Polish and Japanese couple #2 | Partners, s*x, marriage etc.

Next, I want to ask you about an international love Is it fun? Yes, but it's hard (Arek) I think so We get in a fight almost every day You're together because it's fun, right? Y, Yes... Really? (Nozomi) Why don't you say it clearly?! There're a lot of positive parts between us so we are together Of course, there're also a lot of hard things such as culture differences and customs Because of them, we get in a fight, don't we? So, what is the happiest thing? How about you? (Arek) The happiest moment...? Mi-chan is like a baby so... Am I...? She behaves like this (Ken) Are you ok to say it?! What a confession!! For example, I love her funny and cute face Do you understand what he's saying?! (Arek) I don't know how to say but... You mean her cuteness (Arek) Yes, I love it How about you, Nozomi? She often messes around (Ken) You always seem happy Like this face (Nozomi) Yes, yes In general, we always mess around Funny dancing and singing... (Arek) Yeah, in my room So, I just like the ordinary moment, not special day When I get up early, I often kiss her (Ken) Wow I just remembered!! Japanese kisses are strange for Polish people (Arek) That's right! It's not a kiss, you know? (Ken) What? Tell me more It's not a kiss but just touching the lips each other So, we have to smack (Nozomi) Yeah, he says it's not unless you make some noise What does it really mean?! My mouth is something to put...? But it's an elegant way in Japan, right? Making some noise is... (Ken) It sounds a little vulgar A little childish The adult one is just touching lightly without any noise but he says it's strange and crazy I asked you about the happiest thing but what is the hardest thing? Maybe, the culture difference... Give me some examples At the beginning, I thought she could say her opinions more directly than most Japanese Even now, but not as Polish people... Honestly, I want her to say more directly Sometimes, she hides her feeling? Yeah, the more she says directly, the more I can improve myself quickly I can improve my flaws quickly but I can't if she doesn't say I think Nozomi wants you to understand it without the word It's normal Why don't you make the efforts? It can be misunderstanding, what I think might be different from what she thinks (Ken) Fair enough So, I want her to say it directly I understand ~ How about you, the hardest thing? Actually, it's the same... "Why don't you understand it?" I can't come up with any examples but there're a lot And I tend to express my emotions on my face Then, he also thinks "why is she mad...? I don't understand" It sometimes causes our arguments Do you still have such a feeling as a Japanese? Yeah, of course I'm trying to say it out but we don't understand 100% each other, it's hard in an international love It's not only the word but also Japanese values may make me confused Probably, Japanese might be really hard out of Asian people The culture that we hide our true feeling In Japan, it can be rude that you say directly but here, it's just your opinion or identity That's really hard, isn't it? (Arek) Yes Next, can you tell us the good parts and bad parts each other? I already said but... cuteness, and... her style, also... Clothes? (Ken) Fashion (in Japanese) Yes, I love it What else... Actually, she can say her opinions directly to some extense! For a Japanese, Asian? If she can't, it's really hard... (Nozomi) I see And!! She is like a baby She has another face to show only you? (Arek) Exactly! Lovely! (Nozomi) I'm embarrassed... How about you, Nozomi? Umm, he is kind For example, I don't know much about Poland as I said So, he takes me anywhere to be interested He makes a plan for me every weekend I haven't had a boyfriend who took me to a lot of places I feel happy about his attitude That's his good part of taking and escorting me anywhere The effort to make you excited (Nozomi) Exactly, I admire it Also, he helps my study, visa and stuffs like that He helps anything about me I'm thankful of it It might be hard to say but what's the bad parts? She is the person who gets annoyed easily I don't think sooo In my opinion, she gets annoyed easily (Ken) When did she do last time? I don't remember because they are just small things... For example, when we got caught in traffic this morning Also, when we were late to depart, you said "why weren't you ready yet?!" We were supposed to depart at 9 a.m. but it was 10 a.m. It's your...? (Arek) Not my fault but she was a little annoyed Anyway, Polish people don't keep the time, are they? They don't come on time that was promised It's normal for Japanese to come 5 minutes before the promise Why no one keeps on time? When it comes to parties, we don't keep the time but for example... we do on the interview or something like that! (Ken & Nozomi) That's obvious Sorry we got off track (Ken) No problem, well... My bad parts... (Ken) Enough! I don't want to see you fighting It can be awkward after this shoot Anyway, it means she is expressive (Nozomi) That's true! I think we don't compromise and it causes the arguments Polish people are originally strong-willed and also Nozomi looks like she doesn't give in for a Japanese Yeah we never give in to temptation and we conflict each other How about his bad parts? Let's pay him back (Arek) Come on! I don't have anything I want him to improve but... I just remembered!! I want him to be a cleanly person Because I'm a clean freak, I care about even small things Like "Why don't you wash your hands now?!" "Why did you take off your shoes now?!" "Why do you put your cloths here?!" You also touch my back with your "dirty" hands (Ken) Dirty?! lol Why you say dirty... (Ken) You're not a couple? lol We always do dirty things... (Ken) What do you mean?! What does it mean lol (Nozomi) Stop saying it!! I want him to improve it seriously (Arek) I'm trying Is he so out of all the boys you ever met? (Nozomi) Yes, he is! Japanese people are more like a clean freak You also said on a video When you use toilets, you need something to wash your bottom Because I'm also a clean freak (Nozomi) Right? It's the same as me It's also bad that Poland doesn't have Washlet (washing your bottom) There're a lot of unbearable things so I cried a week after I came to Poland My flat and other buildings are older than those in Japan Anything was not clean and it made me shocked I'm so clean freak that I really cried I don't accept even small things This may be a little stimulating but... Sexual intercourse Ohhh, that one!! Interesting!! Do you do it frequently? I think... he has a stronger desire than Japanese people (Ken) Really?! Well, I have such a impression about Polish people (Arek) Really?? I didn't have it And I never thought I had a relationship with a Polish guy in Poland I don't know if he is rare or not but I was just surprised Arek, you want her to need you more? We do enough (Ken) You're enough lol I think you also have had Polish girlfriends but what's the difference between them as for sexual intercorse? Actually, it depends on my mood in each day so I think nationally is not related But, kiss! The way of kissing! It's totally different (Ken) She still doesn't smack? Typical Japanese way On the contrary, I think he is different (Ken) Like what? Well, how should I say... While doing it... it's different somehow (Ken) Like his words? You know... He takes good care of me? embraces me warmly? What am I saying? The hospitality that makes me satisfied with hugging and kissing It's better than Japanese though it may depend on the person It might be a little hasty but do you think about your marriage? Your age is.. (Nozomi) I'm 30 and he's 32 Yeah, it can be the timing We haven't talked deeply But I'm not going to live in Japan as I said I want to marry someone in other countries I have such a plan and dream I've talked about it with him Then, he said what about Poland? I said to him directly "I'm not planning to live in Poland permanently" Him: "It means I'm not in your future" Me: "I don't know" and it caused an argument again So, we should stop talking Hopefully, I wish we could be together in the future Nozomi's ideal is to live together in other countries And, Arek likes Poland better? Yes I do, because... I wouldn't say it's a good country but my job... I earn money in Polish złoty If I was in the eurozone or dollars, it would be hard (Ken) I understand It's only the reason If I can earn money in euro, pounds etc, anywhere is ok (Ken) Just your salary All right, I talked with an international couple, Arek and Nozomi You also do TikTok? TikTok is the main and we upload every day Please check it out (Ken & Arek) Please Thank you so much for today (Nozomi & Arek) Thank you We also do YouTube!