you MUST stop caring about WOMEN

What's good with y'all's camera in the video straight like that comment down below what you want to see in the next one like and Subscribe if you're brand new and let's go ahead and get into it, man So check this out, dude, you need to stop caring about women so much, bruh You need to stop caring about women so much every day you wake up and the first thing on your mind is how can I? How can I rise up? How can I spit game? How can I do this? Who like my pictures on Instagram who's following me who's doing this who's doing that is she looking at me? Is she not looking at me? Do she like me? Do she not like me? All of these things you have to understand are distractions, bro It's a distraction dog You have been worried about women for years and years and years and let me ask you something right now What have you gained from it? What have you gotten from worrying about girls all this time dog? Absolutely, nothing you gain no value. You haven't leveled up at all See this is the thing, you know, we go from middle school to high school As soon as we hit high school our priorities switch just like that, bruh We go from caring about Nintendo DS and Pokemon and PlayStation to now we caring about girls and stuff like that And I get it. It's natural, you know, I mean it happens as we start to grow up But what you have to realize is that all of it is a distraction, bro All of it is a distraction do not throw it away Because what you got to understand is that most of these women out here are not even dateable They don't even want to be in relationships. So why are you spending time worrying about them? Why do you care so much? Why do you care about getting girls so much, bruh? Is it to fit in? Is it so that you can go back to your homeboys and be like, oh, you know Look what I did. Guess what I did. Guess who I've been talking to Ask yourself, do you even really like these girls that you keep chasing? Do you even really like them like that? Or or let me guess what it is you just want to smash you just want to go crazy What is that going to really do for you other than lead to a potential unexpected pregnancies or STDs? Especially knowing where a lot of these girls have been already Why would you keep chasing these girls, bruh? All it is is a distraction from the main goals of your life That's all it is. It's just a distraction, bro You on a path you got to think of life as a path you go just straight and narrow It's very simple bro. Life is extremely simple, but you keep making it more complicated for yourself Let me really paint the picture for you right now, bruh There's dudes in a 30s and 40s and 50s that's still concerned about getting women, bruh 30s and 40s and 50s still single still looking still looking to attract more women into their life, bruh Understand that dudes like that are the least happy dudes Single dudes in their 30s 40s 50s. They try to put on this front like oh, you know what? I mean, I got I got the money. I got the looks I got everything I need I don't need to settle down but the truth of the matter is that The reason they keep needing to pick up these girls or so they could they could feel that void inside of them, bruh You don't want to be like that You want to be that 30 40 50 year old man at the bar 30 40 50 year old man at the club? 30 40 50 year old dude the party That's a sad existence, dude, that is a very sad life and that guy right there is trying to fill the void I don't care what he tells you. I don't care. He could pull up in the flies flies fit and the best car It does not matter any guy that feels the need to keep attracting and keep picking up women has something missing inside of them, bruh at any age really at any age That boy will never ever be filled by women. All they are is a distraction for the most part. They're just a distraction And you keep feeding into that distraction Because you you want to go crazy you want to smash you think you you think it's fun and I get it, bruh I get it. You probably young It's fun to be messing with these girls. Oh, yeah, you know, it's cool It's cool. But then when you look back, you don't realize you don't even remember half of their names. Do you? Name five of the last girls you just talked to I bet you can't first and last name you can't Comment down below. I'm serious for real. You cannot remember these women's names You can't remember the girls you had crushes on you. Can't you can't you you can't remember the talking stages that you were in Because none of it really mattered at the end of the day it only mattered because you gave it you you you put gas in that car and So now when you so focused on girls, they start to run your life So now you now you keep figuring out you now you start plotting up in your life you start fake self-improvement Oh, let me let me let me let me get my bag up. Let me start self-improving Let me start getting in the gym so that I can impress these girls, bruh Let me start doing this for women. Let me start doing this for girls and it's a lot of dudes out here They'll say oh, there's nothing wrong with that There's nothing wrong with that, but there is something wrong with that You want to know why bro, because if that's why you self-improvement if that's why you self-improvement The moment a girl start to not like you the moment You don't get the choosing signals that you've been looking for The moment a girl breaks your heart or something like that all that self-improvement is out the window. You're done I know dudes like that They self-improve so they can get women but as soon as something happened as soon as the girl that they like don't like them back Oh, no, I'm not going to the gym today. Oh, no, I ain't doing this today They don't really want it. You don't really want it You only doing it so that you can get more women Just face the fact just be honest with yourself be honest about that bruh you doing it so you can get girls Well, well, well, well cam, you know, it's okay because at the end of the day, I'm still self-improving, right? It still matters the reason why you're doing it Because if your why is based off of somebody else if your why is based off of trying to prove yourself Then dog the moment adversity comes the moment that something happens in your life You're no longer that self-improver that that that you claim to be you're no longer the gym goer You're no longer the bookworm. You're no longer the guy that's working on himself. You're no longer the guy that's abstaining from watching a pornography No, now you the guy that does all of that stuff You skip the gym. All you do is worry about women. I know cuz I've been there They control your life Which is why you are still a simp. You're not still a simp because you out here, you know, I mean Being a being a pushover for these girls. No, you're a simp because they're all you think about they control and run your life they control and run your life breath and And and and here's the thing the crazy part is that when you look back in life, right? You're gonna realize that you did not enjoy the things that you could have enjoyed because you were constantly worried about females It's probably been mad times when you've been out and about in public at the mall or wherever and you were so busy looking at Girls and stuff like that that you didn't enjoy that you couldn't even enjoy the company of your own homies It's dudes out here that won't even hang out with they bros unless there's girls involved, right? Other and if it's no girls involved, it's like oh, dude, what do we do? board You need some kind of stimulation. You need some kind of female to be there or something like that, bro. They run your life They run your life and The whole time they're a distraction because half of these girls don't even really like you like that be real with yourself They don't really even like you like that Yet you're giving them most of your time you're giving them most of your valuable attention and It's crazy because you can't get time back, bro Do you understand how valuable a resource time is do your time on earth is short Bro, I'm 22. I just brought I swear just yesterday. I was like 15 16, bro I blinked and I'm 22. I'm getting old I'm getting old and you getting old every single day every passing second That's a second that you could be working on your on yourself working on your craft getting to the bag And I don't mean getting to the bag like that's the only thing you chasing cuz money isn't everything but money still important You worried about talking to girls and you don't have any money in your pocket no money in your bank account You have overdraft fees, bro overdraft fees But you worried about trying to hit the club and trying to hit ubers and so you can get to the club I used to be just like you bro I used to be in college living that lifestyle that you want to live Living that same lifestyle you want me. I've been there before bro. You think I'm stupid. I've been there before Overdraft fees yet. I was still trying to drink still trying to turn up That's your lifestyle right now because you focus on the wrong things. Do do you understand that you have unlimited potential? You have unlimited potential right now If you would just focus just for a little bit on you If you would just focus just for a little bit on the right things If you would just start praying if you would just start getting the gym for real so that you can actually look good and feel Good, and you would just start changing your diet You just start doing these little things changing your habits just a little bit just so that you can have a better life It's in this car. It's crazy, bro, cuz you will have a better life if you do it for yourself You will have a better life It's like you keep like oh, it's mind-blowing to me that you wouldn't want to self-approve for your own good, bro It's like why wouldn't you? You only helping yourself You only helping yourself and when you and here's the kicker too when you worried about girls so much, bro You start to get into the mindset of I'm not good enough You want to know why because it's always some kind of method. It's always you know, I gotta do the pullback method I gotta do this method to get girls. I gotta do this to get her to chase me I don't do this this this this and that never ever ever Besides me think about this No, God has ever given dating advice has ever said that you alone are enough It's always you have to do this and this and that if you yourself are never enough They question yourself. Are these methods really working? Do these girls really like you man in my honest opinion man the methods man the methods them games, bro You worried about playing games you were about pulling back. Oh, how can I get her to how do I attract her in it? can't make a video on how to attract her on on the west side of LA and in front of a 7-eleven, bro Stop worrying about it You always in a perpetual state of not feeling like you enough of feeling like you have to do something else Extra beside yourself to be more attracted to these girls, bro I'm gonna be honest with you. She either like you or you don't to be honest She had to like you or she don't That's just what it is She had like you or she don't like you You worried about playing some games that mindset you put yourself in an inferior mindset You make yourself Lower than you actually are because you feel like you've got to keep doing something to get more girls You feel like you are not enough and when you feel like you're not enough then that spreads to all areas of life That's why you have you so anxious inside. That's why you you have such low self-esteem and low confidence That's why it's so hard for you to have confidence. That's why it's so hard for you to have conversations with people That's why it's so hard for you to for you to just do anything in life for you to move around for you to do anything because you constantly thinking about how you not enough for people and when you constantly think about how you not enough of people then Bro, your body goes when your mind goes So when your mind is going down and you think in negative thoughts about yourself What you think is gonna happen to your body? You don't physically start to look worse You don't physically start looking worse because you're gonna stop caring about yourself Cuz you already think that you some kind of some kind of unattractive creature Come on breath You have unlimited potential and you have limited time on the earth But you got unlimited potential bro. God says that through him all things are possible You can achieve anything you want to But you're worried about the wrong things Anything bro. Do you realize how amazing that is? You could achieve anything All you got to do is go out and do it dog It's time to start focusing on the right things. It's time to stop caring about girls. Stop chasing them And start chasing your dreams, dude And the crazy part is when you stop chasing these girls the more that they will come but you still got a stiff on them Because they all distractions for the most part. Now if you find a girl, she's cool then fine I'm not saying completely ignore But stop caring about them so much stop being so focused on them All right, bro That's all I got for y'all. Hope y'all got the message. Love y'all. I'm out of here, man. Peace