Denzel Washington | Fall Forward | Best Motivational Speech | If you're struggling watch this.

Denzel Washington
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I found that nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks.
Nothing. Nelson Mandela said there is no passion to be found playing small and settling for a life
that's less than the one you're capable of living. Now I'm sure in your experiences in school and
applying to college and picking your major and deciding what you want to do with life,
I'm sure people have told you to make sure you have something to fall back on,
make sure you got something to fall back on honey. But I never understood that concept,
having something to fall back on. If I'm going to fall, I don't want to fall back on anything.
I want to fall forward. I figure at least this way I'll see what I'm going to hit.
Without consistency, you'll never finish. So do what you feel passionate about,
passionate about. Take chances. Don't be afraid to fail. There's an old IQ test was
nine dots and you had to draw five lines with a pencil within these nine dots
without lifting the pencil. The only way to do it was to go outside the box.
Don't be afraid to think outside the box. Don't be afraid to fail big, to dream big. But remember
dreams without goals, just dreams. Reggie Jackson struck out 2600 times in his career, the most
in the history of baseball. But you don't hear about the strikeouts. People remember the home
runs fall forward. Thomas Edison conducted 1000 failed experiments. Did you know that? I didn't
know that because the one thousand and first was the light bulb fall forward. Every failed
experiment is one step closer to success. You've got to take risks, and I'm sure you've probably
heard that before, but I want to talk to you about why that's so important. You will fail
at some point in your life. Accept it. You will lose. You will embarrass yourself. You will suck
at something. There's no doubt about it. And I know that's probably not a traditional message
for a graduation ceremony, but I'm telling you, embrace it because it's inevitable.
In the acting business, you fail all the time. Early on in my career, I auditioned for a part
in a Broadway musical. Perfect role for me, I thought, except for the fact that I can't sing.
I didn't get the job. But here's the thing. I didn't quit. I didn't fall back.
I walked out of there to prepare for the next audition and the next audition and the next
audition. I prayed, I prayed, and I prayed, but I continued to fail and fail and fail, but it didn't
matter because you know what? There's an old saying, you hang around the barbershop long enough
sooner or later you're going to get a haircut. So you will catch a break, and I did catch a break.
Last year, I did a play called Fences on Broadway, but here's the kicker. It was at the Court Theater.
It was at the same theater that I failed that first audition 30 years prior. The point is,
every graduate here today has the training and the talent to succeed, but do you have the guts
to fail? If you don't fail, you're not even trying. I'll say it again. If you don't fail,
you're not even trying. To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.
Imagine you're on your deathbed, and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts representing
your unfulfilled potential, the ghosts of the ideas you never acted on, the ghosts of the
talents you didn't use, and they're standing around your bed angry, disappointed, and upset.
They say, we came to you because you could have brought us to life, they say,
and now we have to go to the grave together. So I ask you today, how many ghosts are going
to be around your bed when your time comes? I just got back from South Africa. It's a beautiful
country, but there are places there with terrible poverty that need help, and Africa is just the
tip of the iceberg. The Middle East needs your help. Japan needs your help. Alabama needs your
help. Tennessee needs your help. Louisiana needs your help. Philadelphia needs your help.
The world needs a lot, and we need it from you. We really do. We need it from you young people.
I mean, I'm not speaking for the rest of us up here, but I know I'm getting a little grayer.
We need it from you, the young people, because remember this, you got to get out there,
you got to give it everything you got, whether it's your time, your talent, your prayers,
or your treasures. What are you going to do with what you have? I'm not talking about how much you
have. Some of you are business majors. Some of you are theologians, nurses, sociologists. Some
of you have money. Some of you have patience. Some of you have kindness. Some of you have love.
Some of you have the gift of long suffering. Whatever it is, whatever your gift is,
what are you going to do with what you have? All right, now here's my last point about failure.
Sometimes it's the best way to figure out where you're going. Your life will never be a straight
path. I began at Fordham University as a pre-med student. I took a course called
cardiac morphogenesis. I couldn't read it. I couldn't say it. I sure couldn't pass it.
So then I decided to go into pre-law, then journalism, and with no academic focus,
my grades took off in their own direction. I was a 1.8 GPA, and the university very politely
suggested that it might be better to take some time off. I was 20 years old. I was at my lowest
point, and then one day, and I remember the exact day, March 27, 1975, I was helping my mother in
her beauty shop. My mother owned a beauty shop up in Mount Vernon, and there was this older woman
who was considered one of the elders in the town, and I didn't know her personally, but I was
looking in the mirror, and every time I looked at the mirror, I could see her behind me, and she
was staring at me. She just kept looking at me. Every time I looked at her, she kept giving me
these strange looks. So she finally took the dryer off her head, and she said something I'll never
forget. She said, young boy, I have a prophecy, a spiritual prophecy. She said, you are going to
travel the world and speak to millions of people, and in the years that followed,
just as that woman prophesied, I have traveled the world, and I have spoken to millions of people
through my movies. Millions who up till this day couldn't see me, who up till this day I couldn't
see while I was talking to them, and they couldn't see me. They could only see the movie.
They couldn't see the real me, but I see you today, and I'm encouraged by what I see,
and I'm strengthened by what I see, because taking risk is not just about going for a job.
It's also about knowing what you know and what you don't know. It's about being open to people
and to ideas. The chances you take, the people you meet, the people you love,
the faith that you have, that's what's going to define you. Never be discouraged.
Never hold back. Give everything you've got, and when you fall throughout life, remember this,
fall forward.
