[Entitled Modern Woman] *CALLS THE COPS* THREATENS Boyfriend To BUY Her $10,000 Engagement Ring!

well that was entertaining um I like to go to the SAA and enjoy a little bit of quiet time after I train and kind of collect my thoughts son is really good for you anyway so I'm in there and there are people talking it's a free country and this guy he's talking about how he got this motorcycle injury I didn't know it was an motorcycle injury at first but he was just talking I'm not a part of the converation but I can't help but overhear it and I'm sitting right next to them so the guy is complaining that he can't move his hand and his arm the way he used to whatever whatever apparently got into a motorcycle accident and this guy who's sitting next to him apparently they didn't know each other because uh I later discovered that later into the conversation but the simple fact of the matter is is that this thing this conversation blew up into a con a relationship conversation and then the girls next to them got involved too so basically this guy he bought this 2024 motorcycle that he ended up getting to an accident riding I don't know the condition of this bike right now but he's trying to get out of it he's trying to sell it apparently he spent $122,500 for it and the guy says what can you sell it for he was like uh I don't know but it's not going to be what I paid so the guy says just sell it for five grand and walk away the guy is like well I need the money so I can buy an engagement ring for my girlfriend so this conversation continues to go on and on and on so the guy who apparently doesn't know the other guy who got into the wreck he's like well if I were you I mean number one you're already engaging in some high-risk activities so you can't be too surprised that you got into this accident you know it's just it's highly probable to be into a motorcycle accident here in America he's like where I'm from I think the guy's from like Austria or something like that uh no no no uh Romania Romania or Albania ROM yeah Romania if I'm not mistaken anyway he says is way more likely to be getting to get into an accident here in America and the girl so then the guy he goes well you know I was a really good riter D you know it's being cautious and he explains the situation long and long and short of it he up and down it wasn't his fault the fact of the matter is that look he got into an accident it doesn't matter whose fault it is riding a motorcycle comes with risks and whether you're willing to take it or not that's on the rider and it doesn't matter how good the rider is you could still get hurt anyway so the guy says I want to sell this bike and buy uh an engagement ring with the money for my girlfriend so the guy says he wants to spend $5,000 on on an engagement ring so the guy who is also AA with us he says $5,000 for an engagement ring like um it sounds like you don't really have the money for that meaning like if $122,000 for a bike getting wrecked is hurting you financially doesn't sound like you're in a position to spend 5 grand on engagement ring so he was like I mean like if you really love this girl you should be able to just give her like a $500 engagement ring uh get married at the courthouse and call it a day so the girl one of the girls well both of the girls end getting involved but one of the girls says $500 for an engagement ring you can't marry me for that am and apparently that's not his girlfriend so this this conversation evolves from dude guy hurt on a bike and why he can't move his hand or arm a certain way anymore to trying to sell this bike it becomes like this this relationship Financial conversation so man so the girls the girl gets like like offended and it's like look he didn't offer you an engagement ring for $500 and I would never offer her anything with her freaking attitude I mean any girl who has some minimum price tag requirements on an engagement ring that in particular and and and really anything for that matter like when a girl tells you that you have to spend X number of dollars for an engagement ring in order to be with her oh she's automatically off the list and I can afford to buy pretty much whatever I want to buy but like a girl comes to me with that kind of attitude and I'm not you know I'm married but I'm just saying like if I were single that is the last kind of woman you want in your life I promise you if you ever want to have any kind of wealth if like you don't that type of mentality is is straight up poison and I always warn my son against like horrible women like that that's a horrible woman I don't care what she looks like she could be a 10 with that kind of attitude man you better be careful with that one and that's the last kind of woman you want to get pregnant ask the question how much do you think an engagement R should do so I said no more than 4K she said [Music] 10 Okay now what's funny is that the jewelry stores the jewelry industry they have people convinced that you have to spend a certain amount of money uh on a engagement ring but I think it's interesting the difference between how much the girl thinks you should spend on the Ring versus the dude 10K is a lot I mean listen if she's special it's worth every done no the fact that I'm make wait a second here so now she's saying if she's special then it's worth every dime so are you trying to tell me that the more you love someone the more you should waste on some piece of metal some rare Rock like please Somebody explain to me the correlation between how much you love someone and how much you spend that makes zero sense there's zero correlation there um so are you telling me that the wealthier you are the more money you have the richer you are the more the greater your ability is to love like are you is your ability to love tied to your net worth like that that's basically what that would mean based on her argument I mean listen if she's special it it's worth every done no the fact that I'm making a step to commit to you like is the meaning behind the ring I'm not saying it' be some cheap something but you could get a nice ring for $4,000 and this so now you know I wouldn't put a price tag on it per se personally uh I think it depends on how much you want to spend everybody's going to be different some people won't even do Rings you know some people don't do Rings some people just do a $50 Amazon ring you know just get a little like a black tungsten ring or whatever the case is you know but the thing is is a lot of people will find themselves going in the debt taking out like credit cards jewelry credit cards store financing you know 15 20 30% interest on a ring that's let's be honest guys it's really not worth what they charge you uh I won't say it's entirely worthless there is some sentimental value but the problem is that a lot of people find themselves buying these overpriced rings that are way outside of their um their financial reach $4,000 on your on your finger well it could be 10 though it could so how much would you guys spend on a ring you guys tell me not buy a diamond engagement ring until you know the secret hi Jeweler I'm ready to propose to my girlfriend but first I need a diamond ring no problem I've got The Perfect 2 karat diamond that's on sale today for only $115,000 um no no no I only $115,000 oh and by the way we do have uh 36 months financing you need a moist I ring oh no you don't want one of those it's not even a real diamond hey here's every reason moist nights are better than diamonds and the last reason is the best actually side by side diamonds and moist nights are virtu indistinguishable by the naked eye this is true and then on the most scale that measures hardness a diamond is a 10 and a moist knite is between a 9.25 and a 9.5 yeah so it's almost the same how about the sparkle factor a moist Knight is even better than a diamond fortunately this is also true I left the best part for last a nice one and a half so you're telling me that there are certain lab created diamonds that look almost exactly like a diamond in fact virtually identical to a diamond with a naked eye unless someone actually walks around one of those like eye you know oculars to see like you know 100x magnification which no one does uh the diamond actually or the fake diamond this moist Knight which I never even heard of until now apparently actually shines brighter uh it looks like the dimensions and the weights are very very comparable and they're like a fraction of the price moist Knight is even better than a diamond fortunately this is also true I left the best part for last a nice one and half Kat Diamond will cost you over $10,000 while the equivalent moist one and half Kat will only cost you $700 it's all true but who taught you this Sam he teaches me all the ways to make wow that is a no-brainer like there's like are are you telling me that instead of spending like $111,000 on a on a you know one or two karat diamond ring I could spend $600 $700 on a diamond ring and invest the difference into I don't know S&P 500 really estate a business that will actually generate a real return on my investment instead of wasting this money on some ring that I could uh that my girl could like freaking lose or you know damage destroy or whatever the case is that's that's a no-brainer for me guys now lucky for me I actually got a good girl like she was willing to listen to me um I'm more of a finance guy like I I've always just like been kind of nerdy like that right um just getting some gas but I thought about something that I didn't mentioned in the video uh originally um so what we did was we we did a little you know cheap courthouse wedding and what what we did was instead of investing 25 to $35,000 in some silly wedding while we were broke we took that 25 and $35,000 that 25 to $35,000 and put it down on a house so we bought a house that lasts us for years potentially forever if you keep it up or at least the our lifetime um and it's funny because I I was telling her cuz her friends were pressuring us oh when you guys going to get married when you going to get married cuz we were dating for a long time and it was like when you going to get married when you going to have kids that was so freaking annoying constantly asking us that anyway uh we were waiting to do both we I mean I saw other people's lives they had kids they were not financially ready for that and I looked at the um the amount of Freedom that they lost by having kids and I was like yo I'm not ready for that and she wasn't ready for that either but what we did see is we saw a lot of people asking us when we going to get married whatever whatever everybody wanted to get in on this free party so we bought a house instead of getting married uh the way that everyone else did and that house today we bought it for 200 Grand that house today we don't even live there it's a rental property now and the funny thing is is that house is almost paid off it's worth like 465 whatever Zillow said like 465 $475,000 so we basically took that same wedding investment and that house basically pays the mortgage almost it pays a large chunk of the mortgage payment for the house that we upgraded to so it's like so stupid um you know we took that wedding ring cuz they they and that was a funny thing when I was you know when we were uh I was about to propose to my girl I went to uh ziles and all these other jewelry stores or whatever uh what else was it I think there was like hellborg diamonds and Jared and these Jokers what's the other one k jewelry in the in the mall and all these sales people in there they' be making you feel like you got to spend a certain amount of a certain percentage of there was some equation that they gave gave you some percentage of your income I was like why I was like that that makes no sense and I asked them to explain why that's the case oh that's just what the industry standard is um that's dumb and then I later years later I I was curious cuz I had a conversation with somebody um and I I looked at how much those people make right and they be making you feel like you need to spend a certain amount they got some expensive and a lot of times they wear the jewelry that they sell so they look like they're successful and they try to make you feel like you need to be like spending so so you don't seem like you're not S I was like man I look it up man these Jokers ain't making nothing but 30 40 Grand a year and I'm like yo this is such a scam people out here staying broke can't afford uh a place to live cuz they're wasting money on stupid stuff and they just don't know any better they get um brainwashed by society and peer pressure to make stupid Investments or stupid purchases really um so yeah so instead of uh you know having a one day $330,000 party for my friends we instead we selfishly didn't have a major wedding or anything like that got married at the courthouse took that money invested it into a down payment on the house stayed in that house for 12 years pay that mortgage down substantially watch the re watch the asset value of the home appreciate over time then we moved out of it to a house that's you know some people would say it's a waste but it was what we decided to waste our money on right we bought a new house the new house is like you know three times the size of the old one but it has all the amenities and stuff that we wanted we're home bodies pool theater wine seller all sorts of rooms that we don't even use but it's it's okay that's what we wanted that's what we saw value in but that house that we bought several a couple years ago now is 300 Grand more the according to Zilla it's worth $300,000 more than what we originally paid for it so both Investments have panned out pretty freaking well you got to have a place to live and you know it's kind of cool to really love where you live so this is why I just will this is this is there's so many reasons why I would never spend a lot of money on a freaking ring uh there's just the value is just not there for me I'm sorry so many other places I would rather put that money and I have the money to buy any ring that she wants and it's just like she she comes to me like why would we ever do that and I'm like I know I know so it's just so silly I mean I could invest in real estate I could invest in the stock market I could start a business I could ex expand and um scale my existing business we could take trips and even though a trip it's like when you take the trip and you come back the money is spent and there's I would rather blow five grand on a trip than blow five grand on a freaking sparkly little ring that's just my two cents guys the bottom line is for me buying some overpriced diamond ring engagement ring whatever it's just a poor use of capital in almost all situations and scenarios 3 4 5 6 7 8 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 anyway so again so the guy he goes like you know um uh what did he say so so basically all right 125 is what he paid for this 2024 bike he wants to sell it the GU the the other guy says uh you should just sell it for five grand even if you have to take a loss get it out of your life and I kind of see where I I do see where the guy is coming from that bike is a problem the bike injured him well he injured himself riding the bike uh however you want to look at it this bike led to him being injured the the bike is you know it it only does what you tell it to do you know uh whatever so but again you know riding a bike takes you're putting yourself at risk and so then the girl says I would have to have at least a $55,000 ring if not 10 her argument her um oh man I just watched a girl ride by on the back of a bike just now as I'm talking about this she she has like her like like a top on no protection whatsoever anyway uh her her arms are out whatever um so this girl says well I would I would need to have at least a $10,000 no At first she said five but then she bumped it up she was like I should have at least a $10,000 ring so the guy not the guy who's talking about buying the ring the other the other guy who's saying like you should get a $500 ring he asked her what entitles you to a $10,000 ring her response is is well if he's willing to spend 10,000 or $122,500 on a bike the least he could do is spend $10,000 on a ring so that the guy goes so the guy who's suggested the $500 ring uh he's like look um you could literally go and get a lab created diamond ring and you would never freaking know the difference for less than $500 probably way less than $500 you would not know the difference I mean you could lose your $10,000 engagement ring you could lose your overpriced you know manipulated value real authentic diamond ring that cost you 20 to 100 times more than a lab created diamond ring and then what you going to do you done freaking lost the diamond ring and then they they try to convince you that this diamond ring is an investment and that is the biggest croc of [ __ ] I've ever heard a diamond ring is not an investment I don't care what you tell me now me personally I I'm I'm just I'm just I don't see the value in those things I put something nice on my on my woman's finger and in the meantime I would rather put that money we would rather put that money and that's the thing you know it all has to do with the individual I'm not telling you how to spend your money but the way we look at things we don't see value and stuff like that a freaking ring you kidding me when we when we got together we were broke as hell we a have no damn money we finance and no ring 10 thou 51,000 you absolutely out your freaking mind I don't even know if I was driving a $10,000 car at the time we decided to um think I think I got a no I got I got a I got a fake ring to start off with and later on I upgraded and got a got a real ring a a real actual Diamond but it wasn't any more than two grand but anyway when we first got married we got married at a courthouse and that was under 150 bucks and we grabed some food at a place that we eat at often that was it there was no ceremony there was no wasting of money on on all this nonsense we we were already taking vacations regularly a couple times a year so you know we ended up taking a trip you know shortly thereafter but it's like all of this all I I hate using this word hoopla but I don't know what better word to use this silliness it is literally just a waste of money now again you know if you ball out of control whatever you you know you could afford to do that cool but we were not and we were just willing to admit it we had friends that were broke as hell they literally borrowed money from their parents and their parents financed uh their their weddings I'm talking about to the tune and and this is like 20 years ago I'm talking about 25 to 35 $5,000 weddings when they didn't even have a home to live in they were living in their parents' basement so they spent 25$ 30,000 $35,000 on these weddings only to come back home after this one day event which is nothing more than some big party for all your friends is a big one of the biggest ripoffs in American culture um but basically these folks ended up after the and the crazy thing is is let let any one thing go wrong and your whole day is ruined you wasted 25 to 35 Grand let the photographer not show up Let the DJ not show up Let the priest not show up let let the let Let It Rain that day now I'm not talking about making it rain in a strip club if it rains on your outdoor event you're you're screwed there are so many pieces to this perfect you know uh wedding day that could easily go wrong someone gets in you know any one of these critical people who need to be there at this wedding could get into a car accident on the way uh wake up with Co the two days before Anything Could Happen um one one situation I was actually watching Lincoln Lawyer uh which by the way is an amazing series I love that series um one one one situation I heard was the uh wedding hall double booked the hall on the day that it was supposed to be available for you know for the wedding there man there's so many things I can go wrong but I'm just blown away by some of these overly entitled women it is absolutely disgusting and I feel bad for the men who don't know to look out for women like this like the level of materialis the level of materialism for some of these women is absolutely ridiculous and I feel like the quality of women today just keeps getting worse and worse the level of entitlement it's like what are you bringing to the table you don't even make no damn money yourself you know what I'm saying like it it just it just literally just irks me to no end to know that these people exist with these ridiculous demands and then most of them wonder why they're single they wonder why they're freaking single so anyway uh if you guys haven't already hit the like button share this video with somebody who needs to hear this and let me know your thoughts guys um subscribe to the 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