2021 生活中，難免會吵架，怎麼吵架才會讓感情越來越好呢？How can quarrels make the relationship better and better?【愛學習 】

In life When we mentioned quarreling There will be conflicts in the brain The impression of disputes and even violence Seems to be in marriage In love and other relationships Arguing It’s like a possible basis for the relationship Razed bomb The broken mirror is therefore difficult to reconcile But actually There is another kind of quarrel We call it efficient Constructive quarrel It can quarrel Become a way to solve the problem Become in your love journey A small level to entangle each other Liu Tong said Love is not without quarrel But love is still after the argument Then these quarreling skills let you guys The more noisy you are, the more inseparable you are The more noisy, the deeper and the longer the relationship First let’s take a look at the first technique Go straight Don't obscure Friend Annie Since I started preparing for the marriage with my boyfriend Come to work with emotions on my face every day Pick up the phone from time to time even in the office Is the aggressive accusation and anger After hanging up the phone, I lay on my desk Unstoppable grievances and tears Many colleagues comforted and persuaded several times But the two are still quarreling all day long Once on the way home Annie told me all kinds of dissatisfaction with her boyfriend for example Always love to use mobile phone to work with colleagues on the way home And perfuse her question Always leave many problems to her I don’t have a sense of responsibility to share some But in the end when I asked Annie I told my boyfriend that there was no time She was speechless for a while Thought for a while She explained I'm angry every time I quarrel Speak it out You don't care about me and Don't get such angry words in this marriage look We always quarrel about the same problem Probably because of the problem Never really resolved We always lose our temper aimlessly in quarrels But forgot to point out the problem directly If the other party cares about you When you point out the problem He will definitely improve slowly in his future life And not always in the roundabout disputes Kill each other's sincerity Learn to control emotions We are often in quarrel Uncontrollable speaking words that hurt the other party Make a quarrel ferment Finally became a catastrophe Seems to be arguing Anger can only inevitably escalate And in the book "The Courage to Be Disgusted" The author tells us People are not angry because they can't control their emotions But took the initiative to fabricate anger The book gives such an example A mother is arguing loudly with her daughter Suddenly my daughter's head teacher called Mother picked up the call from the head teacher The tone immediately became polite Mother spoke politely for 5 minutes The color changed suddenly after the phone was hung up Started scolding her daughter again actually Such things are also very common in our lives It can also be seen from this Our anger Never in a quarrel can only expand Many times they upgrade It’s our own initiative to fabricate anger And as long as you learn to restrain Eliminate emotional interference The damage caused by quarrels will immediately decrease sharply You will pay attention to the problem itself Instead of arguing The spreading and breeding emotions Therefore, the relationship will not be led by emotions In the end, inexplicable in anger Just parted ways Does not extend Last year’s movie "Predecessor 3" was released Earned a lot of tears Everyone was in the film Yu Wenwen And the couple played by Han Geng Feel extremely sorry They obviously love each other so much In the end, one thought he wouldn't leave One thought it would stay No one wants to speak first after a quarrel Finally, Yu Wenwen tentatively left with the suitcase Han Geng never bowed his head and said a peace It was just a little thing But in the long stalemate between the two There have been many misunderstandings and suspicions Five years of long-distance love run just after a little quarrel Hastily reached the end This is even more true for another pair of live treasure lovers in the movie There was no contradiction But they are always tempting and arguing with each other And create many other problems I just thought the movie was funny But think about it carefully There are too many couples and couples in life Often easy to quarrel Forget the problem that really caused the quarrel Instead, it’s an endless old account Endless suspicion Occupied the subject of this quarrel If you only focus on the problem in every fight The stamina of quarrel must also be much smaller And the efficiency of solving problems will definitely be much higher The fourth technique is Don't close the window of communication An American psychologist once said If a couple quarrel Then it proves that this relationship is still saved If you are silent and don't speak Then it's completely hopeless This is telling us Than quarrel Cold violence is more terrifying The quarrel shows that there are still various dissatisfactions between each other Fetters But cold violence makes people feel in love Plunged into a bottomless abyss In the movie "No Question West East" There is a couple who never quarrel Since Liu Shufen got married Always expect Can have a happy marriage But on weekdays The husband never paid attention to her No quarrel and no communication This kind of marriage made her and he gradually fell into Crazy despair In order for her husband to respond to her She scolded him and beat him Abused him but he remained indifferent In the end she lost everything Choose to commit suicide by jumping well To end her gloomy marriage like this And this time Husband finally responded He cried for help But the two are already separated by yin and yang Never meet again This is the tragedy caused by the refusal to communicate Even in a quarrel We have too much disappointment and anger But don’t close the door of communication Only communication is possible And if it becomes unwilling to communicate The relationship has no meaning to continue After calm down Continue to believe in your love A plot in the Ouchi Detective Zero Stephen Chow quarreled with Carina Lau When it's too noisy Carina Lau suddenly asked Zhou Xingchi Are you hungry? I will cook a bowl of noodles for you No matter how much you complain in the quarrel The other party's unreasonable troubles are unreasonable No matter how much anger and grievance I have, I need to vent After calming down, I firmly believe that we still love each other There is also such a couple in the movie "Popular" The heroine Julie grew up in a family that is not rich Where's father But still insisting on taking care of the mentally disabled uncle once After Julie was ridiculed by friends for family conditions Mother furious with father The two kept accusing each other of their faults in their quarrel The family atmosphere was very tense But that night When Julie is lying in bed But there is such an inner monologue That evening They came to my room separately Dad told me how much he loves his brother And mother told me how much she loves my father Love his strength And kindness Although I just had a big fight They never forget We are lovers Not an enemy We quarrel for better running-in and love Not to fight for a win or lose Really good relationship is never not quarreling But there are always all kinds of stumbling But he accidentally whitened his head in the noise So these few suggestions May all of you who walk together because of mutual attraction Don't fumble because of a moment of anger Not to say goodbye because of impulse quarrel But just in the long way to be with each other In order to entangle each other better An adhesive