I’m quitting social media in 2024. Care to join me?

Mel Torrefranca
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13 Video Views·Jun 21, 2024
hello happy New Year it's been a while I
am currently in the United States
visiting family I'm about to meet up
with my friend Angie and we're going to
head to the beach but the the main
reason I'm filming this video is because
today is the first day of my challenged
to stay off social media for the entire
year of 2024 I'm going to talk a little
bit more about the reason why I've
decided to leave social media this year
later on in this video but for now I
want to tell you a little bit more about
the no scroll club and how it works so
that you can decide if you want to join
this club and also give up social media
in 2024 the no scroll Club is an email
Community committed to Breaking the
endless cycle of social media scrolling
on New Year's Eve 37 people signed up to
join me in spending the full year of
2024 off social media here's what they
have to say spending too much time on
social media is affecting my
productivity and well-being I spend
literally hours scrolling it's like a
reflex and I want to get rid of it my
attention span is depleting and I'm
constantly feeling for a ping in my
pocket I felt during this year that when
I woke up the first thing I would do is
get on my phone I want to be more
productive spend more time in nature to
be honest I am exposed to Too Much fast
absorbed input and as I am working on a
novel and other poetry collections it's
necessary to isolate myself I'm mentally
numb now none of my own ideas look
Innovative or creative to my eye anymore
I neglecting what really matters in life
I'm comparing myself to others on social
media to the point where I am always
feeling hollowed out social media makes
me feel diminished about my life I'll
lie on my bed and spend hours scrolling
this last year was a nightmare because I
procrastinate all day long I've even
neglected my studies and hobbies I've
really Associated social media with
relaxation and everything else seems
exhausting in comparison which honestly
can't be right I feel like I haven't
truly lived in a long time even when I'm
out and around people I'm constantly
checking my my phone not really
connecting I can't believe how many
people have admitted to social media
being a negative thing in their lives I
thought maybe it was just me and a few
others who are kind of uh overly
attached it really confirmed to me that
this is a real problem for probably
almost everyone especially in my
generation gen Z where we have grown up
with access to social media from a very
young age um unless you had really
strict parents or something
but yeah I've been on Instagram since I
was 13 years old for like as long as I
could be on Instagram it has been 8
years now and I feel like that is more
than enough Instagram usage for a
lifetime right that's a long time to be
on Instagram and it's not like for those
eight years I was using it here and
there I was very active on the platform
for eight full years and I think it's
time to say
goodbye
[Music]
I am now at the beach with my friend
Angie say hi maybe you remember her from
some of my older videos I've set you
down in a little uh succulent here uh
this journey first began when I read
digital minimalism and deep work by Cal
Newport it opened my eyes to how
unimportant social media might actually
be ultimately I ended up leaving
Instagram completely completely forever
yeah that didn't really work out but I
decided to leave Instagram I made a post
about how this would be my last post and
this whole thing and I left Instagram
for 2 months and let me tell you it was
the best 2 months of my life I was
reading so much the first thing I did
when I woke up in the morning was reach
for a book and read a chapter I was
swimming and stretching every night and
I was working much less but
accomplishing so much more my social
life was much more active I was actually
hanging out with people more and overall
I just felt so much happier and I felt
like I had so much free time when I
lived most of my life just feeling like
I'm constantly in a battle for time that
was a really amazing 2 months but
then there was a bit of an issue my new
book Night shet Academy was coming up
and I suddenly had this intense hit of
fomo what if people leave reviews on my
book on Instagram and I don't see them
what if they take pictures of my book
and I don't see them I really wanted to
like be there to witness stuff related
to night Treat Academy and because of
that I ended up redownloading the app
and using it for promotional purposes
AKA scrolling through Instagram reels
for hours and all of my good habits kind
of just vanished and yes that's probably
some of my own fault as well but I
really do kind of blame social media uh
just because those things happened at
the same time and I think it's so much
easier to be productive when you don't
have you know something to scroll
through that can just kill hours at a
time
oh uhoh thank you long story
short I
want what I had during those 2 months
back and that's why I decided to put
together something called the no scroll
club and we are going to be spending the
entire year of 2024 off social media I
really encourage you to consider joining
me on this challenge I'm going to have a
link in the description below so you can
sign up let's get our free time back if
you're ready to dive right into the
challenge here are five steps to get
started on your no scroll
Journey step one list every social media
platform you're active on step two if
needed identify exceptions to leaving
completely you can stay on specific
platforms given you have a clear purpose
for it and set limits to prevent
scrolling exception A is for creation
maybe you want to continue posting
content but you'll no longer scroll and
engage with the platform I'm actually
using this exception myself for YouTube
while I'll be leaving Instagram
completely I want to continue posting
videos however I don't want to get
distracted by watching random cont
content on the platform so I'm going to
set restrictions in place by using two
Chrome extensions one of them is called
goodby metrics which I've already been
using for several months now it allows
me to hide things like view count and
subscriber count which often become very
distracting for me the second extension
is called unhook which limits the
YouTube front end you can customize it
to block elements like YouTube shorts
the homepage and suggested videos in the
sidebar exception B is for Education
there's no denying that you can can
learn a lot through social media so
maybe you want to continue using a
specific platform solely for educational
purposes exception C is for work maybe
your job requires you to use a specific
social media platform so as a compromise
you simply stop using your personal
account exception D is for communication
this means using chat-based apps like
Discord WhatsApp line and Facebook
Messenger to communicate with friends
and family assuming that text messaging
isn't an option for you step three
message people who you want to keep in
touch with step four join valuable
newsletters one common reason for using
social media is to stay up to date with
favorite authors speakers influencers
Etc but there's a good chance that they
have a newsletter and they'd much prefer
you stay up to date there by signing up
to receive emails you can curate your
own personalized media feed that isn't
riddled with ads and recommended content
that's just going to waste your time
step five leave your social media
accounts minus exceptions log out on
your computer and delete the apps from
your phone write down your rules for
exceptions if any this was supposed to
be a very sloppy video I filmed it all
on my phone on purpose just to make it
as easy as possible for me but it is
currently 5:30 a.m. and I am not done
editing the video and I am exhausted so
please please please please please join
my no scroll challenge leave social
media with me I think it'll be fun I'm
trying to create the reverse fomo like
normally when you leave social media you
feel fomo you guys should be feeling
fomo for not being part of my club okay
so um yeah link below I actually plan to
make more videos on the topic of social
media so if you have any questions or
just random thoughts you'd like to share
feel free to leave them in the comment
section
below
