getting treatment, tell me one thing, in PMH, there is a different setup for drug addiction, so I will say about a 19 year old child, I was looking at him, he used to take a lot of ice, he was a drug addict, he had made cuts at many places, one day I went to take his session, he was locked in a room, he was running away, so I sat outside, he sat inside and I told him, ok what will you do for counseling, I said ok now we have to go from here, there is a procedure of 10 days, so what will you do after coming out of here, I said in a very simple way, what will I do, I will do the same again, you guys can do whatever you want, I will do this only, This is the thing that till the family comes, apart from the government setup, the family comes, they don't care about anything. The doctors are doing counselling of the parents during the treatment, building the relationship, rebuilding the relationship, this is very important. Thank you very much, you had a wonderful conversation here, surely our viewers, especially the parents, would have benefited from it. Viewers, this was a very important topic, many of whose consequences we have tried to understand here in brief and here, as you heard, parents play a very important role in parenting and those skills in parenting should be present in the parents of today's era, so that from the very beginning, from the very young age, the child learns the methods of upbringing, so that your child does not reach this stage in the future and at the same time keep your environment under control, see with whom your child meets, what kind of friends he makes, what kind of neighborhood you live in, what are your relations. What kind of people do you have a relationship with that those people will come to your house and meet your children and this circle will keep growing and then in the future it will create problems for you. This is a small effort of RA TV that we do our programs on parenting and parenting skills and we are also trying to make these programs more structured where we can run it like a training program so that parents get proper training on how to bring up their children so that not only a single child but their community and their generations can be saved from such diseases and as a result of that the country will also progress. If there are such youths in the country who are addicts, then nothing can happen to that country, that country can never progress. Therefore it is important not only for yourself, for your children but also for your country, your people, your nation, your religion that you take these things seriously, develop that mastery in yourself, understand these things and take action on this and then Inshallah, Allah will make you successful, this is our effort too. May Allah give us the opportunity so that we can continue this work further. Till the next program, Allah [Music] Hafiz