Bentinho | The Ultimate Guide to Live Your Calling (No Music)

Bentinho Massaro
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the floor literally appears as she take
the next
step you have no clue where you're
going the illusion is that you think you
know where you're going and the problem
is that often times you're right with a
lot of the elements in your life and
that life has become predictable and
boring and therefore all your Creative
Energy goes towards what's not possible
in creating problems where there don't
need to be problems if you spend more
space and time in just not knowing and
just living from the now into freshness
of the adventure of the calling and
placing step and placing a step and
placing a step and placing a step and
allowing the steps to show you what's
most
exciting and as long as you don't have
any fear to act when it does feel right
to act when the timing does show up then
that's a completely safe way to do it
and in fact I recommend
it and then you learn over time you
learn to completely trust that to the
point where you know that if you try
hard to make it work when it's not in
flow when it's not just the timing isn't
showing up
you're actually creating problems and
detours where if you just waited one
more day or two more weeks or whatever
it just showed up on its own it was the
perfect timing and you didn't need all
the time and resources you thought you
needed to create it right whereas if you
didn't start creating it prematurely you
do need all that time and resources to
create it the universe is very efficient
in its organizing principle but only if
you're connected to your calling will
you be sensitive enough to notice what's
truly in flow and what's not in Flow
versus what you're resisting or not
resisting sometimes it's a little
difficult from the outside in to tell if
someone's just resisting or postponing
or if they're waiting for the proper
moment and it's not there yet but when
you become sensitive enough and practice
enough it becomes easier and easier and
easier and then you're just like
y you just know that the best thing is
going to happen so swiftly when you
don't try to force it before its moment
arises and then the moment arises when
it doesn't it's like oh there it is but
then there's no resistance either
there's no like stories or like wait a
second I'm having an
emotion that's saying it never happens
right but there's just this complete
availability to like oh there it is
naturally on its own and then it happens
in a fraction of the time if you were to
then if you were to actually try and do
it and plan it and if you could live
like this with everything it means you
compress the amount of time and energy
you lose working and doing so many
things that are otherwise done in 100 of
the amount of energy and time and space
it would need so now that means she can
do 100 more things within the same
period of time or 99 more things with
the same amount of energy you can create
100 times as much so to speak because
you're trusting into timing of things
but this requires that you're free of
resistance and this requires that you
have a positive relationship an its
possible relationship with
uncertainty which means that you need to
have a positive conscious relationship
to your calling or to who you are what
you are come from that state of being
and be confident in
it want I just underline that the
importance of not associating or it can
be Associated but not not mistaken your
calling and your identity your mission
your purpose whatever it is with the
vehicle that you choose to express it
through so it's very tempting especially
if you're new to being able to recognize
what your calling is and being able to
come from that state of being no matter
what when that's still kind of Novel to
you and you're somewhat wobbly at it but
you're getting better at it and you
start getting like a vision that comes
from that connection to that calling and
maybe it just to start a business or a
project or organization that can fulfill
that intention or a series of intentions
that are very conducive to channeling
that calling energy into people's lives
it it requires experience or just
remarkable Clarity and integrity and
authenticity to be able to throughout
that trajectory of starting that
business or organization or project or
whatever it
is
to consistently remember that the
calling is not the thing it's not the
extension and so in this way you're able
to always navigate to always course
correct to always adjust because you're
not identifying the truth with the means
so just make sure that you really really
see this that you cannot do your calling
you cannot create your calling you
cannot become your calling so to speak
right so anything that's got anything to
do with linearity anything that's not
here right now basically is going to be
an extension an expression a means an
Avenue for that calling to crystallize
itself into this world and that's
beautiful but the vehicle changes you
know you don't always drive the same car
sometimes your car is not available or
you need to upgrade so don't get
attached to the car you want to be able
to get to where you want to get to you
want to be able to transport your body
it's not about the vehicle so if you can
maintain that awareness then it's easy
for you to quit your job or take on a
new job or create a new business or
change the business around or redesign
it from the ground up or fire a couple
people hire another couple people or
whatever is required for that change
because your fulfillment comes from the
clarity with which you've learned to
recognize the truth of what you are and
you've seen that it's independent it
exists independent from anything that
you could ever do or create or
manifest now the more you start
manifesting and seeing the distinction
between your calling and your
manifestation of the calling which is
beautiful it's there's no separation
there but the
calling supersedes the calling is far
superior to any one of its
manifestations it can be housed in all
kinds of different bodies right and that
is what's happening the calling actually
is universal just has different flavors
depending on the blueprint of that
individual Lifetime and so it's house
the one calling if you will is already
housed in an infinite amount of bodies
and so the same goes on a smaller
microscope C micro skill is you are able
to house your calling your portion of
that calling into all kinds of different
Avenues and vehicles so keep that
flexibility always recognize that
ultimately no circumstance that you are
not dependent on any
circumstance since we understand the
power of environment upon the
unconscious mind of every human being on
this world now that we're aware of that
it is our responsibility to also alter
the Environ as one of the means in which
we get to inspire Humanity so those
prototypes are excellent examples of
what works what doesn't work optimize it
and bring that out into Humanity until
every city is designed that way right
until every social structure is designed
that way so that everyone that gets born
into the civilization is naturally
focused on what is
possible to actually get that momentum
going and get into the habit and gain
some experience with what it's like to
look at something in your life and
either eliminate It upgraded or replace
it with a design that better suits the
the expression of your calling um use a
physical example like actually
physically go through your house and
just look at each object like in your
house every single little object say
does this make any sense like is this
what's the intention behind this make
everything intentional and
this will give you a little bit of a a
tangible practice but then you can move
on to you know some of your
relationships or some of the dialogues
in your relationships or um whatever
business or career you're working on so
but sometimes I think it's helpful for
people to start with something really
tangible just look at an object because
the process is the same you're comparing
it to your calling if you will you're
just holding it in contrast to the light
of what lights you up and you see does
it make sense for this to be in my house
or not and where and then you start
seeing you start getting these little
intuitive psychic glimpses of the past
like when you bought it where you bought
it why you bought it who you were when
you bought it what the intention behind
it was what the unconsciousness behind
it was and then you can sort of start
clearing out your house in that way and
then you can extend that into the more
abstract or non-physical elements of
your life if you
will someone that's really aware and
confident in the Independence that they
have because their fulfillment comes
from the state of being being connected
to their calling and they know they
could if they had to express it in any
condition whether they're sleeping on
the floor or in a five-star Mansion
whether they have a paycheck or a lot of
money or no money whatsoever once you
realize that the only bodies that really
matter to fulfill your calling in this
world is the mental and physical body
and so and you have these and so you're
free when you realize that you can allow
them first of all to become an
crystallization and expression of your
calling more fully fully saturated with
an awareness of that state of being
that's never dependent on other bodies
right that's the First Freedom as as an
entity as a as a
body it doesn't have to be certain way
you just flow with the moment and you
believe anything's possible and if
people come together with that intention
truly magical things happen and all the
alliances that you thought were helpful
they were actually anchors holding you
back it's a pretty clear indication the
more flexible you become doesn't matter
at a certain age or in a certain state
or face of your life you may not
suddenly feel like oh actually you know
what feels conducive is for me to settle
down for 6 months stay in one location
and not travel you know or move to this
apartment then just stay there for a
long period of time or be in a single
relationship for a long period of time
so you may have a face where that feels
to be a more conducive environment for
your calling but it's it's not the same
as an attachment you're you're still
intuitively generating that and it's
still from a state of flexibility and if
the next day it turns out to not be the
case you're not in a funk about it
because your calling is not identified
with the means you have chosen to
express yourself through you always keep
that quote unquote separation between
what you really are SL your calling and
your circumstances always see how
independent your state of being is you
don't need
anything if there's a confusion
regarding okay how I'm going to monetize
my calling
then either you haven't really found
your calling yet or you're just not
really that connected to it right now
because if you are connected to
it you're not you you don't care where
you live next
month and so you don't care about how
you'll get the money to live there next
month because you have no clue what next
month is going to be like
right the more you the more you become
an expression of your calling your body
is your first vehicle right your mind
and body are the first avenues that
house the calling and so those need to
be addressed first now after years of
practicing that these bodies these
Avenues will become so fine-tuned to the
calling that you are able to not need
these bodies to be dependent on other
bodies of work right so you can take
these bodies those are your first rights
to Freedom if you will you can take
these anywhere at any time and you see
that you can always express your calling
into this world through these vehicles
that are part of this world so it
doesn't matter where you go where you
are you become less and less attached to
having to be in the same place
necessarily or with the same person here
or there or with the same plan for the
future and this is a gradual process
Don't force yourself to go all out
because there may be some backlash which
also you could address and deal with
it's not a big deal ultimately but take
it at your own pace but do experiment
what are you currently holding on to and
projecting into the future how far are
you projecting into the future and in
most cases you'll see that the people
that are most most connected to their
calling they're they have the least of
an idea what's going to happen next
month or next
year truly being turned on by your
calling versus sort of knowing about it
but still like where going to lift next
month and so then your intention is not
truly to lift from the calling moment to
moment and again the calling is never a
goal it's always here now it's always
where you're coming from so if sometimes
an architecture of a lot of money it's
actually not conducive to always check
in where you come from right sometimes
no money or no promise of money is a
great architecture to always remind
yourself where you're coming from and
actually generate happiness there so if
you if that's not something you'd be
willing to at least consider
not saying you have to do it it may not
be aligned for every life obviously but
to consider if it could be aligned for
you realize what the source of your your
happiness actually is because you still
believe it's in something you still
believe it's insecurity certainty a
manifestation a house consistency
whatever it is so then over time you
know you'll find you get Reflections and
it's not this it's not that it's not
this it's not that if you can accelerate
that learning process that maturation
process and really through clear
exercises using your imagination really
get clear to your entire psyche that
what you really want and while you do
everything you
do is to be
fulfilled and then you realize that
fulfillment is not the result of any of
the things you're currently doing then
suddenly you become willing to shift all
that attentiveness to the calling to
focus on where you're living from not
where you're moving towards words and
now everything will be a fresh unique
flexible expression from your calling
not towards your calling and then you
can suddenly imagine oh yeah wait a
second now that I actually prioritize my
fulfillment through my calling rather
than trying to get somewhere because I
still believe that that will give me
happiness now that I've actually made
that shift now I can understand why
someone would do that because the
happiness is not in the money the
stability consistency it's in living
from the calling
and so sometimes the design of limiting
how much money you make could actually
be or just limiting the consistency or
the reliability with which you get a
paycheck could actually be a great
design in some cases for some periods of
your life for
certain deepenings in the
call Trust life flow with life so that
the challenge and the the guidance
system doesn't have to transfer into
physical Catalyst which is usually when
stubborn people only begin to pay
attention is when things have become so
materialized out of alignment that
there's no other way for you than to pay
attention or die right or be completely
unhappy so don't go there I mean don't
postpone it like if you notice you have
a elect belief stop yourself don't even
continue to dialogue whatever the
dialogue is or the project or the
activity notice elect belief make it a
habit to if when you notice elect belief
that's the time to stop yourself that's
the time to check in to pause it's the
best time because that's when it came up
why have it come up which is the
function of the guidance system and then
shove it back in saying like oh thank
you for showing it to me let's just wait
till it arises again and again and again
and when are you going to pay attention
when the consequences are harsh enough
and so your higher self is compassionate
enough to give you all kinds of crap
until you pay
attention you're all extremely creative
and resourceful you're just applying it
in what's not possible you're always
imagining what's not possible the doom
and the Gloom and I can't and it's not
because of this always seeing the
obstacles it stops the energy from
moving into the physical body to
actually make a difference to change to
operate on inspiration Etc so you're
literally it's a self-fulfilling
prophecy as soon as you begin to focus
it's not even a belief as soon as you
begin to focus on something is not
possible you're beginning to believe it
because you're beginning to make that
real see it feel it be it operates 100%
of the time just often times don't know
that you're doing it so you need to make
conscious what you're seeing what are
you picturing it's so important you got
to be able to alter consciously what it
is you're picturing and is that pictured
again every topic is two topics it's
either the lack of what you're Imagining
the not possibility of it or is the
abundance of it or the possibility of it
or the presence or the flow of it are
you imagining the thing you're thinking
about on the side of positivity so to
speak so and as soon as you shift that
this all all that Creative Energy and
that resourcefulness suddenly becomes
available in terms of what is possible
and as good as you were about worrying
and not moving and getting stuck and
planning out the next 40 Years of your
life suddenly you're that great all the
next 40 Years of your life all that
planning goes into the next two days so
you're squeezing all the Creative Energy
of 40 years into the next 48
hours so much stuff you can come up with
and then you find you have so much
energy you do it again the next 48 hours
right so just carry those waves with
ever greater realization of the capacity
that you have as a
Creator just make sure that you check in
with yourself what am I picturing what
am I imagining is it of a positive
nature or a negative nature very simple
and it's not about you have to always
feel good you can feel bad it's not the
typical positive negative conversation
it's just every topic can either be the
abundance of it the possibility of it or
the impossibility of it or the lack
thereof and you're always IM imagining
on one side of that equation with
everything you're thinking about you're
either feeling it's not here yet it's
over there not here or you're feeling
that would be really exciting and I feel
it here now and so what's the action
that's inspired from that right and this
is so helpful to understand also when
you are when you're living from your
calling when you really are in the state
of being of your calling you're
supported by sort of this Universal
archetype of knowing everything is
possible when you're really connected
you don't have to play these games but
these games can be helpful because we
all get lost sometimes in overthinking
physical reality so then it's good to
check in am I on the Le side of things
or the possibility side of things always
be on the possibility side of things and
you never feel like you're getting stuck
and you'll never self- prophesize or
create that that's the guidance system
right there when you think of something
that's truly in alignment with you it's
a complete yes because the calling you
might now you might have a reaction to
that yes that's one of Doubt right the
Mind may come up with stor about what
about this what about that and go back
into what's not possible but the initial
result often when people are like is it
a yes or a no I don't know it it may
have been already a yes but now you're
overd doubting it but the instant that
you think of something inspiring if it's
a yes in that moment it usually is a
100% yes then the process of like
resolving whatever lack beliefs you have
about that change is the process of
upgrading yourself to match the
vibration of that vision of that dream
so that now you can constitute it and be
it and actually act it out being
distinctively aware of what's in
alignment what's not in
alignment so and that includes people
forget that that includes their own
talking their own thinking that's the
most important part to put back in
alignment is your own thinking your own
visualizing how you're using your
imagination because you're you're always
creating something whatever you're going
to focus on or towards that's what
you're going to create that's what
you're going to see the possibility or
impossibility of so it's always a
self-fulfilling prophecy so you have to
be the one cuz no one else is going to
do it for you except in rare
circumstances but you have to be the one
that monitors yourself true witnessing
true observing true checking in with
yourself is absolutely devoid of
judgment yet it has discernment the more
you gain confidence in Your Capacity to
be the infinite Creator to not be
affected by circumstances and to bring
to that a creative element remembering
it's a video video game and you're
already doomed okay the video game is
going to end it's going to break down at
some point it's not here anymore you're
not here to
survive you're already Eternal you're
here to
play Don't mistaken the Eternal identity
for the character in the video game
right and when you when you give away
the structures of your current life
which are all
man-made then that emptiness is such a
fruitful space from which to give birth
to True creativity true flow true
fulfillment and you're fulfilled with
nothing he like oh it just feels good to
do this for someone or to create this or
to spend way too many hours on one
single detail of a trip you're planning
for a few people when you should have
been doing all these other things right
but it felt so good just obsessing yet
the obsession was not lack focused it
wasn't an impossibility it wasn't a
concern it wasn't out of worry it was
absolutely out of sheer passion to
perfect a single detail that will not be
experienced by that person for longer
than a split second but what it causes
in that person is so worth the
experience that you're spending 15 hours
trying to figure out how to create that
one single detail in their
life and he felt better than ever and
you don't get in
return the more you get used to that
space and you trust that space the more
the universe will provide for exactly
everything that you need doesn't mean
you shouldn't take action when an
opportunity arises that's in alignment
you do you just naturally operate you
naturally act when you're thirsty you
naturally drink water when opportunity
arises that's in alignment with your
calling you naturally take action it's
just natural action skillful natural
unfoldment of the video game right but
you're tuned in to the appropriate
vibration that is in alignment with your
fulfillment and that creative empty
space of giving away structures becomes
almost addictive you can almost start
consuming that creative
space and you're going to be in that
empty space you're going to be so
creative and have so much fun that you
feel so fulfilled in that state that
your life you just want to be more in
that state over and over again that
space and so you start losing the
negative connotation to dropping
structures in your life you start
building a positive relationship to
emptiness to
uncertainty to non-structure because you
know that in the space of non structure
you experience yourself to the utmost to
the
fullest and from there everything you
create turns into
gold and it lights other people up and
it raises the vibration of everyone
involved or everything involved the
Rocks the trees the birds everyone in
your vicinity gets upgraded and so do
you even just a little bit going in this
direction is a great leap right
if you can make a small alteration to
your life and make one that you feel
confident in that you can be consistent
in you will back yourself up with trust
over time you will build up that trust
Foundation you will build experiences of
confirmation that you are the infinite
Creator and that you can create anything
and generate anything that everything is
possible and that you can trust The
Emptiness and come from your calling you
don't have to go towards it you can't go
towards you will experience this more
and more if you just make a small
adjustment now and then the next and in
the next you build confidence and it's
an accelerative curve
