I MUST BECOME MENTALLY TOUGH…ENOUGH IS ENOUGH - Motivational Speech

you know you get really tough it's a lifestyle instead of hitting that it's news button your morning you're not making your bed not cleaning your house you don't hit this news button you get up you don't want to go run you go run you don't want to go swim you're gonna swim if you want to make your beds you make your bed you know we're gonna clean your house and clean your house if you don't want to study you can study that's how you start to callous your mind it's going to suck it's not gonna be fun do something that sucks every single day of your life that's how you grow this year's season of comeback is happening for your life this is a season where everything changes for you everything changes for you but you gotta claim it you gotta own it when people look at Mountains they're Majestic they are beautiful there are dents in Hills valleys and ducks and dark spots and snow covering cops even when it's hot there's something Magnificent about them most were simply stare at them but there was a few to see it as something to be conquered as large as that mountain is it can be conquered there have been many that have tried and failed people will tell you and that you're foolish if you try but you can't begin to go over the mountain until you first take a step towards the mountain so you failed good I hope you did because if you are not feeling you are not really learning everything you possibly can if you are not pushing yourself so far that failure is an option then you are not pushing yourself far enough you need to fail to learn who you really are through challenges adversity and disappointment you 've up to become the person you were really meant to be it's through these times in our life that we find out our real strengths and identify those areas that we need to improve the only thing that you can do is win so big that all of them constantly compare themselves to you and then you'll forget they exist success is the only Revenge it's not the best revenge it's the only one there's no other Revenge we're trying so hard in our lives to fit in we try to fit into certain groups you know among certain friends yet the people we idolize are most are the ones that stand out but when you're prepared there is no fear there is no fear of failure okay because even if you've walked out of something and you feel like you've failed at it your preparation is so strong that you're going to take that failure and turn it into the outcome you desire in every step that you take as small as it might be as difficult as it might get as short as your breaths might become you are one step closer to getting to the top of that mountain and the same Mountain that once looked so Majestic that looks so big when you reach the top of it you'll look down and see that everything around you now looks small because you're at the top of the mountain you've gone to Heights that other people won't foreign [Music] they say that you enter this world looking like your mother and father and that you leave this world looking like your decisions what kind of decisions have you made [Music] what kind of decisions do you continue to make [Music] are they decisions that you can stand in front of the mirror in front of a crowd and own and be proud of or are they decisions of regret you are capable of achieving so much greatness [Music] you bet me Embrace courage and step out of your comfort zone you have what it takes because it takes courage to chase your dreams but you have to believe in yourself face your fears head on and never give up [Music] I think people are very slow to thank and quick to blame and one of my favorite quotes of all time is stop worrying about what you didn't get after praying and think of all the countless blessings you have in your life without even asking there's too many times you walk by blessings and not even realize it gratitude lays the foundation for everything good in our lives it affects our attitude our relationships our prosperity our success our mental physical and emotional health it has a huge impact that we often overlook it's not happiness that brings gratitude it's gratitude that has this effect in our lives that brings happiness when you have a goal you have some sort of success you want to do start it be committed not simply interested when you are committed you will be amazed at how Providence or God or the universe whatever the higher power you believe in moves in your favor and all kinds of things come to assist you in what you want to get done be committed not interested if somebody were to look at the face of the 85 90 year old version of you what kind of life would they see would they see Adventure would they see opportunity would they see Power and determination perseverance pride and having stuck it out despite the challenge despite the pain would they see strength in your face or would they see a face of regret of sadness of Yearning wishing that there was just one more opportunity one more chance to make it all right but that's not going to be you that will not be you will be the one that takes the opportunity you are going to be the one that finishes the race you're not just going to be great at starting you're going to be great at finishing you're going to be one who can stand in front of a crowd and stir the emotions of thousands millions of people because that's who you are that's the example that you said you may have come and looking like your mother and father and who knows maybe they weren't even there for you but you have the chance to change all of that you have the chance to burn leave a new Legacy shine so brightly that people for miles and miles can see you in the dark [Music] foreign we live in a world that we want to be as comfortable as we can and we wonder why we have no growth we we wonder why when the smallest thing in our life gets difficult we wonder why we cower and we run away I mean our whole life is set that way our whole life is a set set up in in the path of least resistance we don't want to suffer we don't want to feel discomfort so the whole time we're living our lives in a very comfortable area there's no growth in that succeed in every goal you have ever set then you are not setting the bar high enough you are not reaching far enough you are not pushing yourself to the limits where failure is not just an option but a probability I want to fail in life but I want to fail forward I want to learn from my failures I want to be able to push forward through failure and move on to become the person I am supposed to be this decision where all those lost in the past it didn't make sense all the setbacks all the no's this the season where you get that yes where it makes sense but then there's you you saw the mountain and said I don't need the strength God for you to move my mouth I need the strength to climb this mountain and when I climbed it I will have conquered it and every level that I've gone to will be separating me from the noise below because the same people that were standing staring at the Majestic aspect of a mountain will now look at you as Majestic what's in the mountain we're now being the man or the woman that's willing to climb maybe last season you're feeling down you're feeling down like this is the season where everything turns around I want you to treat it as such and I want you to believe in that because belief is our strongest is the strongest thing we can have in our soul without belief nothing happens without belief nothing happens if we don't believe it nothing will happen in our life nothing will change in life so you got to believe it I'm not talking about the mountain I'm talking about the challenges that you must face in life your mountains might be something different it's about overcoming poverty overcoming the setbacks of relationships and everything that comes along with it but the same way that one step got you closer to climate the same path you have to take to overcoming none of us can change our yesterdays but all of us can change our tomorrows therein lies a problem for a lot of people we are dwelling in the past maybe we did something we shouldn't have or maybe we didn't quite measure up to what we thought we should have at this point in your life you have paid for what you are going forward you get to choose what you are when we have not completed our past it's very difficult to write our future we must learn to complete the past by forgiving people forgiving circumstances and most of all forgiving ourselves that's who you know you are don't let the old story of well time's pass me by my best years are behind me that's a lie that's false the best life for you to live is ahead of you that's why the windshield is so much bigger than the rear view mirror you're supposed to look forward look ahead at what's on the horizon for you because it's coming anyway and when it comes you need to be ready the way you get ready is by making those decisions that when you're laying on your Deathbed people know they're standing in front of the champion be that champion it's never neglected little things never skimp on that extra effort that additional few minutes that soft word of Praise or things that delivery of the very best that you can do it does not matter what others think it is a prime importance however what you think about you can never do your best which should always be your trademark if you are cutting corners shrink your responsibilities you're special stop doing it and act like it never neglect the little things appreciate the opportunity every single day to be great [Music] thank you [Music] foreign [Music] foreign [Music]