For English, you can read the description Sekilas Terdengar Biasa Tapi Bisa Berbahaya

Sekilas Terdengar Biasa Tapi Bisa Berbahaya

Seorang teman bertanya : Berapa gajimu sebulan kerja di toko itu.
Ia menjawab : "1,5 juta rupiah"
"Cuma 1,5 juta rupiah? Sedikit sekali ia menghargai keringatmu. Apa cukup untuk memenuhi kebutuhan hidupmu ?"

Sejak saat itu temanmu jadi membenci pekerjaannya. Lalu dia meminta kenaikan gaji pada pemilik toko, pemilik toko menolak dan memutuskan hubungan kerja. Kini temanmu malah tidak berpenghasilan dan jadi pengangguran.

Saat arisan seorang ibu bertanya :
"Rumahmu ini apa tidak terlalu sempit?
Bukankah anak anakmu banyak ?"
Rumah yang tadinya terasa lapang sejak saat itu mulai dirasa sempit oleh penghuninya.
Ketenangan pun hilang saat keluarga ini mulai terbelit hutang kala mencoba membeli rumah besar dengan cara kredit ke bank

Saudara laki lakinya bertanya saat kunjungan seminggu setelah adik perempuannya melahirkan: "Hadiah apa yang diberikan suamimu setelah engkau melahirkan?"
"Tidak ada" jawab adiknya pendek.
Saudara laki lakinya berkata lagi : "Masa sih, apa engkau tidak berharga disisinya? Aku bahkan sering memberi hadiah istriku walau tanpa alasan yang istimewa".
Siang itu, ketika suaminya lelah pulang dari kantor menemukan istrinya merujuk dirumah, keduanya lalu terlibat pertengkaran. Sebulan kemudian, antara suami istri ini terjadi perceraian.

Dari mana sumber masalahnya?
Dari kalimat sederhana yang diucapkan saudara laki laki kepada adik perempuannya

Seseorang bertanya pada kakek tua itu :
"Berapa kali anakmu mengunjungimu dalam sebulan ?" Si kakek menjawab : "Sebulan sekali"
Yang bertanya menimpali : "Wah keterlaluan sekali anak anakmu itu. Diusia senjata ini seharusnya mereka mengunjungimu lebih sering"

Hati si kakek menjadi sempit padahal tadinya ia amat rela terhadap anak anaknya. Ia jadi sering menangis dan ini memperburuk kesehatan dan kondisi badannya.

Apa sebenarnya keuntungan yang didapat ketika bertanya seperti pertanyaan pertanyaan diatas itu ?

Jagalah diri dan jangan mencampuri kehidupan orang lain.
Jangan mengecilkan dunia mereka

At First Glance It Sounds Normal But Can Be Dangerous

A friend asked: How much is your salary per month working at the shop.

He answered: "1.5 million rupiah"
"Only 1.5 million rupiah? He appreciates your sweat very little. Is it enough to meet your living needs?"

Since then your friend has hated his job. Then he asked the shop owner for a raise, the shop owner refused and terminated his employment. Now your friend has no income and is unemployed.

During a social gathering a mother asked:
"Isn't your house too small?
Don't you have a lot of children?"

The house that used to feel spacious since then began to feel cramped by its occupants.

The peace was lost when this family began to be entangled in debt when trying to buy a big house on credit from the bank

His brother asked during a visit a week after his younger sister gave birth: "What gift did your husband give you after you gave birth?"
"Nothing" his younger sister answered shortly.
Her brother said again: "Really, are you not valuable in her eyes? I often give my wife gifts even without a special reason".

That afternoon, when her husband came home tired from the office and found his wife at home, the two of them got into an argument. A month later, the husband and wife divorced.

Where did the problem come from?

From a simple sentence spoken by a brother to his younger sister

Someone asked the old grandfather:
"How many times does your child visit you in a month?" The grandfather answered: "Once a month"
The person who asked the question replied: "Wow, your children are too much. At this age, they should visit you more often"

The grandfather's heart became narrow even though he used to be very willing to his children. He often cried and this worsened his health and physical condition.

What are the actual benefits of asking questions like the questions above?

Take care of yourself and don't interfere in other people's lives.

Don't belittle their world

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