you become dangerous when you become addicted to growth

I sacrifice everything what I have I will sleep train eat repeat and that's it Obsession yeah I think it's it's not about DNA I think more than blood I think it's about mental your brain how you think about this how how um there is like you want this or no there is not like 50/50 it's like okay I want this and I want other you cannot you there is like not between you have to beting somewhere it's black and white yeah I think one of the hardest things to hear after you don't get your way is keep working but it's also one of the only solutions to be successful you're not going to get your way most of the time in your life just keep working hard work pays off no one tells you when you'll never know the true feeling of accomplishment if you never faced a setback you'll never know the true meaning of confidence if you never had to bounce back from anything just keep working you're not getting what you want keep working you are getting what you want keep working one thing's for sure overthinking is overrated for every time you set your alarm and then sleep in someone else is obeying it for every time you say you should go to the gym but then don't someone else is breathing heavy for every dish that you should wash but instead let pile up in the sink and become a headache for later someone else isn't compelled by the same laziness I know this because that's someone else is me every decision you make is an opportunity to build respect for yourself and every opportunity that you pass up on is just another piece of evidence that you are not the person you say you want to be we let our feelings dictate what we do and we have to do the opposite if you want to change you have to lead with the actions that align with the way you want to feel after you've done the actions you have to take action first because if you allow your feelings of I'm tired I don't feel like it it's hopeless why bother that feeling will dictate you doing nothing and that's going to keep you on the right side of that page if you just look at that list that you created of all the things that you know you should be doing that would just uptick your happiness slightly or make you slightly healthier slightly this or slightly that then act like the person on the left hand side of the page and then every time you take that action your feelings will fall in line and you'll start to feel more like that person for you to constantly win win win when this voice over here the real you is saying get the go you're nobody body you've always been nobody and it's true people don't hear that that's a true voice that's a real reality of David goggin at 24 years old it's not a false reality and then you had to create another voice over here that is saying you're better than that other voice and you're in the freezing cold water that both voices don't want to be in what you win and goes from the water to the studying to the running to the losing weight to how you eat to how you function as a man every day of your life you're winning these battles have a choice you can go for it or you can just watch it Go by but I'll tell you this failur only exist in the heart that doesn't try don't be the person that lives but never feels alive be the person that knows the sky isn't the limit because they wasn't afraid to fly you might not be in control of how you die but I promise you you're in control of how you live there's three decisions you're making every moment in your life you're making it right now everyone's listening is making these three decisions you might be making them unconsciously so then your life is driven by the environment first decision is what are you going to focus on are you going to focus on what you have or what's missing and if you're focus on What's Missing that can make you grow but if that's what you focus on continuously and you add one more pattern it'll create frustration anger sadness or even depression and the second pattern is which one of these do more do you focus more on what you control or can't control if you go in a pattern of focusing on what you can't control and what's missing distress inside of you is always going to be there cuz think about it there's plenty of things that aren't missing and there's plenty of things you can't control but when you're focused on what I can't do and what's missing from my life there's an emptiness now here's the third one do you tend to focus more I think we do all three but more on the past the present or the future if you're focused on what I can control what I already have that's beautiful in my life and what's happening right now that's beautiful or what I'm going to create you're not going to have that level of stress you'll still have problems but you're not going to have the anger or the sadness or the overwhelm it's never too late if you're alive you can get better if you're alive right now you can improve your your condition you can improve your situation and it starts with improving the way you think that's the most important thing the way you think of things way way you think of things the way you address things you've got to change that there's a place in your heart where your dreams live and and your intuition thrives so hold on to your dreams tight and realize I know it sucks but but realize that you might have to move in some silence for a while and that's the most courageous thing that you can do because you're choosing to listen to that deepest part of you rather than the noise and the doubt the people that you thought that you trusted most people don't change they live the same six months of their lives hundred times in a row and then they die they go to the same places they make the same jokes they tell the same stories they work the same job and then they die and it's all because they were never willing to be uncomfortable because they were never willing to change and a lot of people get really uncomfortable when I talk about this but most people are average the average person stay stuck in the same patterns and so if you want to have a different outcome um you have to walk a different path so you have a goal a vision and for whatever reason you can't bring yourself to do the things that you need to do in order to get there and it's not like this the things that you need to be doing are are difficult in any way or are a mystery you know like everyone knows what to do so it's not a matter of how it's a matter of will where do you find the will evidently it's not going to be motivation because motivation doesn't Trump laziness so so what what needs to change how do we find the will many of us are too focused on everything that's going on out here external factors right and when the physical world doesn't reflect what we want in our minds it leaves us frustrated and confused and exhausted and discouraged and a whole bunch of other things that no one wants to feel whereas what needs to happen is we need to embody the person that we want to become on the inside we need to adopt their mindset we need to adopt their mental framework um we need to replicate their behaviors and naturally the Physical Realm will kind of just reflect that your family and friends may not get it right now and that's all right they're going to ask questions they're going to make fun of you and that is okay cuz you're going to make them understand you're going to make them understand by going out and getting the result you want they're going to understand real quick when you have the body they want the bank account they want the car they want the house they want the family they want the life they want it's going to go from why are you doing that to how did you do that you can try to convince them all you want you can talk to them until you're blue in the face but the fact is the only thing that's really going to convince them that what you're doing is right is when you get the result nothing you can say to these people no amount of convincing is going to speak louder than you having an undeniable stack of evidence that shows exactly why you're doing what you're doing you forgot who the you are bro you got so caught up in other people's opinions and the way the world looks at you that you forgot what got you here in the first place forget everybody else bro forget the crowd forget the the clubs forget whatever it is you have nobody to prove anything to except yourself you don't have as much time as you think bro before you go let me show you something you see this guy remember what he said nobody is going to hit as hard as life it's not about how hard you can hit it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward keep moving forward bro keep moving forward never complain never explain and what it means is don't complain about life don't explain what you're doing or why you're doing it just do it by whining and complaining all you're doing is making people think bad things about you looking weak and when you complain a lot you have a mindset where everything is a kind of a potential complaint stop whining and stop explaining yourself and just do things in the world and let your actions speak for themselves I think whenever we're going through a hard time we just want it to end but it's those moments that allow us to appreciate the good ones do it sad do it Angry do it heartbroken do it miserable do it excited do it energized do it happy do it tired do it confident do it discouraged do it anyway however you got to get it done make sure it gets done that's what separates the winners from the losers that's what separates those that get what they want from those that only talk about what they want so whatever you got to do get it done the only thing standing between you and the life you want is committing to the process longer than anyone else is willing to you don't need everything answer you just need the discipline to face what's in front of you day after day hour after hour will it feel impossible at times absolutely but it's in those moments where you rise above your doubts that you begin to create something special this isn't about being ready it's about being relentless you got this the universe only gives what we think we're worthy of receiving so then people who show up for themselves every day they start feeling pretty damn worthy like they're like I'm worthy for this not like an entitlement way like something they just like I feel like it's going to happen I'm worthy for it you're not ready for what you want until you believe you can get it all things are possible if you believe and you get it when you believe it you get it when you believe you have it and that's the key it's like people still they sit around going when's it going to come when's it going to come when's it going to come when's it going to come to come and that's the wrong way you have to go it's here it's here it's here when you really get this your future for the most part is not consciously created it's unconsciously remembered because you're actually being informed by something that you're still hurt by and as a result of not accepting where you've been you're going to have a concern for where you're going and I will show you how I win so for me that for me it burns and I will not stop until I win so I do this things I always have this saying why be normal when you can be the best so when I do my things I don't want to be normal for me normal it doesn't exist I want to make the difference and when you make the difference you are being the best so for me is a challenge so in reality I'm fighting against myself not against the other ones because I want to be the best version of myself and take me myself to limits and and try myself that's the purpose and not be compared with other ones because I don't compare myself with nobody [Music]