Cai sữa cho trẻ một cách tự nhiên tốt hơn là cưỡng chế? Tập 10 | Khóa học dành cho cha mẹ

In the last episode, we learned how to teach children not to bite their mothers' hearts. We immediately received a letter from the audience saying, Thank you, Ms. Tran. When we don't know how to do it, we usually scratch your cheeks. Another way is to apply chili oil so that you won't bite again. Not only chili oil, but also other oils. That's right. The audience also asked a question, Ms. Tran, what should I do when I want to give milk to my child? They told me how to apply chili oil, other oils, so that the child won't bite again. That will help with milk. There are mothers who deliberately eat spicy food. They don't apply chili oil, but they eat it. It makes the milk taste bad. Bad? Yes, bad. So is there a more scientific way? I think there is a better way for children. First, we have to talk about how long it takes to give milk to the mother. There are researches on chemotherapy that say, suppose you can maintain a stable state for 6 months, at least 6 months, the child's digestive system will be maintained well, at least until the child goes to elementary school. That is to say, when the child goes to the kindergarten, and starts to interact with other children, there will be a phenomenon called contamination. Giving milk to the mother will reduce the risk of contamination in that environment, and will protect the child better. It is not easy for the child to be contaminated. It is not easy for the child to go to school. There are no bad effects on the child's learning. So the mother should at least breastfeed. Yes, breastfeed. Later, some researches found that breastfeeding still has a lot of nutrients, even when the child is one year old. Later, there will be more and more researches on nature. In the process of scientific research, the human will be reawakened. We have seen some methods before, which are certainly true, but in the process of practice, there will be side effects that we cannot be aware of. So now, science has also realized that the more we have to return to nature, which is suitable for the natural environment, a kind of psychology like that. Now there are some situations, if the mother does not have a special difficulty, does not have a special disease, is not too tired, if there is breast milk, you just give it to the baby. Use breast milk. Try your best to use it. Because there was a research before, which said that when the mother gives breast milk to the baby, the rate of breast cancer will be reduced by 5 times. That is 1 in 5. That is giving breast milk and not breast milk. When compared, the rate of breast cancer is reduced by 5 times. You can think like that. When God creates breast milk for the mother, it is for the baby. If you do not give breast milk to the mother, the breast milk will not be good, it will be infected, it will cause breast cancer, breast cancer. This is very interesting. So giving breast milk also helps the mother's health, so giving breast milk is not only good for the baby, but also very important for the mother's health. Some research also found that if the mother is willing and happy when giving breast milk, even if at first it may hurt, it may be infected, but the mother does not give up, thinking that this is divine, then the chance of death will be much better than not giving breast milk to the mother. Mothers really love their children, really give up and suffer. Looking at the face, I see that it is giving up and sacrificing. In fact, the benefits for the body are also very great. I feel that God is very fair, very compassionate and loving. You give up a little, but what you get is very big compared to your effort. At least there are two good things. The first is a little more breast milk, the second is breast milk. Breast milk is easier to collect. Later, the diseases related to breast milk will also decrease. I remember once, I visited a friend's house. She is a doctor. She is the mother of two children. When I came to her house, I found it very strange. It seemed that she did not use the kitchen. Maybe she was very busy at work. She spread out a table full of medicines. You know, I know a lot of doctors. I am also a doctor. I know a lot of doctors do not use medicines, but she spread out a table full of medicines. That shows very clearly that she had no other choice, so she took so many medicines. At that time, I asked her, because the next day she had to go to surgery. Surgery? Yes, surgery. She also thought a lot, and there was no other way, so she decided to go to surgery. What was the reason? Her uterus was blocked. She could not give birth. So her belly was big, as if she was giving birth for 3-4 months. It was very, very uncomfortable. When she could not give birth, it was blocked there for more than 10 years. At first, I felt uncomfortable, but I could not find the reason. At first, I took antibiotics, antibiotics, fibrosis medicine, immunosuppressant, I took any medicine. I took those medicines to treat uterus problems, but the more I did, the more complicated it became. The more the uterus gets, the less immune she gets, the weaker the body becomes, and the resistance against the medicines increases. So she had to change her medicines all the time. That is why there are so many medicines on the table. Finally, I asked the reason why she could not give birth. Because she did not give birth normally. You have a bruise. Will it cause serious consequences? When you have a bruise, you have to dry it and dry it improperly. So when you dry the layers together, an accident happens, not a big one, not a small one. There's a little bit of a wrong position, so every time there's a suture, it won't come off. So there's a little bit of blood that's kept in there, it can't come off, so it's swollen, it hurts. Do you think it's worth it? So you're saying it's natural. Now you have to choose when to give birth, when and how to give birth to a baby dragon. What's the result? There could be some side effects. There are things that are out of your prediction. To be honest, I don't think the idea of a baby dragon is wrong. Because you're the heir of the dragon, so you're still the baby dragon. But you have to have a concept. This is what I always tell my parents. You have to see what kind of child you have. You have to see how you can create that condition. I always thought that my father was a wise man. When I was little, I told my father, when I grow up, I want to do something big. He told me, you don't have that concept, your father doesn't have that condition. What is that concept? You say you want to do something big, you have to go to work, but your personality is not suitable. It's not that your ability is not good enough, but your personality is not suitable, because you're too straightforward. You're not suitable to be the son of the emperor. When I grew up, many of my classmates became emperors. I feel that they can do better than me, because they have a family like that, and they have that kind of personality. I don't have that kind of personality. If I sit in that position, I believe that I will be very miserable. So whatever you do, whether it's giving birth to a baby or giving birth to a baby dragon, even if you give birth to a baby, no matter what kind of person you want to be, you have to see if you and your child have that quality or not. So from this point of view, you don't deny your father's advice to you, do you? I don't think so. So what did your father encourage you to do? He told me, actually I have something very special. When I finished studying Buddhism when I was only 5 years old, until I went to elementary school when I was 6 years old, I went to school early because my mother was too busy, so I went to school early. At that time, I had just registered to go to school, but I hadn't sold my name yet. When everyone went to school, I was the first one to go to school. Then my father found out that I was one of the top three people in the class, so I just went to school. So I went to school early. During this process, my father found out that I had a very big habit. When others are in trouble, they will come to me. A friend who was injured and bleeding did not go to the nursing home, but came to me. You have that habit, because the children around you are older than you. That's right. The second thing I found out when I went to study psychology, it seemed that I didn't need to study much. Every time I watched it, it seemed new, but my political achievements were very good. To be clear, if I didn't study well, what would I do? So you encouraged me to go this way. That's right. You used to have a very big wish. Can you ask a little bit about that wish? Did you want to be an official or open a big company that year? That year I wanted to have a big business. Why? Because at that time we all woke up very early. Behind our house is a big field. You can see the farmers. When the sun hasn't risen yet, they go out of the house and then go to make money for the whole year. You see them working so hard. But by the end of the year, maybe the vegetables can't be harvested. They work so hard for such a long time. The results are on that field. Can't you sell it? They say because the cost of renting a car and labor to move out compared to the revenue from this farm is even more. So I don't need anything. Just go and pick it up. At that time I felt very sad. I thought that if I had the ability, I would help them with the consumption of products. My father told me, since I was a child, I wasn't the kind of person who only looked at small things. My eyes were very big. So if you want to do something, maybe it's a very big deal. But if you don't do it, how can you have that power? But your personality can't be optimistic. It's not this kind of person. After that, my father also said, we are not a family with an optimistic tradition. Your father is not that kind of person. Save a little. He was very wise. He told her to be an educator, to be a doctor. This is also a very important thing. After that, I realized that this is a very important thing, so I did it with a very happy mood. My father also supported. Let's go back to the topic. It turns out to be talking about the problem for children. In fact, there are many problems. At some point, you have to fix your mother. What is the right way to do it? The first is to start changing your diet. According to Chinese medicine, there are some foods that have this effect. But it depends on each person's body, so it may not be effective for you. For me, they don't have any effect. You can ask your mother, have you ever eaten any food that helps your chest get smaller? When the chest gets smaller, if you feel that your father is not full enough, he will start to want to eat less. Use this method to gradually reduce breast milk. Absolutely do not use chili or other methods to make the baby scared. Do not use yogurt. Do not use any of them, because it leaves a very painful impression. Everything is going very well all year round. Very good, because breast milk is very fragrant, very sweet. It is a very beautiful impression, but suddenly it falls to the bottom. To be honest, this is the destruction of the logic that children perceive in this world. At that time, children know how painful it is, how scary it is. It's like I have a friend who is having a very happy relationship. Suddenly the next day, he doesn't care about me anymore. But you don't know why? He goes everywhere and says bad things about me. Yes, it's too painful. Yes, you see your child is so small. For this world, there will be feelings, perceptions like this. Children will feel that this world is really scary. This is not a rule. Children will be scared. You don't want your child to experience this. If there is a lot of breast milk, but it can't be reduced, you can take it out and let your child use it gradually. Then add supplementary food so that the child gradually stops breastfeeding. Yes, that's right. The movement of pulling the child's chest so that the father and son do not breastfeed is also a scary thing for children. What is its effect? The effect is that the child's emotions are not stabilized. Thank you for watching episode 10 of the Science Family. See you in the next episode.