Selena Gomez Talks Marriage | On Air with Ryan Seacrest

Selena Gomez. Hashtag new music. It's on iTunes. The heart wants what it wants. So when you, I just love the idea and I haven't memorized the lyrics yet but I know it's about there's a million reasons why I shouldn't but I do. Yes. I shouldn't but I do. Do you think that you will, going forward, how do you think you'll evaluate things because I wonder after living out so much publicly, do you put greater walls up for yourself? Of course. But how do you, because it's like you have to but you can't, right? Sure. Yeah, I think it's all about how I carry myself. I think I never wanted anyone, you know, the idea of articles and grown adults saying things about me and like all of that, I never wanted them to win. And what example was I going to set for all of these girls that come to my show, that support me, that love me, that actually like say, oh, if she's going to, like these decisions I make affect them. So if I just turn the other cheek and I just keep going, I think that's the greatest thing I can do for myself and for them. And that's kind of where I am with it all. Very mature. This young lady's grown up literally before my eyes. She's totally calm. She's got this. So would you, you would get married at some point? Yeah, I'm from Texas. Yeah, you have to, right? I want a ranch. Cover the show. A ranch and some animals, some babies. Do you have, like Ryan puts time limits on himself? No, don't you dare. Yeah, he has. Well, I'm running out. Well, I'm running out of time. But then he resets it again when he reaches it and it hasn't happened. So I think the heart wants what it wants, Ryan. So every show I have to dovetail into marriage conversations with you. Are you speaking of my mother? No, you brought it up. I did not bring it up to her. I'm just saying like, so I just because I was 21, 22. But so that's something that you would do because that's just that's how you were raised. Like you. Yeah, but I love I love the idea of family. I love structure. And, you know, it's chaotic. Would you live here when you raise? I don't know. I might. But I don't know. I don't know these things. I don't know. What are you doing tomorrow? She said she doesn't know the future. OK, what are you doing for Thanksgiving? Texas. I'm going back home. All right. And what about Christmas? Texas? You'll be there. How is your little sis? She's amazing. She's a year and three months and she's just angelic. She's amazing, creative, fun. She's white as can be because my stepdad is white. So we're not the same color, but that's OK. She's perfect. Do you babysit? My I feel like my mom doesn't trust me fully yet. I mean, I've had like duty like certain duties, but I've not I've not done the babysitting. What does your mom say about all of this? My mom loves my mom loves me. And at the end of the day, like she's always, always, always been there for me, even when she probably shouldn't have. And I mean that in a way like an unconditional love a mother can give you. So she she you know, she gets upset when I'm upset, but she's really happy for me. Do you and Taylor swap shoes? No. She's a size bigger, I think. Yes. Are you and Kendall friends again? Were you ever not friends? You were never what's real and what's not real. How do you know what you can't believe any of it? They say you're first off half the time I genuinely try to not really even know. So I don't know. It changes too much. It's it's every day. What's happening today? There were there was unfollowing and then photos. All of it is for my fans. I want to just keep it because I didn't realize that was going to start so much stuff. So I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna follow my fans and keep this at that because I didn't realize that this was like a thing, right? Okay, so if you're a Selena fan, and you love that song, and you want to see her perform it live for the first time, you can do it at the American Music Award. She's going to be there performing that song. That's a big deal. Yeah, I'm very excited. Because all of my other performances in the past, I was very nervous. And I felt like I was focusing on the wrong things sometimes most of the time. Because I was like, okay, literally Channing Tatum is right in front of my costume is too tight. What dance move is next. And and it's fun. And that's incredible. Like I can't wait to start, you know, releasing more of the upbeat stuff too. But I feel like this is going to just be about the song. So I'm very excited about the performance. What do you think you'll be hearing in your mind when you're singing it for the first time live? Um, I'm gonna be really happy. I feel like I'm gonna I'm just gonna release it's the first time I've been practicing it already. We're already rehearsing it like crazy. And I can't help but get a little emotional because I'm happy. You know, I'm happy that I'm in this place now that I think all of this has been made me better. It has made me stronger. It has made my story better. And I'm thankful for it. So I'm excited. I think there'll be like massive chills in the moment when you finish the song and people cheer. Right? Yes, I changed the boat. Wait, there's a few surprises. You'll see. Well, no, don't I want to know. No, it's just it's gonna it's gonna have a little change the whole story. Smarter than your heart. No, it's good. It's gonna be beautiful. Would you ever go back to acting on TV shows? Yeah, I should say this at from at London. Amira. Okay, you would? Yes. Eventually, I think TV has just gotten so bomb. And I'm starting to work on a few. I'm developing a few TV shows. So it's just fun. I love that world.